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Later today, I am going to post how the god of the redpill saved me from getting HIV

So a colleague and friend then in Lagos told me about this babe he has been interacting with in church. According to him the babe is one of those girls forming high class in church. She worked as a chartered accountant and also drives an Hyundai car that her brother bought for her.

So, he told me he has fixed a date with the babe in Ikeja shopping mall and asked me to accompany him. We got there and waited for the girl for almost an hour before she finally came. He took her to a restaurant inside the mall and the babe was just ordering for everything orderable I couldn’t order much cos I was trying to pity him. After they ate, and drank wine she decided to take her leave.

Mind you, that restaurant sells expensive foods and wine and my guy spent almost 30k at that sitting. After we came out from the restaurant, followed her to her car, and my guy asked her to drop us at our route since she was going same way this babe refused

I was angry cos I couldn’t understand why she couldn’t drop off a guy that just spent almost 30k for a date. That was how she drove off and we had to trek home cos our apartment wasn’t too far from the mall.

After that meeting the girl stopped communicating with my guy and even told a member of the church that my guy didn’t have shame for asking a girl to drop him off when he should be the one dropping a girl off

Mhenn!! Forget naija girls abeg

On Going on A Date With A “high class” Girl

Some years ago while living in Lagos, I decided to start attending Sam Adeyemi’s Daystar Church. During their leadership class, we were required to write a test. All through the lecture I didn’t take note of the lady seated by me not until we were asked to exchange answer sheets for marking that was when I noticed her cos I exchanged my script with her.

I was surprised that as beautiful as she looked that babe was dull. She scored 3/10 while I scored 9/10. It was while marking that I saw her name and phone number cos we were required to write them on our answer sheets. I codedly copied her number and I never spoke a word to her. When I got home I sent her a message on WhatsApp and was shocked and laughed when she discovered I crammed her phone number.

While chatting I discovered she was working with one of the telecom companies in banana island but was living with her parents on the mainland. We chatted for some time before we decided to meet cos I was trying to raise funds for the date The first day we were supposed to meet she didn’t show up after I was already waiting for her at ikeja shopping mall. So we rescheduled.

The next date, I had just 7k on me and was praying not to be embarrassed. She actually got there before me and was calling. When I got there, she came out and said she wants to eat pizza so I paid for pizza and drinks N4,500. After eating pizza she said she wanted to lick ice cream but I couldn’t take her to cold stone cos I knew it will be expensive so we went to another ice cream shop and bought ice for 2k.

After licking Ice cream she said we should check out the Chinese shop that sells baby wears that her little niece birthday was coming up and she wanted to buy her a gift. So before we got to the shop we saw a guy selling baby toys inside the mall and the guy told us 12k for one small toy like that
I had to ask her the age of her niece and to my surprise she said 7months

We later left there and went to the Chinese shop. She did something that day that made me laugh. She will walk around the shelfs and she will call me to come see a particular toy and how beautiful it is (So that I will ask to pay) When she noticed I didn’t fall for the trick she said she wanted to get some things from shoprite inside the mall. So we entered shoprite and she started picking body spray, Body cream, soaps etc. I was just escorting her until we got to the counter and she was waiting for me to pay ( I turned my eyes and was pretending to be pressing my phone )

She later brought out her atm card and paid. While we were leaving she told me that there’s a new eatery she saw inside the mall that she wanted us to use for our date at first but she didn’t know my budget. So she decided we just enter inside and check out their menu. When we entered there, to my surprise, a glass of drink alone was 4k We later left the mall while she took a cab, I had to trek home

After our date she stopped replying like she used to. She later told me we can hangout anytime but can’t date. So after spending 7k she ended up not dating me or giving me pussy. So since that day I made up my mind not to go on a restaurant/mall date with any girl.


I’m going to share how a girl refused to carry a friend in her car after he spent almost 30k on a date

Back then in the university I wasn’t very serious with school cos I was either with some of my guys drinking or at home. It got so worse to the extent I didn’t know most of my coursemates. In our third year a coursemate of mine was to get married and she started selling her wedding cloth so that was when I knew she was my coursemate

So in our final year I was paired with her as project partners and that was how we got closer. Mind you, the husband was a womanizer working in one of the first generation bank and was a bit loaded. Cos of our projects, she sometimes visited me at home cos her husband asked some of her hostel mates to watch over her the reason she asked me not to visit her.

