₦airaland Forum

Una still dey go church?

Smh

Women are not the weak vessel.Their power is not from brute force,but through subtlety. A woman that has fully mastered the art of manipulation is more dangerous than a physically strong man. Na who no Sabi woman dey see them as innocent and weak.

zabimaru:
While this is a possible scenario, it is most likely not the case here.

what then is the most likely issue?

Angelfrost:
Refund ke?!!

People that believe loaned or stolen money is their personal right.


See Wike and his ilk boldly singing and dancing while stealing funds that even their 5th generation can never spend completely.



As for "accountability", that word is alien even to the most learned amongst us.

Don't loan anyone money in Nigeria...They don't pay back. Instead of loaning,give the little you can afford to let go. Nigerians have zero integrity,zero accountability,zero morality. No wonder our leaders are the way they are,bad society gives birth to bad leaders. Our leaders didn't fall from the moon,they are a product of a depraved society.

Angelfrost:
I say it without mincing words... Doing business with most Nigerians is dangerously RISKY.

You have to be 200% present and hyper-vigilant.

You are better off trusting a rattlesnake.

Very greedy, selfish and wicked people,yet very religious.

Angelfrost:
Forget... An average Nigerian is something else.

I have travelled around and lived in at least 3 continents, and I can tell you honestly, that most Nigerians are a whole new level of greedy, wicked, and corrupt.

I no longer bother arguing this obvious fact with any so called "Defender of Nigeria's Pride".

None of you can ever be more Nigerian than I am... Or love Nigeria more than I do.

I fear who no fear Nigerians when it comes to money.

Angelfrost:
Forget... An average Nigerian is something else.

I have travelled around and lived in at least 3 continents, and I can tell you honestly, that most Nigerians are a whole new level of greedy, wicked, and corrupt.

I no longer bother arguing this obvious fact with any so called "Defender of Nigeria's Pride".

None of you can ever be more Nigerian than I am... Or love Nigeria more than I do.

You are right on this...I can't trust a Nigerian with as low as 5k. They are very terrible people.

This government is favouring me and my family.

I saved 1 billion dollars...2025 is a great year.

Sonnobax15:

Nigerian men too mumu for banny matter I swear to God

Make guyman like me dey in need of 50k now,na wereys like Dem go begin tell me to go and work . But once na banny,na once their preeek go just rise

Na the reason why the women are now too entitled...if a total stranger could do that for her,tell me why she would not expect more from her man.

Berankis:
When we say don't marry a SLAY QUEEN with multiple earrings, nose rings, leg chains and other acts and symptoms of waywardness, you guys will call us old school.
What you don't know is that, these wayward girls lack SELF-DISCIPLINE! They just want to do whatever they like not minding who is affected or disturbed so long they are fine. It takes a lot of SELF-DISCIPLINE for a man and a woman to stay in marriage. Sometimes, marriage is like slavery. You slave away your life for your children and family and yet you stay there.
A slay queen can't slave away herself for anyone, more reason she chose to be wayward afterall. It's easier to put nose rings, plenty earrings, tattoos, legs chains etc than to stay pure and restrained. There are lots of disciplined women out there, with great character, self-sacrificing, good career plan, focus, ambition and potentials but todays men would rather go for aesthetics - big breasts, big yansh, raves and vogues. Now this is the outcome. If you don't get a bastard child, you will be abandoned!
We will all learn in the end...

Bros for where you want see disciplined woman for this present generation....you might as well require Tinubu's connection to find one.

Richtaiwo:
What exactly has this one been typing all over this thread? The comments reek of a complete absence of basic maternal instinct, something even the lowest animals possess. It is pure, unfiltered nonsense.

So the argument now is that because a nursing mother has issues with her husband, she should abandon her baby just to score cheap points? How depraved does one have to be to even think like that? What kind of woman contemplates walking away from her breastfeeding child?

At this point, one can only conclude that such a woman is a shameless gold digger who suddenly realised she had been digging in the wrong soil and, out of spite and disappointment, lost all regard for life itself, even when that life is her own baby’s.

If she hates the man, does she also despise her child? One is forced to question whether such a person has any humanity at all, because even animals would not display this level of cruelty, selfishness, and moral bankruptcy to her own baby

There is no better way to say it than you just did. Even animals don't reason the way these women reason. They are just too dummmb.

Just dey play...we need USA more than they need us.

pocohantas:
He should take care of the baby himself, so he can see what women bring to the table.

our women have lost it.

