cooltola:


Then she has her reasons for staying. Majority of the time, the marriage always end in divorce or separation or they stay for the sake of their children and when their children are matured adults, the couple split up.

yeah u are right.... it takes luck in choosing partner this days...people are bad either boys or girls. infact the ladies has stollen the mantle of disloyalty and bad mannerism from guys...this world need to end already

cooltola:


How long has your uncle married? That is what you see and i know someone too who has a loving wife , and he was not the kindest person on earth and guess what happened to their marriage after years. The woman left him because she had options to escape or leave. Most women in Nigeria cannot leave a sob of a husband because they have no where to run and the law do not favor women in naija . It is only in the western world that laws favor women. Since the man is the breadwinner, weitin madam wan do when the man is serial cheater or abusive. You do not expect to her to rent an apartment or start a divorce proceeding. The only thing she can do is to report her husband to the elders, and if he does not listen to the elders, then there is nothing that she can do. So most times, the WOMAN STAY NOT BY CHOICE and when she gets options, she go leave.

married for 11 years...she came from a rich family...trust me she has better options.....she has even more chance to leave him

cooltola:


Lol i never said angel cannot marry demons. I only said such marriage do not last for more than 20 years top, it always end in divorce, seperation in the end . Who wants to be live forever with the enemy. Again to attract an angel you have to be an angel. Your Spirit attract what you are. That is why for men you study the woman personality, habits with God 'grace on your side while you are dating before you marry her. So you go know if she get craze or she is wife material. And you find such wife material woman, do not break her trust for you or else you are on your own. My bro sorry pray you do not date a woman demon again.

u are still treating the statement am disputing on. to attract an angel is luck not by been an angel. I ve another uncle a big piss of shit...he has the best loving wife in the world..and when I call him a piece of shit..that words doesn't do justice to who he really is. a big son of a bitch is an understatement. y I say luck it is

CanadaOrBust:


Please tell him. Mr. cooltola, just because something sounds logical doesn’t mean that’s how it works in real life!

I don yarn him big time

Poloyanabo2:

I feel so much pity for those who commit suicide, if only they know what enternity holds for them, suicide is never an option,
Suicide is a passport to eternal damnation.
say no to suicide, Run to Jesus he saves!

Mr man stop trying to scare someone who has losed all hope with enternsl damnation. what's more damning than feeling empty, sad, unloved, angry Everytime. give people hope not this threatening post. give people love, talk to people, get close to them.

cooltola:


You can look at the person's character and see how she behaves. You attract what your spirit is. If you want an angel, you have to be an angel first. If you want a hardworking and a hustling woman, then you must be a diligent and good hustler. What if i told you that some women in naija will rather starve than twerk their dignity away for such federal civil service Job. It is up to you attract such women. What if i told you that there are nongovernment jobs, other legit hustle and honest way of earning a living for a woman without doing ashewo , twerking on the gram, snapchat and so on.

I don't believe this if u are an angel u attract angel. I ve an uncle and childhood friend who have the best soul in the world....they met the wrong women. who bleeped them up permanently...even me wey dey talk self got into one wey dey dangerous pass covid 19. and am sure I wasn't a devil. and I didn't deserve such lady....na luck dis marriage and relationship dey on. people change. I see it close. pure luck is the only thing that can save good guys

inzauche:
A girl has never given me a gift. Iam always the one giving them. Iam always unlucky. Always meeting self-centered girl

r don dey look like village people handwork for my own matter self...the selfishness is alarming

MOnkeyBabe:
you should try ladies that want to have kids ontime. They won't be that harsh

a lot of those ladies came from poor homes, so until they hit a certain age...even with their thirst for a child, Dem go still wan pick those who has it all. in Nigeria version of relationship and marriage. only the guy must get money, the lady must just come like that with her body. not all though...but a greater percentage.

