₦airaland Forum

Newsmills:
Don't die out of ignorance,the problem with you is a very minor issue,you are the one escalating it in nairaland,the solution is not far fetched,your hands are closed up and you are close fisted,you refused to date somebody around the compound,or get married the story will nosedive,pokenosers will vanish into thin air.

see the advice you dey give self...He should date someone around the compound?he would be trapping himself by doing so. You want to change your lifestyle because of what neighbours would say? I never see any neighbour when fit make me change my lifestyle because of am. Op should just mind his business and stop explaining himself to anyone. Na why I like my kind of person,e no get any neighbour when I no fit handle.

Op self you get mind to dey snap and report this kind thing. E be like you no know say na Nigeria you dey. Continue playing.

Awalokan government will favour me and my family.

Techpik:
Happy Sunday guys, this have accusation of labeling me yahoo guy in the compound have happened on many occasions during compound meeting, side talks etc.

But I’m not to be sincere I’m a freelance website developer working from home, I have worked for lots of people even on this nairaland, within Nigeria and abroad at the comfort of my home.

What use to trigger this labeling is because most of my neighbors go out in the morning and come at night and I’m always indoor (at home) living good.

So this have been causing side talks and even confrontations from some neighbors.

Most times I have been explaining and try to prove to them, that I’m a freelance website developer that I worked from home.

Before anybody will think the same on nai.raland, you can check me on google Techpik and all social medias and my site.

You will even see good reviews from people I have completed projects for.

I also need your advice guys, to deal with those neighbors.

stop explaining yourself to anybody...you don't owe your neighbours any explanation how you chose to live your life...na you bleep up by explaining to them. Make your money and keep a low profile. Even if you move to another apartment,you are likely to face this kind of issues especially in average neighborhoods,unless you change the way you relate with people.

3kay945:
Oh, thanks for your conclusion.

When it is said, you cant understand that gender many seems not to comprehend the phrase.

if you understand women,you cannot love them. If you love women,you cannot understand them.

3kay945:
So you don quickly conclude someone is better inlaw based on little discussion una had ?



Bros, there is more to marriage o. You will know whatsup after 5 - 7yrs.

women when Sabi pretend very well. Him go learn with time.

SnoppyG:
If only i know what i know right now, i won't marry. marriage na stress and it doesn't favour men. so many things to endure to make it work. you won't understand until u go into it

The bolded were the exact words my colleague told me years ago.

fyneboi79:
I had also been married for 10 years and I saw hell, before I regained my freedom out of sheer luck...if I ever hear marriage again ehh

Nb: For all those saying if you marry right abi you marry wrong.....there is nothing like marry wrong or right because for any marriage to survive then the man must always act the fool.

This right here is the key point. Every woman na the same, nothing like right or wrong. It takes a blind man to get married.

muyico:
Nigeria police
Is capital offend
They will milking him dry!
Ordinary buying stolen, Button phone, my neighbour spent close to 1m, b4 dey release am!!

What the Bleep menh

Naira is not on the list because naira started performing badly before 2025. The list is specifically for the year 2025.

Wetin Una still dey find inside relationship...oloshos are better and cheaper.

The police is your friend.

Person when suppose dey house dey play with him grand children,dey here dey stress himself because of greed.

Na drink,smoke and drug still Dey keep many men going. Remove these things from a man’s life and he would see no reason to keep living. Men when no Dey smoke,drink or do drug;how Una take Dey cope for this Nigeria?

Yahoo man that claimed he drank tea with God. It takes a high level of ignorance to listen to this man.

Agba Yahoo

Prayer is a waste of time. There is nobody out there incharge of answering prayers.

Bahamas95:
The reason we know about this is because she's popular.

No man should make the mistake of going to church with the mind of getting a virtuous woman, just have it at the back of your mind your mission is 50-50.

There are no virtuous women in churches...what we have there are bunch of pretenders looking for men to trap.

willi926:
You see women, leave them. 🤣😂😂. Men no need stress there time concerning them. Just focus on what brings you the money and do your thing. No be Tonto wey here head dey hot be this, now all calm and singing lullaby for churchhill the 4 minutes man🤣😂.

Real men no dey take women seriously. Dem no get levels. After all the shaming,she still went back to her vomit. Take women seriously at your peril.

Fiscus105:
Easier thou do, .......if she wants to marry by next week, she can make it happen.

