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Simplyleo:
I have no reason to doubt this report.

Be very careful what you say this is an instagram post not verified.

Be careful

Mynd44 OAM4J mukina2 dominique Seun

As a counselor I interact with people everyday. And one thing I have noticed is alot of Nigerians are not happy deep down inside.

Forget the facade, ignore the social media photos and filters, the WhatsApp status videos and awesome memes.
, It's all an advert. And one thing adverts are designed to do is exaggerate and project a larger than life perception.

I have come to see that most people are deeply insecure about themselves, and it's not their fault. From childhood they have been programmed to compete. Traditional african upbringing used by most parents to raise Generation x / early Millennials created a deeply insecure , poorly socially adjusted adult suffering from chronic low self esteem.

The millennials/ gen x were compared everyday by their parents. Can't you see your sister got first position ? Can't you see your brother passed maths? Cant you see your cousin is brilliant? Why can't you be like your brother or your sister? Why can't you do this and that. All comparisons to sibblings , neighbors children , cousin etc

Hence these group or young people suffered unbelievable mental trauma. Most melinials don't even know what it means to have a heart to heart conversation with their father because it was normal for most fathers then to be brutishly violent and hardened.

Gen X/ early Millennials had it hardest than any other group because fact is their parents just didn't know better. That is why amongst this group you find the most sociopathic, maladjusted and neurotic individuals in our society today. These guys had it worst, they never learned how to be truly happy. Most saw their father batter their mothers through their childhood and developed hate as an emotion at an early age. There are few whom where spared this fate with either being fatherless (which was a far worse condition in this era) or due to their fathers being abroad frequently or more exposed hence they were spared the rod .

Most Gen x/ early millennials I treat, had extremely traumatic childhoods, but these are for those who grew up in the cities. There where those who grew up in the villages who had it even much worse. These individuals where passed around as house helps and had to endure the most horrific experiences I can't recount in details here. Some from sexual molestation to absurd physical abuse plus downright barbaric treatments.

Back then there were no paid house helps, or agents for house helps, so if these individuals got given away it was seen as doing them a favor.

Irrespective of where the Gen X/ early Millennials grew up city or village the experiences are roughly the same. The ideology they were fed is everyone around you is your competition even your sibblings, you must have money to be complete.

This is why they are the hardest hit by economic downturns and they are the highest suicide risk patients. The average Gen X / early Millennials fall into depression easiest because in truth they were never taught how to be happy its not their fault.

Their happiest childhood memories are littered with competing with sibblings and out doing them or material things nothing intangible save for Christmas period because that's when they got least beatings but they don't realize this.

These Gen x / early Millennials are the highest group of unmarried over aged adults in Nigeria today because they are the group who were taught materialism mostly and they just never felt good enough due the the unrealistic standards they where held to.

Unfortunately they can be the most violent and abusive individuals when they are that way. The women can be extremely violent towards house helps and the men sadistic introverts and loners. On the flip side they are capable of the deepest love when they finally get past all the issues and realize it wasn't their fault, all the things they went through wasn't their fault and they finally see that alot of the ideology they were fed are absolute garbage.

The men seem happiest when they have money and saddest or depressed in financial lack. I am not saying other groups don't feel this way too but Gen X / early Millennials are hardest hit.

But why are so many people's happiness tied to money one might ask?

Is it they don't realize it's just a rectangular piece of paper?

You must learn to find your happiness irrespective of your financial situation. I always encourage people to find a hobby , something you can do with or without money .

Keep a pet , start planting flowers in containers in your house, read books, learn meditation just find something to keep you happy and help you stay off those dark thoughts that lead to depression.

What people don't realize is , if you say it's normal for a man to feel depressed when he doesn't have money, you are so wrong.

That means that money is the on and off switch for his success. That means no matter how strong you are spiritually if someone wants to destroy you all they have to do is to take away you money ? It means you have given all power over yourself to money ? How ignorant and foolish such a man is , to give all power over your life to a rectangular piece of paper. Not good or diamond which can at least survive water no but to a piece a paper?.

In my years as a counselor I have met all kinds of people. I have seen some of the happiest individuals who are totally below average financially and it gives me joy to see such people who have mastered themselves. If things become better for such people they are much better equipped to handle wealth than those who are depressed because they lack money.

Money isn't meant to be the key to your happiness you are meant to control your happiness not a rectangular piece of paper called money.

Most people who get depressed when they lack money are people who have little or no self control. They will easily give into vices like excess drinking , womanizing , drugs violence etc because lack of harmony within reflects outwardly.

If a piece of paper makes you depressed you can't stand for anything.

Is money important yes but it is not more important than oxygen , water , because without these you will die but you cant die for lacking a rectangular piece of paper.