The first day she visited me the first thing she looked for was my mattress according to her and fortunately my aunt just got back from the USA at that time and bought me those double mattresses. She would stay in my room, watch me take my bath, dress up and won’t even bother to leave. One day I even asked her to leave for me to change but she insisted on staying by saying “Wetin you dey hide wey dem never see”. She wanted me to be intimate with her but I was too scared to do it and she kept her cool.

She was the person that gave me a feel of what restaurant food tastes like. She was subbing for me then with 1k Airtel monthly subscription. This woman would buy half goat and give me a full goat lap. We spoke about everything but never had sex even tho some of my coursemates thought we were. While she was doing those things, she literally left all the projects works on my head.

Even while she left after our graduation we were still communicating. She would call me after her husband has left for work and we will talk for more than 2 hours and this happened daily. She later told me that she wanted me sexually cos she couldn’t get pregnant for her husband meaning she wanted me to get her pregnant while she hooks it on her husband. About a year after we graduated she got pregnant and immediately she gave birth we stopped communicating.

Some years later I was pursuing a Canada visa and I needed money so badly and I couldn’t so I called her but she refused even tho I knew she was financially capable to assist and that got me angry cos I had invested so much friendship in her and never believe she could leave me angry. But later on I realized that the reason she could walk away easily without looking back was cos we never had sex.

To a woman, sex is like a stamp that seals up a friendship or relationship. So if you are not having sex with a lady to her you’re like a brother to her cos she can’t have sex with her brother. No matter how bad a relationship ended, there’s possibility that you can still have sex with an ex when left alone in a room

Know this that, A girl will never feel committed to a guy she never had sex with, invested money on, or related by blood.

You may lose her if you don’t sex her cos it seems you see her like a wife material and you’re trying to keep her

You will be heartbroken when you allow another guy to be d.cking someone you’re keeping

Nat404:
Okay, thanks, champ.

Late Last year, I met a very pretty young lady whose dad is a politician. We swapped digits. Called her a few times after three months of meeting her and never called her again because my mind was preoccupied with something else.

Just last weekend, she called me and we talked about 15 minutes and she was very upset with me probably because I haven't been calling her often. She said how could I live without even calling her a single day? How could I be happy without talking to my girlfriend? I told her she is not yet my girlfriend. She then asked me, when are we gonna meet again? Because she can't wait any longer. I told her on the phone next month and she said no, next month is so long. That she wants us to meet very soon. Then I said okay, next week. In a week time. She then asked me to kiss her on the phone but I refused. She then said she's going to come over the same day I would return and also said lots of fun stuff. And I felt like a hero.

Honestly, I do not want to have sex with this pretty damsel now. It's something I would have to think about later.

The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?

Stop spreading false news! Only priority and super priority were suspended not the standard uk visa

In 2020 I met this fine babe on a Facebook group and fortunately she was living in same estate with me. After chatting we decided to meet up. After our first meeting at a lounge she only visited my apartment twice cos she was always busy cos she was helping her sister at her shop. Later on she told me of her plan to open a POS shop and I actually helped her with advice but at a point the way she was emphasizing on the money needed I had to give her space before she bill me.

After then I didn’t hear from her again and didn’t bother to look for her. Fast forward to a week ago a number called me and she was the one after much going and coming cos I had deleted her number. She later told me that she got married in January this year and started complaining that her husband doesn’t last in bed and also has small D. After telling me how she missed my D bla bla bla she jokingly said what will it take for me to come visit her in her state of residence. So I jokingly told her that since she’s already married she should be giving me upkeep money of N250k monthly and be ready to pay my return ticket to Where she currently reside with her husband and To my amazement she agreed.

I saved her number and searched her on WhatsApp and was shocked to see that she’s actually using her husband’s picture as her dp. I did FBI on Facebook and discovered that the husband is actually a prince and works as a medical doctor.

Like we have always said, if the Dicck is good she will always come back even if she’s married. Now she’s married to a rich guy but sexually unsatisfied. So to those of you saying single guys should avoid married women, should I reject a 250k per month offer from a sugar mammy just cos of morality?

