jeffmatt4u:
I have this Zambia babe I have been chatting with on facebook. We kind of dating, she is very in-love with me bcoz she call almost everyday both on video call and all.
Now she wants me to come over to Zambia promising to help in securing admission at her school (university of Zambia) for me by next year. she is a medical student . And she is damn serious.
So my people, how do you see this?
Is it a good idea moving to Zambia?

Use your head... No go make major life change based on love. Apply logic and think things through, not acting on feelings

That's all

Threesha:
Lies Nigerians fall for in relationships

1. Iya wo wa
2. . Let's see how it goes am not ready for a serious relationship
3. S/he's just my friend
4. I am getting a divorce
5. Just the "tip"

Add yours

You got that right OP, lol

Close

Kajaard:


Yeah and that's why South Africa has the highest rate of AIDS in Africa. See how stupid you ended up sounding while trying to appear woke. Rubbish.

With high number of teenage pregnancies and single mothers here and there you might also add please

Finally

Wetin be this again now?? Kai

Shey na discussion be this abi utter rubbish
Who is bankrolling these nonsense making fb this night sef

Them suppose put sponsored post at the end of this write-up

Because warris dis??

Demigod22:


You have made a great decision. Have that abundance mentality that you can't be disrespected in a relationship. You can't settle for less. No one should love you out of pity. If we must date, we have to come to a compromise, cheating is not an option for me.

Exactly bruv
That is just it!

Demigod22:
That video deserves Oscar nomination.

Cheating is never a mistake, it's a habit, a choice, a dishonest act and indiscipline. Instead of cheating on me, why not end the relationship if I can't satisfy you.

I met someone who by all indication was in love with me. It was too clear, even to a third party observer...

But she was a serial cheat. And probably being the first time I'm experiencing that personally... I just couldn't come to terms with why on earth would you be a serial cheat??

And of course, I can't put up with cheats talk more of someone who does it like a sport. I had to state my terms clear - I can't put up with a cheat and stand my grounds

A hoë's a höe man. It is what it is.
I agree with you on this

Optimism is good, pessimism too isn't always negativity

But which should you go for to keep things balanced - realism

saphiere:
From the article, there is no where the accused said she stabbed him and No evidence.

Bloggers and lies.

Because you saw someone in a house doesn't mean she killed.

This woman should sue them.

Oga o

If it was the other way round, I wonder if you would have been so quick to say this, that's even if you would have said the same if the roles were reversed

So much hate
God heal you

QuinModah:

Good morning to you...

Have I said something not accurate?
Pretty sure there's no one in Nigeria who's not heard the phrase 'anything you say can be used against you in the court of law' including useless talks wey some women pride themselves in

Na only recording of some of the things wey you talk go nail you for court...

How about emotional abuse, Johnny depp and amber heard case is a typical example of how abuses of any kind could get you in trouble and work against you in court...

Let's face it, abuse is abuse, period...

You can't sow the wind and not want to reap the whirlwind. You keep on dishing abuses and expect peaceful reactions? Nah, one way or the other the subject of the abuse will get tired of bullshît

"age is a factor, money is not; social media is a factor and structure is not”

This should be framed!

Abeg does sleeping late indicate good health now?? You sleep 4am, wake up 10am - solid six hours of sleep

How does this negate the 80 travels to the UK, USA and France on health grounds in 2021 alone??

You start sounding stupid when you're trying too hard to promote an unpresentable candidate in the name of money

Immediately I saw the ad for the first time, I knew something was off and I just stopped... I also knew it could be true tho' but economic situation no even let me reason say I wan verify to donate...

I still saw the video ad multiple times tho and I wasted no time skipping them

Now we're wiser...

One thing that was off for me was absence of credibility... No credible company was standing behind them. If it was the UN, or UNICEF or one credible organization sha, it'd have been more believable

Plus I saw it been scripted, just a hunch tho'

Plus, we've seen this kinds of promotions over and over in Nigeria, from the hawker without legs to one talented but disabled person to well planned ploy for sympathies and all sort

It is well sha

We don learn one format be that... It means not every social media ad can be trusted. (I've had one experience with FB ads tho')

If it's a clean result, it's impressive