Lay your treasures were termites won't devour them. Let something else be the key to your happiness. Decide that from this moment make something else be that key, maybe love for your children? Maybe love for your partner , love for your wife or your parents or love for your husband?

Maybe something the key for your happiness that is intangible (something not material). This is how I live my life and I encourage people to live. There should be no difference emotionally in you between when you are broke and when you are abundantly having wealth because that is just paper it means nothing.

What should matter mostly to you is being the best version of yourself. No matter how expensive your clothes are a bad character can't be changed by Gucci. Learn to what love is. Learn to love yourself first so you can truly love another.

If you love yourself truly you won't let money control you. You get moody when you are broke and your family withdraw from you due to fear. Or because of money you do just about anything from sleeping with married men to selling yourself for money?

When you learn to love yourself you won't sell yourself for any amount of money. No woman who sleeps with any man for money is worth being called a woman, she has lost which makes her woman spiritually. Such a woman cannot bring a man joy for her spiritual essence has changed.

The mind set it takes for a woman to rationalize sleeping with a man just to get money changes her spirit being , it's is the same mindset it takes for a woman to dump her baby into a gutter.

The moment a woman starts sleeping around a part of her spirit dies each time. This continues the more she indulges until there is nothing left, and whenever she comes around men the men just don't feel Inspired and after a while they want to leave her environment.(I will speak on this in details in another write up)

Let us learn to truly love our being so we can love another in truth and faithfulness.

Have a great weekend.

Jaqenhghar:
You are taliing to me not them. I just want to hear your opinion that's all

I will rather not comment on this

Thank you

Jaqenhghar:
Hmmm.what do you really make of the case. What do you think happened here

I will rather not comment on this.

Thank you

fk001:
These IPOB don't know that they are doing themselves more harm than good by circulating this fake news.


Their people have been killed but due to their bloated ego they are massaging it with this fake news.


The NA will be more than happy to engage them more, since they "claim" they have brought down a chopper, as per IPOB Isreal Marine dem be


Very deluded set of human beings

Don't insult tribes sir, you can make your point without that

Mynd44 OAM4J mukina2 seun dominique

Jaqenhghar:
Gofuckyourself, you are needed here.

Well not really I can see he has had lots of advise so no I am not needed here

I don't toss diamonds into the mud

Cheers

sapphiere:
I never asked for one.

Curious at your posts on this forum.

Hmmmm , must be exhausting .

byinks:
Thanks

you are welcome

byinks:
Actually she did all that. She went to have the baby turned by her doctor.
Bsby went back to breech position just before labour

So nothing spiritually wrong with those babies...

Nope

byinks:
I will


Ok interesting read.
What do you feel about children who came out feet first and almost killed the mother in labour... ??

Next time she should go for check ups for the gynecologist to check before delivery and adjust the position of the baby before it comes to term

psychalade:
I understand your plight sir, you are neck deep in the superstition called religion

You are new here right ?

No wonder

Please go get something to eat okay ?

Then sleep

psychalade:
Slavery never ended it merely took on a garb named religion, before it was chains on necks and legs but now the chains is on our minds

Just Google how serapis christus became Jesus christ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YblfVx1ghM

Hehehehehe

When I read comments like yours I laugh and remember certain experiences

My friend please take a break and relax okay?

psychalade:
The son of God is the sun of God!

Jesus is a creation of the roman catholic church. He is an egregore spirit, it exists in the minds of its believers


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbkQjIeJFec

Okay you need to stay off the internet, stay away from books and start eating a healthy diet

Good day

Davoneskay:
How true is it that using safety pin or three male stones (ako okuta... in Yoruba) can protect one from foul spirits and spiritual attacks?
Also, Gofuckyourself, you've refused to reply my chat... WhatsApp. I've decided not to bother you anymore because it seems you're busy.

That can't ward off foul spirits my friend

Apologies about the late replies on WhatsApp been so busy with counselling sessions

MightySparrow:
The afterlife is shrouded in certain secrecy that all religions and organised knowledge are saying what they like. I don't agree with you Sir. Doing good, great. That is the essence of education. Not necessarily religious education. The most peaceful places on earth today are places where people have enlightened minds by education. The worst is where religious education is the standard.
Those claiming perfection and praising denominational purity run away from rulership and government because their beliefs can never cope with rulership demands of Human beings.
Afterlife may only exist in our locally educated minds.

You clearly didn't understand

You read this with so much education and intellect

Go and read it again

Divoc19:
In African's Original Tradition before it became tainted, pregnant women are not supposed to be seen in public places be it Church/Mosque.

Until they are delivered of their babies.

Because both expecting parents know about evil spirits lurking around.

But today, the grace is sufficient for them, they believe their prayers alone can hide and unbind evil spirits hence, pregnant women go from one prophet to another and for deliverance programs wey no concern them not knowing that, that same ogbanje spirit will jumb in.