Sixfeetbelle:


Was your friend richer than the yahoo guy? Mbanu. See, you're missing the point entirely. If you blow before 25, na marriage go dey rush now. That is to say, na lack of money mean say men never marry, no be because women no serious

really when a guy is ready but the lady idea of a perfect man is Idris alba nko. what do u think will happen to proposal or when d guys wan serious. na only the after 30 ladies serious for now. Dem don dey hit that evening newspaper phase. today ladies have too much option so Dem do yanga until life has dealth them reality say u go enter menopause if u no change oooo

you need to stop blaming the man, a lot of ladies this days ain't serious until it's too late, I ve a bro who lost his dream wife to a Yahoo guy, he changed after that. infact he become a fornicator after that, ladies of this days don't want to start from little, made men, big wedding and flashy livestyle is their motto. I had plans too but as women show me their colour even though I wasnt broke, she ran after something temporary from something permanent...now my own mind is void of love, feelings and marriage for now. ladies this days are scary...that stupid olamide song is an exact depiction of them. the only serious ladies this days are the after 30 cus them don roam the street don finally realised say nothing dey outside. but 20 to almost 28 or 29 still think life is rosy. the ladies should be the one to carry the blame most...a lot says no to prospective husband so shey make d guy cum use juju for am ni

u will feel the pain for sometime... especially if u are an overthinker but it will be the best decision u make oooo. find an alternative. u will be fine...may not be today or next week but gradually...u go dey okay. #Moving on isn't easy for a guy with heart

Bluntintrovert1:
Guy you've got to make up your mind. Yes, it hurts, but when you know your life doesn't depends on that person, you would let go. There's more to life than killing yourself over someone that's probably 100% fine without you. Take your mind off it, you've been in a relationship before, and you would still be in another more beautiful than what you can't have now.

u overtalk true ! everybody can be replaced with time

KingWarri:


No.... You bleep yourself up fuckker....

wish nairaland can go back to when stupid kids don't populate here. go play with your toy pls

during Ramadan like 7 years ago, was rushing because time wasn't by my side. pour kerosene inside rice instead of groundnut oil. na so I eat am. I just can't miss that day fasting not even if I go die....mehn my faith was high those days...now God has bleeped me up

selfwife:
Thanks so much

ya welcome. u can chat me up if u are on Whatsapp too. number in signature

selfwife:

yes.

then u need to get a boyfriend. someone u will be able to spend a lot of time with. though be careful...never show desperation, human tend to take people who loves or need them for granted. if u are not ready for relationship then find a friends who can listen to u even at 1 in the midnight. with her presence....I was at my greatest mood but nothing last for ever

which I had such story.
was a good kids growing up even good as an adult. I always want to rebel, get crazy or involve in scandal but my introvertion won't let me.
I want to be bad.
I really want to

CoronaHealer:
Dunno what's wrong sometimes with me, i love being alone, i express myself freely when alone or with someone i trust, in my undergrad years i dont talk, neither do i answer questions in class even when i knew the amswers, they called me the night crawler cuz i still came out with good grades after each semsester, i avoided meetings involving few or large numbers of persons. Sometimes I pray certain pple dont call me, and when i call, i hope they dont pick so i wont be bothered... Im 26 and still doing all these.

u must be my twins. dna � test is needed

Frankcallys:
I still remember everything I did from the age of 7 till now. I remember them with details as if it was yesterday. I still remember names and faces of my classmates from primary school, secondary, defense and everyone I came in contact with till date.

The weird part is once I close my eyes, the whole thing plays like a detailed movie in my memory

I don't forget things once I witnessed them. And anything I set my eyes on is registered in my memory for life

same here too. the bad side is the bad memories, it hurt like it's fresh. reason y I don't do bad or offfend people I will beat myself us mentally till I nearly asked God to just take me away from this world as a penance for my bad attitude.

selfwife:
I have found very interesting comments on this topic. Mine is that, I can be playing this minute and people will think the play is too much. And then the next second,I will be bitterly sad for no obvious reason or be angry. The sadness will just engulf me I will start remembering things that happened about 10years ago that might not be even related to what's happening presently. Somehow , when I am neither sad or happy, I am sleeping. because it's like traveling to another world for me where I am free and nobody thinks I am mad.

this used to happen to me too before I met my girlfriend turn ex...her constant presence in my life changed it. re u depressed ? are u lonely or single ?

deleson:
The rich oppress the POOR...The poor also oppress the POOR.

This is a case of unmanaged anger and display gross stupidity.

