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ramaju:
This is very revilling and i have been enjoying your writeups that i wish to learn more. Thanks for all these.

BestRicePlug28:
Yes u are.most welcome. Check your email please

BestRicePlug28:
Yes u are.most welcome. Check your email please

Dawn91:
Amazing and informative write up sir. You are indeed amazing

BestRicePlug28:
See how you took your time to lecture this topic. I love you

PhlowGovt:
RAW FACT

Crimpsy:
No man/woman knows the End of the world

Even Jesus Christ does not Know

Only God Almighty knows the Time

But know This::::

Because of too much wickedness of mankind on Earth, The Time will be shortened(if not No one will be saved)

HacheNoire:
Seems you have a brain problem!

Anyways, I have noted your stupidity and will ignore henceforth. Cannot stoop that low to join you in that sty.

isaiah4life:
The food he bought and transferred it into his pot and then told his photographer to take video of him dishing it.

Nothing we no go see for naija. At least his/her media team are doing a great job in keeping pace with her pretense.

heniford2:
where are you getting all this spiritual stuff from some country support the marriage of cousin, even nephew so what's the fuse

TheManPregnant:
The soil can be made to have all these qualities if the farmer knows what he is doing

TheManPregnant:
The farmer can work the soil to make it yield fruit.

TheManPregnant:
This is what you have for me... OK

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

TheManPregnant:
Do you even know who you are having this conversation with?

TheManPregnant:
You are not to blame for your wrong "diagnosis". Some details lost to memory resurfaced after deep introspection. You don't have all the details and you made your conclusion based on what you were told.

TheManPregnant:
Anyway...

You were wrong about the succubus. It was triggered by the action of another, not mine.

I believe you understand...

TheManPregnant:
There happens to be a lot of "typos" in majority of the comments you make here.

TheManPregnant:
Please read this comment you made. Does it make any sense?

LoveUdie:
My wife is a teacher. I met her when she was in the training college training to become a teacher. I wanted to marry her while she was in school but she told me to wait until she completes schooling and get posted. I did wait for her.

We got married a year after she got posted and we’ve been married for three years now. She had been an amazing woman; very supportive of my dreams and had become a pillar to me in the moments when the odds were stacked against me. People have problems. We’ve had individual problems too. Married people have problems. Our marriage had gone through thick and thin too but the most important thing is that we’ve learned to rise up whenever we fall.

My wife is the religious type. That’s how she was raised. Her father is a pastor. Her father’s father was a pastor and at some point, she also wanted to become a pastor. She told me, “That dream changed when I met you. You won’t let me stay pure so how could I have pursued God in all purity?” From Monday to Sunday she had something to do in church. If it wasn’t a prayer meeting, it would be a women’s fellowship meeting. If it wasn’t a women’s fellowship meeting, it would be a youth meeting.

I remember at the beginning of our marriage, we had issues concerning her being in church all the time. I realized I couldn’t win the fight. When I didn’t allow her to go to church, she would be in the house but would not talk to me. She would be moody for days and that didn’t give me any joy so I told her, “You can go but come home early. Also, try as much as possible to reduce the number of days that you have to be in the church compound.”

No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t stop her from going to all-night service on Friday nights. At first, I was going with her. But I couldn’t keep up. I was tired every Friday night. She went alone and came home very early the next day. I had no problems. A prayerful wife always keeps her husband grounded in God’s favor. My wife was very prayerful. I counted myself lucky.

One month ago, she was in the kitchen cooking when her phone rang. I looked around and realized the phone was in her handbag. I dipped my hand in the bag and came out with her phone and a key. The key was attached to a key ring that had a hotel name written on it. I was confused. When I took the phone to her, I wanted to ask about the key and how it got into her bag but something told me to keep quiet and rather find answers for myself.

We both know each other’s passwords so that night when she slept, I went through her WhatsApp messages. The last person who sent her a message on WhatsApp was me and that message was a week old. I scrolled through her chat history and there was nothing suspecting there. I checked her call logs too. Nothing suspecting. I went to her message apps and saw a particular name that had been sending her MoMo. At least, once every week, that name appeared to have sent her mobile money. I marked that number down.

From that day going, I woke up each dawn to go through her phone to see what I would find. On Friday night when she went to all-night service, I went to the church premises secretly to check if she was there. I saw her there. I stood close to the entrance of the church all night, waiting to see if she would get out. She didn’t. I checked her bag later on and the key was gone.

I was patient. I knew there was something fishy going on. A week later, I saw her chatting on her phone. She would be there smiling to herself while she typed. That night when she slept, I went through her phone. There were no messages. Smart girl. She had learned to cover her tracks very well. Five days ago, I got lucky. I saw a message between her and the name that had been sending her the MoMo.

The man asked her, “Have you sent it?” She responded, “Yes, days ago.” He asked, “Am I seeing you this weekend?” She said, “If you want to.” Then the man said, “I forgot. This weekend I won’t be in town.” She asked, “So when?” He said, “Let’s talk about it later.”

It was 1am when I read the message. I slapped her thighs to wake her up. I asked, “Who’s Ato?” She asked, “What Ato?” I said, “The one that had been sending you Momo almost every week?” She said, “He’s a friend I went to training college with. Our year group is doing contributions and he sends his money to me every week.” I showed her the messages on her phone and asked, “So what are you two talking about here?” She said, “Oh this is normal conversations friends have? Why are you doing this? What’s your problem?” I asked, “He asked if you’ve sent it. What was he talking about?”

She chuckled; “Why all these questions? What’s wrong with you? He was asking if I had sent the money to the bank. What’s that? Don’t you trust me again?” Then I told her about the key I found in her bag. I asked how that key got into her bag. She said, “So you’ve been going through my bag too? What has come over you?” I said, “Answer me. What was that key doing in your bag?” She said, “A friend asked me to book a hotel room for her. She was coming to a wedding and didn’t want to be stranded.”

I stood there for a minute. I asked, “Which hotel gives you a key just because you booked a reservation?” She answered, “Some do, if you don’t know, ask. Don’t be ignorant. I’m a child of God. I won’t cheat on my husband”

I was dumbfounded. The calm with which she answered the questions and the clever way she did it made me feel very stupid in her presence. I went to the hotel the next day to ask if they gave keys to people who made reservations. The receptionist said, “No it never happens. We only give customers the keys on arrival.”

We’ve been fighting over this issue since last month. I doubt her. I don’t believe anything she had ever said to me concerning the issue. She’s two months pregnant so I don’t want to stress her or push her to the wall or do anything that would affect our baby but I have doubts and this doubt is killing me slowly. I want the truth from her and I don’t know how to go around it. Please help me, what else can I say or do to make her tell me the truth without stressing her? The pregnancy is our first since we got married three years ago. I don’t want to affect it in any way but I still want to know the truth or... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com

freshkpomo:

It's hard to make a comment on nairaland without getting insults even if it's just for a simple correction. So many people ignore, why some get to reach their limits and can't ignore anymore but just have to join the free for all insult spree. Women I know are very reserved, but here on nairaland they are so abusive and loud mouthed that sometime I wonder if it's truly a woman or a man behind the account.

So I have come to ask this question, does nairaland recently make people become abusive?

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Slimzjoe:
SVC don't even have lords. I was marvelled at the confidence in the falsehood of that guy

BabaCommander:
Oh! That's the tactice?

To think someone can wake in the morning and decided to be like you are is a sad reality of the depravity of some souls.

Take a look around you, look up to the sky, and then look at yourself. Ask yourself if this is all you will live for?

Your kind deserves to be pitied than being chastised long and loud. So I truly have pity for you. May your soul find redeemption.