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Godswillnwaoma:
na wow oooooo. I never think of that even if i did I don't like touching a girl I see as just a friend.

good boy.. The boy is good ode lo n je be.

BornnAgainChild:
Empress Njamah.......when will you marry.....this year-next year-second forever

are you married?

slightlyMad:
Dead economy after almost 2 years in office
Exchanging gifts when the exchange rate is bad

you're slightly Mad dear

Oorelope local government

How person go go nack for grave yard? Things dey happen sha. But how na?

Wonderful God..

Lol.. Na around 2am sex dey even make sense pass.

2dugged:
make that guy go Sidon, he know how many first class dey house?,meteeeeew, just last month here

lol. Seriously hym no try.. Even me wey dey since last year no too dey complain.. Wetin make five years people do?

NosaHenry:
This guy does not deserve 1st class. You left NYSC programme just in May 2016, last month, here you are doing notice me on social media. I won't employ your type.

I tire o.. We wey serve finish since last year sef never get anything. People wey Don use five years nko? That op ain't sharp

2dugged:
he finished serving last month and you don dey complain already, Abeg shift make I see road,na you start to dey get first class.Better go use your first class brain find how to make money instead of waiting for government, of all the people self, na soundsultan e see, meteeeeew

you dey vex o. Sound sultan no bad na....

onadana:
That's childish on his part.He forgot it takes two to tangle...if there was no agreement no deal will take place.So also ladies can brag too.I have slept with him.

seriously it truly takes two to tango.

My mum is too religious! Over 30 pictures of Jesus Christ hanging on our wall.I grew up thinking he was my uncle.

Bluezy13:
Hehehe...





da Lady de cute tho...

see her fwesh laps. Me likey

Lanicky congrats dear. I no fit vote for person make she no succeed. Congrats once again dear

ronald4ever:
heineken, dami90, andyxyler, kennboiy, dojupyo, primus101, vickyrotex


Hi guys today's the grand finale. Let's crown the Queen. Lanicky is her name.

Here's the link https://www.nairaland.com/3186985/miss-nairaland-contest-2016-grand

voted bro.. She's winning this.
..
. Modified: I said it. If I put my Hand do thing for person e must work. Congrats Lanicky

Wow... I vote that better pikin Lanicky.
LANICKY. Cc NLjega

tomquest:
Seriously bro, Nigerian babes prefer badd guys. In fact the badder the better. I learnt this in the university. Women love complicated things, complicated guys so to speak. It keeps them constantly on FBI mode. That's when she will realize that this guy is really hot for other babes to be fuccking him while she sits around and not hold on tightly to her "bird at hand"...

My babe never caught me cheating buh she regularly used to tell me that she knows deep down in her soul that some other Chics are fuccking me and that she'll kill that b1tch if she catches her someday. I usually smiled and say nothing.

That's how to stay alive in Nigerian relationships.

lol you're very correct man. I don't really believe in love. Maybe when am ready to settle down though. I can't even think it.. Kill myself because of a girl? How na... This my gf during my service make me sharp well though I get sense too then.. If you love girls too much, she must fumble except the one wey get sense but you know must of these girls Daft. Actually what affected me then was that you know na I just entered another new place go serve and na she be the first and I no get another girl again except her. I saw one pix atop her WhatsApp with a guy for bed o and them no wear cloth boss. As I see the pix this girl vex say why me go carry her phone. Heavy vex o. Na then I start they sharp cos she too na corper with me then. Omo I change sharply and I get gals over wey I dey York steady. I deleted her nos afterwards. She called after like a month but yemi Don bad. Girls wicked. Back up is the best thang

hibiscus76:
This Op ooo, you'd make the contestants start feeling bad now..

babe you're not bad

tomquest:
The best way to get Chics to be loyal is to have them constantly suspect that other Chics are fuccking you, that's she's not the only one. That way she would always struggle to be "the special one" and ultimately "the only one". The moment I applied this theory to my relationship, my then gf was so loyal that everyone started calling her my wife.

hahaha badt guys

hon4real:
this is one pastor I respect so much. God bless you sire

even me wey be Muslim respect pastor kumuyi. Any day hym wan talk during my nysc via television I dey enter church.

Ioannes:
take practical steps:

1. change your phone number and make sure you delete hers.

2. delete your accounts on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and all social networking site where you can snoop on her and vice versa.

3. Burn all her pictures and delete all her pictures and messages on your phone and laptop.

4. destroy every and any reminder of her in your life, gifts, etc, as well as music you know will remind you of her.

5. Relocate ASAP to another state or country if you can.

6. Get a life, make new friends, male friends only for now.

7. Don't date or be close to any girl for at least two years. very important.

8.channel your extra curricular activities towards learning something new, a new language maybe, or a new skill like playing the guitar or keyboard.

9. Work on your self esteem. Nobody is worth dying for except maybe family members who are dear to you, after all, Jesus has died for all of us, right?

