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InvestmentRe: How I Can I Successfully Invest 1million Naira In Nigeria by henshj(m): 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2020
Transport business on the island is a sure business in other to make urge profit. You can get a 7 seater mini bus and put it on a hire purchase. I am very much interested, I will do the driving myself and finish up the payment within 6-8months. If your in Lagos, we can meet up and talk business. I vow to maintain and manage the vehicle perfectly. It will only ply lekki - ajah route where the road is considerably smooth. I can even give you an upfront, just to show you how serious I am.

Here is my whatsapp contact :08021165112
Christianity EtcRe: Snake That Came To Attack RCCG Pastor Daniel In Lagos Dies As Pastor Preaches by henshj(m): 7:42am On Nov 30, 2019
And the pasitor, knowing fully well that he will kill a demonic snake came equipped with a safety boot and jeans.
I love this kwantiri I swear,
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Truck Driver Needed In Ajah Axis by henshj(m): 11:54am On Nov 06, 2019
Is the driving job still available?
08021165112
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Driving Job In Ajah Axis by henshj(m):
08021165112
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent Opening With Us. by henshj(m): 12:47pm On Oct 24, 2019
What about someone staying on the island? Can s/he apply too?
What is the product or service to be marketed?
Hope it's not a Bitcoin stuff?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent!!!Need A Writer Who Can Start Asap(1.3naira/per word) by henshj(m):
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Daily Digital Marketing Lessons And Tips (8:30 - 9PM) by henshj(m): 1:54pm On Feb 25, 2019
Why not drop a WhatsApp number? Link not connecting
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Gadget Reviewer/content Developer Wanted by henshj(m): 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2018
Op you said #500 person article of 1000 words, minimum of 10 articles per day, how do you expect quality articles?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need Three Writers by henshj(m): 6:37am On Aug 30, 2018
I am very much interested. You can visit my blog to see a what I can do. Henshj..com.ng.
You can contact me with my Email: johnhenshaw35@gmail.com
FamilyRe: Signs That Indicates A Child/adolescent Is Sexually Abused by henshj(op): 9:08am On Jun 22, 2017
"My mom was never home, she worked nights which was a perfect opportunity. She worked night since i can remember, and that is when he started, because she wasn't ever home. I'd ask him why he was doing it, and he'd tell he did it because my mom wasn't home to do it. I'd tell him that just because she wasn't there, didn't make it my responsibility, but i'd have to do it anyway.

Now that is the ordeal of a girl taking on the sexual responsibility of her mother.

Just imagine, such a girl, when she grow up, without any professional help, what she will become in the future?

Source: www.henshj..com
FamilyRe: Signs That Indicates A Child/adolescent Is Sexually Abused by henshj(op): 9:46am On Jun 12, 2017
And the truth is, it can even be happening under your nose for years without you being aware of it.

This innocent girls are manipulated, threaten and their naiveness is taken advantage of by all this nothing for good adult males

Please i beg you, watch over every female child both the ones related to you by birth or not. Let us join hands in combating this social plague in our social. CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU
FamilyRe: Signs That Indicates A Child/adolescent Is Sexually Abused by henshj(op): 9:44am On Jun 12, 2017
ogbright:
This is interesting and educating. The explanation is quite deep. I have got girls, time to watch them closely.
And the truth is, it can even be happening under your nose for years without you being aware of it.

This innocent girls are manipulated, threaten and their naiveness is taken advantage of by all this nothing for good adult males

Please i beg you, watch over every female child both the ones related to you by birth or not. Let us join hands in combating this social plague in our social. CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU
FamilyRe: Signs That Indicates A Child/adolescent Is Sexually Abused by henshj(op): 10:43am On Jun 11, 2017
should you have a question concerning incest and how to be a survivor of incest? Plssssss don't delay to ask here in this thread
FamilySigns That Indicates A Child/adolescent Is Sexually Abused by henshj(op):
What are the signs to watch out for in a girl child/adolescent, If you want to know if she is sexually abused? There are always so behavioural changes in sexually abused children/adolescents you can observe carefully, if you really want to help them. The following are the behavioural change:


FOR CHILDREN (1~10 years)
*Bed wetting
*Unexplain gagging
*Masterbating
*Frequent genital infection
*Lose of appetite
*Explicit sexual knowledge
*Withdrawal/isolation
*Vicious languages unusual for their age
*Irritabilty and aggressiveness
*Eating disorder
*Sleeping disturbance i.e nightmare


