₦airaland Forum

I thought they said southwest is safe. They said the Amotekun special forces of southwest will handle terrorism. Now the harsh reality is here,no more pretence.

Una never get the latest Dem dey see person when help them as mumu. Na why kindness don reduce... people are now cautious of helping,so they are not tagged as mugus

Oldhead:
Brother , I actually Dey on my own , doing my thing and don’t ask for nothing. I don’t disrespect them in anyway , but they just don’t like that the fact that I don’t do crowds and attending functions and party cus it’s not my thing. I get panic attacks easily. Funny thing is, they’ ve actually witness some episodes. My anxiety always kicks in when I stay longer, when a function just starts , I’m good and all calm and even vibing sometimes, but after 2hours max. The anxiety kicks in and I make a move to leave. then I go greet my uncles and aunts to say my goodbyes, the next thing i will hear is” everyone is still here, why is it only you that always leaves first, you are too proud blah blah. How do one start to explain to a Nigerian that about mental illness called anxiety disorder and that people actually suffer from it? Especially illiterates like them? If only they know the amount of mental courage I have to summon to be there alone. I will exercise , meditate do all sorts just to prepare myself mentally, but still yet my anxiety gets the better of me. And my family is a very large one , I’m not even lying when I say no month goes by without someone celebrating something. I’m happy about the milestone been celebrated, but those occasions are always hell for me. And I can’t even boycott them. I must attend because I’m the first son of my mother, the first grandson from my mother’s side too. Sorry for the long post man, I just needed to vent. Thanks.

no need to explain to anyone about your struggles,just do you...no send wetin anybody want tell you. Always prioritise your sanity and peace of mind.

Chucks13:
Haba stop thinking these bad. Was their no killing during Buhari in other part of Nigeria especially Benue

Pls stop thinking these poor. This is not Muslim Muslim thing obasanjo raised the fulanizaton alarm long before now and that is the mission by using Islam and banditry tactics..

stop deceiving yourself. Tinubu's government is the worst in the history of Nigeria. Tinubu does not know anything about governance. He is completely clueless.

Baba na your way sure pass...abi you want go gather with people when no like you,some dey find means to even kpai you self but dem never see. No be by say you dey attend party go make dem attend your own....just have money, people will be there to show you fake love in your party.

CocaineLord:
A WHOLE LOT OF SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS GENERATION WILL END UP OLD,SINGLE,DEPRESSED,FULL OF REGRETS AND AGGRESSIVE TO MEN.

THEIR AGGESSIVENESS TO MEN WILL BE BECAUSE THEY'LL THINK MEN ARE THE PROBLEMS OF THEM NOT GETTING MARRIED.

NIGERIA IS A POVERTY CAPITAL WITH A DEMONIC ECONOMY AND A MAD MAN AS THE PRESIDENT YET ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN.

I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT BUT I WANNA ASK THEM A QUESTION.

IF ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY WANNA MARRY A RICH MAN,WHO WILL NOW MARRY THEIR BROKE,JOBLESS AND UGLY BROTHERS

TIME SHALL TELL.

The women are simply delusional...In a country where most men in their 30s and 40s can barely feed themselves,the women are having high expectations. Na Nigerian men when still dey take them seriously I blame. Even if 1 billion naira lands in my account,I will not take these women seriously. They ain't worth the stress.

SixSeven:
Men, didn't I tell you you are workers

Esther Vilar already wrote this too, in the scheming and manipulations of women...

But don't get lost in this. You still need to work hard as a man because nobody send you. It's a lonely world for an unsuccessful man. If you cry about your problems, you are seen as weak. This is also why men have to have high standards, very high standards. You cannot let women dictate to you standards they cannot achieve or maintain. Don't play those games. The other person who has proven Esther's point in recent times is Kevin. I know some of you will see my comment and think misogyny, misandry and all of that trope but those who are deep thinkers will observe that human beings are still animals. Animals in this world are in a big jungle to survive. Women are predators, they look for those with the highest number of resources and keep it. Men think they are hunting but no, it's women hunting. As a man, learn to learn how to handle women and set your standards as A MAN. Never give into women's manipulations, including your mother. Love and respect them, take care of them but don't get into their games. There is a different level of frequency you need to survive this world as a man among women and one of them is using your head to think and restraining your third leg from thinking before your brain. Once you can do that, you will see through the games and make reasonable decisions.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7578609968266382614

A man is a woman who cannot afford to be nothing less than a man. He can't pretend to be a woman.

A woman is a man who can pretend to be a woman.

The day I read "the manipulated man",my eyes opened...I urge every man to read that book and realise he has been manipulated since he was born. I pity man when never read that book.

Na mumu still dey date these women. Imagine person go just decide to carry liability join body...men dey try sha ...

Tinubu's excessive borrowing will favour me and my family.

dominique:
It's ₦2000/kg is some places.

This new price of cooking gas is favouring me and my family.

I thought she said,she doesn’t need a man

Greenodds:
It's easy for any man that was raised by a father who provided everything and didn't allow his wife work to provide for his woman. I mumu sha aa but it's only guys that weren't raised by a real man or from poor homes that would think what I did was too extreme.