Little wonder how common sense is not common at all these days.

My dear woman
You received this perfectly wiith the maturity spirit demanded of one who you are

A former high virgin priestess of ifa the yoruba diety

Hello all.

We need to play our path and understand the life ,death reincarnation are all a privilege from God the father to use hence must be respected .

You all need to understand that the darkness and the dark ones are constantly fighting to spread their evil.

Just as human spirits are trying to come back to this earth to redeem their deeds so also the evil ones who should not be here often end up here due to mistakes on the path of the expectant parents.

Do you think when you read headlines like bandits murder pregnant woman or girl ganged raped or boy friend stabs girlfriend to death and other heinous crimes that these people like other human spirits?

Why do you think it's as if people with a particular mindset are born in a particular area ?

Now let me try and explain as simply as possible.

During the third to fourth of pregnancy is when the spirit enters the body in your womb woman!

This is the most critical period and differentiates between giving birth to a baby who will find the cure for cancer or a baby who will lead Bokoharam!! This is very important.

This is why in the old days during the third month of pregnancy they take the expectant mother to a church monastery or a mosque or whatever holy religion place they have.

Why?
Just like how I strongly advise men going to brothels due to the spirits who hang around there . In the world there are many departed spirit hanging around . Alot of these dark things are looking for a way to come back to continue to indulge in their habits of murder drug addiction womanizing rape or even hate filled groups.

These are spirits so dense and heavy they are to be drawn to lower regions but instead they hang around places where they can indulge in their evils here on earth.

Like brothels or bars, or drug dens, or where murder is committed.

Imagine the sort of spirits that hang around a shrine where ritual killings are done.? And you an expectant father whose wife is pregnant at home due to your stupidity goes to visit this place of rituals seeking for help ..

Now because you have a wife expecting this leaves a glow in you spirit which we seers see and also this glow attracts spirits to you.

No imagine you went to this ritualist den not to do rituals, maybe just for spiritual help to gain what you think will give you fast solutions. Now one of these dark spirits follows you home seeing that your wife is expecting it hangs around you.

During the time granted for the spirit to enter the body during the third to forth month this demonic sports enters then your wife feels the first movement in her womb she is happy .

But both of you don't know you are carrying someone who will tomorrow come and commit serial rape of an under aged girl.

As parents you must be responsible and knowledgeable spiritually!

Watch who comes around your wife once you approach the third month block all visitors till the spirit enters that body and she feels the first movement.

Have you ever wondered why it's as if very promiscuous women give birth to daughters who are worse or even sex hawkers? Sometimes the upbringing despite being perfect still the child exhibits traits you can't explain? This is the reason.

The mother of such a girl had many friends who are into loose life styles too and they were all around her during that period and like spirits will always attract like. So these sort of spirits they attracted will be loose immoral spirits too.

Watch who comes around your wife. Even the house made will influence the spirit that enters the babies body in your womb.

Husband watch where you go to so you don't come back home with spirits that should not be in this world who want to just enter a body. This is why there is so much crime around. Most of these spirits should not be here. You hear of a father molesting his own daughter for years and you wonder how such a man was raised? The upbringing isn't the issue. Such a spirit should never have been here in the first place it is the carelessness of parents that allows such demented spirits enter this world..


Some pregnant women go Just where without thinking about the spirits they pickup int he bars they visit.

A bar where maybe cultists meet without your knowing and you enter there .. imagine the sort of spirits that hangout there , one sees a chance to come back to the world to be able to commit the murders it misses doing so much and you just walked in with a baby in your womb whose gate way Is about to be opened. Off course that spirit is going in.

That spirit will follow you home and be dancing all the way imagining how it will kill when it grows up and gets to join a gang again.

The parents will be crying and wondering how they gave their child the best a d trained him in a religious way yet he turned to a monster.

This is the reason why.

Husband watch where you go during the third to fourth month don't be a bridge to bring demons back home to trouble your life.

These spirits have been hanging around for centuries some decades looking for a chance to come back and do evil. The evil they left behind.

Don't wonder why a child raised by a so called good family murders his parents , it's not peer pressure, it is whom that spirit it.

Same way some people say they where born gay or in the wrong gender

As a spiritualist I can tell you when such parents come to me crying to tell them they didn't watch where they went during the gateway phase of the pregnancy.

Probably had a close that friend whom they didn't know but was always around the wife during the gate opening period. So I tell them go and love your child.


Look you all need to understand that this world is 100% controlled by the spiritual. Nothing happens by chance

If you want a scholar as a child you should know what to do during this phase and the type of thoughts you occupy yourself with during this gateway phase.

