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drehdinho:
A lady was introduced to me by a street sister after I mentioned that I was in search of a serious relationship. I gave a clear list of my requirements, among which were that she must be gainfully employed and of good character.

Two days ago, the sister finally shared the contact of the lady she found for me. I was hopeful, thinking she would at least meet 80% of my criteria.

When I initiated a conversation with the lady, I asked about her educational background. She told me she was a secondary school drop-out. I didn’t judge her immediately, I wanted to hear more and not jump to conclusions.

So, I asked what steps she had in mind to upgrade herself. She said she wanted to go into business and gave a rough estimate of ₦3.5 million as startup capital.

Still, I wasn’t discouraged. I told her that if I were to invest in the business, I would hold 60% of the company while she holds 40%. My reason was simple: I wanted her to be accountable and run the business with a sense of ownership.

To my surprise, she rejected the idea. She said she wanted 100% ownership because she is “trustworthy” and that I could observe her for one year to see if she wouldn’t mismanage the business.

I let that conversation slide.

Then, a few days later, during another conversation, I asked her what she was bringing to the table in the relationship. Her response? Just “prayer.” 😂

At this point, I started enjoying the conversation ,not because I was impressed, but because her responses were becoming increasingly ridiculous.

I asked her another question: How much do you think we would need per month to live as husband and wife?
Her answer: ₦1 million.

I asked her to break it down. She couldn’t. She just kept rambling and listing irrelevant things with no clarity or structure.

This morning, she called me via WhatsApp video. While we were talking, the call ended. I tried calling her back, but the video didn’t connect. I noticed she was typing, so I waited.

Next thing I saw was: “My data got exhausted.”

From the very beginning, I knew I was way above her standard , intellectually, financially, and in life exposure. But I decided to subject her brain to an intelligent conversation to prove a point: most of these broke ladies have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer.

To my fellow hustling men who have sacrificed and worked hard to become something in life , please don’t settle for women like this. Look out for women who have built themselves to a meaningful stage in life.

I have two degrees. I’m a lawyer. And here is a lady, a secondary school drop-out , who thinks, in her oblivion, that she can hook a man of my calibre.

I called the sister who introduced her and clearly told her never to bring such people my way again.

I know how this kind of story ends: you help them build a life, and the moment they start seeing a little change, you’ll see their true colours. Many of them think the only thing they need to offer in life is their body.

I’ve cut off communication with her already, and I’m planning to block her on WhatsApp.

Her unreasonable thought process completely turned me off. So many ridiculous ideas. It’s just mentally exhausting.

Penguin2:
Kwankwaso is more popular than Shettima by far!

And Kwankwaso’s state alone can almost cancel out what opposition candidate can muster in the entire Northeast (Shettima’s zone).

But the big question is, will Kano voters vote for a Tinubu/Kwankwaso ticket just because Kwankwaso defected to APC? Are Kano voters that daft? I guess not.

It’s like expecting Ndi Anambra or Southeast to vote for Tinubu because Peter Obi defected to APC. Because as popular as Peter Obi is, one wrong step will kill all of his popularity in the entire Southeast in 24hrs.

But maybe it’s not like that in Kano. Maybe Kano people are easily led by their noses and told where to thumbprint.

But all this simply betrays one thing - that Tinubu is scared to his pampers. While his supporters litter here saying things to excite themselves, Tinubu knows that the reality on ground says something different.

In 2027, those defecting to APC won’t attract much votes to Tinubu; especially in the Southsouth. You would be daft to think Tinubu will win Delta because the governor defected.

AMINDA:
Akpabio is just like any other typical sycophant with loud noise and exaggerated influence. Atiku won Akwa Ibom in 2023.

kedeojo:
Those vote was a result of fear the most Christian had for APC Muslim Muslim ticket which obi and his desperate people over stressed and thinking they can use it enter Aso rock. It backfired in the core north who are majorly Muslims and they voted massively for the APC ticket. If Obi you said he is the biggest politician today, he should not be looking for coalition with Atiku and co he called structure of criminality. If to you he get 6m because of his popularity then he should able to get 10m vote in 2027. He knows if he contest alone, he will struggle to get 3m votes. Northern Christian vote has already gone to Tinubu, so think about it.

ALTERNATEID:
The same Peter Obi or which one? you guys joke too much i swear

fergie001:
https://guardian.ng/politics/2027-coalition-to-formally-adopt-adc-wednesday/

ALTERNATEID:
That Peter Obi is a tag along member of the coalition is not the issue, the question is, will Peter Obi emerge as the presidential candidate of the coalition?

