Happy New Year to you all.May this new year bring us God's favor,everlasting joy and all our greatest hear desires be achieve Amen

I never wanted to post anything for now.But I just can't help nt rejoicing wt the inwangobios.wao!wao!!. This is a miracle and I'm so happy for you.God bless them real good and make them your source of joy.How madam doing?
As for me just taking a break frm TTC .Good luck to all.

@Nwagobio: Tnx for ur care, I still dey just taking one day at a time and holding onto God.It good to hear that DW is doing gr8.May God see her thru to the remaining weeks.
I know doctors know best but pls don't let here go beyond 35wks or 36wks because of the dangers involve.
Just last month a sister to a friend of mine who has been TTC for 4yrs and finally got pregnant thru ivf wt triplets,I don't know wch doctor told her she could carry the pregnancy for 38wks.To cut the story short the babies are found dead in her womb.Who is to blame for the loss? She or the doctors.I felt really sad when I got the news.She has been taken abroad for mental treatment b'cos she keep asking where are my babies ? Are they sleeping? Pls wake them let me feed them.
May this never be our portion amen.
To the pregys in the house i wish u a stress free 9months and us still in the waiting room,may God visit us soon amen

Just read a news that brought tears to my eyes; A 400 level student of OAU gave birth to a boy this morning in the hostel toilet and attempted to flush the baby thru the water closet.Thanks to one of the cleaner that heard a baby cry and called for help.This same babies is what sum of us are spending our fortune on just to have one.God only you knows why.
May God crown our effort amen.

@Inwangobio:I dey o,just taking some time off TTC and looking unto God for a miracle.Thanks for the care and how's wifey doing? May God see her thru to the remaining month Amen.
Just read a news that brought tears to my eyes; A 400 level student of OAU gave birth to a boy this morning in the hostel toilet and attempted to flush the baby thru the water closet.Thanks to one of the cleaner that heard a baby cry and called for help.This same babies is what sum of us are spending our fortune on just to have one.God only you knows why.
May God crown our effort.amen.

Just seeing this forum for the first time.Coping wt infertility hmmm ....has nt been easy,especially when news are brought to my notice that so so so person that got married nine month ago has given birth and I keep wondering why mine is taking this long to come.But my dear mamas I leave everything in God' hand b'cos I've tried my best.
This TTC journey had make me distance my self from families and friends just b'cos I don't want any1 to remind me that I don't have a child yet and I hate when people stare at me trying to confirm whether I'm pregnant or not to the extent that I know.
There is this friend of my Dh that use to disturb us asking all the time what are we waiting for that we shud give him a child,when I couldn't bear it again I cut him off; I stop seeing him and stop picking his calls..My dear sisters this same guy is now married for 4yrs now wtout a child,now he knows the impact of those words he used to say to me.

I Always tell God this. " I WILL TRY MY BEST TODAY BUT IF I FAILED PLS REMIND ME THAT YOUR PLANS FOR ME ARE BETTER THAN MY DREAMS.
May Allah answer us all sooner than we expect amen.Baby dust to all.

@AmatuRahman.So sorry,pray almighty Allah will compensate you double sooner than you expect.Takia dear.And to all of us in the waiting room our joy shall arrive by God's grace amen.

@blendy77 and AmatuRahman tnx.NO I'm not starting now just want to know so I can have the idea.Will be doing FET when I'm ready.Start ke my body is stressed so I need a break from TTC just taking prenatal vitamins.

@Blendy77.pls when did u start taking blood thinner(baby aspirin)? I wanted to start taking it right away but my Re said he wouldn't want me to start now b'cos if one has a cut it could lead to excessive bleeding.That he wud want me to start just some days b4 another transfer.

@Slushia.Sorry for that,I know God will do it sooner than u expected.
To all the mamas in the house,happy Mother's Day.And all of us in the waiting room sending truck of baby dust to all.

Tnx Beetle.I feel a bit relieved.