UPDATE 1: Did you notice that they didn't attach stander-bys, passers-by and moving vehicles? Perhaps this is not targeted at residents but a rival tussle. May we see the full video?

These are the "enu gbe, anything for the boys, alabaru, agbero, conductor" boys with allegiance to a cult group and pressure groups.

Why oppress the same people in your community when they are not the ones that issued the lockdown nor engaged in public embezzlement?

They could channel their anger at elected officers and will make much sense.

We really have a long run to make in this country.

the op got the video wrong. those running are actually chasing the boys away. no camera captioned the robbers. they are much nothing less than 50 in number

Ishilove:

Alarmist. Where in Agege are they attacking? Agege is a very big town so be specific

everywhere in agege from oko oba, orile, isale koto, oniwaya, dopemu etc

egopersonified:
I have began to classify people into two groups. One group celebrates their birthdays by buying and sharing things for people. The other group celebrates by tasking people to buy something for them. I hold the first group in very high regards and prefer to do monetary transactions with them. The second group? I stay away from anything that will bring us together. They will always look for a loop hole or soft spot to exploit. As no research is 100% accurate, there are sometimes some exceptions.

been eon years ago I quote or say anything here. I love your comment. God bless u.

Nn3muka:
Men of nowadays cannot take anything for anyone
Somedays I wish I was born during Romeo and Juliet days when Real men die for love and woman.

What we have nowadays are bunch of "Alfa" men groomed on nairaland.

and which lady is worthy dying for. 99 % of guys ain't trustworthy...y should I die for a lady who has 3 or 4 more guys as assistance boyfriend. as we dey talk now. u fit say na only one guy u get ?

Maryjane001:
No, not even for my bf

greatest reply....people will always be selfish if they have to choose between themself and another. y. be the sacrificial lamb then

last two year I would have. but now my eyes has opened....if I do that now...I pray I don't rest in peace

I did my national ID card like 6 years ago, was given a paper that day with a tracking id. but since then I have been told there is a problem with it. that it hasn't been resolved. need anyone at nimc that can do it for me. need the card for a my personal sim upgrade.
I have money to give you if you are ready to help.

Dr. Olawale Sulaiman, 49, is a professor of neurosurgery and spinal surgery and chairman for the neurosurgery department and back and spine center at the Ochsner Neuroscience Institute in New Orleans. He lives in Louisiana, but splits his time between the US and Nigeria, spending up to 12 days each month providing healthcare in the country of his birth -- sometimes for free.


"I am one of 10 children born into a polygamous family. My siblings and I shared one room where we often found ourselves sleeping on a mat on the floor," he told CNN.

His parents could not afford his university tuition, but Sulaiman said at the age of 19, he received a scholarship to study medicine in Bulgaria through the Bureau for External Aid, a Nigerian government program targeted at improving the quality of life for Nigeria's most vulnerable communities.
Sulaiman said the scholarship opened many doors and, in turn, he feels responsible to give back through healthcare. "Africans who have had the privilege of getting outstanding training and education abroad must mobilize their network of
influence to transform our continent," he said.

According to a report by the Global Health Workforce Alliance, Nigeria's healthcare system does not have enough personnel to effectively deliver essential health services to the country's large population.

Sulaiman says he wants to use his knowledge to improve the healthcare system. "As I often do, I consulted with my loving and devoted wife for advice. We both decided that giving back was the only option for both of us, and for our family. We have never looked back," he added.

https://cnn.it/2o617EB

ValCon888:
Report them to NERC. That is the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission. They are sure to have a branch in your location.

thanks will try and do that

Charleys:
People are using more electricity in the face me I face you than in the other big house.

some of the house with 4k are face me face you too

Hello here.

I live in a face me and face you apartment. the room is 10 in number. our main problem in the house is that almost all house in the street has monthly NEPA bill of less than 6 thousand naira even house with multitude of people and rooms. but my own house get bill amounting to 12 000 per month sometime 15000. we ve report to the NEPA but they gave stupid excuse that we should calculate the amount we spent in a month on generator that we even got it lesser. when we show them other big house with more rooms, peoples and shop. they just shrug off.

this has become a big problem. who do we report to for our monthly bill to lessen like others. I really need help.
thanks in anticipation.