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If this happened in Nigeria, that girl will be beaten by onlookers to pulp

What kind of sexual culture will this coming generation have. This is so sad. What kind of children are this.
Am starting to suspect some of this young children will be trying to seduce even adult , especially the young girls,

If them carry gun shoot you now, I no go worry, she snatch your husband for dream , so you come spoil her life.

This ffk man can write really good

According to Governor Yari of Zamfara state in north western Nigeria the north has been afflicted with all manner of diseases and epidemics, including meningitis, as a consequence of their many sins against Allah.
According to Acting President Yemi Osinbajo the northern states "have the highest infant and maternal mortality rates in the country, the lowest rate of child enrolment in schools, the highest number of unemployed young people, the highest levels of poverty and faces the challenge of inter-ethic and inter-religious conflict including the Boko Haram terrorism.”
All these daunting challenges, disturbing facts and alarming statistics and instead of putting their house in order the Arewa Youth Coalition not only threaten the Igbo with mass murder and genocide and order them to leave the north by October 1st but they have also gone a step further by insulting the Yoruba and accused us of being "serial traitors" and of "trying to impose Osinbajo on Nigeria as President".
This is the same Osinbajo that has bent over backwards to appease them, that has taken all their insults and provocations and that has resolved to accept the fact that he is more a co-ordinator of government affairs than an Acting President.
I really do wonder what these young northerners really want?
They issue quit notices to fellow Nigerians and they are still going about freely and with AK47 and daggers stained with the blood of their innocent compatriots.
They issue statements insulting their compatriots by calling them ungrateful backstabbers even after stabbing and butchering them to death .
They tell the world that Yoruba Muslims are not real Muslims and that they will never allow them to lead in prayers in the mosque.
I ask again what do these young northerners really want?
Do they really believe that the rest of us are interested in THEIR Nigeria anymore? To many the unity of Nigeria is not sacrosanct and neither do we insist on it at the cost of our lives, our future, our self-respect and our dignity.
This position has been confirmed and re-affirmed by the General Alani Akinrinade-led Yoruba Assembly, the Odua People's Congress, the Odua Liberation Movement and Afenifere itself.
We may love Nigeria but we are not prepared to sacrifice our liberty on the alter as a sacrifice to her gods and neither are we prepared to be treated like animals or a people that have no history or do not know where they are coming from. The Yoruba culture and race are irresistable and irrepressable.
The influence and power of the ancient Yoruba empire and people stretches from South America, the Carribean, West Africa, various parts of western Europe and other parts of the world till today.
We come from an ancient lineage of empire and tradition which is thousands of years old and which pre-dates Christianity and Islam. We are well-educated, focused and strong.
We have never been conquered in battle and we have never lost a war to a foreign aggressor or usurper. We are slow to anger but irresistable in battle.
We are a proud and noble race from an illustrious and royal heritage: se bow to no other. That is who and what we are.
If Nigeria remaining one means that we must live as slaves and serfs whilst the north laud it over us and insult us every day then we say let her break and let us go our separate ways before we kill each other.
It is only in this country that those with a blood-lust, the perverted, the depraved, the lazy, the parasitic, the barren, the poor and the dieseased insist on leading and ruling over the peace-loving, the sane, the wholesome, the righteous, the generous, the kind, the accomodating, the hard-working, the productive, the prosperous and the healthy.
In view of these racist, divisive and provocative rantings and sentiments from the northern youths (which in my view have the tacit support and backing of their traditional rulers, political elite, trusted leaders and reverred elders) those of us from other parts of the country must wake up,

THE CRY OF THE ALMAJIRI (PART 1)

On June 27th 2017 in Daura, Katsina State one Tanko Abdullahi and one Mohammed Shehu, after a meeting of the Arewa Youth Council, issued the following statement. They said,

“We are very much aware that all the attacks against President Muhammadu Buhari were planted in the media by the Yoruba and spread by southerners generally just to discredit the north in order to pave way for their son, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo to become President.