All the best.

bro I love your comment but your nos 7 no too make sense sorry to say. This same thing happened to me during my nysc but what helped me then sharply was that I got another girl the following week and I forgot that rubbi.sh one. Getting a new girl sharply is better but he shouldn't love anyhow.

missjchinny:
really, some ladies a lucky, need someone that can take his life for my sake. ..mind you I won't give him s reason to consider doing it...all am saying is some girls are lucky to have people that love them that much,

Thats life dear.. Person wey get cap no get head and vice versa. Imagine how this guy love this girl.. Hmmm

torqque7:
Hmmm I feel your pain tho..we've all been through heartbreaks and it's no fun at all but you need to understand that she is NOT worth it..you are not even dead yet and she is cheating and hurting you already so do you think it will get better when you kill yourself?my brother she will be under another guy screaming his name on the day of your burial so ask yourself who is at a loss here?

Maxti is right..unfortunately never fall in love completely with ANY woman as a man cos you'll get burnt badly..love is sweet but our girls have turned it into a cat and mouse game of survival of the fitest..be smart meet other females,get laid,hell fvck prostitutes if necessary just get other females in your life so you can forget the bi.tch and you'll be OK,trust me when I tell you there are tons of females out there FAR better than her in EVERY aspect of life,and you will meet one again that will make you believe in love again dn't worry,it's just a matter of time. .

Remember no sentiments attached o if you want to survive this game of emotions..drop that idea that you can't cheat on her and stop the good boy routine cos that's your major problem..Good luck Bro.

correct guy

covbrand:
you always speak like a kid that knows nothing about emotional discipline. who tells their next that their ex was their true love? NOBODY IS IRREPLACEABLE. and op, people only hurt you when you give them that power, learn to love with a healthy level of detachment. when I was younger I always felt showing people how much you loved them was the trick to keeping them,but the older you grow the more you realise that NOBODY loves an over expressive person. Op as for that lady, leave her because she has already lost respect for you, no amount of begging can correct that. this is the best time to find yourself and know what you want, pain is one of the fastest way to aquire maturity. I pray God gives you the fortitude to grow. more grace.

mehn you get brain dear.. God bless you. I dey learn

lefulefu:
This is why its important to have more than one gf.if d first one dey mess up then u leave her and move on wit d nxt one.no jus go commit suicide on top woman matter oo.fyne women boku everywere.

God bless you

Cosmicgeek:
Hi Bro,

First let me tell u that I know exactly what you're going through. Something similar happened to me but in my own case, she was cheating on me with my friend.

I thought I was gonna die.. Best decision I took was to share some part of the story with my Mum and I gotta admit it was the best decision I ever took.

You need someone to help share the pain with. Someone whom would comfort you and care for you and please don't let it be another female that isn't blood.

Because chances are you'll probably want to replace your girlfriends love and affection with anyone available almost immediately.

You'll need time to heal but think of it this way... God has a way of showing us what's good and bad for us. He just showed you this woman's true color and you're sad.. What if u were already married to her? What if u guys had children you now realize the kids ain't yours?

There are so many things to be thankful for Bro. And if you need someone to talk to, feel free to respond to my message.
Have a great day and stay alive!

nawao.. Girls are bad news sha.

Pushas:
Op, take heart. First of all, no woman on earth can love you like your mother did let that stick in your head.
You were too invested in her, you were a nice guy which bored her and bro Pls have a life outside women. Do not make any Woman your life mission. Develop yourself. Get a hobby, join a Gym BE BUSY.
Let me tell you this she does not love you and she never loved you. You were just a meal ticket, maga, a source of free gifts. Always have options with women don't depend on one and bro LOVE DOES NOT EXIST. Don't overinvest in any woman. In any relationship always put yourself first. please make sure your happiness is not tied to any woman except your mother or family.
Lastly don't be a nice guy to women.

may God bless you bro.. You're very sharp. There's no love.. And one thing I know and love telling my friends is that when it comes to women, they must have back ups. When one fumble, pick another sharply. She won't even try fyvkin up knowing fully well that she's not the only one. This thing nearly happen to me bro during my nysc days but I sharply forget that birch of a girl and another girl enter sharply. There's no time to love anyhow. I like your comment bro

Sugarhugs:
1. You don't love yourself for you to be spending much on q girl you are not married to.

2. You are too nice.

3. You need to grow up and get some sense.

4. If you die of such useless cause, nobody gives a Bleep apart from making your family sad and run unnecessary expenses.

So son, the is in ya court. Find another girl. Don't be stupid.

may God bless you beauty.

GogetterMD:
OP, thing is obvious from your story. You have no friends, cause no friend played any role to helping you in all of this. You need to make good friends

may God bless you bro. That's he's problem seriously . He has no friends.. I trust my guys.. Them go advise you you go sharp.

amaraedec:
forgive my nativity brother, we all learn each day

My guy you no try at all.. You don't have correct guys as friends ni to advise you well then.. Why giving a girl things anyhow and depriving yourself? You're not sharp at all sorry to say.. You even mumu join wan kill yourself cos of girl... Nawao. Think about your mum na even as she Don die... Love sha.. I pray make I fit love like this.. My own na to nack girls.. Fvck love

I wish there's no death...anytime I remember my late bro too na cry I dey always cry.. Rest in peace sunkanmi.