Thanks to all that has taken time to read,comments on this.
Looking back can't believe it been 5yrs of marriage.when I see people arround me getting pregnant with the snap of their fingers and I'm here counting yrs of no issues and I wonder weather there is sumthing that I did in the past that I'm being punished for or is it that God loves them more than me.I've distance myself from families and friend all in the name of TTC.
I fill like I don't have friends anymore but thanks to my DH who stood by me all this yrs,he never make me lack anything but I feel I've betrayed him somehow;seeing him in the mist of his friends with there kids bring tears to my eyes.All I needed is children of my own,a complete family.
I'm tired of tests,docs,fetility treatment for now.Think I need a break from TTC for now.

@Blendy77.Congratulations and Happy wedding anniversary.

@safe06.Thx and I say amen to ur prayer in sha Allah.

@safe06 thanks for the advise.
@Berrybass thanks appreciate ur advice.

@Hebrew Woman thanks for replying my message really appreciate it.The 3 miscarriages occur in the 1st trimester btw 5-7weeks.Well for the 1st two miscarriage I never got tested but for the third one i seek another Re opinion and my blood was tested every week to check for abnormalities from the day I got my Bfp and everything was fine.I saw the baby heartbeat @ 6weeks 2days, did another blood wok 3days later and everything was still fine.Only for me to go back @ 7weeks 2days and the heartbeat has stop beating.
My Re said he could get the tissues and clots from the miscarriage tested but it will cost a lot ( btw $3000-$4000),that it nt worth it dey may not find anything.My Re said from the blood work he should know if things are not ok but all seems to be fine.
I guess will take to your advise as per giving myself a break and turning to God for a miracle.But I was thinking of taking FERTILAID during the break period,what do you think about the herbal supplements? thanks once again.

@venuss thanks.Will check it out.

@Beetle thanks a lot will take note of the drugs.

@Bebedlolo thx alot .For the 3 Ivf it has been different doctors.I think my issue is not about docs it abt them able to figure out what is really causing it.Alll the docs are equal to the task most especially the last doc that did the ivf. I will note insist on that next time.

@beetle thx for ur concern.I made mention of sumthing like that to my doc.He said from all the blood work that he carried out on me shows that I have no history of blood clot in me.So that is why I never used it.By the way what is STEROID?

Thank you all for your words and encouragement.I pray almighty God will see us thru and answer our prayers sooner than we expect.

Hello all,been reading thru this thrend for a while now and want to say I'm really happy for all the new mamas in the house.May God make them your source of joy.
My question Is directed to Hebrew Woman,what is it that you did differently after your miscarriages that you think help to carry the pregnancy to term? I have had 3 miscarriage too.
Thanks and will really appreciate it if you reply ASAP.Sending baby dust to those in the waiting.May God answer our prayers sooner than we expect.

@Beetle.I based in port harcourt Nigeria but not in town presently.

@Raymondenyi,thx for the advice.U said it all; the society we find ourself sometimes determine our life but one can try change it to suite ones happiness.
@Safe06 thx.Will try do that.

Hello,just wondering if any1 out there is having RPL in this our journey of TTC and see may be we can help each others in combating this satanic recurrence with prayers,encouragement and testimonies from those that have fought the battle and won.If there is anything you did differently after a miscarriage/s to achieve pregnancy and carry the baby to full term.Your opinion is highly welcome.
I have been in this TTC journey for 5yrs,Dh and I have tried naturally but no avail.Use comid, follcullar tracking,done all the test u can talk of in this world but all came out ok.
We decided to result to ivf since we are nt getting younger anymore.We did ivf 3 times but lost all the pregnancy arround 4-6wks.
Don't know what else to do that is why I decided to open this thrend.Instead of dying in silence and feeling left alone why not share this at least a problem shared is half solved.
Thanks.

@All. Sorry that I had to tell this to the house.I'm devastated and heartbroken right now.My eyes are swollen from tears.My third ivf just failed again.
I saw my baby's heartbeat last week that I started rejoicing and praising God because I never get to this stage wt my previous ivfs; only for me to do another scan yesterday and the heartbeat is gone. ..I'm really sad and feel so alone.God what have I done to deserve this .

