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Christianity Etc › Re: The Power Of Forgiveness by HelpYourself(op): 12:05pm On Mar 16, 2021

nedzuby:
This is the whole truth and nothing for the truth.

Most of the issues and problems people have is as a result of un-forgiveness.

Most times we get ourselves involved and hold unto things we have no business with.

We honestly need to learn how to let go and Let God (Karma take place)

Indeed

I have seen a spirit stuck on earth after death . She passed on after a hard life , her husband beat her so much in life, maltreated her and was a neighborhood nuisance and she died in sickness , this woman's heart was so filled of anger 9t held her hovering around for years until reckoning dawned on her after years of even the so called husband had died and sunkedn to lower regions to atone for his crimes she was hovering around following shadows of him here on earth . It was a sad thing to behold indeed

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Power Of Forgiveness by HelpYourself(op): 9:17am On Mar 16, 2021

EdoFirstBorn:
Check your mail sir

Okay will reply you shortly

Christianity Etc › Re: The Power Of Forgiveness by HelpYourself(op): 9:01am On Mar 16, 2021

EdoFirstBorn:
Sir
I want to discuss some personal stuff with you can I send you a DM?

Feel free to my friend.

Cheers

Christianity Etc › Re: The Power Of Forgiveness by HelpYourself(op): 8:57am On Mar 16, 2021

EdoFirstBorn:
This one touched me sha.

Glad you liked it

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Christianity Etc › The Power Of Forgiveness by HelpYourself(op): 8:33am On Mar 16, 2021

Sometimes we hurt so deeply by someone or an event that occured in our lives.

Openly we declare I have forgiven him or her and left her to God.l, we say this time and time again just to appear pious and upright but yet 99% of the times I still see the lilac hue of unforgiveness attached to the spiritual aura of such a person and I smile to myself.

In all my years in this current life time I have seen this one too many times. Alot of people are simply plagued by the chains of unforgiveness.

Forgiveness I have come to see is one of the hardest things for us to do as humans but it is the most important process we must pass through.

More often than not when someone is talking to me about an event in their life and I inquire about their childhood immediately you see flashes of suppressed emotions. Most people you see have one issue or the other they have not truly forgiven someone or themselves for.

For you to grow spiritually you must learn to forgive be it someone else or yourself for whatever it is that caused you that hurt.

I have seen people who haven't forgiven themselves for mistakes they made as far back as 20 years ago , some of you are here in this life time due to the fact you haven't forgiven yourself for mistakes in a previous life time, so you are given an opportunity to come and to experience and let go yet you still hold onto the hurt.

One this my work as a life counselor has thought me is that alot of people are carrying a great hurt within them, a hurt so huge it is locked behind a massive door hundreds of feet tall with giant metal chains. We they come to me to talk and I breach these huge doors in their subconscious it is always an overwhelming emotional experience of emotional overflow.

Some of you reading this are simply victims of unforgiveness be it to yourself or for someone else it's all the same.

When you recall a past event you often feel a rush if heat beneath your collar or your chest heart beat skips and speeds up slightly . You get uncomfortable remembering this event and you tell yourself you have forgiven but you don't like to remember yet when you remember you are over come with emotions hurt and pain at these memories.

You haven't forgiven, not truly , hence the emotional weight. As a seer I see these color shades of unforgiveness attached to many a soul all too many times claiming to have no such issues with unforgiveness so it doesn't surprise me.

To have these unresolved emotional baggage leads to spiritual chains between you and the person. If you where to depart this life through death you are chained to a shadow of that person in the after life and it follows you everywhere .

I have seen unforgiveness so strong that it affected the man's reincarnation, he was reincarnated in the family here in Nigeria where the person whose chain linked him to because that same human spirit hadn't forgiven him from a previous life. They owed each other so much that and never forgave that despite that experiences in the after life they had to reincarnate to finally severe and resolve all their issues.

I have spoken with people who had traumatic experiences from their childhood, they were victims of molestation and they subconsciously blamed their selves so much it changed the trajectory of their adult life forever and they didn't know until we spoke.