But their plans will fail insha Allah. We shall resist every of such plans and ensure by all means possible, that the north completes its eight-year tenure and possibly even continue after then, and that the federal structure of Nigeria as it currently is, is not tampered with by secession mongers and their collaborators.

Having given power to the Yoruba on a platter of gold in 1999 as a way of compensating them for the June 12 saga, it is quite worrisome and unfortunate that they have lived up to their legendary reputation of backstabbing and betrayal by supporting the divisive calls for restructuring or dismemberment of the nation against the will and desire of the north.

We gave the late Chief MKO Abiola the mandate in 1993 but shortly after that, as it is with the Yoruba as a culture, they immediately started circling around Abiola plotting on how to emasculate the north and strip us of every access we had to the politics and economy of this nation.

They had also raised a secret army of their elites to carry out these sinister plans against the north if Abiola eventually became President. It was this army that was unleashed on the nation in the guise of NADECO during the June 12 impasse.

May we remind the Yoruba that without the willingness and magnanimity of the north, there was no way Abiola could have purportedly won that election, and that all the Yoruba have now as assets in the south west, especially Lagos, were given to them by our leaders out of our own usual magnanimity.

However, time and time again, the Yoruba have always turned their back on us whenever their support is needed. They have chosen to pitch tent with the Igbo this time around just to spite us, but we shall not succumb to their antics".



Their words are laced with hate, fuelled by ignorance, filled with contempt, propelled by hubristic pride and garnished with the arrogance of Atilla the Hun: indeed they have spoken like the true almajiris that they are.

Meanwhile let us look at the facts.

12 million children are out of school in Nigeria. Out of the 12 million, 10 million are from the north whilst Kano state alone has 3 million beggars.

Nigeria has the highest number of young girls suffering from Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF) in the world. And 90 per cent of those young girls are from the north.

According to the UNDP 72 per cent of northern Nigerians are living below the poverty line.

According to UNICEF if Nigeria were to ever break up the core north would be the poorest and most barren place on the African continent.


According to Nasir El Rufai, the Governor of Kaduna state in northern Nigeria, if the north-western zone of the country were to ever find itself on its own it would be poorer and more ravaged by war than Afghanistan.

According to the World Terror Index Boko Haram and the Fulani militias are the first and fourth "most deadly terrorist organisations in the world" respectively and they both come from northern Nigeria.

According to UNESCO 65 million Nigerians, which represents 50 per cent of the total population!) are stark illiterates and 55 million of them are from the north.

According to UNICEF the heartland and base of pedophiia, child sex, child slavery and child marriage on the African continent is northern Nigeria.

According to President Donald Trump of the United States of America "northern Nigeria is one of the most dangerous places for Christians to live in the world.

Pls, keep praying, don't lose hope.

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"[/b]All through the period I was pronounced dead,all I could see were doctors on white performing a surgery on me"

Some people will not concentrate while reading, [b] This is a pure miracle. Glory to Jesus

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Daniel2289:
I actually concur with you.

I agree too, pls tell him ,

sarrki:
Anyman that beats a woman is a clown and if low self esteem

Women who close their mouth don't get beaten ------ Dr dk olukoya.

What did she say or do ?

2buffagain:
Kai some women sha.

Sounds like you need to sit that bitch down and have a candid discussion.

Don't call someone,s wife a bitch na, na wa for you.

This looks like a family pattern, you will need to pray, I advice you go to Mfm prayer city for advice and prayers.

vanemo:
DeaNairalanders, I am a regular on this forum but had to create a new moniker to post this.


