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[quote author=NinjaMetahuman post=139437843]Some Nigerian doctors are senseless though, they just want to extract money from you even if it means lying to you when all you needed is a rest.

So I really can't blame anyone declining their advise sometimes.[/quote]This is why many refuse bed rest in Nigerian hospitals. It's a big avenue to rip patients off.
Try FMC in Ebute Metta. A bed rest of 3-5 days will cost you over 150k.
Many know the right thing to do but when it comes at such an exorbitant cost, some will walk away.
I don't blame them. Things are too expensive in this country especially healthcare.

I[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139435993]“If any man keeps malice with me for just 3 days, I’ll sleep with another man” – Lady declares

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her controversial opinion on relationships while reacting to the alleged cheating scandal involving singer Chike and the ex-wife of media personality Frank Edoho.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the lady defended women who cheat in relationships, claiming that prolonged silence and unresolved issues between couples often push women into the arms of other men.

According to her, no woman would remain completely loyal for too long if her partner decides to keep malice instead of resolving problems in the relationship.

In her words, she said:

“If any man try to keep malice with me in a relationship because we’re having issues, the highest I can be loyal for you is three days. Me and you are dating and we’re quarrelling. I no talk to you, you no come beg me, the highest I can promise you that I won’t give out my body to another man is three days.

“So Chike we love you, thank you for being a shoulder for her to cry on when she needed you, we love you and we’re proud of you. For once the men should be proud too. So if you keep keeping malice with your woman, another man will take your place.”

Her statement has since generated mixed reactions online, with many social media users criticizing her stance on infidelity, while others argued that communication are important in relationships.

The controversy follows ongoing social media discussions surrounding allegations involving Chike and Frank Edoho’s ex-wife, which have continued to trend online.

"If Any Man Keeps Malice With Me For 3 Days, I Will Sleep With Another Man"

— Lady reveals.. pic.twitter.com/T0iOd5Siv5

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) May 16, 2026

a few years time, this one will be crying and shedding tears over failed relationships and no marriage, blaming gods and men for her predicament.
I trust village people, they will save this and wait for her to get engaged and quietly send it to her fiance. Whick normal responsible man would read this and still marry this street thing?

Houseontherock1:
A group of bandits or terrorists? Please let's be bold enough to call a spade a spade! It’s important we stop softening these crimes with selective labels. If armed groups attack communities, kidnap citizens, and kill security officers, they are terrorists — whether they are called bandits or not. Changing the headline from “bandits” to “terrorists” in the body only shows the confusion in how these groups are described. The truth is simple: all bandits are terrorists by every practical definition.

It's a deliberate act by the Government and enforced on News Media.
Calling them bandits localize their crimes. Making it seem domestic. Terrorists has a more global, intense meaning which the government of the day tries desperately to avoid.
We love burying our head in the sand like ostrich oblivious to the clear and present danger surrounding us. They're probing our slim defences, attacking here and there, looking for weak spots.
Let's hope our case doesn't turn to Mali.

OP with stupid explanation.
Beware of Dog is a perfectly legal warning for anyone entering a premises.
If you're not invited, enter the house and get bit. You have no case.
If you're invited and lose guard it's 50/50.
Scaling fence to pluck mango, or you're too illiterate to read warning signs doesn't hold up in court.
Totally crap post

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

This is how you'll know the whole stupid story was made up.
Jobless OP

Oga IGP.
You don't have the authority to exercise such power.
If it's within Police Stations, barracks or formations, yes.. anything outside your gate isn't your jurisdiction when it comes to private or public business.
Don't get carried away please

I'm

thrillionaire:
These women, make Una give unaselves brain.
Take the initiative, find a middle aged hardworking but struggling man that has no girlfriend and propose a romantic relationship partnership with him.
Men yapa, na funds to marry be the problem, that's why many men shy away and even run from women.

Go find a poor man, house him and partner with him. Encourage him with funds to become a success. That's how you catch your man asap.

Some will prefer to grow old and die than spend their funds on a man.

Check your engine and transmission seats.

Such breasts lose appeal once unzipped.
They're often large dangling balls of flesh when let loose. Very irritating to the sight.
Best kept zipped up and let the bra give the illusion and impression of firmness.
Nothing dey these kind of breasts.

Eriokanmi:
Where will he win tinubu ? Check the electoral map of 2011. Gej's winning votes came from the south and middle belt. Don't forget we, the south west voted him too as our consensus candidate. I was supporting AC then. Tinubu will be on the ballot and south west will be shared, north too. As it stands and given the momentum of the day, only Peter obi stands a better chance of challenging tinubu and the reason his supporters had been drooling over obi's matter.

