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Celebrities › Re: Muhammad Ali In Hospital With Pneumonia by holatin(m): 6:56am On Dec 21, 2014
Pele Ali sorry Ali
Ali Pele Ali sorry
Education › Re: Five MAPOLY Students Arraigned For Illegal Arms Possession by holatin(m): 6:55am On Dec 21, 2014
one word
CULTIST !
Politics › Re: Breaking News:APC And PDP Change Zoning Formular,Prof Osibanjo Is Powerful by holatin(m): 6:54am On Dec 21, 2014
Pdp are scared of the formidable combo
Celebrities › Re: Muhammad Ali In Hospital With Pneumonia by holatin(m): 6:53am On Dec 21, 2014
Pele Ali
Ali pele
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Spent 8 Years In Primary School by holatin(m): 6:41am On Dec 21, 2014
Bridgetown:
Jonathan is someone's dad that is being abused here too. Lame.
Tell me did d guy abuse his dad before he hurl insult at him for a remark, abusing someone dat didn't abuse you is lame too
Islam › Re: Christians, Why Don't You Beat Your Wives Like We Muslims Do? by holatin(m): 6:37am On Dec 21, 2014
your dad is using the Quran to his advantages, he is not a true muslim
Islam › Re: Christians, Why Don't You Beat Your Wives Like We Muslims Do? by holatin(m): 6:23am On Dec 21, 2014
Firstly I marvel at the amount of ogogoro the mod that transfer this to front page must Ve been under without him changing the title.

And you know nairaland to be a place, religion fanatic will say anything to rubbish a religion different from them.


The verse you mentioned has been greatly misconceived
by many people who focus merely on its surface
meaning, taking it to allow wife beating. When the
setting is not taken into account, it isolates the words in
a way that distorts or falsifies the original meaning.
Before dealing with the issue of wife-battering in the
perspective of Islam, we should keep in mind that the
original Arabic wording of the Holy Quran is the only
authentic source of meaning. If one relies on the
translation alone, one is likely to misunderstand it

"According to Quran the relationship between the
husband and wife should be based on mutual love and
kindness. Allah says: "And among His Signs is this, that
He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye
may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love
and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs
for those who reflect." (Quran: Ar-Rum 21)
The Holy Quran urges husbands to treat their wives with
kindness. (In the event of a family dispute, Quran
exhorts the husband to treat his wife kindly and not to
overlook her positive aspects). Allah Almighty says:
“Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If
ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a
thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of
good.” (Quran: An-Nisaa 19)

As to those women on whose part
you fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them
(first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat
them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not
against them means (of annoyance); for Allah is most
High and Great (above you all). If you fear a breach
between them twain, appoint (two) arbiters, one from his
family and the other from hers. If they wish for peace,
Allah will cause their reconciliation; for Allah has full
knowledge and is acquainted with all things." (Quran:
An-Nisaa 34-35)
It is important to read the section fully. One should not
take part of the verse and use it to justify one's own
misconduct. This verse neither permits violence nor
condones it. It guides us to ways to handle delicate
family situation with care and wisdom. The word
"beating" is used in the verse, but it does not mean
"physical abuse". The Prophet (p.b.u.h.) explained it
"dharban ghayra mubarrih" which means "a light tap that
leaves no mark". He further said that face must be
avoided. Some other scholars are of the view that it is
no more than a light touch by siwak, or toothbrush.




TELL ME HOW A TAP COULD BE CALLED BEATING.
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Spent 8 Years In Primary School by holatin(m): 6:20am On Dec 21, 2014
BlackSEER:
at least he has a certificate unlike ur illiterate general
illiterate you say
what's illiterate ?
is PEJ literate ?
What advantages of been literate without common sense.
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Spent 8 Years In Primary School by holatin(m): 6:14am On Dec 21, 2014
ofiafuluego:
How many yrs did your father spend as a bicycle repairer apprenticehuh 10yrs I guess
and most silly post goes to ofiafulego.

if you have a dad, one to be proud of, you wount abuse someone dad
Politics › Re: What If G/buhari Loose Again by holatin(m): 6:06am On Dec 21, 2014
Billyonaire:
Buhari isnt a good man. Good men dont overthrow government of Shagari. Good man do not kidnap Umaru Dikko. Good man dont stop railway project in Lagos.
concerning d rail issue