Unforgiveness comes in so many varied forms that one must strive to completely and totally do away with any baggage that chains you to an event emotionally and spiritually.

To forgive on in totally is to totally let go on spirit and hand it over completely to the spiritual laws . You must confront these memories events and heal to let go and forgive completely.

To forgive is to transcend and to soar above in thanks and gratitude to your creator and leave all things unresolved to the spiritual laws of creation.

This is how it should be but yet is the hardest thing for so many to do hence they come to people like me to help them make sense of it all.

So from today take a note of al events that happened in your life up till this moment ,. All events of significance and ask yourself have I truly forgiven myself of so so person?

Be honest with yourself , this is why I always say it's important to sit alone in a room for at least 30 minutes a day, this is a perfect time to do this.

Take stock and list out events then assess if truly you have forgiven self or the person in question.

Then begin taking action. To forgive with set you free and allow you soar to never before experienced levels of spiritual maturity

Thank you for reading and do have a nice day

#Forgive

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 1:16pm On Mar 12, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
Yeah, when I'm headed there, I'll give you a heads up!

No problem,it would be a privilege to have a sit and chat long about our ideologies on the after life

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Family › Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by HelpYourself(m): 9:21am On Mar 12, 2021

Omihanifa:
You are a walking corpse too

I said your soul is a waste not you are dead learn the difference.

I said that due to your warped reasoning and inability to sit and thinking like a human being

You are a desperate person

Such people are unstable and dangerous

You need help and mentoring

Cheers

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:20am On Mar 12, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
Which state is it, for I do have occasion to work in other states in the country?

Port Harcourt and you are very welcome

Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:01am On Mar 12, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
That would be very nice! I presume you are in Lagos,

Unfortunately I am not

Family › Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by HelpYourself(m): 6:00am On Mar 12, 2021

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Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

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I mchoose never to comment on topics like this because they are always nonsense and made by very weak crippled spirits who have no iota of aura strength.

You are already under a spell from your wife and it's a matter of time.before you become a spirit doll . You are so weak your aura is like dust and very soon the only real protection you have (your mum) will be cut of from you then your end of days begins.

You don't deserve any advise but to be mocked for such folly
Bye

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Family › Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by HelpYourself(m): 5:56am On Mar 12, 2021

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Omihanifa:
I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

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Trash

Your soul is a waste in that body

I won't say more

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Family › Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by HelpYourself(m): 5:54am On Mar 12, 2021

Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

OP this is very useless advise

Run from people like this

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:28pm On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
This is where the Observation of God is the Highest Authority, wherein He said severally that "Men love wickedness rather than to Do Good"!

Ah, are you a Buddhist or something for this is NOT TRUE!

You said it up there but I did not take it serious but now I see, that you are laying on it (believe).

No wonder the guy who wrongfully calls himself Jesusngr is against you.

Anyway, since it is Not True, I can make you fall down.

Everyone has power and opportunity "to do that which is good" or "to do that which is not-good!"

Wrong again!

No reasonable person will eat jollof rice with a little mix of chicken faeces or drink a bottle of Ragolis Water with a little Cockroach in it.

Aaah but again I am not a Buddist simply a spiritualist. You misunderstood my meaning in alot of things

But like I said one of these weekends we will sit and have drinks and share ideology

I like how your mind works

Cheers

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:25pm On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
Sweet Topic, but I am sure you missed another requirement that is Necessary to be filled, that is "Good, According to Who?'"

A major place where the wickedness of men and his man-made law is Revealed, For the Greater Law, that is Natural Law is that No One Can be Arrested and Convicted for an Offence Without Sufficient Reasonable Notice that An Offence will and can be committed in the Doing of A Certain Act

That is why Tourist, Travellers and Visitors have a Natural Solid Defence, but the children of men love wickedness and usury now called bribes.

I'll be back, going into a meeting now!

