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Where did this happen, and how did it finally end?

He traveled from Lagos to Ogun to have sex? He is not just a gay but also a jobless one at that

Stephen0mozzy:
Now, Mr. OP. Here's my two "scents" for you.

1. Sometimes, when we meet people we may take just one fact about them to just feed into our bias/stereotypes and judge them.

Yes, she may have been dishonest to have claimed being AS at the beginning. But since it's a conversation that came up, she should have been honest irrespective of how you reacted to the idea of being with an SS person. That's her genotype, nothing can change it. But there's someone who will be willing to drop their other terms and conditions and love her for the parts of her life that she can control - her personality and character.

If you know that's not you, don't sell her a dream of accepting her all, flaws and perfection because of pity.

2. People with SS are one of the strongest people in this world - they fight things that they had no choice in, many of them stay strong even till the expected life span of the average person; but most times the people who are not strong enough are those people who necessity will fall upon to care for them through tough times.

Now, with proper care and a monitored lifestyle she'll stay pretty healthy for a long time, but health Crisis are an inevitable part of being SS - will you be strong enough for her without hating her for it?

If your plans also involve the dream of living into old age with your partner, you know that's not guaranteed right? I mean it's not even guaranteed that you'll outlive her sef.

3. Calling off the "no sex before marriage" agreement.

You're about to make the worst mistake ever. Don't put her into a situation where she feels she needs to earn your pity just because she's an SS lady... she'll agree, because she needs you, but not you per say, she needs your genotype, atleast to procreate - your union will be very dry afterwards.

I would like you to have a conversation with her about that claim of vehginiti again. I personally have a big heart for trusting people, even blindly sef. But if I catch you in one lie, I'll not trust anything you've said to me before. If AS status was claimed because you outburst on SS; was vehginiti also claimed? - just thinking out loud.


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There's no soulmate anywhere.
AA, AS, SS all of us fall sick, all of us can die anytime.

You'll not find any lady that meets your fairytale specs.

If you want to make it work with her, please go for it. BUT BOTH OF YOU MUST KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING INTO, AND PLAN YOUR LIFESTYLE AROUND KEEPING HER HEALTHY TOO.

U have said my mind

Nigeria my country

After the unfortunate death of her dad, I want to believe she knew very well that the job comes with enormous risk. My sincere condolences to the family

Just imagine!
Abakalike

Ndubuisiogbonn8:
Am I the only person thinking about what the Rev.father prayer will be.

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He probably prayed that we will all live long, and that when we eventually die, may our children be financially buoyant and responsible enough to give us a befitting burial through the likes of APAMS, for celebration of life

The said Prof Mgbeke shares similar character with Omokri. They are always at the service of the highest bidder.

She is probably trying to get in the good book of the South East governor who is eyeing the seat of Akpabio, that is if she has not been recruited already for her usual dirty job

"Members living outside their home communities are encouraged to send at least 50% of their annual tithe to their home church"

The family is about to entertain Nigerians. What do you expect from kids trained with looted public funds

Welcome to Nigeria, where making life unnecessarily difficult for the masses seems to be one of the government’s specialization

Just imagine what we are reading as news in 2026.
Nigerian first self-service fuel station, what Nigerians are celebrating in 2026.

Very good of him. Let the children learn their local language too while speaking the foreign language.

The other guy was busy the other day bragging about how fluent his kids are in French and claiming that their local language is irrelevant. When people quickly corrected him, he turned around and blamed his twin brother for it

Can poor masses still be able to afford egg in this economy?

christejames:
Why do you use every opportunity to sound fooooljsb?

He blames his twin for everything but will never ask himself the right question

Why is he even disturbing the internet space with French this, Igbo that? As if the kids are the first to speak French. These guys should better grow up

The earlier you drop fine boy, fake life, and face reality, the better for you

They just have to support their son and be happy with life. There's no need to try to control or dictate the life of an adult.

Happiness is free!

Alex don dey follow this man again for the 2nd chopping of his money

Nigerian politicians are evil. The one Soludo built in Ekwulobia is yet to be opened for use vehicular use, years after commissioning

seon01:
It was this same aircraft scheduled to take me from Benin to Lagos at 3:30 p.m.
Saw this flight landed at 2:55 p.m. today but skidded off the runway. Thankfully, there were no fatalities, although a few passengers sustained minor injuries. Thank God everyone is safe.
Can't imagine this happening while trying to land in Lagos. My mind would have just gone blank.

Of all the available airlines, na packaged 'molue airline' by politicians interest you to fly? It's alright

Tomorrow Is here indeed for Enugu people

'Molue airline' that the governor packaged to deceive those he will deceive, much like the airport built in Abakaliki, with billions of naira that would have been invested in mechanising rice farming, empowering farmers, and creating sustainable jobs.

Another South-East governor, a professor of Economics, is currently building a second airport in his state, even though the first one is reportedly still underutilized.

The kind of news I like reading. Congratulations to the youngster

Sonnobax15:

I remember back then in 2016, when i Ieft Delta for Niger state in search of Greener pastures. When I was leaving,I could remember my father warning me of the dangerous trip I was embarking on. Even my girlfriend then also warned me but my elder sister who was inviting me over kept pestering me to come over,that there were numerous job opportunities. . Omoh,na so I jump enter BIGJOE bus one early morning enter suleja that evening . The following day,when my mind was already settled down,I asked my sister what kind of job offer did she have for me, only for the werey to open her mouth and say that it was one of these adverts she saw . At that moment,I felt cold , running allover my body and I knew I must had equally lost my erection too ,cuz all my ginger and morale was killed immediately . I knew my father would roast me if I should call him and tell him about everything.

Las las,na furniture workshop,in the midst of abokis I take find myself .

Since then, whenever I come across these kind of adverts,I dey always dey imagine my sister face for inside and it always increase my anger issues 😡.

6 months of my life wasted for nothing. Las las,it was still my father who sent me transport for me to come back to ughelli.

You left Delta State for Niger state? It sounds funny though

But this road has not been completed na.
Anambra part is yet to be done

IGBOPROMISE1:
It’s appalling how a state like Anambra is being run like a secret cult! It’s even more shocking how being governor has exposed Soludo as nothing more than a bitter and jealous person with little capacity to translate all the economic theories he espouses in class to actual socio-economic development in reality!

Reality is often very different from the theories and long grammar they dish out in the classroom. I was one of those who believed that Soludo would do wonders if elected governor. Reality, however, has shown that governing is far more complex than theorizing.

Super woman!
Oké Ada anyị ji eje mba!!
Keep representing!!!

When and how did Chris Uba become a professor?

His former media aides, Adichie and the other skinny guy, were known with gossiping and ịkọ ọnụ on Facebook during their time.

I hope this one is going to carry out his duty with decorum

Even D.R Congo is ahead of Nigeria? Are you sure this data is accurate? I asked because I have been to D.R Congo

CJStarz:
Davido for use NWA (child) BINGO.
Nwa is singular, Umu (children) is plural.

In Igbo land, Bingo is a generic name for dogs.
Inotherwords, Reno be dog pilin

He was actually addressing Reno and his likes who are busy defending the rubbish going on in this country. So the ụmụ bingo is still in order