Growing up, my father was abusive and hit my mum occasionally. I grew up seeing my mum suffer domestic violence. Eventually, my father abandoned us when I was 9 and moved in with another woman. My mum never remarried. She just focused on my upbringing and raised me alone without my father. My father just didn't care anymore after he left and didn't contribute a dime to my upbringing after he left despite efforts made by friends and family to make him take care of his responsibilities towards me.
After sometime, my mum left everything in the hands of God and focused on catering for me without minding my father.
This made me vow not to ever hit a woman not to talk of my wife because I saw firsthand how my mum suffered and it would be a shame for me to make another woman pass through the same thing my mother passed through.
I also vowed to do all within my power to keep my family one and give my kids the fatherly love I was denied as I know the negative effects of a broken home on children.
Mine is different because I have a God fearing, intelligent and hardworking mother who played the role of both father and mother in bringing me up.

Fast forward to now, I am married with a daughter. Met my wife in 2012 and we have been together ever since.
Now, my wife is a very sweet lady who has stood by me through thick and thin even when business was down sometime ago, she was there for me. Things were so bad that we could barely feed but surprisingly, she stood by me and supported me with prayers and she was even the breadwinner for about 4 months till things got better for me.
For this, I praise her a lot and cherish her for this. I am sure she loves me with her whole heart and I can say to some extent that we are happy together.

Now, the problem is that she takes me for granted sometimes and shows some lack of respect towards me which I am finding it hard to tolerate.
For example:

1. She knows I don't eat pepper. But, occasionally she would prepare meals laced with copious amounts of pepper and pass it for me to eat. This has been happening since 2013 and most times, I get angry and refuse to eat the food. 3 weeks ago, she did the same thing and for one week, I refused to eat her food despite her pleadings. Later, I forgave her and things went back to normal.

2. Sometimes, if she is going somewhere and I tell her to help me do something or buy something for me around the area where she is going to, she would always find an excuse not to do what I asked her to do. It has happened often that I have lost confidence in her.
Last week, she was going somewhere and I gave her some money and some herbal medication to give to a sick friend who lives in that area. To my chagrin, she came back without delivering the message telling me stories of why she couldn't find time to go to my friend's place.

3. This evening, she mentioned that she needed extra 300k to boost her business. This is after I had given her 600k which she asked for initially and another 200k which I didn't budget for. Our house rent is expiring in July and I have to renew it plus other expenses that are lined up. I tried explaining to her that I can't spare 300k now and we had a heated exchange. To my chagrin, she walked out on me and even when I called her back, she didn't listen to me. This is not the first time this kind of a thing is happening.

In all of this, I have never raised my hand to hit her since we met in 2012 all because of my vow never to hit a woman in my life. In the above 3 examples, I have been really tempted to break this vow but I am glad I got hold of myself.
I have told her several times that the day she will push me to the wall and I start hitting her, I would never stop and she will be the one to suffer it. I also told her that if we are to ever separate r divorce, it will never be my fault because I am pro family and I am ready to do all it takes to keep my family together and make sure my kids are brought up with their dad and mum under one roof.

I know within myself that I can never hit her no matter what but on the other hand, I can't tolerate living with a lady that takes me for granted and does not respect me.
I have thought about this.
Had it been I was the type that beat women, I think she would have been respecting me more and not taking me for granted like this.

Now, I am in a dilemma, if this continues, it is either I start hitting her or I walk away from the marriage.
Both options are not what I want but I might just be forced to do one of them and go against my vow.
If it gets worse, the better of the two evils is to walk away from the marriage with my sanity intact and take my daughter along as I would not contemplate hitting my wife because of what my mother passed through.

My dear nairalanders, pls I need your advice on this issue.

Those saying that the house maid ment no harm, I advice you to take a tour of MFM prayer city and hear peoples life experience , am sure you will never be the same again.

This one suppose dey front page joor. Lala

This girl don find wahala, married men go bombered her facebook page.

True talk.

Desdemona:
Op you sound like a sexist. Who did the woman cheat with? A monkey? Who has the greater sin? The woman Abi? Cheating isn't a gender thing. So rephrase that question: "Why do people cheat?" is more appropriate, except you're of the view that it is appropriate for men to cheat.

