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NYSCRe: Delta Family House For Batch C'13 Corp Members by hermosa(f): 5:55am On Nov 02, 2013
Thanks babytee1, I'm leaving Monday morning. cheesy cool
NYSCRe: Delta Family House For Batch C'13 Corp Members by hermosa(f): 7:37pm On Nov 01, 2013
#TeamDelta!! Yay!!
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 2:06pm On Jul 19, 2013
Imsovain: Thanks for the links,l original poster!
You welcome!
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 2:06pm On Jul 19, 2013
@uzoo you got it in Nigeria? I work in Abuja, you think I can find it here in my city?
NYSCRe: Is It True No One Serves In Abuja, Lagos And Port Harcourt Anymore? by hermosa(op): 2:02pm On Jul 19, 2013
Yes I want to serve. I met a guy in min or education and he said National Assembly banned graduates from serving in these 3 states henceforth.
NYSCIs It True No One Serves In Abuja, Lagos And Port Harcourt Anymore? by hermosa(op): 12:56pm On Jul 18, 2013
Hi! I just graduated from china and I need to confirm if theres any truth that no one serves in Abuja, Lagos and port Harcourt anymore?

Pleaseeeeee I need replies now!
PoliticsRe: Chinese Firm To Run 4 Nigerian Airports by hermosa(f): 6:25am On Jul 10, 2013
Mr knowitall.:
this Nigeria..China..relationship is getting more disturbing by the day...
lol! and guess what? its just the beginning. and theres so much we can do to stop Nigeria from being one of China's 'slave' but who's ready to be the one to fight against all of THEM??
....
yea, i thought so.
FashionRe: Looking For A Good Concealer! Help! by hermosa(op): 5:18am On Jul 01, 2013
I hear the Sleek Corrector And Concealer Palette is really good. someone please confirm.
NYSCRe: Going For Nysc? Read Here: Survival Guide/tips For Prospective Nysc Corp Members by hermosa(f): 5:50am On Jun 26, 2013
Hi, i'm about to graduate from University. i won't be getting my degree certificate anytime soon, is it ok to hand in a Transcript/Statement of Results (I studied in China)
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 1:00pm On Jun 17, 2013
@uzoo yay! Congrats on starting your hair journey! I see progress! I'm definitely motivated! Yes, we should definitely be hair buddies! I am currently at nape neck length but I'm hoping for shoulder length at the end of this year.
I dont do Twitter but I am on instagram @aitahermosa hope you add me! I need all the education I can get Hihi!
FashionRe: How Do I Soften My Natural Hair And Stop Breakage During Combing? by hermosa(f): 1:06pm On Jun 16, 2013
DEEP CONDITION with a moisturizing deep conditioner once a week
FashionRe: How Do I Use Coconut Oil To Stop Hair Breakage by hermosa(f): 1:02pm On Jun 16, 2013
@rofemiguwa you can also go to todaysnair. and order virgin coconut oil and other carries and essential oils that are used in hair growth.
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 12:53pm On Jun 16, 2013
@babestell thanks for your comment! and i wish you lots of success and motivation in your hair growth journey! Im aiming for thicker hair and shoulder length by the end of this year! If you want we can be hair buddies, if you have any new info on hair growth or need to ask any questions, just contact me on this topic and then we can share ideas!

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RomanceRe: Words Of A Man In Love With A Woman Struggling To Grow Her Natural Hair by hermosa(op): 8:14am On May 01, 2013
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RomanceWords Of A Man In Love With A Woman Struggling To Grow Her Natural Hair by hermosa(op): 3:35pm On Apr 30, 2013
[size=18pt]Saw this on African Naturalistas.com and wanted to share it with everyone.[/size] I love Love
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Words of a man in love with a struggling Naturalista

This note was written by the husband of one of the naturalistas who left a comment on this post about another naturalista's husband's reaction to natural hair. After cat calls for his opinions by other naturalistas, well, here you have it. The man has spoken.