Progressive Change, Gen Muhammadu Buhari, has said
he cancelled the proposed Lagos metro rail line project
that was initiated by the government of Alhaji Lateef
Jakande because he did not want to take more loans or
devalue the naira.
The Lagos metro rail line was designed by the Jakande
government to facilitate transportation within Lagos and
surroundings but was terminated when Buhari military
regime took over in December, I983.
Buhari, while speaking in Lagos on Wednesday at the
presentation of his party manifesto, said when he got
into power, the relatively stable economy, which was
handed over to the government of Alhaji Shehu Shagari,
had been badly plundered and corruption was rife in
every sector. He added that the rail line project was
meant to cost N100m, which was a large sum of money
then, and the Federal Government was asked to
guarantee the loan meant for the project.
He said, “Then, we didn’t know how much debt was on
us as a nation and we felt that we should not add
another N100m to it. I had to set up two committees to
assess how much we owed and we promised not to take
more loans or to devalue the naira but to develop the
economy.”
Buhari argued that tagging him an enemy of Lagos State
because he cancelled that project was mischievous and
unfair, stating that the first one billion naira he spent
when he was heading Petroleum Trust Fund was on
Victoria Island and Ikoyi waterworks in Lagos.
Earlier, in Ikoyi, while meeting with the youth Buhari
told them it was important to vote wisely as their choice
will affect their generations more than his.
His running mate, Pastor Tunde Bakare, who presented
the party manifesto, said God raised Buhari for Nigeria.
Bakare said that within the first 100 days in office,
Nigerians would begin to feel their impact. He said their
party symbol was a pen because they would use it to
rewrite the history of Nigeria and that after their tenure,
there would be no more military intervention in Nigeria
forever.
Christianity Etc › Re: Does People's Name Have Any Effect On Their Fate Or Destiny by holatin(m): 5:56am On Dec 21, 2014
no and yes.
Olamide may finally influence your success
Been called wereyemi no mean you go mad


what am I saying self
Celebrities › Re: Photo: Wyclef Jean Surrounded By Soldiers As He Arrives Lagos by holatin(m): 5:49am On Dec 21, 2014
kaabo

Next !!!
Politics › Re: PEOPLE DONATING 5 BILLION , 4 BILLION IN PDP FUND RAISING DINNER by holatin(m): 1:17am On Dec 21, 2014
if GEJ rule Nigeria for another four years then I wish Nigeria a rest in pieces
Politics › Re: The Views Of Technocrat Abt Gmb...the Savior In Disguise! by holatin(m): 1:12am On Dec 21, 2014
And I stand on my bed at 1:13am and shouted
Buhari for president
Sports › Re: Referee Almost Beaten To Death For Penalty Decision by holatin(m): 1:11am On Dec 21, 2014
na wrestle he dey refree ?
Politics › Re: What If G/buhari Loose Again by holatin(m): 1:10am On Dec 21, 2014
he wount lose unless its been rigged.

if pdp get away with it.

He Buhari will be remember for the good man he is than the otuoke fisherman
Romance › Re: But You Said You Are Not An Aristo by holatin(m): 1:08am On Dec 21, 2014
she is a beggar
Politics › Re: OBJ Totally Confused, Considers GEJ A Lesser Evil Than Gmb|tinubu. by holatin(m): 1:05am On Dec 21, 2014
agabaI23:
Bro, do not defend Buhari. Read the link I pasted for you. It has highlights that will make reading easier. Good luck and get some night sleep.
repost d link sir.
Am only advocating for any government that can bring change to the present government mess. nite sir
Politics › Re: OBJ Totally Confused, Considers GEJ A Lesser Evil Than Gmb|tinubu. by holatin(m): 12:58am On Dec 21, 2014
agabaI23:
Have you heard that it was only Idiagbon and Buhari that saw the $56k? Did you hear that he was not even tried like others? So what about Shagari? He was clean? He was not corrupt?
I was not there too but why ekweme never talk about dat.


Yawning
Politics › Re: Buhari Attack The Federal Govt. For Killing Boko Haram Sect by holatin(m): 12:56am On Dec 21, 2014
let me read first
Romance › Re: How Do You Wish To Propose Your Dream Girl? by holatin(m): 12:54am On Dec 21, 2014
on top transformer while raining
Romance › Re: My Long Distance Boyfriend Has Dissappeared..d Reason?? by holatin(m): 12:53am On Dec 21, 2014
He need ready made pussies, and you aren't around for him
Romance › Re: The Remote Cause Of Failure In Most Relationships Is OBT by holatin(m): 12:48am On Dec 21, 2014
true
Politics › Re: OBJ Totally Confused, Considers GEJ A Lesser Evil Than Gmb|tinubu. by holatin(m): 12:47am On Dec 21, 2014
agabaI23:
So you think because he said it, it was the gospel truth. You have not said anything on Shagari and Ekwueme. On the suitcases, do you think he will accept it is true when he is campaigning to be the president of Nigeria? Someone who put the president from his region under house arrest and threw his deputy into jail? You sincerely think he will prosecute the emir of Gwandu? An emir has more respect from his subject than the president FYI.
$56, 000 was found in Ekweme's House, an Igbo man he
was jailed
$4.5 million was found in Former Civilian Governor's