Jonathan's government was riddled with massive corruption and the reason Nigerians voted him out. Don't forget that. He was clueless and weak. He was just lucky ni. I'd rather vote tinubu than vote Jonathan. Ok is our mandate

See childish reasons. I don't blame you though.
You need to eat

epainos:
This is a very good policy. Excellent. You even see people abandon old vehicles in the streets causing obstruction everywhere. When you start paying heavily, no one will teach you to make a car park in your compound. Also, people will make business out of this by making creating car parks everywhere. Just imagine how Lagos inner streets and corners are going to be free.

In Lagos, the madness of streets parking is notorous such that wide streets (as wide as 4 lanes) many times are turned to a single lane. And the minimum all streets should have should be double lanes. This is so great. Very good.

Infact, I pray the fees arent just tokens but heavy pays. As in heavy such that those who abandoned vehicles in the street will run to dispose them fast. I kuku trust Lagos officials...they will milk them very well. Make dem milk people like that.

This is very evident in Ebute Metta currently.
You'll have developers building 4 floor structures with numerous flats yet no parking space to adequate cater for the tenant's cars, they end up parking on the streets. Come to Ibadan Street, a newly renovated street, they've turned it to single lane with people parking on BOTH sides of the road. It's just disgraceful.

Parachoko:
I hope Sanwo Olu can do this too in Lagos.

Miscreants should be removed from the street, especially the ones in Ikoyi/VI axis

A certain region would be shouting marginalization. That their people are being stylishly deported away from Lagos.

MadPolitician:
Then Nigeria should withdraw. Its no big deal
No one will kill Nigerians if Nigeria withdraws from such agreements.
Many countries have done similar things before.
If you sign an agreement and it does not work out for you, you withdraw from the agreement. You don't stay there and die simply because you were hoodwinked into signing such agreements..

We don't have the balls for that.
The UK that teleprompt our Govt isn't a signatory. They ordered us to sign, effectively crippling our power generation whilst they continually burn.
They don't want competition in that sector

False..
Nigeria is a signatory to one yèyé UN charter against using fossil fuel like coal for energy generation.. something about greenhouse gases, this effectively crippled most African & South American countries as they were forced to sign it, yet the US , UK and China (biggest polluters) aren't signatories and they burn megatons of coal daily with reckless abandon
So who's the fool here?
We have stupid sets of leaders with no forward thinking faculties.
You're rushing to ban use of coal cos of global warming to please the WEST whereas same WEST is utilizing coal for their own power generation.

otipoju:
A simple clerical error that could easily be fixed...but ego no go gree elderly people do the right thing on time.

This is the crux of the matter.
Some institutions believe they're infallible.
A simple issue of error that could be amended within a Senate siting and nobody would even know about it. They must do agidi.
I'm sire they were surprised at lawsuit coming from the student. I can also imagine them scrambling to settle out of court but the student refused.

What happened to the National Housing Fund deduction from civil servants salaries?

Flangelo12:
3 more musicians needed:

King Sunny Ade

Sir Isaac Black

Oliver De Coque.


The others can play with sand sand.

This one is fit for Eastern beer parlour, village meetings and Igbo age group parties.
E no pass Niger bridge. Local champion

They weren't settled properly.
This happens all the time with collusion from those private pipeline security contracted (allegedly).
Everyone knows who is bunkering in the ND.
It's not a secret

Gotocourt:
Israel go Kpai this guy for that statement

And another shall rise in his stead.
They will fight and win eventually when the US is tired of babysitting them.
Netanyahu and Trump won't live forever.

SKIPCY:
They usually enter the chamber when very small and wont be able to get out through same way after they're big so they start looking for the next possible exit. They can be in there for years until they find a way out.

Patently false.
They enter through compromised central sewage system especially those that empty into nearby bushes or ditches.
This system is especially rampant in Abuna unlike Lagos that practice decentralized sewage system, one house per septic tank.

atanda12:
Taking a gamble is putting the life of the unborn at risk. Also, you will be denied your lifetime peace if it turns out the child is SS. You can only relate with this submission if you have seen families with such experiences.

The trauma of having to cope with issues of SS as a child and a parent could be unbearable. So, people should endeavor to carryout simple compatibility tests before thinking of love, not to even talk of sexual intercourse or marriage.

OP, this is the fate that awaits you if that pregnancy turns SS.
Don't let anyone tell you its by faith.
the challenges both physical and financial can exact a very heavy toll, talkess of the psychological and spiritual side of it.
the burden breaks spirit from within, crumbles homes and destroy marriages.
It's not a gamble worth taking.