Natural hair! Natural hair!! Natural hair!!! Where do I start from? Well, let me start from the beginning. A few months after I started dating my wife, I accompanied her to the salon she wanted to have a perm. I noticed that after having a perm, her hair was very thin and scanty, and I could almost see through her hair. When I mentioned it, she told me that her hair was a cause for concern. She said she had been praying and fasting for the growth of her hair for as long as she could remember.

Fast forward to my life as a married man to a beautiful wife with hair problems, I would chuckle each time she told me her prayer points included the growth of her hair. One day, after some research, she announced to me that she was going natural. This was after trying different hair styles from Mohawk to twists. I knew she was nervous about the whole thing so I decided to do a little research of my own to see if there was any way I could help her. As you know I am her knight in shinning armour, and my job is to make her life as comfortable as I can (big grin), secretly I have always loved the natural look.

In doing my research, I found out that black hair can actually grow very long, and also have a lot of interesting textures and styles, but it requires a lot of the right kind of care. In my wife’s quest of having healthy hair, she hadn’t taken the time to actually take care of her hair or even know what kind of texture of hair she had, things like being careful as to what one puts into one’s hair, using a lot of olive oil which I discovered is very good for the hair, heat not being her best of friends etc, so she started the natural hair journey. Now I must say my wife isn’t a very patient person, so on several occasions, she would lose her patience and decide that she wants to have a hair cut. I always discouraged this because I knew that she was just being frustrated and was going to regret it in the end.

In all. I must say her hair has become fuller, longer, and healthier. I will never forget how she looked on our fourth wedding anniversary. She had combed her hair out with a wide tooth comb, she was excited that it had grown. I too was shocked but pleased that it had grown, and was very healthy as well. How could I resist my own African Queen with such luscious kinky hair?


The Kamsons on their 4th wedding anniversary
Did I mention that my wife is very impatient? Yes I am sure I did. Well she would love the length of her hair to get to her bottom, I would love that as well but not in 6 months. It doesn’t work that way. For now she is hanging in there, watching the hair grow and getting to love it.

Will I continue to support her? Yes I would and all the naturalistas out there, because it takes a brave woman to stay different, I love your guts. In fact I am so into making her natural hair journey a success, that I am watching videos on how to take care of little girl's hair, as I wouldn’t mind being my daughter's hairstylist and prevent her from getting damaged hair to begin with.


Signed
A naija man in love with a struggling naturalista.
Bolaji Kamson
Fashion/Clothing MarketRe: Hairfinity Product by hermosa(op): 2:45pm On Apr 30, 2013
still waiting for a reply from anybody!!!
FashionRe: Looking For A Good Concealer! Help! by hermosa(op): 8:53am On Apr 30, 2013
@SEXXXY are there MAC counters in Abuja?
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 8:48am On Apr 30, 2013
[size=18pt]pleASE POST YOUR OWN PICS FOR MOTIVATION!![/size]
WE NEED TO MOTIVATE EACHOTHER
FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 8:47am On Apr 30, 2013
NaijhairCanGROW.COM

FashionRe: Inspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 8:46am On Apr 30, 2013
Jeni from JustGrowAlready.com

FashionInspiring Hair Blogs! African Hair CAN GROW! by hermosa(op): 8:45am On Apr 30, 2013
Ok, so im starting this hair journey from Relaxed to Texlaxed, Brittle/Damaged/dandruff ridden to Healthy/Beautiful/Shiny Nigerian Hair and i decided i needed serious tips from pros who've gone through what i've gone through, seen setbacks, didn't give up and came out triumphant so who better to ask find me these 'pros' than Google.
After hours upon hours, days upon days of going through sites, asian hair blogs, caucasian hair blogs, i decided i'd focus more on Afrcan hair blogs because obviously im African and i can relate to them.
So, in my opinion these are the TOP AFRICAN HAIR BLOGS that i felt catered to my fears, my wants, my hopes and my dreams of having Beautiful, healthy African hair

1. Naija Hair Can Grow- www.naijahaircangrow..com
why i chose her blog? She's Nigerian (so you know she representin'). Lives in Lagos and buys all her hair products from NIGERIA and can tell you where to get all your hair products from. But you first have to subscrib!