I doubt if you know how difficult for a lady of 25, who is also not famous to get married, let alone, a madam of 34, who is very popular rich.

Sure, 7k guys might be disturbing her on social media and 3k offline.....the big question is, how many are ready to walk her to the Isle? She will struggle to count 1.

Try to go to HND 1 students or 300 level university students, 90% of them already jittery about their tomorrows marital issues.

Guys don't want to marry again, not even when holes, are more than readily available, couple with economy bites.

You may do coconut head ooo, by claiming people are marrying daily. Yes they do marry, but what is the percentage?

Do the research yourself,... number of Ur own females family, who are supposed to marry by now but still struggling, next go to ur church and count, before your age mates.

Many are still living in delusion that there are many men out there that want to marry them. Make dem just dey play...e go soon clear for their eye.

KingDashx:
Marry Edo girls at your own risk.

Omo,e get as Edo women take dey. I no fit try am.

Pmoney0123:
U no witness anything, go close to that man if him confuse wetin that woman dey do for house u go pity am.
Woman na woman nothing change
De same pvssy
Same hole 🕳️
Abi that good wife get two pvssy and two hole 🕳️?
Brother man Prepaire urself well before u married anywoman.
If una date na different characters o
But once she don be ur wife 😔😂
Born 2 childrens
Na another characters go show up o
To me no good woman 👩
Na God knows why Him created woman for man.
Where man Dey reason how things go dey okay
Woman own no be so o, no good wife again na demons and blood sucker for outside.

The bolded is the absolute truth. There is no good woman out there. Only few men have come this realisation.

Precious201010:
But many of them have wayward children, leaving all you have stolen for in the hands of wayward children is as good as losing all.....

just dey play ... Everybody get him life to live. Politicians are living their best lives,who cares if some of their children turn wayward?

Scorpion no dey kill na.


Hjkjj

Tinubu is favouring me and my family.

Tinubu is favouring me and my family.

Una still dey get friends? Some lessons will have to be learnt the hard way.

This report is economical with the truth. Only Less than 30% of the population of the south west are free from drugs.

Diamond098454:
There are beautiful sweet girls everywhere

For where dem dey

Wealthbrain22:
Women don’t appreciate men enough and for that I don’t think they deserve my attention anymore. I’m just cold towards them now, no more flirting or playing or whatever..all they get is a straight face. Why?

There’s a very unfair reality we men live in, we are expected to be superheroes. Nobody cares how we make it in life but you must have a car or a house or something before any woman will want to take you serious. The funny thing is that these women have no idea what we go through to get these things, the blood and sweat and tears that led to the car or house is none of their business but you must have it to “deserve” their attention.

Now you would think after getting all these things all these girls will make things easier on you but no, you still have to prove your worth to them, you still have to “sweep them off their feet” you still have to wait in line and be played before you even manage to get a good one who’s not really good anyway but it’s still better than the others. Women will still make you “suffer” to get their “love” (mind you their love is fake anyway, it’s just them giving you their attention for providing all their needs) that’s what a woman’s love is defined as. Now you have literally broken you back to become a millionaire and yet you still get played by girls? You still have to impress girls? After fighting for your life to get all these material possessions? You’re still being considered and weighed in the grand scheme of things? Na that gender can fvck off.

I brought one to my house , and upon everything I have that I took years to get the bitch was still not impressed, things that cost me millions, gadgets and everything. That gender deserves all the evil yahoo boys do to them, they have no empathy for the male struggle, they are incapable of ever loving any man, they are extremely selfish and pretentious. I’m good at this point, at least I don’t get to be “considered “ after all I put in to get to this financial level. A female without up to 20k in her account will now be “considering” me? God forbid, if I toast any babe again make I bend.

welcome to freedom. These women don’t deserve the attention you give to them. Attention is currency so use it wisely.

Whoever is preaching obedience wants to control you...Refuse to be in any form of mental bondage and be free. Your mind is your greatest asset,do not allow anyone use it for you.

mayorkent:
i am 29,but i just feel that this generation is different from my moms, How do i tell a girl that has dated a man that gives her 500k monthly allowance, or the one that picks mint of 200k upwards at clubs every friday, that i want us to build a future together... either im broke or to see sensible girl for this era na impossible task.
Hookup and sugar daddyism don finish this generation.
the kind of complain way people way marry day give ... i just day fear ...

Marriage is now obsolete. It's a gamble you can not afford.