nothing wey we no go hear for dis country.... omo yeeeboooo again!

iranu + abashaaaa

dis one don over smoke igbo again..... oniranu!

The BUHARI project for me started in 2011 out of my personal conviction that He is the best person to rescue this sinking giant called NIGERIA. Thank you Almighty Father; this has finally come to fruition. This hard won VICTORY i dedicate to the .......
1. The True Nigeria citizens[we have used our PVCs to usher in the ‪#‎change‬ we desired]
2. General Muhammadu Buhari [you are the Abraham Lincoln of our time; a true lesson in perseverance-I CAN NEVER STOP TRUSTING YOU SIR!]
3. Prof Attahiru Jega [ you are a role model worthy of emulation]
4.Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu [ Jagaban of the world! Thank you sir for correcting the mistake you made in 2011]
5. The APC squad [ All APC governors; Kayode Fayemi; Sen Mamowora; mr Dele Alake; Garba Sheu; Oga Lai Muhammed; Bukola Saraki etc...]
6. The INTERNET WARRIORS! [@obyezeks;@ogundamisi;@toluogunlesi;@eggheader;@yelesowore;@Nedunaija Abiyamọ Cheta Nwanze; Ibrahim Yusuf J Japheth Omojuwa etc

Finally now that Baba is there......It is Aluta Continua!!!

SAI BUHARI/OSINBAJO!

NEWS ALERT: Presidential election may be inconclusive- Role of the OPC revealed. Nigerians who have been waiting and anxiously yearning for a change as per who becomes their next president come May 29 may after all be disappointed if the news at our disposal is anything to go by. The News Alert can authoritatively revealed that the Presidency through some people are working seriously to truncate the voting process once they discover that the poll results is not going the way of President Jonathan. To achieve this therefore, the presidency is working with some socio-cultural organisations like the OPC to disrupt the voting process particularly in the South West once the voting pattern is not in favour of Mr. Jonathan. To this end, a leader of the organisation, one Otunba Gani Adams have been detailed to recruit enough thugs to do the dirty job, scare the voters by creating violence. A source at the Villa revealed to us that Otunba Gani Adams was sighted at the Villa last week Friday in company of some aides of Mr. President. Gov Fayose of Ekiti and Gov Mimiko of Ondo were also at the Villa that day to perfect the deals. Gani was quoted through a reliable source that he demanded for a huge some of money from the presidency to procure necessary weapons and allowances for his boys. The huge sum running to millions of naira was however approved. Another source privy to the meeting said the leader of the OPC have been asked to mandate his thugs to monitor all the polling units across the towns and villages of the SW, and where Jonathan seems not to be winning, the OPC thugs should create violence and disrupt the voting process. That plan is expected to be carried out strategically at once across the south west states. This will lead to invalidating the results of those areas and where it becomes a general phenomenal, the INEC may be forced to cancel the election. Once this happen, the source said the presidency will automatically call for the cancellation of the election as it will be adjudged as not credible, fair and transparent. The cry and outpour from this crisis may either lead to the institution of an interim government or a military take over. This is another plan by the presidency at making sure GMB is denied the presidency of this country. I can assure you that the presidency is fully prepared to truncate this election once it did not go the way of Jonathan. "This is a signal to the opposition and Nigerians, let us cry out now and warn the so called OPC leader and those who are promoting Gani Adams and others like him, not to send us into another war because of their selfish interest," the source warned.

The story below reached us this morning (23/02/2015). It came from one of our reliable sources in Nigeria. It is one of the most disturbing stories that we have yet received. Read it and make your own judgement!