FOR ADOLESCENTS (10~15year)
* Depression
* Drug abuse
* Excessive alcohol consumption
* Low self esteem
* Withdrawal or isolation from social life
* Aversion from going home (Temporary or permanent runaway)
* Infections
* Abdominal pain
* Self-mutilation e.g injuring self
* Dizziness
* Suicide attempt
* Muscle ache
* Truancy
* Gagging
* Severe headache
* Seductive behaviours
* Promiscuity
* Prostitution
* Eating disorder
* Sudden weight loss or gain
* Delinquent behaviour
* Change in school performance
* Excessive masterbating

It is common for thes signs to be completely ignored by other family members. If there is any response, it always consist of blame and punishing the poor girl for the exhibited behaviour, not knowing that the changes in attitude could be symptoms of being sexually abused. And this abuse can go on undetected for a long time i.e long suffering for the poor girl.

Majority of this children/adolescent are being abused sexually by very closed relatives such as Fathers, uncles, cousins etc.

Pls mothers, be careful of any male neighbour playfully referring to your daughter as "MY WIFE".
Infact every male adult is a suspect in this issue

source: https://henshj..co.ke/2016/08/incest-signs-to-know-girls-is.html?m=1

CelebritiesRe: Jazzman Olofin At The Headies 2016 by henshj(m): 2:04pm On Dec 23, 2016
Only the matured guyz on this forum can know Jazzman Olofin.

If you are sure, you sabi this guy wella? make i see your LIKE here
PhonesRe: Is Anyone Experiencing This? Cratched Browsers On Phone by henshj(op): 5:59am On Nov 21, 2016
any developer? designer? programmer? network expert? phone or computer engineer? Lord just one person, one person Lord to respond to me and just view
PhonesIs Anyone Experiencing This? Cratched Browsers On Phone by henshj(op): 9:15pm On Nov 20, 2016
At first it was google chrome browser that started hanging and finally cratched. It started the day i updated it. Now i can't use chrome browser on my phone anymore.
Now, am faced with yet another problem, my firefox browser is misbehaving after updating it.


My question is, is it that the updated browsers are not compactable with my phone?

And please app gurus in the room, please recommend alternative quality browsers for me. please, no Opera mini and UC browser recommendation.

I really will appreciate if you guys can help me,

please
WebmastersRe: Adsense Alternatives That Pays High And Can Be Run Alongside Adsense by henshj(m): 10:40am On Oct 28, 2016
javijabor1:
Try MGID
its like you are pro in blogging matters. i take God beg you abeg respond to my question in my last post am on my kneel and to other mighty great bloggers in this room grin
javijabor1:
Try MGID
its like you are pro in blogging matters. i take God beg you abeg respond to my question in my last post am on my kneel and to other mighty great bloggers in this room
i just wish i was a She, una for don respond tey tey
because of nairaland, i think a gender transplant!!!!!! Lol!!!!!!
WebmastersRe: Adsense Alternatives That Pays High And Can Be Run Alongside Adsense by henshj(m): 9:10am On Oct 28, 2016
Guys, this ads!!!!! are they also for .com blog too? by .com, i mean blogger's free blogs. and the blog will not be penalised or whatsoever?

Pls guys, ejamisi whatsup
InvestmentRe: WHAT TO DO: When Your A/c Is Debited, But No Cash Was Dispensed. by henshj(op): 9:14pm On Oct 14, 2016
If you have experienced issues with an ATM before, please share with us on nairaland, probably , we can learn from your experience.
InvestmentWHAT TO DO: When Your A/c Is Debited, But No Cash Was Dispensed. by henshj(op):
Hey guys!

Have you been to the ATM before, inserted your card, after your done with the normal withdrawal procedures and waited for some seconds or probably minute, you discover that no cash was dispensed. And at the same moment, you got an alert that your A/c had been debited?

In 9ja, there will bound to be network issues. Even network self dey feel the recession. Lol!!!!

First of all, repatriate your card {that is the koko, then all join}. And if the machine refuses to release your card, you need to go in the banking hall and lay your complain. If it is the banking hall of your bank then all that is required of you is your full name. And in case it is not your bank, if at all you will be given your card back, you need to identity yourself, any I.D will do.