@All; I think we shud all beware of those that give concoctions.I've heard of a place in port harcourt called Obigbo that people go their to collect concoction and they say it certain that u will conceive and have a baby @ a price of 500k.But what I keep telling them is that it is only God that is certain anything else is nt real.
I've heard of 3 people that went there; Mrs A,B and C. Mrs A went there to collect concoction,she conceived and gave birth to a baby but the baby dies 7days later.
Mrs B went there to collect concoction,during the time she was taking the concoction she had a dream that she and some women are queuing up in front of IROKO tree begging for a child.I think God want to save her that is why she got the revelation.
Mrs C went there to collect concoction,she conceived and gave birth to a baby boy that is almost 2yrs old now b'cos it worked for her the first time she decided to go for another baby.
I learnt dat they don't pay a dine until day of delivery,you also cannot attend any other hospital except there's own,and they will be the one to tell u when u'll give birth.
As I was saying Mrs C went there d second time but when it time for delivery she did have 500k to pay so they told her she can't deliver until she get the money complete.since them she has been carrying the pregnancy for almost a year and half.She went to the hospital they couldn't find any baby inside her womb,she now decided to go to the church where the pastor pray for her but the pastor told her to go back to where they tie her womb that they will be the one to untie it.
Can you now see that she decided to dine with the devil and the devil has taken charge of her life.
So my fellow TTC women pls stick to only God and medical means.I know our God has not forgotten us as he did for some of us in this NL so he shall do for the rest of us AMEN.We will all give our testimonies soonest on this forum.

Hello all,hope evry1 is ok? May God accept our prayers and grant us our heart desires.
@peace5050; I think what you shud concentrate on now is to fast and pray to God to direct u to where u'll get ur Bfp and finally have ur babies.It nt a matter of one clinic is the best,some people go to d least clinic and they got there Bfp and have there babies.
Frm my own experience,I did my previous ivf @ the Bridge clinic and it didnt click.I encouraged a friend to try it too but she was a little scare that sumthing dat didn't work for me how I'm I sure it going to work for her but I told her dat b'cos it didn't work for me doesn't mean it nt going to work for her,dat she shud fast and prayer hard on it b4 embarking on it.She did as I told her and her first attempt resulted in a bouncing baby girl last month.Hope that help.Sending baby dust to all.

@believer84.A big congratulation on the arrival of ur precious princesses.May God bless them real good.God is the greatest and he shall not disappoint the rest of us too.He will surely put a smile on our faces very very soon.Amen

@Topal.Congratulation on the arrival of your boundles of joy.May God make her great among her peers.

@Tanidabi thanks.I'm taking as much bed rest as I can and I pray to almighty God to make this my source of joy and see me thru to 40 weeks.Amen.
To those on the waiting list God will answer us all.Sending baby dust to u y'all.

@tanidabi,tnx again.My advise to u is to sit with your doc. and discuss,if your sis wedding is going to fall arrd the time u will be taking your injections then you can go for your sis weddin and take your injection along.But if it going to fall on ER or ET date then may be you can suspend it till you come back from your sis wedding if it compulsory u have to be there for her.I pray this will work for you this time amen.
@subzidi.Thank you for attending Blendy77 naming ceremony.God bless you real good.We shall all rejoice with you very soon.But my dear you need to be very careful with the drugs you are taking.Stop self medication,let your oby/gyne prescribe drugs for you b4 taking.
Sometime you may be doing more harm to yourself than good by taking all those drugs.The only drug that I no one can take is folic acid (400mg) per day.So pls consult your doc and discuss with him/her how you can improve ur egg quality and don't leave out your husband.He can take drugs too if need be.I pray almighty God grant us our heart desires soonest amen.
Thanks and sending sticky vibes to all.

@mostmerciful,good luck to you.I pray almighty God perfect this for you and every1 of us in this house.Trust in God,have faith and stay positive @ all time.Sending baby dust to all.