While we differ on many things I actually enjoy you sound analysis and will probably enjoy having a coffee with you and discussing more one of these weekends

Cheers

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:24pm On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
This is where the Observation of God is the Highest Authority, wherein He said severally that "Men love wickedness rather than to Do Good"!

Ah, are you a Buddhist or something for this is NOT TRUE!

You said it up there but I did not take it serious but now I see, that you are laying on it (believe).

No wonder the guy who wrongfully calls himself Jesusngr is against you.

Anyway, since it is Not True, I can make you fall down.

Everyone has power and opportunity "to do that which is good" or "to do that which is not-good!"

Wrong again!

No reasonable person will eat jollof rice with a little mix of chicken faeces or drink a bottle of Ragolis Water with a little Cockroach in it.

And no not a Buddist surely you mis understand alot of my messages then grin

Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:24pm On Mar 11, 2021

Davoneskay:
I really enjoyed the thread (the back and forth argument between the OP and Jesusjnr2020 inclusive). @ Gofuckyourself, does fatansising a lot affect one's soul? I fatansise about my future. I think a lot about my life's journey; how I want it to be between now and next 50 years. But I don't fatansise about lustful desires.
I asked this question because of your criticism of that guy whom you accused. I think of how best to escape re-incarnation as well.
Again, I hope my fatansy is not dangerous. Kudos to you.

Man as long as your thoughts hurt no one

For example envy greed lust anger hatred etc

Fantasizing about your future isn't wrong in any way , but the best is to back it up with deliberate work to achieve it yes ?

Christianity Etc › Re: The Key Is Simple by HelpYourself(op): 6:22pm On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
This is where the Observation of God is the Highest Authority, wherein He said severally that "Men love wickedness rather than to Do Good"!

Ah, are you a Buddhist or something for this is NOT TRUE!

You said it up there but I did not take it serious but now I see, that you are laying on it (believe).

No wonder the guy who wrongfully calls himself Jesusngr is against you.

Anyway, since it is Not True, I can make you fall down.

Everyone has power and opportunity "to do that which is good" or "to do that which is not-good!"

Wrong again!

No reasonable person will eat jollof rice with a little mix of chicken faeces or drink a bottle of Ragolis Water with a little Cockroach in it.

I respect your choice to disagree

But like I always tell everyone when we are all to die and cross over each will see the truth won't they ? grin

Cheers

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Politics › Re: Nine Governors Behind Attempt To Re-Classify Minimum Wage – NLC by HelpYourself(m): 10:04am On Mar 11, 2021

xynerise:
Nigerians are not going to change for good as long as the world itself is not paradise. We have black hearts and the leaders are not exceptional. We have dark hearts and expect our leaders to be Angels. Mbanu!!

We both have different interpretation of what changing for good means
And mind you I speak from a purely spiritual perspective.

Let the change start with the basics. Let each and every Nigerian start from their immediate environment and make good what they can daily , from there to doing same street by street from there to village community and state ,only then will true leaders emerge .

Nigerians are reaping what they sowed

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Politics › Re: Nine Governors Behind Attempt To Re-Classify Minimum Wage – NLC by HelpYourself(m): 10:01am On Mar 11, 2021

StaffofOrayan:
Enough motivational gables
It's because Nigeria as a country doesn't have a plan, nobody, not even the most optimistic patriot knows where Nigeria is heading, and the pessimist would tell you the center can no longer hold,
When you take a glimpse at the next generation, don't you shudder?

I wasn't speaking motivationally just stating facts

The spiritual controls all in the physical hence the reason we are all in Nigeria in this earth life and have similar characteristics. We created this monster directly and indirectly over various lifetimes and we must redeem it in full.

When we change within all our circumstances will change

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Politics › Re: Nine Governors Behind Attempt To Re-Classify Minimum Wage – NLC by HelpYourself(m): 8:55am On Mar 11, 2021

xynerise:
But I don't see this ending anytime soon, so even if we learn the hard way, the future is not guarantee to be any better but worse

Nigeria is never going to divide but until the people change their ways they will never have good leaders. The people must find their way back to the natural state of being good or nothing will change

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Politics › Re: Nine Governors Behind Attempt To Re-Classify Minimum Wage – NLC by HelpYourself(m): 8:42am On Mar 11, 2021

xynerise:
The greed of Nigerian politicians shocks even the Devil.