EvilMerodack:
You understand politics more than all these Governors that are defecting, right?

Who would have thought APC would win Edo Gov election just last year, after than massive turnup for LP in 2023


Just dey online dey do Maths, others go dey show workings offline

Spandau:
Yeah, he will get votes from other Ibos living outside of the SE. Maximum number of votes overall can't be more than 3 million. Obi was a flash in the pan. A product of opportunism. Nothing more. And he knows it. That's why he's been desperately trying to maintain relevance by his cho cho cho, mourning up and down, while someone like Atiku only speaks when it's absolutely necessary. Obi has tried so much to induce persecution and arrest from Tinubu to make himself a martyr but you see how the president has consistently ignored his antics. His popularity is dwindling badly and there's nothing he can do to stop it.

success1smyn:
Do not assume bro, I follow politics even before this 4th republic, I have said it times without number that Obi is a regular politician. Yes he might be a beautiful bride today, but he is yet to prove he can do anything different. And what I don't like is people adding emotions to politics. Natasha, Obi, Sowore etc are regular politicians who can do anything to stay relevant.

Cheers

onadana:
Get Wike out of the party,get Atiku out of the party and see PDP revamped.They are cancerous cankerworms eating the party from within.

femi4:
Even in civil service..na wa oooooooooooooo, no gender is left out

success1smyn:
You are a fan of Peter Obi, there is nothing bad about that, stop denying oga.

Spandau:
Thank God that at least you are not deceiving yourself. You know he won't win. This time, the only vote that he will get is going to be from the SE. And it will not be more than 2 million.

Rekyz:
You dey respond to that ignorant folk. Someone who has no capacity to think logically

Victor468:
You are still dreaming in 2023. We have passed that year long ago. The frenzy and hype upon which Peter Obi rode in 2023 is long gone. He has consistently lied over the last 2 years about most things he said. He is now ready to sign an agreement with the devil just to become president and some of you don't see anything wrong with that. Please whoever knows Obi or have direct contact with him should go and tell him that the vow he made to Ojukwu never to leave APGA will continuously hunt him to his death. He can only become President under APGA not any other party. He will continuously fail at every attempt he makes even if he defects to APC..

Mastadestiny:
It's unfortunate my ex wife told me everything written up there. Even more. Ifeoma, wherever you're. Whatever you're doing, I won't ever forgive you. We shall meet again

Meektunz:
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Lanretoye:
Even in the east,if elections were to be conducted within the eastern states,Obi will not still win

Activa1:
https://thenationdigest.com/2025/06/28/ventolin-now-%E2%82%A618000-nigerians-react-to-drug-price-surge/?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwLPehVleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHsHwFdsRpTuT9RHRyJ16rD6MGl-dl0xpYLCUCnXihl6pApMsIqa6sxOG6IHo_aem_9h234eycZyVagyfiuxCCxA

Image123:
He's playing psychology on you, but the message is clear. Edo is getting more APC votes in 2027, they now have an APC governor. Please be reasonable and realistic, not emotional.

Image123:
https://x.com/StatiSense/status/1939401221934137646?t=d6eQdiejDxI2LqEN_2_JcA&s=19[/quote]thanks for posting this and reminding them.one goat from edo state said he will give tinubu 2.5m votes in 2027.all the people when go come vote that day fit no even reach 500k.

BlessedGift:
Edo Will Deliver 2.5m Votes For Tinubu In 2027 — Governor Okpebholo

sailor2011:
LoL...😁😁😁you guys fail to know that it is not about winning a state , rather it is about delivering at least 25percent of total votes for PBAT ...wake up and smell the coffee

frankson1:
But you believe that Atiku, El rufai and Amaechi are going to deal with Tinubu

Tupacx:
The reason they couldn't win their states in 2023 was because they was a federal government led by Buhari's cabal who was confused on who to support. They didn't want Tinubu.

Now you have a Tinubu les federal government that will give the governor's all the federal support and federal might during the election

frankson1:
Obi wasn't mad when he was defecting from one party to another

I love the tears, keep them coming

lexxybb:
My guy, you've said it all, iPhone is a luxury and meant for those who can afford it. There are cheaper options in android that can still deliver what most people need from a phone at a relatively cheaper price. My take is that most people that buy iPhone, buys it to show that they belong to a class

mp3ree:
Na you no know politics.Who's going to count the votes or announce the results?the voters?you?or the appointed rec? Who appoints the rec and supervises? Dey display ignorance.

Axis313:

Of course they are the billionaires.
Whether the money is ill-gotten or not.