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Una still dey marry?...Una never see anything, continue playing.

Malagans:
Depression is Real.

No family. No friends. No life

family and friends can't save you from depression.

For state when work no dey....

showlove911:
Awkward and terrible mindset and mentality....
There is more to life than food and consumption.

It's not ur fault....an average Nigerian is consumption conscious.

All the cheap food you hv been eating since ur childhood, has dat improved the global perception of Nigeria and standard of living

Re you intentionally proud to be called a Nigerian even from our nearest African neighbors?

Sycophants....

No mind am...all they know is food and fvck ...no accomplishment,no innovation... other countries are doing exploits but he is only concerned with cheap food...yeye ppl.

Nnamdipapa:
So everyone in Nigeria earns 70k?

most people in Nigeria are earning 70k or less.

Nnamdipapa:
There are other bills, mortgage $2800/month, heating and electricity, about 500$ per month. I was relatively healthy and had no need for the hospital. In Canada or western countries, you get the money and they all go out as bills plus you have to live a super boring life. I would prefer the bad roads and occasional power interruptions to a super boring life where you only exist to pay bills.

come back to Nigeria and be earning 70k with your family,I'm sure that will be better than paying high bills in Canada.

how much is minimum wage in Nigeria and minimum wage in Canada?

StoryHaven:
Sharaap! Who gave you the right to call me a Simp?

But really, I've been one sha.

Lessons learnt.

every man don simp before...

ZombieTAMER:
Met on a first day

knack on the first day

No rubber?

Idonbelivit

e dey happen even for Nigeria. I have experienced it personally,I always use rubber.

Tenrack:
bruh. That's it. Take care of your fawking self. Your health, eat well, no let any woman gaslight you. I learnt the hard way like yourself. Put yourself first, if her papa no well, no be your responsibility. I messed up gan. But I needed the wake up call. Now if I woo you, and you do shakara, I don't waste time. Girls too plenty to dey let one dey use you play. Omo that dude up there with him car still chop disgrace. Kai the mistake we make is thinking most women can be more than a sex object and offspring making machine. I'm not sorry to day.

una still dey try to even date woman. After my last relationship ended last year,I never woo woman again. Na to just fvck and move on....na so one call me the other day say she want sell something give me,sharperly I tell her make we lodge na if I come pick the stuff...she tell me say she no be that kind gal, immediately I delete her number and move ahead...I no get time to waste. I want fvck and no drama. If you bring drama,I cut you off.

Tenrack:
bro..wahlai. With all my experience and things wey dey sup for this life now. You'll be a fool to shoot yourself in the foot by getting yourself stuck with one female. You don set up yourself for failure.

I have been saying this too. These women aren't worth a man's commitment.do not take women seriously. Fvck as many as you can but do not commit,I repeat do not commit.

Duduyankee1:
My mistake is marrying to change her but unknowingly she doesn't need change. Guys be wiser than me when choosing your partner

I'm glad you learnt your lesson... don't try to fix women,you will regret it. If you met her a smoker, either you accept her like that or you leave her. Never try to fix a woman, it's not your job.

ZaddyJ:
Oga if you Dey and don’t have a woman you can be proud of then you need to check yourself. Bible sef talk am sey he who finds a wife finds a good thing. So if every woman wey u meet from Jan to December no match you taste then na you get problem.

fvck bible,face reality...no worry your eye go soon clear.

OredoPikin2:
Been born in Nigeria is a mistake and I intend not to bring up my kids in this environment.
If I nor fit travel out of this country, then make I nor just born.
Let everything associated with Nigeria end with me

I like your kind of person...You pity your unborn children enough,not to bring them into this hellhole.

LowKeyManny:
For the young kings, never spend your first big bag on family. I paid so much black tax and ended back where I came from, like I never left because I wanted to be a 'good child'. Paid over 6 million worth of loans for my mum. Spent another 3 million trying to set her up. All went down the drain. Funny thing, the stupid hag keeps calling me for loans I know nothing about. While I am quietly drowning. Lol. I work with my dad. Made profit of about 150m during the period I was trying to set up my mum (thinking my cut from the 100m would be for me to set up myself). My pops bought me an SUV in my name for #13m as a 'surprise'. And that was it. Not even 1 kobo from the 100m for maintenance or fuel. Lol.