Not at all , its wrong for anyone to cheat on their spouses,
Being a guy, my focus is on the lady because I imagined what
Her husband would feel if he found out , and am not a sexist
Am a Christian and I hold on to values of the bible which says, " the soul that sins shall die"

Thanks anyway.

DeeTus:
Dude, you are silly. You should blame both of them. Not the woman particularly because here, it took two to tango.

Chiarman, na wa for u , anyway, put your self in shoes of her husband, who would you focus on , your wife or the man ?

Benita27:
What joy do some men derive in going after married women?.

I understand this is a two way thing, but a woman should be able to hold herself against such temptations and make her husband proud. You know its the woman people always focus on in our communities.

ammyluv2002:
Being faithful has nothing to do with gender...it's a personal thing. Nobody be it a lady or a guy can chose not to be faithful to his/her partner

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But I feel a married woman should be able resist this kinds of chats with any kind of man,

Good day nairalander , I want to share this with everyone because I feel someone may be able to explain what some women really want ? So, I was seating close to this Nigerian man and he was talking to his EX who is married with a kid and she lives in rivers state, what really concerned me was the fact that this man was discussing his sexual desires for her and how she should be having a child for him and not the man she married, apparently she was is side chick or girlfriend before she got married, and what shocked me the most was that this woman kept talking to this man despite the rubbish he was saying, and at the end she asked him for credit. This man then told her he would come and see her when he is in Nigeria,
I was so sorry for the man that married this woman in question, he would think he found a wife. Obviously the side chick in her is not dead.
1)What do some women want ?
2)Why do women behave like this?
3)And to married women, do you still talk with your EX in this manner ?
I really need to pray hard before I get married .

You better face ur education , you be doing rubbish and be asking nairalander for advice. Get a life young man

Every time , south west, na wa oooo

Happy for you.

A 54-year-old husband, Adekunle Bakare, on Wednesday asked an Ikorodu Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve his six years marriage to his wife, Ajarat, for allegedly checking his phone without his permission.
He also told the court his wife is stubborn and constitutes a threat to his life.
Bakare, a civil servant, who resides at Philips Nwokwe Street, Igbogbo area of Ikorodu, Lagos, also cited lack of respect and checking his phone without permission as reasons for the dissolution request.
At the resumed hearing, the petitioner told the court that he was fed up with Ajarat’s way of life.
“Ajarat has become used to fighting me with dangerous weapons when we have minor misunderstandings.
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“She usually checks my phone and accuses me of infidelity, in fact, she once destroyed my phone during argument.
“She is fond of attending parties with her friends without my consent and she never respects me as her husband and father of her two children.
“I cannot continue to tolerate her stubbornness,’’ he said
But the 36-year-old respondent, who denied the allegations against her, accused her husband of lack of care.
She, however, pleaded with the court to save her marriage.
The President of the court, Mrs Funmi Adeola, urged the couples to maintain peace pending the determination of the case.
She adjourned the case till July 8 for possible reconciliation.

