₦airaland Forum

EreluY:
ABSOLUTE CRAP. A CLOSE MALE FRIEND WHO DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMAN WHILST DATING IS NOW HAVING TO ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS. WHY? HIS WIFE WAS SUBJECTED TO FGM DURING HER CHILDHOOD AND HER HONEY POT WAS SERIOUSLY MUTILATED TO THE POINT THAT THEY BOTH DON'T ENJOY THE SEX.

As crazy as it may sound, a man that is abstaining from sex while dating a woman should at least confirm the condition of things as far as he possibly can just to be sure.

Youngpo413:
the reason why every sane man should marry a virgin.

Man man man man man.

As far as I'm concerned, any man that isn't a virgin himself, is in not qualified to insist on marrying a virgin.

ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?

Wait don't tell me you want to get rid of her after you've bleeped her.

I mean I'm sure the reason you are having difficulties in getting her out of your life, is because you've been bleeping her until you found out she's a runz girl and in this case you don already price market and must buy am. Meaning even if you get rid of her she will have left you with something troublesome.

Muyiwhy:
She is in luv wt u,yet goea afta every d*ck..wat sort of luv z dat..guy u beta wise up nd knw dat a bad gf can neva mk a gud wyf..yes she might luv u,bt if ur luv aint enuf 2 stop ha lyfstyle,den notin cn stop ha. U beta save ursef nw b4 its too late nd u'll regret neva doin it earlier..

Seconded.

This is the best post I've read on Nairaland.

Kudos OP I'm looking forward to more of this kind of post.

Did anyone else just experienced a blackout on Nairaland?

Did anyone just experienced a blackout on Nairaland?

oluspencer:
Nidigbo.... The must confused group in africa..



They want Biafra nation


They want Jonathan

They want appointment


They are marginalized

They want federal project


They don't federal prison











They can't stop acting like a side biatch to man with 3 wives

Seconded

They are way too ironic, or is it paradoxic.

googlepikin:
OK make I help you out. you can start blogging about frozen meat and fish.

I guess this means you blog about cow

kaboninc:
DearPreye,

I do agree with the meaning of your entire post. But I disagree with some points you raised.

Firstly, education is the best legacy a father can bequeath unto his children. Education is the best gift a society can bequeath to her people. The evidence of being educated is the issuance of a certificate most especially in formal forms of education.

Education can also be informal and this form does not need a certificate. It does not need a proof of paper but by actions and words.

In the world today, paper qualification - formal proofs of education will always be an integral part or nexus in the grand scheme of things. The proof signifies that you have acquired the requisite skill, knowledge and understanding in a particular field of endeavour. It signifies that you have the capability and depending on the 'grade', it shows the level of intelligence you exhibit in that field.

This is the reason grading was introduced. The very best were graded at the very top and as performances varies, individuals are assessed. This reminds me of my convocation wherein I was said to have been found worthy both in character and in learning.

So education is very crucial in every field of life and a certificate is a proof of being educated.

However, the manner, style and condition in which education is taught is the crux.....not certificate or no certificate. We have a problem with how we are taught in schools. We do not have quality education in most of our schools. We lack good tutors, good administrators, good infrastructure, good and well revised and updated curricular, funding. These things add up to the rots we have today. And that is why we say the certificates are worthless and at the same time, downplaying the importance of education and most especially certificates.

Education provides the means for learning. Learning the works of others and bringing into life our innovations and ideas while using the works of others as our lunching pad. That way, we create our own pad for others to use as theirs and the cycle continues.

Thus in all, education and a certificate is very vital for personal and societal growth.

And this is what OP is trying to point out

That your statement "certificate is the proof of being educated" is wrong.

Certificate shouldn't be the primary proof, but the secondary proof.

If certificate is the main focus then the education system will be flawed.

donholy28:
Her husband is an agile mopol

Mercy johnson's husband; slave to konji + Mercy johnson; slave to husband

= Four kids in three years.

She is Mercy and the husband is merciless, they are a perfect match I guess.

Adesiji77:
I hope Seun follows Mark's cue...

No, I think Seun will wait until facebook implements it and observe the result before deciding
whether to do it on Nairaland.

Sandydayz:
Well atleast they're pointed

No I think she was trying to show the world that she has pointed Nip.

Tourist attraction huh

Humans never learn. By the time some of the deadly snakes excape, that place go turn into Jurassic park Part 5.

Make them no collect

I will go help them collect am.

You need prayers.

Orikinla:
I have had successful office romance without problems.
But no sex inside the office.

What about kiss, cuddle, hold and other romancing acts?

Is that so.

Is the judge allowed to do that?

Since all charges against the man have been withdrawn.

Let them take their petition to ICPC who would carry out the necessary investigation.

Alright, GEJ's ICPC recovered funds but kept it in their pocket, until APC's intervention.

This is what i understood from this thread.

*goes to read the post*

*hiss*

He has done his best for PDP and not for Nigeria abi?

These PDP modaforkers don't care about this country Nigeria.
They only care about themselves - their party.

obailala:
This is just telling us what we already know.... PDP was a curse on Nigeria from the pit of hell. 16 years and well over $20 billion spent on power but they couldn't add up to 3000mw to the generation capacity they met in 1999.

Brazil generates 12,000mw with $12billion
China built the world's largest hydro dam of 22,500mw with $26billion

But our lovely Nigeria spends well over $20billion but couldnt add up to 3000mw.

And some humans were asking these vampires to continue ruling us claiming they were God sent?... Only God will judge these people

Reading all these makes me want to start sheding tears for Nigeria

veekid:
dem no wan pay before?

Na thief them be na.
For them to wait for orders before they go pay their workers.

Why the pics no show us how the audience big reach?

And what will ICPC do to the state govs that steals the funds?

Abeg make them let me hear word.

ICPC, all bark and no bite.

I like this

sack all those that have been corrupted by the previous leader's evil.

This is the match I am most looking forward to.

Good lads, keep it up.

R2bees:
Rip to a nairalander 'introvert's mentions.

You mean no thanks to this thread, INTROVERT's mention go over full abi?