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Phones / Re: Xiaomi Redmi Note 7 For Sale by Haybk(m): 12:14pm On May 23, 2019 |
mummyson26:I prefer cash. |
Phones / Re: Xiaomi Redmi Note 7 For Sale by Haybk(m): 12:06pm On May 23, 2019 |
mummyson26:Which phone? |
Phones / Re: Xiaomi Redmi Note 7 For Sale by Haybk(m): 2:27pm On May 22, 2019 |
location is Ilorin, but I can send it down to Lag or Abuja.
It can't fly for 45k sir, least it can fly is 50k |
Phones / Xiaomi Redmi Note 7 For Sale by Haybk(m): 11:15am On May 22, 2019 |
Xiaomi Redmi Note 7 (3/32G) for sale with all the accessories. Just two weeks old. @ 54k (negotiable) Contact me on 09024914415 if you're interested.
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Sports / Re: Paul Pogba Named In The Premier League Team Of The Year. See Full List by Haybk(m): 9:14am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilbest4:As a manager, would you rather use him as a LW or as LM? 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Paul Pogba Named In The Premier League Team Of The Year. See Full List by Haybk(m): 8:27am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilbest4:It's not Pogba ahead of Hazard, it's Mane and Starling ahead of Hazard. Pogba is a midfielder, Hazard is an attacker. They play two different positions, so they can't bench each other. 4 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Electrical Engineers And Electricians by Haybk(m): 5:07pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: Ways Mentally Strong People Deal With Rejection by Haybk(m): 4:18pm On Aug 27, 2017 |
VoltageDivida:Thanks |
Romance / Ways Mentally Strong People Deal With Rejection by Haybk(m): 12:44pm On Aug 27, 2017 |
Ever notice how being turned down stops some people from trying again, while others bounce back from rejection stronger than before? Everyone experiences the sting of rejection, but mentally strong people use that pain to grow stronger and become better. Whether you were excluded from a social engagement, or you were passed up for a promotion, rejection hurts. The way you choose to respond to rejection, however, could determine the entire course of your future. Here are five ways mentally strong people overcome rejection: 1. They Acknowledge Their Emotions Rather than suppress, ignore, or deny the pain, mentally strong people acknowledge their emotions. They admit when they're embarrassed, sad, disappointed, or discouraged. They have confidence in their ability to deal with uncomfortable emotions head-on, which is essential to coping with their discomfort in a healthy manner. Whether you've been stood up by a date or turned down for a promotion, rejection stings. Trying to minimize the pain by convincing yourself--or someone else--it was "no big deal" will only prolong your pain. The best way to deal with uncomfortable emotions is to face them head-on. 2. They View Rejection as Evidence They're Pushing the Limits Mentally strong people know that rejection serves as proof that they're living life to the fullest. They expect to be rejected sometimes, and they're not afraid to go for it, even when they suspect it may be a long shot. If you never get rejected, you may be living too far inside your comfort zone. You can't be sure you're pushing yourself to your limits until you get turned down every now and then. When you get rejected for a project, passed up for a job, or turned down by a friend, you'll know you're putting yourself out there. 3. They Treat Themselves With Compassion Rather than think, "You're so stupid for thinking you could do that," mentally strong people treat themselves with compassion. They respond to negative self-talk with a kinder, more affirming message. Whether you got dumped by your long-term love or blindsided by a recent firing, beating yourself up will only keep you down. Speak to yourself like a trusted friend. Drown out your harsh inner critic by repeating helpful mantras that will keep you mentally strong . 4. They Refuse to Let Rejection Define Them Mentally strong people don't make sweeping generalizations when they're rejected. If one company turns them down for a job, they don't declare themselves incompetent. Or, if they get rejected by a single love interest, they don't conclude they're unlovable. They keep rejection in proper perspective. One person's opinion, or one single incident, should never define who you are. Don't let your self-worth depend upon other people's opinions of you. Just because someone else thinks something about you, doesn't mean it's true. 5. They Learn From Rejection Mentally strong people ask themselves, "What did I gain from this?" so they can learn from rejection. Rather than simply tolerate the pain, they turn it into an opportunity for self-growth. With each rejection, they grow stronger and become better. Whether you learn about areas in your life that need improvement, or you simply recognize that being turned down isn't awful as you imagined, rejection can be a good teacher. Use rejection as an opportunity to move forward with more wisdom. Source: https://www.inc.com/amy-morin/5-ways-mentally-strong-people-deal-with-rejection.html |