*modified*
Well I have decided not to accept her offer cos I don’t want to bang a man’s wife who’s probably banging someone else’s fiancée or serious babe

posty56:
yeah, although the redpill is ammoral, I still feel people should have I ethics ,they go by, imagine sleeping with someone's wife ,I no fit abeg

But married men sleep with people’s fiancées and serious babes huh? Do you know the number of relationships that these married men have destroyed in the form of sugar daddy? An average naija girl is dating a married man in the form of “sugar daddy”. These men end up becoming the wedding chairman unknown to the young man. And even after the wedding, these married men still continue to fucck the girls in their husbands house

You may be shocked that the reason why your “serious” babe is giving you attitudes is cos of a married man that is spoiling her with the kind of money that a young guy can’t spend.

It will amaze you to know that married men sleep more with married women than single guys. Do your own research bro

Fuccking someone else’s wife is morally wrong but not sexually wrong.
If she toast you and can change your financial status then help her out

Unfortunately we are in a money craze generation where young people thinks money makes you a complete human being. An average black man sees having millions in his bank accounts, driving expensive cars, building estates, having servants they can lord over, wearing bling bling etc as success. Well I won’t blame us but the years of impoverishment overtime makes us think like that.

An average white man/woman is not concerned about being the world’s richest but only interested in touring the world, giving to the poor, etc. That’s why an average white doesn’t work all year round; they work a little and the next thing they go on a vacation.

Most of us here think it’s only in business that we can be successful so I ask, are politicians not rich and powerful, where does the yahoo boys get their money from? An average yahoo boy get their money from women and how can you get money from women when you don’t understand their nature? Some of us here want us to stop talking about women and start talking about money, trade, business, body building etc meanwhile a lot of guys have made money just from understanding women. A lot of guys complaining here are those who still think that it’s their job to give to women and their pride and ego won’t allow them to receive from women.

I will keep saying it, women are the richest in the world. Before you ask me if women are the richest why are women not in the top richest in the world, know this, success is not in the amount of money or properties you have but it’s simply how easy it is for you to get whatever you want. Imagine a poor, broke and dejected woman will just work on her outward beauty and attract a high value man. While she’s at home taking care of the kids and gossiping around, the man will be sweating, thinking, globetrotting, just to make more money. And when this same woman wants her freedom, all she need is to file for a divorce and almost half of the man’s sweat will be giving to her for me that’s real success.

It’s easier for a woman to own a car than a guy cos they can own a car even without buying one with their money. If we do a research on the number of people suffering, hungry, homeless, poor, we will discover that men are the highest. The redpill is simply understanding the female nature and in doing that you can get money, connections, power from them.

If we start preaching the “be successful so you can attract any kind of woman” message, what happens when you meet a successful/powerful woman who doesn’t give a damn about your money or social status cos she can get those for herself? It’s because of this same message that most women nowadays are asking men what else they can bring to the table except money.

An alpha doesn’t fucck to satisfy himself but they fucck to satisfy women’s lust cos that’s the only thing a successful woman can’t give to herself. So, if you think you should focus on making money, what then can you give a woman who has everything else except a good DICCK?

I can see some Nigerians are surprised at Ubunja’s revelations on how girls fucck around

Let me share some naija real life stories with you guys.

Few years ago I met this young girl that sells data online. I usually buy data from her and this girl doesn’t use makeup or wear trouser cos her dad is a redeemed church pastor. If you see this girl you will never believe that she has tasted a dick so I didn’t even look at her side so it was just strictly business. Later on, a friend of mine needed to buy data and I gave him this girl’s contact. I never knew something was going on between both of them until I got to my hometown, visited my guy and he started showing me nudes and pussy pictures that this girl sends to him.

Even tho my guy told her that he’s married she didn’t mind. But what she doesn’t know is that my guy tells me everything between him and her. This girl told my friend that her aunty husband disvirgin her and she doesn’t like fuccking any other guy cos their diccks are not as big as her uncle. She tells the man every guy that Fuccks her. She claim she has a teenage boyfriend but the guy’s dicck is not big. Because she sells data and makes some cash, I encouraged my guy to play along with her and she started sending money to my guy when he asks.

One time, my guy went for a church conference in the state that the girl lives and he informed her. This small girl paid for an hotel room with her money and invited my guy there for sex. After their romp, she gave my guy money to transport back to where he lives. This girl should be 20 years then. She actually told my guy that she wants to be rich cos she plans to marry a guy she can control.

This girl sometimes leaves her parents house, go to a far location from her house, book an hotel and invite guys she chooses to fucck her. Later on she started calling my guy at odds hours and his wife started suspecting him so I had to threaten the small girl before she stopped cos she wanted to break his marriage. Now that my guy doesn’t give her face, she has started giving me attention. She told me that she has met my guy many times but I have refused to meet her even though she knew me before my friend. A girl irrespective of how she looks will fucck any guy her heart chooses.

