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How many guys have u met out of more than million cause I spend more than before for my girl

ogeoflyf:

Y u laughing dear?

NinoBrown888:
Thought the question was meant for ladies ?'

wonder why the 'bearded guys' are making noise...

Well done u that kept quiet..

binie:
Does shekau not wear camouflage?

Tiwa is more pretty here than in reality

Do u think anyone will open that link with the rubbish u just did..fooooooooolllllll

Do they put a gun on the head of the ex..some guys sha

mabeni:
r she broke up with a man because he lost all his of income in an accident nd could not provide her needs .he begged her to stay with him without avain. Now she's begging him to take her back after 1yr. If na you, wetin u go do?

Does he bank in his vehicle?

interesting

I don't believe in love

Matthewbriggs:
If anyone told me, I would be writing about this subject 6months ago, I would ask you what are you smoking, because I hate it when a woman plays hard to get.

But overtime I have come in contact with life experiences that have taught me a lot, and changed my perception about women and dating.

The most notable lesson came in the form of an encounter I had with a really gorgeous young lady, I really liked ... it was evident she liked me, She gave me intense green light, which I decided to act on. But surprisingly she started playing so hard to get and it really pissed me off. 

The fact is we went on several  dates and we had really good time together.  I made her laugh, I challenge her mind. On several occasions I nearly tried asking her out but due to the mixed signals I was getting I never did ...  I was confused.  I have had scenarios in which she talked about her dream man and the fact is I have most of these characteristics.  Why putting me through all this stress.  It is evident I was not friend zoned because we still had some serious chemistry going on.

This got me seriously confused, why is she playing hard to get when in real sense she did want me... I had to really sit down to think, this I did in my bid to think of a way forward.

This lead me to ask myself one simple question ... Is this girl very valuable enough to me,  to deserve all this effort, Is she worth the stress ?

This simple question changed my entire outlook about how I viewed women and dating.

What I have come to observe is the significant role value plays in a relationship especially from a mans perspective. The level of value we place on something determines how far we are willing to go for that thing.

For example, Why would Jesus give his life in exchange for our life. He would not do so if he never valued us.

Also, why would a Nigerian man travel thousands of miles away from home, spending thousands of dollars just to watch his favorite football club play for 90minutes in the UK. 

Why go through all that stress. The reason is because of the value he places on that Football club. and the value he place on the experience of watching in real live his favorite club play.

Once I understood the concept of value and the fact that as humans we would go the extra mile for what we valued ... the question for me was no longer whether I liked her, or whether I felt her playing hard to get was annoying but more of ... was she worth going the extra mile for.

In that moment I became was really grateful she played hard to get, because the truth is if she never did we would have been deep in a relationship that would end as fast as it started.

I discovered that deep down, I did not find her valuable enough. The several dates we had gave me an opportunity to see some character flaws I knew I can't cope with. My eyes were opened.

Till today we remain friends ... with her still wondering what she did wrong that made me all of a sudden lose interest.

The truth is she did nothing wrong. Instead she indirectly protected her self from a heartbreak.

Also this experience made me realize that, playing hard to get to a reasonable extent is a very useful tool the female specie can use to know if a man is really serious or not ...

It is a tool that would come in handy in limiting the no of heartbreaks they stand the chance of experiencing ...

The easier she is to have by any tom and harry the higher the possibility of earning numerous emotional scars from un serious fellows.

So to my fellow guys when you find that lady you like and she is playing hard to get, do not feel bad ... just ask you self is she worth the effort, Is she worth investing your emotional capital on ... If yes invest it, but be sure at least their is chemistry between you two.

Now for the ladies, playing hard to get is a not a bad thing but be very careful how long you play it ... It can be a huge turn off if it goes on fo a long time. Especially ... to a very serious person who might interpret it for you been uninterested...

Moreover what is really bad is been so empty and invaluable at the same time playing hard to get.

No man would be happy crossing all the mountains, rivers and lake to have you only to discover you are nothing but an empty vessel, he would use you, dump you and resent you .

My advice is build so much value that a guy would see you and say hey I am willing to go the extra mile to have this woman as my own.

Most importantly ... I think it is important to note that playing hard to get is very different from her not been interested or stringing you along for a long time.

2weeks to One month or an equivalent of evenly spaced 4dates is an okay time for her to give you solid repl.

Moreover If from the onset, she says a clear no to your advances understand that she is not interested, If she is in love with someone else please run away. If she is a gold-digger and thrives on using you to meet her needs flee.

But if she a cool chick, who you know deep down really likes you but somehow is play hard to get ... My advice is if you really like and see her as someone good enough to carry your babies ... Go for her with all you've got.

#MathewBriggs

forget all this long story bro..she always liked u as a friend period.

Hmmm this one is strong...

keshi has been a lucky bastard from day 1...let me see wether obama will come and put him back this time...

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skyprofm:
Mehn dat guy is either gay or impotent

lol...its nt like that,its all about determination

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ya funny but u didn't write that yourself

Agybabe:
like?

he wnt to steal it,want to make fun of you...basically if both of you are not playful to an extent it definitely means it's theft...i have female friends that if something like this happen I definitely know its just fun n play...but if the money to much we go wear the same trouser o

if this thread no make fp make my iPhone 6 fall for water

I vote jennima..#teamjennima

it depends on ur relationship with him...both of you may be so playful that he did it out of d fun of it..if nt then mayb he has other thoughts on his mind

try explaining to her the reasons behind ur decision to delay it a little..if she truely loves u she will understand and wait after all age is still on her side

dnt see anything wrong with it. she is just friendly dats all

why are all this idiots rejoicing. .who did not know GEJ would run again...Mtcheeewww

wia u stay

Football is dead in Nigeria, says OkochaThe ex-international believes the coach Stephen Keshi and his men are not to blame for Nigeria’s defeat to Sudan in Saturday’s Africa Cup of Nations qualifierOct 11, 2014 22:31:00FormerNigeriacaptainAustine Okochahas refused to blame the either the Super Eagles or the head coachStephen Keshifor their 1-0 defeat to Sudan in Saturday’s Africa Cup of Nations qualifier in Khartoum. A ferocious header by striker Bakri Abd Elgadir in the closing stages of the first half which left goalkeeper Vincent Enyeama no chance ensuredthe hosts got the better of the African champions who put every foot wrong in the encounter.The result means Nigeria now walk a tight rope towards qualifying for the biannual Africa football showpiece billed for Morocco in 2015.According to Okocha who lamented via his twitter handle following the Eagles’ defeat to the Falcons of Jediane, the result was a confirmation that Nigeria football is no where to be found while making a casefor the ‘big boss’ and his players"Anyone that blames Keshi or the boys is short sighted. Our football is long dead and gone. This is just the confirmation” Okocha tweeted.Anyone that blames Keshi or the boys is short sighted. Our football is long dead and gone. This is just the confirmation.-Jay-Jay Okocha (@IAmOkocha) October 11, 2014The reigning African champions are now placed at the base of the table in Group A with a point from three matches while South Africa with 2-0 victory over Congo away from home are ranked first with seven points.Nigeria will welcome Sudan to Abuja in next Wednesday's match as they attempt to revive their now slim chances of reaching Morocco in January.

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I can't read all this stuff..will continue reading it tomorrow and come n comment..

That's what I call a definition of true love. He will never do what will make her look impure..i once heard of a story abt a guy who refused to ve sex with his gal n she was like bt am not a virgin n his reply was since I was not the one dat deflowered you I still see you like a virgin..my own opinion though... ...I believe love is patient enough to wait..meaning he would definately have the urge bt he should be able to hold on..