Source : today ng

The Ohanaeze Ndigbo Youth Council, on Wednesday, told Igbo living in the North to prepare to defend themselves against possible attack by northerners.
Addressing journalists after a meeting in Enugu, National President of the OYC, Mazi Okechukwu Isiguzoro, said the ultimatum issued to Igbo by the northern groups was a call to arms, and should be treated as such by security agencies.
“Igbo resident in the North should get ready to defend themselves in the event of any provocation and attack from the Arewa youths,” Isiguzoro said.
He noted that the development could lead to another civil war in the country.
The Ohanaeze youth leader said, “They are at it again and this is a sad reminder of the civil war. This is how it started as a joke and before we knew it, a coordinated and simultaneous attack was launched against the Igbo in the North.
“This is a sad development considering the efforts being made to unite this country. This is a sad commentary considering the sacrifices Igbos have made in this country.
“We, however, wish to state unequivocally that the Igbo are not cowards. We are not afraid of Alhaji Abdul-Azeez Suleiman, Yerima Shettima and their cohorts.
“Ndigbo want to make it categorically clear that we are ready for them. We cannot be intimidated by their ranting.”
Also, the Eric Omare-led faction of the Ijaw Youth Council Worldwide described the threat by northern youths as baseless and senseless.
Omara, in a statement on Wednesday, contended that there was absolutely nothing wrong in the Igbo agitation for self-determination.
The factional IYC President added, ‘’Therefore, the Igbo agitation for Biafra cannot justify the demand to move out of northern Nigeria.
‘’We believe there are criminally-minded persons who want to hide under the umbrella of speaking for the North to loot property belonging to Igbos in the North that are making the demand.
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‘’We call on security agencies to as a matter of urgency move against the brains behind the ultimatum to Igbos in the North.
But a group of Nigerians, under the auspices of the South-East/South-South Network, asked security agencies to immediately arrest the leaders of the northern groups, who issued the ultimatum to the Igbo on Tuesday.
In an electronic mail by the leader of the SESSNet, Mr. Daniel Elombah, who said the group was made up of professionals, students and activists from the South-East and South-South, called on security agencies to arrest “these jobless youths and their sponsors.”
It added, “We will not take excuse from security agencies if anything happens to our people in the North. Those youths should be treated like criminals by security agencies and we are watching to see what the DSS will do on this matter. If any Igbo is killed in the North, the leadership of the groups should face the consequences.”
In its own reaction, the Pan Niger Delta Forum, an umbrella body for Niger Delta leaders, condemned in strong terms the ultimatum of the Arewa youth groups.
It noted that the “quit notice” was highly treasonable and portended great threat to the nation’s unity.
PANDEF which is under the leadership of Ijaw national leader, Chief Edwin Clark, said the group considered the statement by the Arewa youths as the most dangerous statement ever made by any group to the unity and existence of Nigeria since the end of the Civil War.
In a statement on behalf of the group by a member of the Central Working Committee, Dr. Alfred Mulade, PANDEF called on northern state governments, elders, particularly the Arewa Consultative Forum to take concrete steps to reassure the safety of Igbo in the region.
A coalition of Northern groups, including the Arewa Youth Consultative Forum, had on Tuesday, given all Igbo resident in the 19 states of the North a three-month ultimatum to quit or be forced out after the expiration of the October 1, 2017, deadline.

Source : today.ng

The Osun State Police Command has arrested a 38-year-old man, Ajibade Rasheed who was caught with fresh human parts in Osogbo, the State capital.
A fresh head of a woman, intestine, lung, vagina, liver and a bottle containing blood were recovered from the suspect in his car with registration no: LSD 987 DJ.
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The Commissioner of Police in the state, Mr Fimihan Adeoye while parading the suspect, said Ajibade was caught by policemen at Olu-Ode area.
The CP said an investigation has commenced identifying the victim.
He assured that the matter would be properly investigated and the suspect would be prosecuted accordingly.

Source : today.ng[

This people just kill people any how, am glad they got one robber down. I really pity the innocent customer

TinaAnita:
At least she is a graduate. It seems your cousin was never sure of his choice of partner in the first place otherwise he wouldn't stick his nose where it doesn't belong. He should back off now if he is not prepared for marriage

Na wa ooo.

diva90:
I was expecting to read something more serious ... if that's enough reason for your cousin to call off his wedding, then he never loved that girl in the first place.

Really, so people can go around lying abi ? That single
Lie is a symptom of a deeper problem, I know liltle about women
But I know your attitude towards a woman plays a role in
How she behaves to you, if he marries her with the view of a lair
She will become something else in 6 months, it is clear that
The man in the center of all this is having a hard time forgiven
Her. Am sure you dont want to marry a man who thinks you are a lair.

Regards.