You can't be thinking about sex sex sex and complaining how because she is pregnant you can't have sex and fantasizing about threesomes and lesbians and want to have a pastor as a child ?nope

You see while these thoughts predominate your mind your spirit aura changes and draws sex starved spirits around you ..
You don't know but as a seer I can see them. These spirits follow you around then imagine if to make it worse you start masturbating during this period meaning your thoughts become thicker and take on more spirits who want an opportunity to indulge they cloak you like a fur coat.

You now return from your trip your wife tells you honey surprise I am pregnant!!

You jump for joy, how long she says 3 months.

Remember these spirits came home with you o

They see the gateway is about to be opened and the dominant one enters the body when the gate opens and your wife is happy when she feels the baby move for the first time in her womb not knowing it's a sexual perverted deviant who will rape his sisters and cousins that entered her womb all Thanks to ogas carelessness.

As parents you have to become spiritually knowledgeable.

Thanks for reading

Drop your questions below I will answer when I can

Simplyleo:
Reports like this are just like swords straight to the jaundiced chest of ipob lunatics.

They will soon start crying and shedding tears uncontrollably.

Have been tracking you for a while

You spiritual aura is really heavy. You must have done some truly terrible things my friend.

Some of you who came here via pregnant mother's whom were ill informed on how to safe guard the spirit entering the body in her womb made errors

You should not be here . You are too dark and have committed so much evil.

Do you know your past life deeds?

I will spare you the trauma of revealing it. You should not be here at all.

Valkrie:
The universe is so deep that no single soul can know it all...me think bringing jesus christ into the narative spoil it all as that character too is part of the religion dogma...!! You cant separate jesus and christianity and christianity is a religion...why not look at things holistically..? Example..what does the African believe say about all these...? Credo Mutwa did some important work on this occult issues ...The African beileve system predate christianity and very original and devoid of any dilution...!!

My take. Pls OP try and relate the African beileves with your teachings and expose...Christianity I would say is Alien to Africa and her mysteries...!!

You are looking at it from a religious perspective.

Jesus isn't owned by the christians he is the son of God

The life the christians live is not what jesus taught them

The prophet mohammad (peace be upon him) was a true prophet of God

The life alot of muslims live was not what he taught them

You need to learn more so you can separate facts from fiction.

All religions are man made,hence biased and edited to suit a narrative

I am against all religions but speak the truth of life and death 100%

This is one of the problems with christianity

But it's too early and I have a lot to do today

Bye

melvinjames:
And ibos have gained the presidency ba? I'm beginning to detest the chest beating of ibos on nairaland.

Another one of them

Dark hate filled souls who can't see beyond their own hatred

You should not be here

EzeAro:
I've had a deep and critical self-evaluation about my time here, and I've come to the conclusion say I just dey waste the best prime of my life on useless tribal e-wars and campaigns of hate. For one e no dey add any value to my life, secondly its becoming very toxic to my well being as a man who actually( aside from the disgusting character representation of hate, spitefulness and bigotry that defines most of our online personalities on the internet) many of us here are actually nice, caring and very upright people who come on nairaland to vent, banter and diffuse our innate feelings of unhappiness. It's so bad and borderline psychopathic how we leverage on bad news affecting other people of a particular ethnicity to score cheap ethnic points? Fulani herdsmen will kill Yorubas and Igbos will celebrate... Fulani herdsmen will kill Igbos and yorubas will rejoice, and all in that order of cyclic melancholy the madness continues while human lives are wasted! where have our consciences gone? no remorse for human life... tomorrow it could be your family members who will suffer a similar fate in the hands of these so called Fulani herdsmen and then it sinks in!

I dey retire jare, na to just dey come on here once in a while to watch una embarrass unasef, I'm off to romance and career section make man know wetin him go use him life do

Well done my friend,hate never gets one anywhere especially when you remember in your previous life you were likely from the other race or tribe so it makes no sense clinging to something as irrelevant as tribe when in several life times you have and will be different races and tribe

Cheers

Kccheechy:
Sorry, you said there is nothing spiritual about it. I didn't agree with the statement.

Read it again and understand the context of that comment

Kccheechy:
This is where you get it wrong... Roman's 1 : 25 - 27 explains it all... Homosexuality is not a Normal act.

Where did I say it was normal? Why don't you read before rushing to comment ?

LikeAking:
Story.

Continue living in the past.

Continue following the ways of Chicken Rebublic men.

Yen, Yen, Yen.

Am I bragging?

Shush little child

Calm down



Rest now child rest

LikeAking:
You don diss me na.

I bn on diss u back, but I decided to abort it.

Guy man nobody can bury anybody's destiny.

I am speaking the truth,



Even if all they bury a mans destiny, he can still get it back.

There are lots of ppl in this country, that will help him restore it.

No fear.

Shush

You talk too much about what you don't know

Real knowledge and power doesn't brag and never loud

Shush