“I have it on a strong ground that there is a plan to capture a Shekau before the week to elections. And the captured Shekau who is currently undergoing training on what to say and do will mention Buhari as one of their core sponsors. The target according to the source is to discourage Southern voters and the Northern Christians (from liking Buhari). The confession is alleged to be so perfectly planned that Buhari may even be arrested and even those who love him may think twice (about his sincerity). The sum of 4.5 billion Naira is purportedly budgeted. The purpose of this budget I am told is for bribing some Northern clerics so when the time comes, they will pacify their followers (to reject Buhari as he is BoKo Haram sponsor). There will purportedly be audio of phone calls (between Buhari and the Boko Haram leaders). Buhari will not be able to sue the government since it will be an arranged confession of a captured terrorist. Now, I am not saying this (leak) is true. But knowing how desperate these PDP people are, they can do just anything to get Buhari out of the way. Honestly, I am deeply, deeply, deeply, worried. In fact, I am troubled. Kindly share this and let the world know about this evil machination of the PDP before it is too late. Kindly do it. The person who gave me this information is an Intelligence officer with the Army. He looks worried too.”

May God save Nigeria and Nigerians. Amen.

Dr. Idris Ahmed.
https://twitter.com/CUPS_nigeria
https://www./cupsnigeria/
http://uk.linkedin.com/pub/dr-idris-ahmed/34/628/71b
23/02/2015.

AYO FAYOSE is definately no1

:DI Dey smile in Otuoke stylee; the entire Gani Adam faction of OPC is less than 20,000 in membership[some out of dis are Jagaban bois `old team Lagos`] as for Fasheun faction of OPC-all those ones na die hard APC boys especially around dier Headquarter Area[Ago-Okota] na YaYi and Ajomale pikin[both Apc candidates] dem dey work for. I pity Capenter Gani Adams and Dr Fasheun- won ti sun le bottle

[Our child our well being]
Tolulope Hepsiba


This popular and evergreen nursery poem by Ann Taylor: Who sat and watched my infant head
when sleeping on my cradle bed, And tears of sweet affection shed?
My Mother…… [Mum please ask your kids to teach you the rest] undoubtedly shows the important roles mum plays in the upbringing of a child. If the truth must be told; Motherhood is a tough 24 hour job with no pay, no day off, sometimes it is unappreciated, but yet resignation is not an option! A mother is a woman who is created by God to bring love, joy, happiness and caring into his world.
Considering the overwhelming influence a mother has over her child; it will not be too farfetched for us to unanimously agree that life without our mothers is a life of darkness: although there are times we may think that our mothers are irritating annoying! One thing for sure is that; she makes everyday tolerable for her family, at times she may be too tired to get up every morning; she still makes sure that her family is well taken care of. Even though motherhood is a full time job; a mother's work is never done.

Having said this; I believe mum and child relationship is meant to be symbiotic in nature:[ I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine] this will help to avoid a clash of personality and encourage Mother-Child bonding . For example; as your child grows older he or she is most likely to choose spending time with friends over spending time with you. This is normal for their age and part of the growing and maturing process.

SOME PRACTICAL STEPS TO MUM-CHILD BONDING are: -

Spend Quality Time and Teach Them Everything You Can:- The worst thing that can happen to any mother is to allow your kids to learn from outsiders or through the various social media platforms[modern day kidnappers]; so mum please set aside time every week[at least twice a week] to spend alone with your child or each of your children and it doesn’t have to be long; just 20 minutes can work wonders. It’s also the proper time to teach them life skills such as confidence; self esteem etc and proper habit like personal hygiene; table manners; house chores and simple safety rules around the house amongst others.

Their Interests Should Always Come First:-As difficult as this may sound [especially for new mothers] we just have to let go some habit or lifestyle that might be detrimental to the proper upbringing of our kids. This means if we are involved in some unhealthy habits and lifestyles like smoking; drinking; keeping late nights; party freak; dressing provocatively; immodesty and generally unhygienic- we just have to let it go after all no sacrifice is too much to make for your children,

Unconditional Love:-Very importantly; mum must show their kids unconditional love and lots of affections, they in turn will always want to confide in you at all times
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Create Family Time:-This must include every member of your household [btw 7-10 mins everyday is enough] by sitting down together offering encouragement; guidance; moral instructions and above all prayers for the well being of every members of the family [we parents are just caretakers; the good God is the owner] Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Prov 22:6.

