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FERNANDEZISBACK:

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You gat a problem with that?

Daniluv1:
I pray you enter their brutality someday

Body go tell you

Trumann:
You are Igbo and you have lost your history, that is why you lack knowledge of your history. Bini people are not like you unfortunate lot.

kponkedenge:
Should be"He" not "She".

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Ok

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She identifies as a female..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That's a woman stop calling her a man..that's abuse na..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She might not have understood that Oba of Benin Omo N’Oba N’Edo Uku-Akpolokpolo OGIDIGAN, Oba Ewuare 2, ain't your regular politically appointed king..you don't joke with him..
Now that she acknowledged her mistake and tendered an apology she is forgiven...
Oba ghato kpere
Iseee..

LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

Handsomejok:
I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.

After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.

After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?

Solatpumpkim:
My husband has an uncomplicated house before we got married. After we got married he moved to the UK and we continue building the house while his Dad goes there to supervise.
One day his parent said their landlord ask them to move out of their rented apartment and they will like to move to our house.
My husband told them they can’t as they house is still under construction and we are building it for our own personal use. He even went ahead to let them know that the money used to built the house is not just his but both his and his wife’s money, so they can not move there.
We gave them money to rent another apartment.
We kept asking when they will move, but they said they will and keep procrastinating the moving date.
We got a call from them today saying that they have moved to our house.
What do I do in this situation?

DubaiLandLord2:
Ah ah

I no dey understand some of Una again sef, is not as if he didn't pay for their house rent nah

Nah him and his wife contribute to build the house.

Kehindeaj78:
I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?

Aditkd:
Okay, my one kobo opinion. She has no right to use such words on you. In anger one should refrain from speech and actions.
She most explain what she meant by that statement.
To me, don't go to her n beg n all. Let her on her own come to apologize to you but as her to explain what she meant by that statement.
For me o, it's we women that don't know how to manage the home.
That's how they push good men to go do what they don't want to do. If up till now she still doubts you after you have reassured her and done all you can for her to trust you and she still disbelieves you.
Then as well go do what she is suspecting you, so that when she asks you tell her yes you committed.

Things that ought not to cause wahala, some women will just take it out of proportion and context.

Oya, am at home if Una no like my comment, come my house come flog me. Do have a pleasant night's rest all. Gracias.

Awinneralways:
Have a question. Why is it that when one abstains from sex for long, the following happens:

1. Animals become attracted to you and dogs don’t bark at you
2. Babies start to stare at you when you walk
3. Long lost contacts begin to call you from nowhere
4. People hardly say no when you ask for anything
5. You begin to dream of things before they happen

kestolove95:
Name: Nnali osita
Age: 21 years.
Region: Ndi dot region.
Crime: car snatching, robbery, rituals, killing, drugs, fraud etc.
Punishment: kill him

charly20:
Sure thing, worries never solved any of life's mysteries.

I hope to learn more as I unshackle my mind from the beliefs I was born into.

Peace!

charly20:
I appreciate the selfless thought.
Anyways, I just set out on this path before stumbling on your articles. It feels like a long road with many things yet vague to my mind.

I only hope to not get lost.

chatinent:
Thank you.