Jughead29:
If Egypt could not defeat Israel, who is even Iran ?

Make a deal with Trump and let peace reign... Your fight is baseless and can never be supported by world leaders

And to some northerners who thought North Korea is a Muslim country, go and have a rethink because in N Korea Christian are the majority.

The only country that can harm Israel hard is China, and guess what.... Jew's and Christians are still the majority in China taking almost 50-70% with Muslim 0.2 - 0.5%😂

I really don't know the correct adjective to describe your stupidity.
You're comparing Egypt to Iran?
Like comparing South Sudan to South Africa?
Ogbeni, those two are light years apart
Egypt can't last a week in a flight with Iran.
Israel is NO match for Iran.
One on one , remove US.
Their biggest joker, Nuclear Weapons.
China and Russia both singularly and jointed warned the US that if Israel launches a nuclear weapon against Iran,that is the END of Israel.
It wasn't sugarcoated speech. Google it and find out

Melagros:
COMRADES, honestly, I don't know why Trump is still treating these guys with kids glove

Ogbeni,
America can't do jack in that Strait.
If Iran lay mines on that corridor, it will be impassible for years.
America doesn't have a sea mine removal vessel at the moment. Iran bombed the last one they had
For all their bravado, their madness ends at the Strait of Hormuz.
Do you know what a funnel trap means?
Numerous war ships passing thru a channel no more than 30km across? Its like shooting ducks in a barrel.

Watch how they'll sweep this under the carpet and close case on this matter.
Isn't it a crime to bear false witness even against yourself?
Has it come to this that falsifying information to the Public that should be a criminal offense is not treated as a joke, a past time?
The other one that almost framed the Daniel boy..the case just dissolved away into nothingness.
Zero accountability, zero punishment.

Tenses:
Who in his right senses would support iran?

Iran is a major financier of all terrorists organisations in the world and beyond.

Iran is not a country but a terrorist organisation.

And what do you think the CIA is?
Better remove the cotton wool between your ears and think.
The US has been the most war hungry, terrorist making and backing since time immemorial.
Who funded the Sandistas in Nicaragua?
Who created and funded the Mujahadeens in Afghanistan in the 70s to later become Al-Qaeda?
Who stole Mexican land under false flag operation?
Who funded civil unrest that toppled and killed Lumumba?
Who supported the Apartheid state of South Africa?
Can we include Korea, Vietnam, Similar into the mix?
Who is the backer or ISIS?
Who destroyed Libya and plunged Sub-saharan Africa into terrorism?
This same Iran, who do you think toppled the democratic government of Mossadeq in the 50s Just to install a puppet Shah that did their bidding like a willing slave?

The lot of you are just damn slow in the head

Emeskhalifa:
So now Russia can have a go on Ukraine?
China should take on Taiwan
NK should take on SK?

If these three major powers move at once,
The US can't do jack
By trying to protect them all at once , it will lose.
The Americans have clearly shown that Israel is the only ally they will truly enter the deep end for. The rest is cannon fodder
Trump obviously despises Zelensky and could hardly wait to throw Ukraine to the Ravenous Russians to back off aiding Iran.
Chinese occupation of Taiwan will eventually happen. The Taiwanese already seeing the handwriting on the wall ought to be wise. US can't save them when the Hans come marching. They ought to find a peaceful way to coexist, just like Hong Kong.
The Korean Peninsula will be unified soon enough, believe it or not, it's the US that keeps aggravating any peaceful resolution to justify it's continued presence in the region for almost 73 years.Any SK president that tries to become friendly with Pyongyang, that leader automatically becomes imbrioiled in wahala and deposed.

nairalanda1:
I don't support any politican, I never and never will vote for tinubu, yet I beleive subsidy is bad.

Plus in 2012, most of you who were supporting the other guys were in the subsidy is bad religion. How far?

Nigeria cannot afford a subsidy because we don't have a diversifed economy, a good enough revenue from tax, and a corruption free government, as well as an industrial sector. All these means that any time subsides are around, we always end up spending our reserve, our earned money, and even the money we take as loans on subsidy...and it means we take more debt, which makes things worse.

Let's even say we subsidise fuel to N600 per liter from the N1300 it is at now. At 60 million liters, it's going to cost..42 billion naira daily assuming gvernment spends 700 naira , which is the minnum they can spend for subsides. That amounts to...15 trillion yearly. And that is depdending on if the cost of crude does not go up from where it is at now. If it does, we could be spending 30 trillion or more eventually

Where is that money going to come from? There is no budgetfor subsidy, and right now, any benefits from oil price increase, the money will come, but not immediately, so tha tmeans that it would come from the budget...60 trillion. And to fill that hole we are going to borrow.