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JonahGoat fear God oooooooooo!

>A report of child abuse is made every ten seconds,
>More than 90% of juvenile sexual abuse victims know their perpetrator in some way.
>Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions and at all levels of education.
>About 30% of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse.
>About 80% of 21 years old that were abused as children met criteria for at least one psychological disorder.

This monster call child molestation is real, please let all parents be ALIVE to their responsibilities.

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[Our child Our well being]

Walahi I knew this Okposo will turn out to be 'OPONU' since the day I saw him and daddy showkey jumping up and down like Billy goat at a PDP rally. Well for someone that has live off women for the better part of his miserable life-Jonathan money might just be a new source of income.

Mumulistic post- u better comot d chewing gum wey dey ur eyes. The crowd wey u see for Kano, Kaduna, Sokoto, Jos etc dem be ur younger brothers? Ode oshi

May be u need to give us brief intro- I think am interested

A MUST READ!!!

SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior."

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"

SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."

The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"

SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.

"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
The moral of this story is that A GOOD FATHER must never be too busy to communicate with his children.

Some things are just more important in life than riches!!!
Photo: A MUST READ!!! SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?" DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?" DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?" DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour." SON: "Oh! (With his head down). SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?" The father was furious. DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior." The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door. DAD: "Are you asleep, son?" SON: "No daddy, I'm awake". DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for." The little boy sat straight up, smiling. SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!" Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father. DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?" SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do. "Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness. The moral of this story is that A GOOD FATHER must never be too busy to communicate with his children. Some things are just more important in life than riches!!!

[center][img]MY 2015 Parenting DECISION[/img]
Our child our wellbeing

By Tolulope Hepsiba

Parenting:- the process of taking care of children until they are old enough to take care of themselves.
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Over the past years I have started to feel that I have been protecting my child from the outside world a bit too much. Agreed that the world today is turning unpredictable day by day. But how far are we going to protect our children? One day they have to step out of the warm comfort and “look at this world more confused and not know what to do; also we cannot accompany them everywhere.
In the word of a respected child psychologist “You must prepare your child to function well when you are not around; She should take decisions, perform activities and desist from sin WITHOUT you watching” That is the true test of your parenting; this really struck a chord and I have set on the path to excel as a parent.

Self-reliant-confident in your own abilities and able to do things for yourself: not needing help from other people
Make them more self-reliant:- Children need to be given some space to try out things themselves, recognize their own taste, try out new ideas. They must be encouraged to make up their own minds instead of being spoon fed. Small choices like what to eat, what to wear etc will act as a stepping stone to bigger ones.
Researchers have shown that children prefer a soft parent that makes things available to them pronto; this situation has to change! The first lesson is to take care of your own self. So “no more fetching and carrying by mummy dearest.”

Gratitude:the quality or feeling of being grateful or thankful
Instill in them the act of Gratitude[/b]: - Irrespective of the nature of the gifts, whether it is an expensive gift or something that is not as extravagant, teach them to always remember that it is the thought that counts Even a simple HUG is a valuable gift! Also encourage your children to hand-write a thank you note to relations; family friends; neighbors etc for their presents. Honestly I am a believer of hand written notes, as it takes more thought and care when you have to write it out with paper and pen.
The value of gratitude is a precious value, and a legacy that we can instill in our children. It is more than saying thank you; it is an attitude of appreciation, an attitude that can help to bring out the feeling of peace, joy, abundance and the beauty of human nature.

Communication:-an exchange of information
[b]Communication:[b][/b] - Spend Quality Time and Teach Them Everything You Can.
In order to teach your children, you must spend as much time with them as possible. So when you get home from work and are tired, don't just relax since this is the only time that you could spend with your child during the weekdays. Instead, use this spare time to find out how their day went, what they've learned in school and you could also tell them how your day went and what you've learned.
I also highly recommend that you use this time to teach them important life skills, such as reading, writing, math, self-esteem, confidence etc. You can turn it into a game and more importantly, make it fun since every child wants to play and have a good time.
Weekends are no different. If anything, you should spend more time with them on the weekend because most people are not working during this time..
Remember, the thing that kids want most from their parents is their time!!!





