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Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Hazeleyezz: 7:22pm On Oct 21, 2012
Pls I need help!!!
I got a new etisalat modem and I have succesfully installed it on my PC
But I can't connect to the internet, it keep giving this error message
"Connection to the remote computer could not be established, so port used for this connection was closed"
Plss does anyone have an idea of what is wrong? And a possible solution.
Thanks.
Romance / Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by Hazeleyezz: 11:37pm On Sep 15, 2012
dikkybutt: Some would say ''An EX should stay an EX. They’re the EXample of false love and an EXplanation for why you deserve better.

But I would say ''Being friends with ur EX shows you two are mature enough to get over the fact that you weren't meant to be together.''

Its hard to be friends wit an EX jare! Dnt bring maturity here joor! If u say Acquaintance, I agree,

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Family / Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by Hazeleyezz: 11:03pm On Sep 15, 2012
debrief08: Let me borrow MrJaybrowns 3 Cs; You didn't Cause it, You don't have the power to control it and you can't change it.
It hurts a lot, but first step, realise that it wasn't your fault. You didn't fail in anyway and "push" him to cheat. Whatever problem you had could have been worked out.
Secondly recognise that you can't change or erase what happened, you have to live with it
Third step, you didn't catch him, he confessed because he knew he made a mistake and is willing to stop and focus on your marriage.its hard to forgive and I know people expect you to "just get over it" but trust betrayed is hard to get back.
My advice is first stop blaming yourself, stop seeking for answers, it happened, if you are willing to let go then start with his help to rebuild love and trust. See why I have a problem with women who do things solely for the benefit of the man, if you had gotten the implants because you felt like it and not because you wanted to please him you wouldn't feel as bad as you do now.
People make mistakes, but when they are mature enough to own up and seek for a way forward I say they deserve a chance, you also hurt God everyday but God still causes sun and rain to fall on you, don't be like the servant whose debt was forgiven yet put his own debtors in jail for less.
Where I would have had a problem was if he was an unrepentant cheat but he is not, please pray to God for Grace and a forgiving spirit, its hard but its possible, also don't suppress your emotions, if you need to lash out, go somewhere quiet and lash out, if you need to cry go and cry. What you are doing is avoiding your emotions, you are scared of reacting so you won't do something that will aggregative the issue.
But when you react, if you are like me then the issue is over and done with and you can start rebuilding your relationship.
Best wishes

I sincerely agree!
Its not easy but he confessed. I respect him for that.
He could have equally ended d affair and not tell u afterall what u dnt know won't hurt but he chose not to hide it cos u are ONE!
Only the Holy Spirit can truly pacify u. Be open!!!
Politics / Re: Soldiers Open Fire To Disperse Jos Protesters by Hazeleyezz: 10:26pm On Sep 15, 2012
alaoeri: But to be sincere why are non muslim producing such thing to intimidate muslims, this ain't the 1st, 2nd or 3rd time & they know what its all result to. Unlike xtians, muslims doesn't like someone mocking their religion then why not desist from the act for peace to reign.

What are u saying So xtains liked to be mocked When xtains are being mocked do u hear of any protest? When d movie of Jesus being gay was produced did u hear noise Also wen
d movie of Jesus sleeping
wit mary magdelene was produced, did u see any protest
The truth remains dat islam is a violent religon. They HATE peace! I cant see why u should be
Worshipping a supreme being and still fight for him.we dnt need to march out on the streets to fight for our God. He doesn't need help. He is CAPABLE
Do u know wat d muslims call xtains They call us "infidels" but d bible is clear on who an infidel is. Because u dnt hear protest from xtains doesn't mean dat we are not percecuted.
Even though dat movie was exaggerated, it had an underlying truth. So pls check ur facts before blabbing.
*strictly my opinion*

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Health / Re: Just Confirmed I Am HIV Positive by Hazeleyezz: 10:07pm On Sep 11, 2012
@op my best friend has been leaving with HIV for the past 7yrs
To be honest nobody even remembers she has d virus. My point is, it doesn't stop u from living ur life or stop
U from becoming who u r destined to be. Its like having diabetes or high blood pressure and so on.
so pls live ur life. God will give u the strength.

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Career / Re: How Your Temperament Affects Your Career Choice And General Performance. by Hazeleyezz: 6:32pm On Sep 04, 2012
I ‎​am soo melancholy with a little dash of choleric. My friends say ‎​am a perfectionist, too organised and love my own space. I can be I a hus for one week without going out. I'm still working on d anger and moodswing aspectm
Politics / Re: Nonso-Maduakor Wrongfully Charged For Cynthia's Murder by Hazeleyezz: 8:02pm On Aug 29, 2012
OP
I ‎​am so sure that if ur friend had given dos murderers a "look alike" of dat drug, they would have taken it because only a professional
Would be able to know differences and so on. Ur Nonso gave them ACCESS! If d victim was ur friend u won't be singing this "noise"
Fucking Bastards!!!
Politics / Re: Nonso-Maduakor Wrongfully Charged For Cynthia's Murder by Hazeleyezz: 7:40pm On Aug 29, 2012
@OP Shut the Bleep up!!!
U̶̲̥̅̊я so called friend throw his career and life out d window without thinking.
I knew cynthia (may her gentle soul rest in peace) and her family
We all grew up toger but she is gone now!!! Its most likely that d murderers would have gotten d drug
Elsewhere if he had not sold but he should have applied wisdom. He can rot in prison for all I care or better still, since he was a pharmacist he
As well knows the drug to take for a suicide cos dat would be better.
Rubbish!!!
Fashion / Re: Skin Care Tips For An Oily Face by Hazeleyezz: 6:09pm On Jul 26, 2012
Nice one OP but did I hear some say " apply shea butter?" That's a no go area. The idea here is to minimize oil on d face and not add to d prob.
Also note dat too much washing of the strips the face of ots natural nutrients thereby not solving the prob.
in addition to using oil-free products,look out for facial washs, soaps, cleansers or lotions that contain salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide they help a great great deal.

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