There were dozens of former governors, ministers,
business
people of Muslim Hausa-Fulani origin who were similarly
jailed
by the Buhari regime. Just a few examples:
1. Umar Dikko, a Muslim Hausa Fulani scion and
arguably the
most influential northern politician at the time, was
unprecedentedly pursued up to his UK hiding place,
abducted by
the Nigerian security agents, bundled and literally
'boxed' and
almost got smuggled back to Nigeria - to account for
his alleged
corruption during the Shagari regime.
2. Isyaku Rabiu, arguably one of the richest ever Hausa
Fulani
businessmen, and one of the most highly respected
Islamic
scholars as well (he is indeed one of the leading
Tijaniyya
Sheikhs in West Africa), was not only thrown to jail at
the time
but even got one of his legs reportedly broken by the
security
agents in the process of his arrest, probably after his
hundreds
of supported tried to prevent him from being arrested.
3. Another super-rich northern businessman in Kaduna,
late A
Haruna Dan-ja, also a Muslim Hausa Fulani, was equally
arrested and thrown into jail (both Sheikh Isyaku Rabiu
and
Danja were allegedly implicated in corrupt practices that
were
considered harmful to the national economy, such as
misuse of
import licences, hoarding of essential commodities,
etc.).
4. Late Sabo Bakin Zuwa, a former governor of Kano
state, was
sentenced to 300 years in jail WITH HARD LABOUR by a
Kaduna
military tribunal, after which he was rumoured to have
'begged'
the tribunal for more years, saying that 'mere 300 years'
were not
enough! LOL
5. A prominent businessman of Katsina origin, a Hausa-
Fulani
Muslim, who had been allegedly aiding and abetting
cross-
border smuggling between Nigeria and Niger for many
years prior
to the coming of the Buhari regime, and who was so
well
connected in the country, had to hide in the ceiling of
his house
when security agents swooped his home in the dead
hours of the
night; they evacuated all his family members and spent
hours
looking for him. He eventually had to run to the
Republic of Niger
where he took refuge!
6. A very influential former ambassador of Kaduna state
origin, a
Hausa Muslim, is STILL living in the capital of a Western
country,
apparently too traumatized and frightened to return to
Nigeria,
having been implicated in a massive corruption case
back then.
Like in the cases of Southern politicians, almost all of
the
northern Hausa-Fulani politicians jailed during Buhari
regime
were NEVER FREED until AFTER the Buhari regime was
overthrown. The fugitives among them also never
returned until
after the overthrow of the Buhari's government (a few
never
returned to date!). Whoever is old, enlightened and
honest
enough should know all this, as it was very much a
public
knowledge.
In fact, immediately after the ouster of the Buhari
regime,
hundreds of friends, relatives and business associates of
Sheikh
Isyaku Rabiu trooped to his Kano residence and started
frenzied
celebrations and special prayers in anticipation of the
release of
their billionaire Sheikh.
What many people in the South do not seem to know is
the fact
that the corrupt among the Hausa Fulani Muslim elite
hate and
fear a Buhari government as much as the Christian
bigots and
tribalists would hate it, but for different reasons. While
the latter
group hate Buhari for nothing other than sheer religious
bigotry
and incurable tribalism, the former fear the general
because they
know very well that it would never be business as usual
for them
under a Buhari-led government - being a Muslim and a
Hausa-
Fulani would NOT shield anyone
Politics › Re: OBJ Totally Confused, Considers GEJ A Lesser Evil Than Gmb|tinubu. by holatin(m): 12:40am On Dec 21, 2014
agabaI23:
So you think because he said it, it was the gospel truth. You have not said anything on Shagari and Ekwueme. On the suitcases, do you think he will accept it is true when he is campaigning to be the president of Nigeria? Someone who put the president from his region under house arrest and threw his deputy into jail? You sincerely think he will prosecute the emir of Gwandu? An emir has more respect from his subject than the president FYI.
[http://www.nytimes.com/1984/01/21/world/around-
the-world-nigeria-says-it-recovers-millions-from-ex-
aides.html
$56, 000 was found in Ekweme's House, an Igbo man he
was jailed
$4.5 million was found in Former Civilian Governor Sabo
Zuwo House, a Fellow fulani from Kano, he was equally
jailed for 300 years.
Family › Re: Which Do You Prefer For A Firstborn Child, A Girl Or A Boy? by holatin(m): 12:21am On Dec 21, 2014
which no be child
Family › Re: Which Tribe Drinks And Smoke Marijuana A Lot? by holatin(m): 12:21am On Dec 21, 2014
warri bath with ogogoro
Politics › Re: How Buhari Will WIN The 2015 Presidential Election by holatin(m): 12:12am On Dec 21, 2014
wao
Politics › Re: EXCLUSIVE: Tinubu, Amaechi In A 750m Deal by holatin(m): 12:10am On Dec 21, 2014
Nonsense.
if tinubu wan do business, na amaechi money e go come collect, he don steal enough to partake and start any business in Nigeria.

if river state money well is drying ask those in charge nt Tinubu
Politics › Re: Buruji Plans To Exit PDP, Defies National Headquarters by holatin(m): 12:06am On Dec 21, 2014
Wetin dey wrong with Pdp dis days.

Rip to PDP in advance

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