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She: I cannot continue like this, you can see that we fight and argue everyday....Its affecting my health

Me: OK

She: Is that all that you have to say?

ritylove:
I am a very gregarious or rather should i say a social individual,i keep alot of company but my actual real friends circle is pretty small,i actually never bought this male bestie of a thing from the onset because i felt it was thrash and irrelevant to me, i was satisfied with my girlfriends around,but during my 100 level in the university there was this particular guy i met then i was still a fresher i never knew much about the school he helped me alot with my clearance,getting a place to stay,showing me around school with alot of stuffs too numerous to mention here.

As time goes on suprisingly we started getting very close much more closer than i ever expected he was very nice and caring to me,sometimes he acts like my dad he is the only male friend i have who dares scold me in my wrong doings as time goes on before i could even realize it he was the closest to me among all my friends he was always there for me when i needed someone even when i dont he was there. We became so close i started confiding in him alot,i even told him stuffs i cant tell my mum we got so close he knows almost everything about me,everyone av dated,whom am dating,my breakups,my sex life,my kind of guy,my attitude towards dating,how i reason, even before saying something he has an idea of what am about to say,this guy knows my girlcode to the freaking core there is hardly anything i can hide from him,he has being of great assistance to me always forcing me to read my books and forget social medias,the truth is that he is the major reason for my drastic improvement academically, i was always at the receiving end,there is hardly anything i do for him yet he stayed i realized i needed him more than he needed me.


it all started few days ago as usual we just left from an eatery store heading back home he decided to drop by my place to charge his pc which he was using for his finals project work since there area had light issues,fast forward to when we got home there it goes we were talking as usual then all of a sudden he started saying stuffs how he feels about me all this while but only kept it to himself after hearing him speak for almost 3hours i was totally confused i didnt say anything i just starred at him the whole time till he finished ,noticing my silience he then asked me what i had to say about what i just heared,i had no idea on what to say i was totally confused i have never seen him this serious my entire life,in an attempt to escape the moment and look on his face i told him to give me sometime to dissolve all what i have heard after which he left.

Now am put in one of the most difficult situations i have ever being he is a very nice person,one of the nicest guys i have met yet he treats me better than anyone else, he treats me better than anyone am dating words can hardly explain i like him alot but i dont think i love or have any feelings or so for him this a guy who waited almost 4yrs to ask me out,a guy who knows me better than all my friends,i feel this guy knows too much and am scared he might use that against me one way or the other after all he has done for me i feel i owe him more, i cant look him in the eyes and tell him that i dont love him,i dont want to hurt his feelings and i dont want to loose him either cux he is my bestfriend i dont want to look like the bad person in front of everyone else but pleasing him here means displeasing myself i dont know what to do anymore cux i dont want to hurt anyones feeling, have being avoiding his calls and text cux i dont know what to say please i need a sincere and modest advice here what can i do in this situation i dont want anyones feelings getting hurt.

Love is not just about romantic feeling... If you cannot date your bestie, you think your enemy is any better.

If he didn't use any of your secrets against you in 4yrs, what gives you the impression that he ll start when you start dating him. Your reason for not dating him is based on not having romantic affection for him. Relationship is way more than that anyway

kimbraa:
I don't understand. It doesn't seem like he has even stayed up to a month, and you're already complaining of privacy. I think he's going through a lot and a good friend would be understanding. I'm not trying to blackmail you whatsoever, I just think you shouldn't spoil the goodness you've started. Your best option is getting him tell you the state of things, and how long he would be staying.

Madam, na money matter o.....npower salary is 30k. I m sure if he's contributing to the daily expenses he won't chase him

Babyforever:
Just in case he needs a girlfriend I'm interested can't wait to smash him

**smash her head on the wall** After all that's what she want

Hanger

Duru1:
The bolded meant you are very naïve. Ajibade is the butt of the joke on this team.

Ode! That's best young African player of the year back to back. Already playing with the Senior team

mjbaba:
The last guy is still a nobody, that's why he wasn't tagged. Lesson. Dont be a nobody

olodo, that's @peju_a

Sapiosexuality:
40k/100 by 200? Why do this when we are not talking in percentages? Your English teacher sef. Smh.

Understanding is far from you

Nairatrend:
cc; lalasticlala

cc Dominique

Amaka disappoint me....But Iyeneke confusion

Omotoke is becoming.... Yoruba amaka

Gullah:
Not shot on target yet 15 minutes into the game, I hope your prediction will not come to pass o

I followed this team from U17 2years ago, no improvement at all. Only Ajibade make sense small

Daviddson:
Very good. When I saw the hype on Nairaland about the song, I decided to temporarily download it to see the message it was really trying to pass across, only for me to see that it's nonsense.
The main line "Everybody bi criminal" is very inappropriate, and the guy deciding to appear bare-chested is also indecent. He could have appeared that way in other releases without it being tagged wrong, but he should have lived up to his "message" in that song, by being dressed properly. I'm never a fan of Fela's music or lifestyle.

We like to deceive ourselves in this country...... Evil prevails when people keep quiet or deny the facts. I put it to you that "you bi criminal" directly or indirectly. If you understand what afro beat is all about, you won't criticize falz not putting on any top

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
But the Indian guy never said anything about you being a Nigerian. Op is jumping into conclusions.

yet he was busy apologising..... Use your tongue to count your teeth

Only one station playing all those bad songs
Their staff must be vulgar too

No shot will be on goal as usual

mrvitalis:
400k

wrong

Sapiosexuality:
Guys, how will this increase affect salary earners? If you are earning about 200k and the minimum was increased by 40, does it mean that your new salary becomes 240k or it only affects the salary of the lowest level?

Your maths teacher no try

Increment = 40/100 * 200 = 80k

New salary = 200 + 80 = 280k

We need baby naming ceremony not wedding annivasary.... Show us your baby

In Doctore's voice: Kill them all!

The kind Pastors redeemed are churning out these days

All for the cheda

Heavy duty

F9 meta...olodo, MATHCHEMBIO for that matter

Even with wizkid, his career refused to rise again

Our playstore is no longer safe

boay:
CORRUPTION ALERT!
Npower beneficiaries in Zuru Local Government Area of Kebbi state are being forced to pay a sum of NGN100 before they can be given their deployment letters. There are about 890 beneficiaries in the local government. 890x100=89,000. The beneficiaries are currently collecting their deployment letters with a sum of NGN100 because the deadline for the upload of deployment letters is Friday 10th. The issuance of deployment letters started today 8/8/2018 around 12noon. I am an eye witness and a beneficiary. I left the venue because I don't want to pay


Moderator, move to front page.....

common N100.....go and pay jare, stingy thing

Ogbeni and constituted authority..... See your life outside

Orla234:
Y'all should stop promoting this confused dude already. It's becoming super irritating

Atimes, there is money in nonsense

Bobrisky right now...