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RomanceRe: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by hope4charles(m): 8:02pm On Mar 29, 2016
ba7man:
I bought a car first too.


The car is what you'll use to convince prospective clients to pay you enough money to buy land...... they think... "if you're so smart, how come you've not being paid enough to afford a car "

In Nigeria, it's hard to move ahead without packaging.
You killed it, sometimes peeps see u on the same level with them or even look down on you because they have one rickety car like that, packaging is good and pays everywhere even in Nigeria.
RomanceRe: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by hope4charles(m): 7:36pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Come and see me ooo.
I have this friend who is working in one of lagos big companies.
He asked me to advise him about buying a land or getting a car.

I advised him to go for a choiced land and forget buying a car, since he is living very close to his office. He insisted on buying a car and i was so amgry with him cus, why would he ask for advise while he is bent on doing what appease his mind?

He bought the car today and offered me a ride and i went out with him.
But i seriously think he is a fool.

What do yoy think?

Over to the house.
I am planning on doing same, what the F can't one for once enjoy gratifying things than delay gratification, I see no bad in what he did, because it's his money his sweat,
CrimeRe: Kidnapped Army Officer Found Dead by hope4charles(m): 7:03pm On Mar 29, 2016
Are u sure? Don't come here and post unverified information.
PoliticsRe: It's Official Nigeria Is Falling Apart by hope4charles(m): 6:52am On Mar 27, 2016
klassicview:
some Yoruba people shouting one Nigeria will say that Facebook account is fake.

https://mobile.facebook.com/nura.lawal.142?fref=nf&pn_ref=story&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.540101729348510%3Atl_objid.100002795830398%3A540101729348510%3Athid.100002795830398%3A306061129499414%3A64%3A1325404800%3A1357027199%3A1014798318828062961&__tn__=C


The truth is that there's nothing like one Nigeria. but Oil Nigeria.
Baba oh forget that guy, he is talking trash, his people are the major losers in the fire inferno that happened. I saw things myself.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Kano- Sabon Gari Market On Fire!!!. by hope4charles(op): 1:35pm On Mar 26, 2016
ojnnaco:
Don't be so surprise . they already know what they are into .. this is the second time this year
my brother it is baffling me oh. Just this year 2 major fire incident? Hmmm.
Lalasicala please front page to Notify people and Igbo road, france road bata road all blocked due to the fire.
Nairaland GeneralKano- Sabon Gari Market On Fire!!!. by hope4charles(op): 1:27pm On Mar 26, 2016
I am so suprised nobody is talking about it or no Topic about it, According to eye witnesses that the fire started by around 2am uptill now fire safety guys are still battling to quench the raging fire, I went there and saw the level of destruction oh God it is big, and what baffels me is that several lines are burning independently as if its some kind of arson setup, the loss is much, i wept in my heart for their loss i pray God restores them and the Goverment should please see how to help them. Its devastating.
RomanceRe: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by hope4charles(m):
huh What's up
girls with misplaced priorities, if you no spend they complain, u speed this one complain. But Op if your post is really true, Relax. And have this believe i have. If She is Yours she will come back if she aint yours let her go. Atleast u never wronged her heaven knows so be cool any where she carry ur mata go u go win her.
Christianity EtcRe: Man With Grown Boobs Allegedly Delivered At A Crusade (photos) by hope4charles(m): 3:41pm On Mar 24, 2016
Hahahahahahahahaha hahhaha. This is damn funny.
PetsRe: Strange Animal Killed At Football Field by hope4charles(m): 3:35pm On Mar 24, 2016
That animal ain't strange it's cavet or so, someone remind me what's it's name
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 11:37am On Mar 24, 2016
Heineken:
lol. She go become caterpillar na. Fat girls no dey sweet sef. I no know wetin do me during my service bro.. I enter one joint after I Don high I see this girl.... We enter truly she fat.. She opened ehn I swear my highness cleared sharply. Swag dem no get sef.
Lol, anyway, they should know that since they demand romance they should also stay trim so both will be better appreciated and work together.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 11:03am On Mar 24, 2016
Heineken:
hahahahah.. This thang happened to me just last week. The girl na my long lost friend. Mehn I saw her last wk and she Don fat.. As I go pick her na sense I use dey her back... She say make I come front na..as we reach house she start dey vex say me no want make people see us together..I say no be so.. I just York her since then I no call her.. Fat ke
Hahahahahahahahaha badt guy, serious I did the same thing last 2 months to a chic, long lost friend she come fat lose even shape come even dey tell me say she dey snore ohh, and that any man that will not accept her like that should leave, my guy after that day invitation, I no dey related well with am again, she come block me for what's app, unfriend me for Facebook, oly boy na so I come dey thank God say she use her hand run. Lol fat mbanu. If I marry u slim and u come fat when u born I go understand, but now u never born u come bloat like this ol boy when u born u go become bloatware then.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 10:41am On Mar 24, 2016
Heineken:
man you're sharp. Take five Jor......I can't Marry fat girls o because I go shy to stroll with her sef.
Thanks God someone gets the drift, ol boy na this kind case of fat girls way if we dey stroll I go dey back dey form call or text she go dey front think say na me and her dey. Lol shame sabi catch me oh
PoliticsRe: Events In This Country Have Justified That Nigeria Is Indeed A Zoo (A Must Read) by hope4charles(m):
omenka:
I live in a Country, the name of that country is Nigeria, and it is NOT a ZOO.