2. Just Grow Already- www.justgrowalread.com
why? So detailed! She explains the whole process in such an understandable way that even a 5 year old would get it! LOL! I love her hair regimen! I love that she's put so much hard work into it! and... just everything!! you need to go to her website and read thoroughly to get what i'm trying to say!! I LOve her dedication to hair care!!

3. African Hair Blog- http://africanhairblog.com/
why? She's also very detailed in blog, is a mother and uses her oh so cute child sometimes for demonstartion I love Mums!!

4. African Naturalistas-http://www.africanaturalistas.com/ And for all the REAL NATURALISTAS out there this one is just for YOU
why? You transitioning from relaxed/texlaxed to Natural? Want to rock what your mama gave you? Proud to be Black and Beautiful? Check out Africannaturalistas.com and get updates on how to moisturise the unmoisturizable, detagle the undetangable, grow to APL ( arm pit length and even LONGER) the ungrowable!!!!! This site carefully guides you to beautiful and wellmanaged afro hair with easy do hair styles and more!!

5. Grow African Hair Long- http://growafricanhairlong..com/
why? They say 2 heads are better than one and these two Kenyan sistas (bioloogically too) have show excatly why! Their blog is full on all you need to know about hair care, they hold nothing back and hide nothing from their readers! I love their passion, their honesty and their determination! and wish them a succesful journey!

6. Fresh Length- http://freshlengths..co.uk/
why? Because she's another very dedicated hair care specialist (in my opinion :p, plus she knows a thing or two about Fashion. Plus i loveee her cheekbones!! They are TO. DIE. FOR! Ahhh (fainting)

7. Black Girl Long Hair-http://blackgirllonghair.com/
why? Just in case we still have a lot of Thomas the doubtfuls out there, this blog shows you thousands of African women ALL OVER THE GLOBE being interviewed about their regimen.
So whether your rocking an afro, still relaxed/texlaxed, or transitioning this website would be #thewaytogo

8.The Black Hair Diary-http://theblackhairdiary..com/
why? Cos She Can Do Bad All By Herself! LOL! I love how she's rocking natural hair, documenting her every hair journey on youtube and giving us updates on her blog, plus she sells Natural Hair Products!! Naturally!! LOL! and my best part? Her FAQ page on her blog is very helpful especially with newbies who need help trying to understand hair terminology

9. Black Hair Planet- http://www.blackhairplanet.com/
why? why??! Seriously?!! Because it's BLACK HAIR PLANET! The pioneer premier forum website where each and every black person get's hair information from. The members are knowledgeble on all hair subjects, there the diversity in culture and the sisterhood bond is real intense! Go on over! See for yourself!

10. my semi naijaland hairblog!! out soon!! hihi!


Note: Please understand that im not getting paid to do this. Im sharing these helpful blogs with you because i would have loved for someone else to share this with me, i've already wasted so much years believing long hair was impossible, im not going to waste another second! and also so that we can all see that African hair CAN grow! we just have to believe, be informative and be deligent!
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FashionLooking For A Good Concealer! Help! by hermosa(op): 8:05am On Apr 09, 2013
Hi, I need help! I was wondering about the purpose of concealer as it relates to black women. Im light skinned. Do they make concealer for African women? If so, what brand do you use? If concealer does not exist for darker skin tones, what kind of foundation can be used to cover up blemishes and spots on the face.
FamilyRe: Were You Abused Sexually As A Child? by hermosa(op): 9:59am On Feb 06, 2013
@Winneygirl, Great job! you handled the situation superbly, Im glad it got as far as it did and that you took control.
#judgefreezone #takecontrol
TravelRe: Please I Need Assistance On Chinese Visa by hermosa(f): 12:28pm On Jan 26, 2013
My last post was deleted shocked[url][/url]
Just wanted to know if you want to work or study in china?
FashionRe: How To Care For African Hair (kinky/afro Hair) by hermosa(op): 4:44am On Jan 25, 2013
yes, washing your hair with only conditioner is very neccessary. it should be done at least once or twice a week.
for healthier and stronger hair, try an oil treatment before washing your hair, then deep condition. its effective.
and dont forget your vitamins! especially vitamin b complex!

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