This girl once told me she smokes MJ but not all the time. The thing is, when you look at this girl you will never believe that she’s that kinda of girl but the female nature will always manifest itself.

https://www.nairaland.com/6996920/ugezu-doing-dna-test-not

A simp has spoken

emmaodet:
Note - the roadside mechanic, private school teachers, vulcanizers, agberos, peasant farmers, your average work force earning 0 to 150k in present day nigeria like bankers, office workers, factory workers, local poor traders, just name it. They form the bulk of nigeria's work force and dating/marriage range won't have much chance than to settle down with whatever woman nature gives them because they are financially constrained to determine their own choice.

It’s same thing we are saying bro. It may seem hard for those that fall into your aforementioned category cos Nigeria men made Naija girls to believe that it’s a man’s job to provide the finance. I am sure ubunja will bear me witness cos in South Africa, women take care of their men. A friend of mine once dated this South African lady with big ass online and the lady kept saying she can’t wait to get a job so that she can be able to take care of my friend when he joins her in South Africa.

Even in the west, it’s easier for a lady working in a bank to date or marry a delivery guy. What an average American lady seek for is a man that can take care of himself cos she earns enough to take care of herself. But here, a guy earning same salary with his babe will still be sending her data, lunch, airtime, house rent support, etc. I have heard some girls say that the reason they put their financial burdens on men is cos the men act like they can do them. Some guys here are always quick to shout for guys to hustle and love will find them

Money doesn’t make you a man, you were born a man. A broke guy that knows his worth can date a high earning lady and the lady will still respect him.

emmaodet:
Lol

The average nigerian girl is stingy

Because the average guy made them believe it’s a guy’s responsibility and duty to spend on them. Very soon and I mean very soon, Naija girls will start buying guys attention and d*cks with money, gifts, and worship.

Dear Kings!
In all you do never date a stingy girl

Despite the economic hardship the country is experiencing some guys still want to be fathers even though they know they can’t cater for one. You want a young girl with a promising future to keep your pregnancy at the expense of her education or career even though you know you’re not financially capable to take care of a family. Some guys even go as far as putting the burdens on their aged parents (mothers especially) by telling the young girl to go stay with their moms.

Religious doctrines has made people think that having a child will bring Goodluck and open doors or getting married even in their broke state will bring open doors and some girlfriends that are desperate for marriage are using this same technique to manipulate guys into getting married. And after the wedding she will start telling you how a failure you are as a man cos you can’t PROVIDE for your family.

Some years ago I got a message from a young girl that I didn’t know but after she explained herself I got to know she was a girlfriend to a very good friend of mine. My guy have told me about her but I haven’t had the privilege of meeting her face to face. According to him he was the one that disvirgened her and at a point she got pregnant. My guy told her to keep the baby even tho he didn’t have a job and was eating from hand to mouth. Meanwhile, this young girl was a fresher in a nursing school.

She told me the reason she contacted me was cos my friend has told her how close we are and she wanted to explain everything to me cos my friend was threatening her inorder for her not to abort the baby which she planned to do.

After she explained, I told her the risk of abortion and also told her that her career may end if she decided not to cos I’m sure the nursing school won’t allow a young single pregnant girl in their school. I told her that my guy has no job at the moment and can’t even foot the hospital bills if needs be so she should choose wisely. I advised her the way I would advise my younger sister without been bias. Well later on she aborted the pregnancy and their relationship ended.

My friend saw another girl and got her pregnant and told her to keep it which she did cos this other lady was older and was just a normal trader. This same guy that wanted a baby so bad couldn’t even pay for antenatal for the girl or even buy baby things. Now he has a baby that he wanted but can’t take care of the mother and child, meanwhile the ex is now a nurse and still have sex with my friend.

I traveled home sometime ago and the ex came to see me. She was looking more beautiful and all the curves poking out and the way she hugged me even my guy was confused. He thought the girl has a crush on me but he didn’t know the girl was excited to see me cos of how I saved her career.