And guess what, smuggling is going to resume. And let us be real...there is no way that any government that subsidises fuel can stop smuggling. GHaddafi was using jet fighters to bomb smugglers in 2008. They just took cover and waited till the planes got back to base, and resumed trading (and weapons are finite). SO, guess what, our consumption would shoot up to 100 million barrels per day, which amounts to...21 trillion yearly. Again that depends on if crude oil prices don't rise....and our budget is 60 trillion naira.

Because the worst case scenairo is crude rising to 120 -130 dollars per barrel, and subsidy costs rising as well...meaning we could be essentually spending money like a river just to keep fuel at N600. We would think we are enjoying, but we are using tomorrow's money, infact our grandkids money to eat today.

And when we borrow, we worsen the already bad debt we have. When oil prices go down, that is when the real koko starts...no money to pay for anything. That's when the emperor has no clothes. That's when subsides would be sustained by borrowing, and salaries would get delayed.

And our reserve would get drained to the bones (that's why Jona wanted to remove subsides in 2011, because he was being warned about what would happen idf we did not...but nigerians said no. ).

That is why some of us are scared of subsidy. It has nothing to do with who is in government...and it annoys me when people sit down and call someone government supporter because they support subsidy removal. It has everything to do with the debt situation and not making it even worse, and keeping domestic refining profitable, so that we don';t go back to where we were after 1994, when government was taking NNPC's maintenance and upgrade costs to help pay for subsidy with predictable results.

You're tired of licking DISCOs boots.
You're now supporting Dangote?
Interesting.

Mynd44:
The only thing that can be done is for NNPC to drill new wells that will be exclusively for local consumption and sold at a fixed price. That way, the price will be stable and constant as we only pay refining charges to refineries

The problem with it is the cost.

You can't produce more than your quota pr day. OPEC commands.

The only winners are the
Military Industrial Complex.
They are the true winners of War.
Everyone else loses.
All this rubbish talk of US, Israel and Iran is nonsensical.
They all lost soldiers, civilians and infrastructure costing billions with little or nothing to show for it at the end of the day. So where's the win?
All those missile barrages, ICBM, drones , jets etc.. you think they'll magically reappear after destruction?
The MIC will replace them after collecting billions if not trillions of dollars.
They are the true winners in war.

I'm

nairalanda1:
Yeah it is hard. And yeah, I blame IBB for not removing fuel subsides in 1993. Instead government and even the then opposition went on propaganda campaign saying IMF dey oppress us.

By 1993, we were refining 400000 bpd in 4 refineries. At the time, the experts could see that we won't be able to refine crude with a subsidy in place. It HAD TO GO. But we refused to listen. The result was that by 1994, because it was becoming difficult to pay subsides and pay for production and maintenance costs at the same time, government chose to pay for subsides, and stopped paying for maintenance costs.

Results...no TAM for over 10 years. By the time GEJ tried to award contract for TAM In 2012, it was too late (Yeah, I heard GEJ awared the contract to a funny company, but even if he had awarded it to a INTERNATIONALLY RECOGNISED COMPANY with a TRACK RECORD OF 2000 YEARS xperience, you can't fix 10 or more years of neglect.

I mean, one American pastor once bought a new car and drove it sparingly, without maintenance, for several years. Even parked it for long periods of time. By the time he took the car for maintenance, after not driving it for over a year, it was scrap.

Same thing with our refineries...by 2012 they wer eproducing 91000 bpd...less than 10% of our refining needs....and we were importing most fuel and subsidsing it.

GEJ tried to remove subsidy, most nigerians, INCLUDING HIS SUPPORTERS...SAID NO.

BY 2019, refinereis were down to refining 6000 bpd. Yet, most nigerians refused to remove subsidy...By now, we had been using loans to pay for subsides for over ten years, and it got worse...to the point that by 2022, we were out of money, and debt was eating most of the government revenue, and Buhari was printing money to pay for subsides

So here we are. If you supported subsidy , then you are to blame. Forget politics, forget tinubu...who also supported subsidy until IMF essentially forced him to remove it...forget gej forget obi.

We could have had 4 working NNPC refineries, and a host of private refineries IF SUBSIDY HAD GONE IN 1993.

You like talking jargons. From electricity, you've jumped to Petrol.