If anyone says they live in a ZOO, then they must indeed be animals.

Mr man, stop trying too hard to earn back support from your estranged fans. They'll re-embrace you if they will in their own time. Your initial "apology" obviously didn't hit bull's eye, now you have to call the, country which you profess to be loyal to, a Zoo (just like them) simply to make yourself more attractive to them.

It is only a matter of time before you start spamming the forum with pro-Biafran threads, all in a desperate bid to recover your fans.

Such a pity.
Omenka, I don't think he is trying to get support besides what will he do with it? He is making a valid point and you should atleast see his point and affirm to it so that we together can try to make these Kings and rulers fulfil their promises to the masses. We want Nigeria to improve.
PoliticsRe: Events In This Country Have Justified That Nigeria Is Indeed A Zoo (A Must Read) by hope4charles(m): 9:54am On Mar 24, 2016
bloodykiller:
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counter the argument he raised or just Sharap and get out
sore looser
Nonsense!

I love facts irrespective of who is dishing it out and this thread is just a pure undiluted facts.
if you don't like it just get out and dive into the ocean
onye ala
Thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin
Hahahahahahahahaha @ ur pix, I have been banned for using my regular name I don't want another ban again on this new one I manage, anything bia now dey attract ban my side, I was banned twice in a month, but I would have loved to comment on this.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 9:22am On Mar 24, 2016
Adaeze003:
I weigh about 72 myself, I'm 5'10 and I'm more than content with my body. So any modern man that doesn't like me should shift na, plenty fish in the sea...

I still repeat that there are better ways to go about it if he truly loves her. Go jogging with her, register in a gym with her or find someone to go with her if he can't coz working out is fun when there's someone else and it'll serve as motivation. You don't motivate someone by kicking them down! I mean, they have been dating for 5 years, I'm pretty sure he knows her and what such words can do to her.

Imagine if your girl told you "see, your mates have cars and ya still jumping keke" as a modern man that you are, will you feel motivated?

I just don't want to give the op any advise before someone will say Adaeze ruined a relationship... but I know I can't even keep such people as acquaintances....
Adaeze wow, I get ur point, but u need to understand that the criticism here is supposed or intend to be a motivational one, that will spur her to start making or taking necessary steps to work on herself, some women can be obstinate sometimes, so a little coercing is important to keep her on her toes, if my girl tell me that my mates are riding cars I am into kekes I will take it as a challenge and improve, but remember we are talking about health here so she should maybe due to sabi sabi she has maybe stopped been beautiful and sexy the way she use to be, 5yrs, so don't blame the man much, the OP is old enough to know what she wants.
Besides you are quite healthy and trim despite that I haven't seen u, lemme speak my native language, Nne ebu spec nm. Lol

RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 5:13am On Mar 24, 2016
Adaeze003:
Oga you need to relax or are you the said bf? Why are you all over the thread?

Is 70kg that bad? Talking of health risks?? Is it really that bad? I get that we all got different tastes but if he doesn't like her that way, can't he just let her be? Than treat her that way?

The way I see things in my own world, if you don't like me stay the hell away! Don't come and start trying to order me around and compare me to other people like, since you saw them slim shady chicks, why didn't get go to them? like hell, what if I like my weight?? Seriously?!