My boss I've been working with for about 3 years now. Can't ask for more loyalty. I fucking bashed my SUV from my other hustle, chasing money with my boss, expecting some mad funds to roll in. After we lost over #450m in last minute dropped deals in 2025, I tried not to mount financial pressure on my boss. But tell me why I casually saw payment receipts from 2024 issued by the office to the govt ministry when I did all the work and my boss been acting like the ministry hadn't paid all this while. The job was small sum. #10m. meant to be a start for bigger contracts. And my Voss received #7m since 2024. I didn't even know. Lol.

It hurts. But we live and we learn. Walai. If the roles were reversed, I wouldn't treat any of these people the way they treated me.

Last last na only yourself you know.

I agree with you...na only you want the best for yourself,the rest people will always act from the place of selfishness.

bayfed:
Taking a girl I met online out yesterday, on reaching, noticing she wasn’t fancying me, i foolishly proceed to place orders, forcing communications, trying to pleased her, until she couldn’t ave it anymore, she left me there in my car. Don’t be like me, leave immediately as soon as you notice the feeling isn’t mutual.

stop taking women out,they are not worth it. Bring her home instead. If she no gree come your house,cut all ties with her.

ZaddyJ:
Oga if you Dey and don’t have a woman you can be proud of then you need to check yourself. Bible sef talk am sey he who finds a wife finds a good thing. So if every woman wey u meet from Jan to December no match you taste then na you get problem.

just dey play. You know bible reach pastors when their marriage don crash?

Emdi1914:
Are you sure it's about looking well and marrying the right person?Which kind of telescope would you use to look well?
My guy,life is about time and chance, you never know who would turn out good or bad, everyone needs LUCK.

e never understand life... people when never understand life dey quick blame others if they fail in something...In life,you can do everything right and still end with bad results.

Olachase:
I was warned to let her go but I refused because I met her in church

Not knowing that she has retired 😭😭

The church is the final bustop of every retired OS.

23jerryking:
Lies upon lies
At 31 years of age, I still haven't been with a girl, I've always had a strict moral code and by the grace of God have been careful enough not to get my priorities messed up. No sex till date I'm telling you, and yet why am I not succeeding in all that I do?

just imagine your case now.

Seeplusplus:
And some na 50k dem de collect like that. Omo the level of poverty and injustice in this country is mind blowing. Sadly, we're not sure it'll change during our lifetime

yes na,that kind job if them too pay na 70k to 100k salary monthly... that same time person when dey UK don use am work 3 jobs with far higher pay.

Rexymania:
How do we pro create?

This one op dey talk go hard ooo. Even priests that claim to abstain from sex turn out to be pretenders. Op have you been able to conquer the urge for sex?

thatigboman:
Not everything anyone says deserves a comment though.
I bought a brand new car legally in 2016 based on salaries and allowances. A lot of of my friends and colleagues have brand new cars on same accord as
Well. Some wanted bigger cars on same amount level. So when I bought my salon car on X amount, some bought SUVs on same amount.
Different people, different preferences

that was 2016,compare it to the price of car now.

tragergeorge:
Asin eh...
country wen person de sell cargo come hold debt join cos he wan venture into business...
it's not a bad idea to have multiple income but it's not really that easy ...
who never de do one business de advice person for different strings of income

it requires less time to do 3 jobs in UK than to do 1 in Nigeria. Some people dey do 7am to 7pm job for here, that is 12hours

tragergeorge:
hi diversify income diversify income like it's easy...
person never fit sustain he Small business una de talk of another unsure one..
like the country de really favourable for business

let them be delusional...person when dey do 8 to 5,which time e get to take diversify income?

She dey even talk brand new car,she no even talk tokunbo car...legit Nigerian workers can no longer afford tokunbo car.

Una still dey go university for Nigeria? I no dey advise anybody again,na your body go tell you.

Awalokan is the best president. He is favouring me and my family.

mirrael68:
1. You can't blame God , His word , the Bible is available and clear on everything we need to do. His Holy Spirit is also within us to instruct us always. So we have no excuse to court error.
2. Who are we to judge and conclude on another man or man of God. To His master he stands or falls. And will reward him on the last day.
3. Our job is to work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Las las, Everyman go reap wetin him sow.

bros wake up before you are left behind. With all the things happening in the world,your eye never still open abi.