Why these guys live too long still marvels me

Because All Nigerians are bound by karma of past deeds hence must experience it i n full and learn to imbibe selflessness and true empathy for others

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 8:37am On Mar 11, 2021

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jesusjnr2020:
Yet you went ahead to quote me with your lies?

Why not stop playing the gallery and be your true satanist self?

I wonder how many here you've have infested with demons. You want to also infest me with demons so i'd become demon-possessed as you? Instead it's the demons inside of you that would be casted off.

So you should DM me because I cast out demons for free, just in case, so you need not worry about any costs. It's free of charge!

And if Jesus the Son of man sets you free, you shall be free indeed!

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At this point you should have some self respect and just hush

I know sexual addictions causes low self esteem but just try for the sake of your spirit grin

You are just embarrassing yourself my man grin

cast out the demons of masturbation and porn addiction in your life first for free grin

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 7:12am On Mar 11, 2021

jesusjnr2020:
I'm used to such lies and blasphemy of the devil against God and my Master Jesus, so if you a child and servant of the devil concoct lies against me for exposing the works of Satan here which you're doing, it's indeed a great honor.

Keep lying but I would just maintain the truth that you're an agent of the devil.

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 7:12am On Mar 11, 2021

jesusjnr2020:
Why should I deny a lie?

I no get work again?

I don't have time to deny the lies of a satanic agent, because I have better things to do with my words.

So keep lying as satanically characteristic.

I have been asked to lay off on you, but like i said i can help youwith your addiction but you need to work on your low self esteem issues and discipline.

DM me lets stop this addiction

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:57am On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
The war with Ngr guy

My apologies indeed

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:54am On Mar 11, 2021

jesusjnr2020:
You're a serpent the devil is using to deceive the gullible here, just like he did in the beginning to Adam and Eve.

Descendants of Adam and Eve here, Una no warn learn from the regretful experience of your ancestors, so expect to face the same the consequence as they did.

Our porn addict is now out of control cheesy

Be calm before I expose you more
grin

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:53am On Mar 11, 2021

jesusjnr2020:
You're a satanic agent. That's the truth! You can continue with the lies, it wouldn't change that fact!

I have exposed you for those who are wise to see.

Deny it then

You slave of iniquity grin

.exposed me? I have been celibate for years my friend take my anywhere. I have over come the flesh and shall only break this in marriage. We are not mates spiritually.

You are a slave to your penis and lust

Be gone

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Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:45am On Mar 11, 2021

Dtruthspeaker:
Mmm, the father of all topics!

Could you please stop the onslaught?

Pls forgive me. But which onslaught do you speak of?

Christianity Etc › Re: It Will Get Easier With Time , I Promise You by HelpYourself(op): 6:45am On Mar 11, 2021

jesusjnr2020:
Denying what a child of the devil who is the father of liars concocted as characteristic?

You don't know me. I'm the last person that you can use such falsehood against.

What has the blasphemies of your master the devil and his children like you against God and Jesus His Son been able to achieve?

Who am i, if you can lie and blaspheme against God the Creator and His Son Jesus?

Keep lying, so surprises there. If you didn't lie, you wouldn't be the satanist that you are.

Are you denying that you are a porn and masturbation addict?

What? A so called pastor lying about your own weakness that is so printed loudly all over your astral body?

I have no need to engage you furher for you are still a slave to your own flesh and give in to wild lusts and desires hence why you are so weak and can't even control your emotions talkless of spirit.

You should enrole in my classes you need it grin

I will charge you 1 million to help save your filthy lustful soul as you are too far gone and I fear you may eventually molest more kids with your filthy thoughts

I have no need to speak to you further .

I stand boldly to say we should both be subjected to a lie detector I declear you are. A sexual deviant who is addicted. Let the world see who the liar is .

Be gone

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