Everyman has at one point in their life done foolish things for a girl. Hypocrites will laugh and judge but in secret guys like that do worse.

every bad guy today was once a simp. Nobody was born wise.it takes time and experience to learn.

WantsandMore:
"We live in a world obsessed with vindication, but as followers of Christ, we are called to a higher, narrower path. Scripture reminds us that it is far better to suffer for doing right, if that should be God’s will, than for doing wrong. In fact, when you do good and suffer for it patiently, you hold God's own approval. This is the very thing you were called to. Why? Because Christ also suffered for you, leaving an exact blueprint so that you might follow in His steps. He committed no sin, and no deceit was ever found on His lips. When He was insulted, He didn't hurl insults back. When He suffered, He didn't threaten retaliation. Instead, He surrendered His cause to the One who judges justly. When we choose patience over retaliation, we aren't losing; we are walking the exact path our Savior walked."
I hope this helps ease your mood.

bros,real life scenario no send this your epistle.continue playing.

Una still Dey help people?Helping people only make them see you as a mugu. Human being Dey terrible, just focus on yourself. Most of the enemies you have today are people you have helped before.

Audio killing.

Una still dey take woman out? Na before I dey do that nonsense,not anymore...if you no fit find me come house then dey your dey...These women no worth to spend penny on.

Ballzproblemm:
They never keep to this energy when men are gifting them ,there Nigeria men ,many of you are in a relationship with your enemy.

I have been saying this too... marriage or relationship is same as a man sleeping with his enemy.Your wife or your galfriend is your competitor and your enemy. Know this and know peace.

Thank God say my eye don open,I no fit fall for the scam call marriage.

500k na money?

The Amotekun special forces will defend us in southwest. We are safe,Peter obi is our only problem.

Ifexibe:
Even your mum's love is conditional.

very correct...some men think their sisters and mums are exempted. Make dem dey play.

Una don finally dey wake up from blue-pill programming. Nice one 👍👍👍

pocohantas:
I am not surprised. Community husbands would marry once. Marry twice. Then be back to the streets at 50+. 😂😂😂

The reason he married her in the first place was because she was an IJGB. He left his first wife to go dig gold. Instead of him to humble himself so that he can last in marriage, e carry nonsense pride enter. Now look at him? They done return am to his father's house.

Shebi e for dey with the first wife, but no...

"Men are polygamous in nature.
Men are the prize. A man's prime starts at 60yrs. He can marry an 18yo and knack her well. Men age like wine. Just have money amd women will rush you".

But na them done dey go podcast to wail.
Ngwanu, marry another one let's see.🤸‍♀️

man cheat,na man fault. Woman cheat,na still man fault...when will your gender be accountable and responsible for their actions?

ChizzyBuna:
God name done suffer for una hand
Naso one old werey say he drink Tea with God

lol...no mind that yahoo man.

Astonmartin:
Another typical example here

next time don't ask these gals "how are you?". Na there you take make mistake. That question dey attract billing.

You have learnt a vital lesson...focus on yourself,it is a cold world out here.

IronCondemned:
That was how a friend of mine stopped chatting me because whenever he ask I'll give, 10k, 5k, 10k for data, for trans.....
One day he asked and I told him that I don't have....truly I don't have that money at that time. He picked offence and stopped talking to me for almost 3 months.

We started taking later after I asked him why he stopped responding to my messages or even chatting me as he used to do....

Fast forward to February, guy man brought a business idea that I should invest in keke mini bus so that he can manage it for me in PH, my only sin is that I told him that such investment is not part of my plans for now, moreover I have other pressing issues that needs monetary attention.
Oga pick quarrel o, no be small....ontop of my own money o.

I stopped helping people for now, let me finish with myself first because if I fail to do for myself tomorrow they'll be the ones to laugh at me.

Na you get time dey befriend and chat Nigerian gal. The only thing I have to tell any Nigerian girl is come let's knack and I pay you. Anything else,count me out.

SixSeven:
Céline Dion was the 14th and youngest child in her family. Celine Dion grew up in poverty. Born in Charlemagne, Quebec, she was the youngest of 14 children in a devout, music-loving family that struggled to make ends meet.
This is not to romanticize poverty and renewed hope but who the hell are you to tell others how to live? You have the crystal ball to see what sperms and eggs are useful and useless? Thank God say man no be God.

I don't tell people how to live their lives...you can go ahead and give birth to 100kids,I don't care. The person I quoted shouldn't tell people to give birth to maintain legacy cos that's very absurd. The great philosophers, scientists and powerful people we still remember their names today didn't etch their names in history by giving birth to children.

Yorubastardz:
Atleast have a seed that continues your legacy.

what fvckin legacy are you talking about...wake up to reality, if you don't want the world to forget you better do something extraordinary with your life else you will be forgotten even if you had 100 children. For 2026,Una still get this achaic mindset.

Life of a man...Now that this guy is no more, everyone now suddenly remembers him like they cared. If he had come out to say what he was going through before death, many would have blamed, mocked and called him names. A man is only remembered when he is winning or when he is dead.

EnglishUsa:
This thing has shown me shege, some people will think is just a ordinary talk.
Someone I called my friend duped me

Una still dey get friendThe earlier you realise you are on your own in this wicked world,the better for you.