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[color=#006600][/color] God forbid! Our afflictions will never arise the second time

BUT YES YOU CAN!!!
Fear and doubt will deny you the wonderful results of your talent. There is nothing impossible to a determined mind, you know. This has been my watch word. As we understand that; creativity, determination and courage are the closest PAL to success. The successful always sort different ways to overcome the hurdles of life and never give up when one door shuts. But the failure is orphan to the successful who never finds anything good in others. He believes that he is incapacitated in all things; hoping to get things all the time from people. One thing you should know is, when you trust man and fail to believe in yourself and that you have been made for; you can never be able to stand the disappointment that will emanate from those you trust.
Why then should you put your trust in man who lives today and tomorrow he is no more? Why should I hope in man when everyone is driving to be ahead of others in terms of financial accumulation? No one is satisfied with riches and wealth rather the rich exploit the poor. Millions who called themselves 'failure' are the millions who always say 'I can't'; accepting failure before an attempt. One thing I learned from all the successful ones I have come across is; 'the never say die attitude they possessed'. This has kept me going even when all measures fail to yield positive results. I kept on believing in myself that I am different from every human being on earth, I have a unique gift and talent that make me different. I have a unique name and I am wonderfully and fearfully made by the Almighty. And I was created for a purpose not by accident; the Creator God who thought of me before my existence had designed unimaginable things to establish me. To be frank these words have kept me going despite all I have been through.
One thing you should know is; where ever you are in life, know that in one single instant you just need to DECIDE what you really want. Fear is the symptom of doubt which is generated by the anxiety of failure. So you must put fear and worry behind you; pick courage and faith for they will guard you, while many that rejected them failed. You need to be faithful to yours.
FIVE RECIPE FOR SUCCESS
1. You're going to have to let go of your agenda. Your agenda is what you made up along the way because you didn't know what else to do with your life. Up to this point you've done everything you knew to do to make the most of your life. But if there's something in you telling you that you could be much more, then you haven't opened the box wide enough. Often it's our own contrived agendas that get in the way of who we were meant to be. Stop trying so hard to play a role, and just be YOU.
2. You're going to have to keep it real. Probably the #1 impediment to growth is the facade we were taught to wear. The masks are going to have to come off. You're going to have to get real with yourself first, and honestly will flow from there.
3. You're going to have to cultivate openness. Are you willing to learn from an idiot, or to look like one? The choice is yours.
4. You're going to have to be outgoing. This may rattle my introverted friends out there. But before you change the channel, you might be surprised to find that I consider myself an introvert. I enjoy spending time alone more than I do spending time with company. And my battery recharges when I'm alone vs. getting charged by being around others. Those are classic symptoms of an introvert (writers are very often introverts who would rather let the pen speak for them). There are ways of being outgoing that don't include being the "party freak." In other words, you have to be willing to put yourself out there by making your voice heard and expressing yourself.
5. You're going to have to believe in yourself. For most of us, this is where the rubber meets the road and the tires fall off our car. When you've had a string of losses it's real difficult to keep telling yourself (and other people) that you're making a comeback. But I'd like to share with you a secret I found that's a game-changer: everybody likes rooting for an underdog. Other people relate to failure, because they've experienced a whole heap of it themselves. So when you're willing to get real about your failures (rule #2), you'll find people opening up about theirs. It's not what the media tells us to do-that's why this sounds counter-intuitive. But I've found in real life, people relate more to your failures than to your triumphs. You don't have to be perfect to believe in yourself. Just believe in your potential. Because I do (believe in you). Others will too, as soon as you realize that your past doesn't have to determine your present. Release your grip on failure. Learn from it, but don't get mired in it. You're more than a set of outdated circumstances.
The place inside yourself where nothing is impossible is closer than you think. It's not a matter of can you unlock your dreams, it's a matter of WILL you?


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Good for him