FreeIgboho:
The SYSTEM is stopping them. Even something as lucrative as boxing, women were excluded until recently. Why? If a woman wants to go to war or do a "dangerous" but lucrative job, she can't because it is monopolized by the brotherhood. Even joining army, police, etc. Things were set up that way by MEN, not by Nature!

Women are not fit for these things jare....Nature denied them the capacity to do somethings not men. Blame nature not men. Do you know that in as much as I love football,I don't enjoy female football cos it's boring;Same goes for boxing that you mentioned. They just don't do it well like men. The system is even protecting them by not sending them to wars or allowing them do dangerous jobs. Go and check places where women work in industries, it's usually soft
Places where there is no much physical pressure. So with all these will you still say the system doesn't favour them?

FreeIgboho:
I'm not promoting feminism at all. I'm just sensitive to unfairness especially when the person favored is still the one always complaining. Look around me: how many women are presidents, senators, governors, mega church heads, lucrative markets like Alaba, etc. Women are systematically excluded from all these because the system was set up by men to favour men!

Nobody is stopping women from being any of these things. How many of them are showing interest in politics to start with? How many of them have the capacity to lead? These are things you should ask. How many women are sent to die in wars? How many women can do certain dangerous jobs to make money?The system is not unfair to women in anyway.

dalass:
That's actually the best punishment for him. If she left with the baby, he would have hastily and joyfully brought in another lady.

It is his type who would be asking the wife that what does she do around the house? Just to take care of only one baby? Sebi he's finding it easy

She has her own life to live too. If he can not go out to work because of one baby... There are many ladies out there, backing their their baby to hustle. Let him do same.. bloody ingrate... If she no born, wahala, she born, problem! Some men are just wicked. For her to drop baby and run, he's probably the one who drove her away, thinking she'll come begging because of the baby.

Nothin. should happen to that baby

So man go open eye marry you with this kind brain you get. Thank God say my eyes don open,I no fit fall for Una bondage called marriage.

FreeIgboho:
So at least we agree that women are cheated by the inheritance system, that it is UNFAIR to women. And please it is NOT nature that made it that way, it is the patriachy, men! What Nature made is that everyone would know for certain who the child's mother is, but not the father. Therefore Nature actually supports lineage through female line not male. It is man that changed it!

You are still living in the past...There is no patriarchy anymore. The current system favours women more than men...look around you and see for yourself. Feminism is all a lie,stop promoting it.

Na mvmv still dey marry or do relationship.

Samantha125:
How did she abandon him or her when she or he is with his or her father?

You guys are the same people always complaining of how women have nothing to offer in a marriage, so go ahead and look after your babies yourselves since you consider women as useless.

you are a baaaad person for supporting what she did. Does the man have breast to give to this baby? I pity the man that will marry you.

What happened to op...Hope all is well?

Christmas is fast losing its relevance...very soon it will be a thing of the past.

FreeIgboho:
He's actually right. Nature did not distribute torture equally. Women bear all the nastiness while men are left free. It would hace been more fair, for example, if men bore monthly periods and women bore pregnancy and childbirth

The pain of pregnancy or monthly period is periodic compared to the constant pain men go through on daily basis just to survive. Have you seen some kind of dangerous jobs that men do to put food on the table for women and children yet they get zero or less appreciation for their efforts and sacrifices? To every man out there going through hell,I feel your pain.

A woman is born with value but a man is expected to build value. The system is rigged against men. The expectations society have for men are too high. Men are not loved,only women and children are loved. When a man talks about the harsh reality of life,he is called weak but when a woman does that,she gets sympathy and favour.My advice to men is to help themselves and put themselves first. We matter too and deserve love,care, support and respect. Do not let the society tell you how to be a man cos most times you are getting programmed to become useful to others and useless to yourself. It's a cold world out here menh!!!.

Do not try this at home.. 😂😂😂😂😂

budaatum:
Now, why would I want to deny mounting to a kind considerate husband like you who is willing to consider my feelings and opinion?

Trust me, if another woman dares just look at you after we marry, I will tear out her eyes and feed them to our dog.

🤔🤔🤔🤔

Double0h7:
People still throwing around the word friend so loosely 🥱

They have not learnt anything yet. Life will teach them.

Gunayo:
Hope you are not married? I pity your husband if you are married. He must be passing through hell.

No be small hell...if kobojunkie is the only woman in this world,I would rather be single.

Lol...for puna when full everywhere then want dey withhold again from married man? Married men are suffering sha.

Drsnives:
As I type my wife is still angry with me.
What's my fault here, should I reject the stuffs, I can't na

if you give her exactly that amount she won't be able to buy those things herself.