₦airaland Forum

Human Rights Activist Tayo Demola has blasted Reverend father Ejike Mbaka, the spiritual Director of the Adoration Ministries of the catholic church for publicly embarrassing the former governor of Anambra state, Peter Obi over Obi's inability to donate money to his church during a church program held in the church which the former governor attended along with other dignitaries.

In a video posted on his Twitter handle, the activist condemned the attitude of the man of God and that of many other Nigerian pastors who have turned the pulpit into an avenue to generate income for themselves and their churches at the detriment of the masses of Nigeria.

He commended Peter Obi for his integrity and for resisting all attempts by father Mbaka to force him to donate money to his church. Tayo Demola called on all Nigerians to rise up and resist any attempt by any person to steal our common wealth all in the name of donating such money to churches to please their pastors.


Watch the video below. And let's have your views. Lol...


What do you think about this raging issue? Pastors now use the alter to siphon money??


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uD9-C52br-Q

Hmm

KanwuliaMama:
Says who?
Agbero wives do not submit and they last well-well!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZtgUHFRFdM

What type of children do agberos have? Is that what u should wish for?

May God provide for u in this trying times. May God be with u.

Attention seeeeeker!

I hope you will fulfill your promises

monex:
(1) not everyone is a christian or religious
(2) women who do not want to submit still marry. They only need to find men who do not place much value in submission
(3) They do not have to remain in their father's house. They can build bigger houses than their suitors can and live in those houses

Men who don't place too much emphasis on submission are there but the ego of men makes majority of them value submission a lot.

freddaboh:
You will care when your biological clock gets to 35.

That's what u men use to deceive many of us. But I can't be deceived. Biological clock is only a thing of the mind, live ur life the way u deem fit, create ur own world. No one can stampede u into anything except u allow them to. Biological clock my foot!

koyyes:
This man looks like a brute. Fake pastor. Why can't he just say the truth for once?Must he justify violence?

It's amazing how most african males love the word 'submission' but are not willing to submit to the one who originated marriage.

If you tackle marital issues without including your creator, then you are simply wasting your time. Just remain and die single.

If you cannot live like a responsible christian, dump the religion and marry a woman who loves visiting shrines when she has problems with you.

Well in as much as I won't hold brief for Tayo Demola, did he justify violence by asking women to submit to their husbands? Did u really watch the video? Is there anything like justifying violence in that video? I've watched it & I didn't see anything of such.

koyyes:
This man looks like a brute. Fake pastor. Why can't he just say the truth for once?Must he justify violence?

It's amazing how most african males love the word 'submission' but are not willing to submit to the one who originated marriage.

If you tackle marital issues without including your creator, then you are simply wasting your time. Just remain and die single.

If you cannot live like a responsible christian, dump the religion and marry a woman who loves visiting shrines when she has problems with you.

Well in as much as i won't hold brief for him, what is justifying violence in asking women to submit to their husbands? Did u really watch the video?

Love me, i love u back, respect me i will do same

solasoulmusic:
Submitting is not the issue the prayer is when you do let the devil not lead him to treat you less

Abi ooh my sister

Colonelswitz101:
90% of those men u see in ur area abusing n disrespecting thier wives are those unlucky ones who married arrogant and ignorant women who naturally do not know their place in thier home...
I'm not in support of physical abuse n can never be part of it buh I have my ways of bending those arrogant ones....
There are many ways to kill a stubborn rat...
Any feminist dat comes my way in marriage will kneel n beg me to beat her because wetin d person go see go hard am to comprehend

Beg u to beat her? Funny one there. And if she begs u to beat her, u will beat her? So u will punish her to the extent that it would have been better to have beaten her than such punishment? Isn't it? Why would u be so wicked to ur own wife?

Sugarrveiii:
YAwns* leaves thread

Why na

SouLPoison:
All this guys hitting on the submission thing, it actually depends on the character of the man, I don't think anybody would want their sister to be wih an abusive and disrespectful husband. Nigeria men needs grooming too, I know what am seeing in this my area here alone

Well said

For every action, there is an equal & opposite reaction. Love begets love, respect begets respect.

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weyreypey:
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I need a wife I will honour....who will also be submissive to me totally.

Hmmmm, "totally", underline the word totally. Yes there are women who will submit totally as long as u treat her right. But many men treat women shabilly & still expect total submission. How is that possible? Respect begets respect.

The moment each person knows how to treat each other, there will be no question of arrogance. It's meeting the right partner that matters. Everything will fall in place when u meet the right person.

And after taking advantage of u, they still expect u to submit sheepishly, how can that work?

habsydiamond:
that means most women also use men in marriage as their ATM machines

Men use women too & take advantage of us in many ways.

DaniDani:
You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

If so, then if guys can't treat a woman well & show her love, don't think of marriage too. It applies to men too.

LordKO:
Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes. Women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never last long in marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just is their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.

This is good idea, even coming from a guy, love is more important, not all those that keep shouting submit as if a woman is now a slave to the man

dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

True talk, they want to hide under that word "submit" to enslave women

If u don't treat me right, if u treat me like trash, forget that word submit in the house, except u treat me well like a queen & appreciate me wella

Respect is reciprocal, not only from the side of the woman

But must it be totally? For God's sake d woman is not a slave na. Love is more important

What do u think? This question of submit, submit, submit to ur man always. Must everything be all about women submitting to their husbands, so the man will continue to lord it over the woman , no one advises the man, it's always women they advise every time.

Women who don't submit to their husbands can never have a lasting marriage by Tayo Demola

Do u guys agree with this? According to Nigerian writer/Activist & Relationship Coach, Tayo Demola, any woman who does not totally submit herself to her husband will never have a lasting marriage and her marriage will crash.

In a video he tweeted & shared on his Twitter handle & also on YouTube, he also said woman are not submissive to their husbands and that is what causes domestic violence in the home. Hmm

Do u agree?

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coNnWSAMPiI


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dingbang:
If you think its ok for a guy to ask you for sex on the first date, and you dont mind giving him sex, please go ahead and ask him for the money.

who is talking about s3x here

Ha ha ha

why all of u saying it's not right, hmm

2buffagain:
No. It is never okay to beg someone you just met on a date for money.

Better after the date, you go beg on the street.

Why na, what if u need it badly

Hmm!