Now, to the aim of this writeup. When no cash is dispensed, bank alert received, and you were able to retrieve your card. Then almost immediately, slot the card into the machine
once more. and withdraw the same amount that was debited from your A/c. You will notice that no alert is received. This word. This will save you a whole lot of time.

This is a proven test in 9ja, i have tried it at least twice and my friends have tried it as well. It works

grin
CrimeRe: I Raped My 15-Year-Old Daughter Under Influence Of Forces Beyond Me - Suspect by henshj(m): 3:39pm On Sep 30, 2016
The man does not deserve to abused or caused. Just like any other sick person, he needs help. pedophile is an addiction just like a chain smoker. He needs a rehab instead of jail. The effect of incest can affect the poor girl her lifetime but it really be helpful to her if she gets the support she needs from both parent. So it will benefit the victim the more if the offender is helped, at the victim will be helped too.
I wrote extensively on INCEST. You can visit the blog henshj..com if you really wants to know more about INCEST. I advise mothers to visit this blog because you can learn how to detect if a girl child is molested, the signs to watch out for in older and younger children.
Lets join hands in helping this beautiful little angels
Jobs/VacanciesRe: As A Startup, How Much Should I Pay Workers? by henshj(m): 6:24pm On Sep 24, 2016
hats:
Hello,
I will soon launch my online company but I've been thinking of how much to pay the following
1) Customer service
2) Tech Guy
3) Advertiser
4) Operations manager
5) Accountant

Remember, we're just starting so paying huge sum of amount may not be possible as a startup. So how much do you think is decent enough to pay per month?
hats:
Hello,
I will soon launch my online company but I've been thinking of how much to pay the following
1) Customer service
2) Tech Guy
3) Advertiser
4) Operations manager
5) Accountant

Remember, we're just starting so paying huge sum of amount may not be possible as a startup. So how much do you think is decent enough to pay per month?
hats:
Hello,
I will soon launch my online company but I've been thinking of how much to pay the following
1) Customer service
2) Tech Guy
3) Advertiser
4) Operations manager
5) Accountant

Remember, we're just starting so paying huge sum of amount may not be possible as a startup. So how much do you think is decent enough to pay per month?
OP, You need a very good management accountant to do just a little calculating for you, so that the exact salary amount can be determined for you. The welfare of your staff is paramount and at the same time, the survival of your business more important, you have to give to your staff what you can afford every month.

remember, there is a difference between a management accountant and a financial accountant (simply called accountant).
FamilyRe: Incest Involving Female Child/adolescent by henshj(op):
When you are a sex addict, you need help. No addiction is easy to relinguish. Its like telling a chain smoker to give up smoking. the smoker needs a process of rehabilitation. He needs help.
The same way a sex addict needs to be rehabilitated.
FamilyIncest Involving Female Child/adolescent by henshj(op):
I want to give a little write-up and i will try as much as possible to make it brief, because it is only in Nigeria you discover that first class products dislike reading. Lol!!!

It is a necessary write-up because incest has become a very big issue in our society today. It is sad that alot of children/adolescents have fallen victim already. Sometimes, we are very quick in judging this beautiful young ones, but we don't know what they are going through. The offenders is always someone very close to this female children/adolescents, in this case, all adult male are suspects.

DEFINITION OF SEXUAL ABUSE: Abuse means being perverted, wrongly used of something. Sexual abuse means perverted sex.

DEFINITION OF INCEST: According to wikipedia: "Incest is sexual activity between family members or close relatives. This typically includes sexual activity between people in consanguineous relationship and sometimes those related by affinity such as individuals of same household, step relatives, those related by adoption or marriage, or members of the same clan or lineage" The word is derived from latin word "INCESTUS". CESTUS means chaste, pure. IN+INCESTUS means unchaste, impure, profane.

TYPE OF INCEST:
Consentaneous incest;
This is the type of incest in which two people, members of a particular family or relatives willingly engage in sexual activities. One of them could be seduced but not forced into having sex with the other person.

Dissentaneous incest;
This is the type of incest in which at least one of the people involved in the incest dissent to the sexual activity going on between them. One of the people involved is forced in one way or the other. Now, in the case of incest involving an adult and a child/unwilling adolescent, then it is called a child/adolescent abuse or simply child abuse. And it is wrong. It is on this basis that i want to lay the foundation for this article. my focus will be on the female children.

