I cant forget been hurt......can't stop thinking about it

not able to provide enough - I will rather die an horrible death than not providing for my family

my kids growing up with single parent like me.....hell NO

Ritapearlydove:
Depression is terrible. I pray we all never experience it at any point in our lives.

big Amen to this prayer.

chatinent:



You don't believe girls, bro.


The only type of girls I may try giving a benefit of doubt is the one I plan to marry and knows that any crazy thing she does may be a nearest exit. Those types don't unnecessarily lie.

don't give any one benefit of doubt.....I was planning for her to mine forever too....all ladies lie...don't say some type don't ever again....that olamide won ma is the best psychological evaluation of them.

ganiu ! I swear am not cheating on you. God bear me witness....if only God could ve strike her that moment....busola !!! e no go better for u

vickydevoka:

Gals are de ones dat are jealous of light skin ladies, de use guys as an excuse to bleach

yeah a lot of dark skin girls feel inferior to light skin

faithfull18:
Guys and light-skinned ladies.

no be all guy like light skinned girl. infact in my almost 3 decades in this world. I ve never been attracted or fancy a light skin. always dark. black is the new gold

JimmyDarmody:
lol their type love playing victim. I have been there

u garrit.....imagine bringing u pain and yet wanna be forgiven just like that.....I hope never meet someone like that again... emotional manipulation is their forte

we need it in my house....imagine paying 5000 per month. for an ordinary room....

mehn if all guys are like me....this people won't make nada !

every woman is d same. why not just find one u can stay with permanently...... imagine some even losed their career and image even after spending that much money....adultery and fornication need to be number 1 in sin

we all are. Dem just message to apologise this evening since 4 days ago. even mtn is shitty

extreme introversion....

oku gbo ku

pocohantas:


Except I am giving the less privileged, if I am giving friends/family and they don’t ever give me back- then they are WRONG! Nothing you can tell me would change my stand on that. I refuse to be unlucky anymore.

hahahahaha u dey para oooo. so na tit for tat level u dey now !

Lighthammer:
And am the one to always give, and nobody will even look my side

well nt that am expecting tho.....
bt am literally surrounded by parasites

u are talking sense brother... e go even worse if Dem dey entitled

pocohantas:


Then you have been giving the “wrong“ people. Especially when they have the ability to reciprocate, no matter how little.

I don't class who I give as the wrong people. like a Yoruba adage says. if you help a short man, a tall man maybe the one to pay you back. not lucky been on the receiving side too even though I cant bear to see someone needing and not helping no matter how little it is. some of us just ain't lucky in terms of receiving.

seeing people comment, then I can say I am an unlucky jerk in my almost 3 decades on planet earth

KristaPretty:



Hahahhaha. Na the truth be that na, we always get dissapointed when you too put mind for love matter
Love yourself...dasol

u garrit madam

KristaPretty:
Nope!
Forget love and focus on what you hope to get out of life. Comfort and satisfaction of any kind.
If you keep your mind on love you will be shattered I warned you o

am posting this on my Facebook wall. ur brain no go decay

Kelgabriel5:
Yes it does, in my own case I was left heartbroken as she married someone else for whatsoever reason she convinced herself with. Heartbreak is something I don't wish my worst enemy

I say amen to that bro. do laugh or smile at guys who feel sad after heartbreak in the past....never knew what it worse than been kidnapped and your organ harvested while you are still alive.

if you want to live long....don't fall in love

a capital letter NO.

people loves you for what they can see from you.

now guys date for sex
ladies date for money

the world is in shambles and e dey pain me like die.

if only I can meet someone with same mindset as me....I will be the happiest man in earth. the world is over ! we are in hell already

abisolagladys:


same way not all Nigeria girls are rotten

true ! just a greater part which sadden me

abisolagladys:
lolz.... I am new to nairaland though I have been a guest for close to 4 years now

back to the topic
Nigerian guys will not see responsible and humble girls to date because they are not flashy or they are not too pretty and Behind, they will go to for the slay mama, when those ones slay their heart , they will come to nairaland and start lamenting Nigeria girls are bad

please I am a Nigeria girl and I am good...look for the responsible ones and they will treat you well

Your sisters are Nigeria girls too

don't generalise it madam...not all guys love the popular, most pretty "ilumoka ". some of us love our woman cool headed, private and insidious... but to be candid....today's ladies are scary from the teenage age....Dem don rotten to the bone...I just wondered when things got this bad....laslas we go dey alright

Aileexa1:

If you mean that introverts don't move on easily then you are wrong...I am an introvert and I had been in a relationship with a guy for over a year...Loved him like I had never loved anyone...he broke up because he said I wasn't the right girl for him, that I was too into my shell....Fast forward to three months, after the crying and repeated listening to Adele's songs, I was at least over him to the point that when I saw him, I didn't feel rush of sadness... Just seven months after the break up, after I had moved on and I was already considering another relationship, there he was, in my dms, saying he still loved me and he was sorry and stuff...I just simply ignored his messages. The feelings were already dead....

that 3 month u are sad, someone else has moved on....that seven month u said u are considering been in another relationship...someone has already has two more failed relationship.....moving on means different thing to us....it's either forgetting that person existence (not having a string of sadness from the breakup) or being in another relationship at the moment. no real introvert jump into another relationship after a failed one....we coil back into our shell, enjoying forceful solitude devoid of any chance of heart get hammered again and soon.....maybe we are different Sha !

the introvert one or the one who loves and invest most in the relationship

jamesbridget13:
Money wey you take ur hand send is not scam na. Abi she accessed ur bank account without ur knowledge


Pls you men shld learn how to be contented with babes around you. Who does that, someone u haven't seen! N u expect her to rush n come?

all u are saying is trash talk to fornicator. ow people lay with someone dey don't know personally self still baffles me.....me get trust issue...can't give a stranger the dick talkless of sending 11k. my ancestor would ve risen and treat my Bleep up

Lovelyn451:
na so...wen they finally meet peace of mind they'll say they need a little heart attack to spice it up...insatiable beings!! Peace out

as I said some of us....not all of us are teenager or children who still see relationship as a path to sex or sexual or social entanglement....and who are the insatiable being ?....as I said..."some of us ".

Lovelyn451:
Frequently asked questions by runs babes, or better still, can u afford my cream and soap...but that's the kinda girls u efulefus like na, bad girls, adventurous ladies, slay queens...op u Neva see anything, you'll keep getting that kinda question until u have sense in dis life...rubbish
When they meet a homely well trained lady they'll tag her boring or good girl, take advantage of her and run...efulefus

not all guy want the bad gurl, social media slayers...some of us want peace of mind over loml. peace out !

anytime my ex then girlfriend tells me she is coming over....I don't understand the feeling...maybe it's because my indoor and introvertion.

debbydams:
U ehn

no mind me dear, na wetin eyes see make heart freeze

debbydams:
Fear man too.. quote author=holatin post=91346807]na so life be. despite say I be guy....I treat woman right...ticket cut Las Las nani. it's not about bad gender but bad people. though you ladies have taken the baton of cheating and bad mannerisms from guys....fear woman

year but fear woman more

debbydams:
Hmmmm u guys are saying fear woman upadan.. Wotof guys.. I started dating when I was in 100l level till date I have nver hurt any guy dey hurt me.. No b woman � I be nd I never cheat on any of those animal o..

na so life be. despite say I be guy....I treat woman right...ticket cut Las Las nani. it's not about bad gender but bad people. though you ladies have taken the baton of cheating and bad mannerisms from guys....fear woman