What kind of silly love will he claim while trying to make her feel like crap? There are better ways to do things like this!
lol Nne i am not the said bf, i am just airing my mind as a modern man, women alot of times need coercing to get them working. I can assure u that the bf loves her but is a bit fustrated, she should do the best thing work on her body, i went to ur profile to check u out and didnt see any pix, had it been i saw i would made a conclusion.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 5:01am On Mar 24, 2016
Savigne:
Nobody is saying she shouldnt lose weight but not bcuz a FIANCEE dictated that it ought to be so...
Why compare her with her friend?... that's a huge blow to her self esteem.
If he wants her to work on herself cuz he loves her then he should hav chosen a better way to put it across to her..
Imagine giving her conditions,and this is supposed to be a relationship?...
Pls...make we dey see truth talk abeg.
hmmm. You know women can sometimes be sturbbon who knows how many times he might have talked and talked, if the comparisim made her bulge even to the extent of opening a thread, it seems its a nice one, she is now challenged.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 8:24pm On Mar 23, 2016
mikolo80:
dunno what this dude is talking about. some of us like fat babes. dude is trying to lay foundation for future cheating as he don see maga. Halle Berry de dia you go meet Serena Williams come de force am to lose weight. the guy blind for the beginning
lol. Ok oh.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 6:26pm On Mar 23, 2016
okuneddie:
bros no Mata the time she dey spend for gym the fat will surely come out when she born.....I don't know maybe she might be able to work out everyday and that's if she has the stuffs at home but don't forget she will be married by then and won't have time for gym......and u bro I pity ur condition, if u are not yet married do u know there are lots of women that are slimmer than agbani darego before marriage but once they give birth, the will be like person wey x200 of their former stature......I have seen alot so when it happens will u divorce ur wife?
guy never pity me now, i wount divorce her, but my guy how women did u saw that lost weight? Them beyounce, tiwa, tonto and a host of others, i will presuade her and if possible force,coerce, manipulate her to change. Lol.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 5:23pm On Mar 23, 2016
VenusBetty:
dude the fact is since you don't like fat ladies you'll look for a slim lady and be sure she'll not turn fat once she starts giving birth, what happened to I LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE.?
i love the way u are not coming in 2 my house and going bloated like bloatware after few years, lol. The problem with alot of women is that they don't want to retain the initial stature due to i have arrivied syndrome which pisses men off, imagine walkn with her and people askin u is this u mother? Make them beyounce, tiwas weight role model at least they have given birth too and retained their stature1
CelebritiesRe: Topless Photo From The Set Of A Nollywood Movie (graphic Photo) by hope4charles(m): 3:17pm On Mar 23, 2016
Dyt:
See the mumu man smiling
His okpon for almost don tear boxers
Ur mouth na atomic bomb oh, lol make the man no see wetin u write if not u no escape oh.
BusinessRe: Cow Horns Still Needed; Location Is Lagos by hope4charles(m): 11:07am On Mar 23, 2016
proudlyNigeria2:
Pls I am in still in need of cow horns.. Quantity needed is 10tons. Suppliers should send their details for contacting. Thank you
If you are truly interested I can arrange it for u, hopeforcharles@gmail.com.
RomanceRe: Help!!, My Sisters Disagrees With My Choice Of A Fiancee (chats Inclusive) by hope4charles(op): 10:46am On Mar 23, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Just be careful bro.[/color]
Thanks bro, I will keep that in mind.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 10:42am On Mar 23, 2016
Elzends:
Gym, wen u finally slim down, breakup with him..... I don't like fat ladies shaa but 4 the guy to begin nag all of a sudden and worse, compare u with someone else............... My sister please read the hand writing on the wall....
We are guys, anyi ma onwe anyi
Worst advice ever, why would she brake up with him, have u ever thought, what if the guy has tried it in a cool way and she doesn't take it serious? Would it have been better if he had broke up with her based on it or to use this means of comparison to inspire her to change, she should be challenged,
If it's my type I don't do comparisons I will just walk out, simple but I will make sure I have told u everything including the health benefits and detriments.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 10:37am On Mar 23, 2016
sas91:
thanks, I wld try my best. I felt hurt the way he said it to me with much anger or hatred if I May say, I wld do it for myself and for the health benefits.
Do it for ur self and for him too, we do things for the one we love, seriously I broke up with a lady based on this weight issues, when I knew her she was trendy and sexy, fast forward now she was so obessed that she lost shape, when I finally say her we just hanged out for once I lost interest, why because I can't find my self enduring it, I will have self esteem problem, the lady in question I adviced her to work towards that but she didn't see it fit, so dearie please do it health wise it's great, self esteem it is wow, remember we are moved by what we see packaging
RomanceRe: Life Facts, Yhink Think Deep Before You Make A Mistake. by hope4charles(op): 9:35am On Mar 23, 2016
mimzy:
OP kindly edit your post and make it more readable. i think its too jam-packed. no offence. thanks
Tis okay sweets, I have edited it for una reading pleasure. Hope u picked some nuggets therein.
RomanceRe: Help!!, My Sisters Disagrees With My Choice Of A Fiancee (chats Inclusive) by hope4charles(op): 9:27am On Mar 23, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol baba forget joke. Na true I talk na.