Most people condemning abortion and calling it a sin are doing so cos our religious leaders have made us believe so. Now we even claim more religious than the white people that introduced religion to us and have legalized abortion. As men we need to free ourselves not just from the hold of women but from religion, political manipulation, money mismanagement etc. if only we know the number of abortion going on daily in Nigeria. If only we know the number of gays activities happening daily in Nigeria, if only we know the amount of contraceptives being consumed daily in Nigeria, if only we know the number of deaths as a result of girls trying to abort their babies via quack nurses, herbal concoction etc. These deaths occur because our society is shying away from the reality that abortion is essential for the control of overpopulation and childbirth disparities.

In a more saner clime, foetus with sickle cells, or other disabilities are aborted while they are still in the womb to reduce the burdens on the couples and society but unfortunately in Nigeria, most parents would shy away from the truth, give birth to these kids and start running around looking for help that could have been avoided. Most guys who claim to be logical only do so when it concerns areas that will favor them but become emotional if it concerns an area like religion cos whether you believe it or not religion deals with feelings and feelings are emotional not logical.

Bros, don’t give birth to a child when you’re not financially capable cos you will suffer so much that even the poor will be pitying you cos you decided to put a burden on yourself that you don’t have the strength to carry.

Love & Light

toyoson0:
met a lady here on Nairaland, we chatted on WhatsApp and we talked on call frequently. We later met and we had sex on a Saturday which is 22nd of January, she later called me a week later that she is pregnant........ Am really confused right now cos my friends said she is trying to pin another person's pregnancy on me or is trying to get pregnant for me by force

That babe is trying to put someone else pregnancy on you bro. Maybe an alpha has gotten her pregnant and denied it and now she’s looking for a simp to take her in cos some guys are very excited to be a dad

It’s the job of a woman to be praying for her husband to stop chasing after small girls and not a man praying for his wife to stop cheating

Take charge

On Alpha F*cks Beta Bucks

Sometime ago, I was taking a stroll with one of my neighbor when suddenly we saw this pretty young girl coming out from a place we normally go to. My neighbor quickly called my attention to her and asked that we wait. When she came out he tried talking to her but the girl was styling him and even refused to give him her number. He wanted to follow the girl to wherever she was going but I cautioned him cos that was childish.

In the night of that Same day, my Flatmate came back from work and we decided to go eat at a bar managed by a matured lady that has been chasing him. When we got there I was surprised when I saw the same girl I and my neighbor saw during our stroll working in the bar. I left the room where my Flatmate and his crush was and I went outside to chill. After the young girl finished serving me, I asked for her name and also collected her number with no stress.

The next day I didn’t call her until later that night. I called her at about 11pm and she told me they’ve closed that I should come take her out. I picked her up and took her to another bar. I ordered for beer while she ordered for black bullet. She stood up and started dancing and asked me to dance with her. Immediately I stood up she started grinding her ass on my crotch and that got me hard. I told her the implication of what she was doing and she smiled. After she took two black bullet, I was supposed to drop her at her place but when we were inside the car I told her that I will drop her at her place the next morning cos I was taking her somewhere.

I took her to my apartment and we had sex that night. When my Flatmate came out from his room the next and saw her as I was walking her out he was shocked cos he is this kind of guy that doesn’t believe that you can meet a girl today and f*ck her the next day.

Mind you, I always move around with my cross bag and that always exudes the bad boy vibes. The girl is a girl that likes bad boys cos according to her her elder brothers are members of a particular cult. So when she asked me what’s inside my bag that I always carry around and I lied to her that it’s a pistol she became more curious and interested.

An average girl is probably used to guys trying to look nice, kind, and good but unfortunately these babes are used to those kind of guys. It’s the same way a girl that is used to guys telling her how beautiful she looks will be more attracted to a guy that doesn’t give a hoot about her.

To the Bro that posted earlier about his single mom babe that is ready to spend on him

An average Naija lady doesn’t spend on a guy cos they’ve been programmed from childhood that it’s a guy’s job to chase and spend on them. So when a girl starts spending on you it shows two things:

- She probably likes somethings about you and fears that another girl will likely get you before she does.

- She’s trying to lure you into her until she gets what she wants.

So the guy should take advantage of the opportunity cos even her other three babes may not spend on him the way this single mom is spending. The only thing they can offer him now is to cook, sex and other little things cos judging from your pictures you look presentable and most girls like guys they can boldly show off.

So bro, get as much as you can from her cos girls do that often by dating guys that can help pay their bills and give them a life their parents couldn’t.

So nairaland banned me till 2031 So I have been viewing this thread but couldn’t comment.