Crime / Re: Two Women Fight Each Other To Show Who's In Charge In Their Compound. Photos by Haybk(m): 1:10pm On Jul 05, 2017 |
Talk2Bella:LOL!!!!! how do you expect us to enjoy the show if they wear all those stuffs? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy: Graduate Trainee Recruitment At Cummins Inc by Haybk(m): 8:59pm On Jun 09, 2017 |
EdoBoy90:Bro how va, please did you write any cover letter? If you did, how did you address the letter....... thanx |
NYSC / Re: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Haybk(m): 6:06pm On May 25, 2016 |
Kayodeblaze:wao!!! I'm highly impressed. Keep it up guys. I knw God will definitely bless our hustle.... Thumps up |
NYSC / Re: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Haybk(m): 6:51pm On May 22, 2016 |
GROOOVE:God bless you my bro.... You're simply the best 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: Kaduna 16A'2 Let's Meet Here by Haybk(m): 3:45pm On May 17, 2016 |
Kaduna stream II from kwara state...... Ilorin |
Celebrities / Re: When You Want Five Different Haircuts At The Same Time (Photo) by Haybk(m): 5:14pm On May 12, 2016 |
queenoflafia:Mader!!! lol |
Politics / Re: EFCC Officials At Fani-Kayode's Asokoro House In Abuja by Haybk(m): 10:21pm On May 06, 2016 |
Freiden:Lol...... Abortion no dey |
Education / Re: Checkout This Brain Teaser! (pic) by Haybk(m): 6:53pm On May 06, 2016 |
The answer is Saturday!!! |
Education / Exam Fever!!! by Haybk(m): 7:48pm On Apr 29, 2016 |
Is exam actually true test of knowledge? What are your opinions please.
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Education / Exam Fever!!! by Haybk(m): 7:41pm On Apr 29, 2016 |
Is exam actually true test of knowledge? What's your opinion please.
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Food / Re: See The Bread I Bought From Onitsha Shoprite Yesterday by Haybk(m): 6:13pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
delishpot:Na concrete!!! 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Who Did This Bride Makeup? (pic) by Haybk(m): 5:50pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
rokiatu:They even snapped with her. She must have offended them..... |
Romance / Re: Who Did This Bride Makeup? (pic) by Haybk(m): 5:35pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
lol...... rokiatu did 1 Like |
Politics / Re: What's Actually Going On? (policeman Involved In Massacre Of Enugu Residents) by Haybk(m): 6:23pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Corporal Chukwu, an igbo man from SE collaborating with Fulani herdsmen to kill his fellow SE residents....... Tha's hilarious!!! |
Politics / Re: Muslim Group Urges FG To Declare Fulani Herdsmen Terrorists by Haybk(m): 7:43pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
greatjoey:. You forgot to add translation sir!!!! Pls it's necessary. |
Politics / Re: GEJ & PMB: Power Generation Comparison April 2015 Vs April, 2016 by Haybk(m): 10:56am On Apr 25, 2016 |
nnadychuks:lol.... Very nice comparison. But who is Moyes and who is Van gaal between GEJ and PMB? |
Family / Re: Any Married Lady Who Never Had This Is As Good As unmarried. by Haybk(m): 4:17pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Omotayor123:I love that simple reply!!! |
Jokes Etc / Re: Hilarious Photo - Going To Rescue The Chibok Girls by Haybk(m): 6:13pm On Mar 12, 2016 |
May his soul rest in peace....... Amen!!! |
Romance / Re: A Very Heartbreaking And Touching Story Of A Lover by Haybk(m): 10:52pm On Mar 03, 2016 |
very funny... Nice one @ op |
Religion / Re: Which Of These Is A Sin? by Haybk(m): 11:10pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
I think all the three are sins. 1) Help people with your money and not other people's money. 2) Taking something that's not yours is a sin irrespective of what the thing is. You can easily borrow d bible. 3) Offerings are ment to be paid with your own money. No need to borrow or steal.... |
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