Well don't mind your sisters...just follow your heart and try to make them understand because it's not just about marrying her. You wouldn't want them to be bad sister-in-laws I suppose. smiley[/color]
You get the drift be that, I will like them all to work together in unity, it's not that I can't ditch them and do my mind I just want them to see my reasons and accept her. U try bruv.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Complains That I'm Too Fat by hope4charles(m): 9:24am On Mar 23, 2016
okuneddie:
I swear Na ur body he love no be u and the funniest thing is that we u get married and after giving birth ur weight will past 70kg....he won't tell u that u are too fat then but he will then cheat on u....who knows if he is not even doing it now.....I weigh 86kg and no one is complaining even though I got no gal now but my friends are cool with it....if u will be able to bear heartbreaks go on with him but don't open another thread then.....I will even curse u if u do..
You all talking as if you guys don't understand the physic of a man, a man is moved by what he sees a woman is moved by what she hears, me personally I don't like fat women because it comes with a lot of its difficulties and side effects, I will first see ur features and lust after it and when I see ur characters and those inward good things I will then fall in love, so sister all those saying that the guy is after ur body are basically deceiving you, u better hit the gym and look trendy and trim, so that guy won't be shy working around with u, we all want the best.
RomanceLife Facts, Yhink Think Deep Before You Make A Mistake. by hope4charles(op):
THINKING DEEP IN ALL ACTIONS.

1. If you are SINGLE and keep on saying "I DON'T TRUST MEN OR
WOMEN!" Remember your mates are getting married every Saturday.
Let me ask c you, are they marrying spirits? Wise up!

2. If you are MARRIED and keep saying "I HATE THIS MARRIAGE!"
OK! Is it not married people like you that are celebrating Gold, Silver
and even Platinum jubilee?

3. If you keep on ranting, ''I'M LEAVING MY MAN, HE CHEATED ON
ME!" Please, go to town and see all the fine, cute, sexy, hot, hungry
and desperate chicks waiting to snatch your man's money and
property, they don't even mind sharing. Make it work, my friend!

4. Stop saying "I HATE MY JOB!" Look! 20 million people are jobless
and can't even find any not to talk of keeping it! Do you want to
join them?

5. You keep saying "I HATE WHERE I LIVE!" Oh please! *tears* Try
visiting those locations that are flooding now, people living in tin/zinc
shacks in winter or people living/sleeping under the bridge at night
and you will be grateful to God that you even have a place to stay!

6. Some say "I AM TIRED OF THIS LIFE!" Well, go to the hospital and
see people fighting for their lives! Go to the mortuary and take a look then tell me what you feel after that!

The point is, be positive and
believe in God, that's all that matters. Be Blessed.

CHERISH EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE: To realize the value of a
sister/brother ask someone Who doesn't have one.
To realize the value of ten years: Ask a newly divorced couple.
To realize the value of four years: Ask a graduate.
To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a
final exam.
To realize the value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.
To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother Who has given birth
to a premature baby.
To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the
train, bus or plane.
To realize the value of one second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident.
Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.
Only those who lose one realize the value of a friend or family
member.
Remember. Hold on tight to the ones you love! Enjoy the moments you have with them.
They are the stress free moments in your life.
I hope we will all reflect on this.
Good morning .
RomanceRe: Help!!, My Sisters Disagrees With My Choice Of A Fiancee (chats Inclusive) by hope4charles(op): 10:46pm On Mar 22, 2016
coolscott:
Support her to go for her nursing and complete it this time. Your sisters will keep quiet forever.
Also mind you, the venture will not stop her/you from being entrepreneurial throughout (during and after) the educational ordeal
word. Inspirational.

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