A TYPICAL INCESTUOUS FAMILY
The Mother:
The typical mother in the incestuous family somehow convey to her children a sense of weakened capacity. She may be over worked, chronically ill, depressed, economically dependent and/or socially isolated. She is often a survivor of sexual abuse herself and may never have disclosed the abuse. She may be frequently absent from the house because of demanding work schedule or she may be busy with house work and the care of children. Often her marriage is unsatisfying in that it may be limited in communication and emotional closeness. You might be surprise to know that some mothers might be aware of the incest going on between the offender and the poor girl, but cover it up in other to protect the family's name without taking any necessary step to halt the offender from perpetrating his barbaric act of child/adolescent molestation.

The father:
Fathers who sexually abuse their children lead a double life. On the outside they appear no different from other fathers. They are members of every race, religion, profession and socioeconomic group and are of varying ages. They are often members of churches and are relatively intelligent. Many impress others as dedicated family men who are good providers. Inwardly, sexually abusive fathers suffers from psychological distress, emotional isolation and emotional immaturity. Their thinking about sex is distort and they lack adequate skills in impulse control. Offending father may become self-appointed expert on all family matters in the minute details of each family member's life. They are frequently successful in isolating other family members from people outside the family. Methods for accomplishing this range from the deliberate embarrassment of guests who are visiting to directly forbidding family members to interact with other.

The victims:
Child victims in incestuous families live in an ongoing state of psychological stress. They generally unhappy. They are troubled by memories of past abuse, fear of future abuse and the pressure to keep the sexual experiences secret. The psychological change is seen mostly often by in the child's behaviours.

BEHAVIOURAL CHANGES IN SEXUALLY ABUSED MINOR
Younger children {age:1~10}:
* Nightmare and sleeping disturbance
* Bedwetting
* Explicit sexual knowledge
* unusual masturbation
there are more, but ...

Older children/adolescent {age :10~16}
* Poor self-image
* Withdrawal
* abdominal pains
* sudden weight gain/loss
* promiscuity
there are more, but...

Please let us join hands in helping these adorable beautiful angels. they are really suffering. lets help them because sexual abuse on disclosure, the effect remains with the victim for a life time unless she gets help.


Source: henshj..com

WebmastersRe: Is Creating Quality Content Enough To Start Earning From Adsense? by henshj(m): 7:45am On Sep 13, 2016
So apart from google ad, what other platform can someone use in making money from his blog?
WebmastersRe: 4 Benefits Of Sharing Your Blog Posts On Social Media - Techinfo by henshj(m): 3:16pm On Sep 10, 2016
Do anyone knows how to copy a post from a blog to another website? plssssssss i need response
Christianity EtcRe: The Truth About Trinity by henshj(op): 4:53pm On Mar 11, 2016
please, read the full article before you before you say am confused. The Holy Spirit also a part of the God the Father. Please read first,
Christianity EtcThe Truth About Trinity by henshj(op):
Have you ever ponder this conception of Trinity before? Have you ever wondered how can there be one God, at the same time exist in Triune?
Let me use this opportunity to enlighten you a little about this issue. The truth is, there is only one God, one Father of all, One Life, in HIM every thing in Creation vibrates. The Alpha and Omega, there is none before and after HIM. Jesus laid a great emphasis on this issue of One God. But how can The One God be in Triune?
The term ''Son'' in the Divine is much more different from that of the human term, they are a complete opposite. For the Divine, Son means a Part of the Father that works specially by Itself. Son and Father are completely One and can never be separated. In the human terms, the son is by himself and the father is by himself, they remain two, there are never one. But it is different with the expression ''God the Son''. God the Father and God the Son are one and can only be different in their working. As also the two Sons of God. Both Sons of God remains closely connected with the Father and one with Him. As Jesus is of the Father, so also is the HOLY SPIRIT. Both are part of Him. They are like the arms of the human body which can act independently, but still belong to the body, if they are to be complete. Yet they can only carry out independent actions as parts of the Whole.
God the Father, He works threefold as one! Whatever God the Son works, that He works out of the Father, in the Father, for the Father! The Son would be nothing without the Father; for He is part of the Father and the Father Himself is within Him and works in Him. As i have stated before that there is only one. One Father, working in threefold. This little write up is an exerpt from henshj..com.ng
please if you know you had first class but you don't like reading, then please don't visit the blog. Lol!!!

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