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InvertedHammer:
They are not the same emotionally but technically they are the same because there is only a thin line between them.

I believe that a man who enjoys having anal sex with ladies will definitely bang another man if the right opportunity presents itself. By the way, such men have inalienable right to deny that they are not the same. Their twisted mindsets should be accommodated and not condemned. It is the public condemnation that brings forth the denial.

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Guys that are in prison or have been can relate to this WORD

If u notice its guys that really took this to heart. I think this is such a rubbish subject but it reminds me of one girl I met while serving. When we got close and intimate she told me she was a virgin but would let me have anal sex with her. That experience for me just proved that no matter how inexperienced a person is sexually more time than not they are open to idea of all kinds of sex. As far as I'm concerned all these guys that r bashing her probably because she hit a nerve. How easy is it to have regular sex let alone anal or oral. For all u know some of these brothers could be open to gay sex- from what I've seen there are r a lot of undacova homos out there, especially in 9j

Many parents don't know the harm they do their children by being unnecessarily harsh or strict.

Well op I think you're asking a real question on d wrong forum. ppl here dont know that life has 2 sides. Inform ur grown up male friends that are calm, they can be helpful to you. And relax you will find ur own girl soon.

I as an introvert got disvirgined at a brothel cus of d fear of chatting up a girl. The ashy gave me a submissive sex and I kinda became addicted to brothels. I'm not advising you to do same though. Just wait a little longer..you'll find a girl

I just pray its a girl who understands you. Cus only few girls are mature enough to make efforts to understand ppl..most of them always want to be understood, than trying to understand someone else. Spot On Bro- Ur on point. Parents really mess up their kids especially Nigerians- being oppresive and exacting dominance rather than guidance does lead to the problems and can give a person a complex of some sort. I can relate but I think if ur introverted don't see it as a problem, its not a disease or condition, after all there is nothing wrong with limiting how free u r with people. I think what's important is that u be mature and look for a lady that's mature. Like bros sed don't resort to going to a brothel to find a woman that will approach u- u will regret it, plus its just not plain worth it. U can get a friend to talk to a lady for u, but I would say u man up, even if it means resorting to dutch courage- you'll find what to say trust there's no format, infact doesn't matter what u say just say something. Ask for a number when u have no more to say and ur home and dry

cant stop laughing this is some funny shit the weather. like seriously? are u telling me there r no cucumber or at least even mango tree in camp if u r that desperate

HATERS IN THE BUILDING!

the only solution to this problem called Nigeria is to start farming in your compound. those that are saying get ur PVC cards ready for 2019 how sure r u this man won't die before the time is nigh and even if he doesnt what difference does it make who can become president and change this ever worsening hopelessness

I'm sure even if u dont think it looks better now u must definitely feel better. like when I had afro. I hated it having too much hair on ur head can be irritating

obviously u must have read to state that u won't read smh. Boredom has elapsed. Im going back tonight and this time I'll b drunk to give an update tbc

So I was so bored the other day and decided to go to a nearby joint the other day. I decided not to drink just chill listen to sum jam and catch groove uno and realised maybe because I was sober that all the olosho/ ashawo gals wey full d place look so unattractive and out of shape. Mehn see when ur not balanced ladies can deceive u. Despite all da packaging wit make up and all da shit dey wear u will see even those in their 20s will b so unappealing to the eye. and anotha thing I notice is that they will b the same ones to approach u and start soliciting for short time. well me ive never liked that. Prefer to talk to women I actually feel attracted to. Its good at least there's this cute girl at the same place DAT collects d bottles at the bar, not as local as all de ashi average height and average complexion but very bubbly, and Ol boy if u see shape on Dis one. when I seh everytin V! but onli prob afta I don talk finish I no buy drink so na in make d girl come bone for me, no gree gimme her numba! Chai Dis life FML

my teeth der so strong and my resilience. I never give up. im very persistent. o I do love my waves as well and my sarcastic and cynical personality because it makes it possible to get along with only ppl that understand wat dat is hehe

op its like u believe Nigerians r civilised. In a country where nothing come sure, how u wan make person care about teet

they dont wear footwear

Formation

getting tattooed on my Adam's apple. Apparently its the most sensitive part of a man's body. Pain is pleasure YOLO

Hi there all, I've genuinely been wondering now for sometime what ladies mean when they describe themselves as being "simple" Call me a cynic but I do feel that a guy's view is definitely different from that of a girl's perspective.... so then ladies, gents what's ur take? - For instance as a 21st century dude I would like to believe that it means she is easy going, kind, motherly, not materialistic, homely, not flashy and loud (appearance-wise) etc .... the list goes on. However I spoke to this chic I used to go to school with and she was telling me that she's "simple" - in the sense that she's "God fearing" (what does that mean) ? easy to please, accommodating, not to dressy- I'll give her that she doesn't wear a lot of make up or have some extensively detailed weave, but I mean I'm not convinced! Do guys really see being "simple" as meaning the same thing that ladies take it to be??

When will people learn? It's "I'm" not "Am" ..

Hi there. I read ur post op and I must say that I can empathise with ur plight. I myself used to sweat profusely a few years ago but this was when I first arrived in Nigeria. Initially I was very confused as I wasn't used to it and eventually figured that I hadn't acclimatized. Things were really bad to start off with and I tried everything u could possibly think off to combat it, even using antiseptic liquid which actually went as far as damaging my skin as a result of my attempt to dry out my pores. Anyway just so as not to talk to much I recommend that u find a way of getting used to the climate. Perhaps start jogging, sit in the heat and let ur body regulate (as if u were using a sauna), drink tea etc. There r many other ways but that's all I can offer as advice, cheers and best of luck!

just wanna know where does he ball? d court looks lyk DAT YMCA place in ikoyi or maybe its 1004

From my own experience money is always a factor. It's funny though because when u explore categories u'll find that really young ladies, I'm talking those in their early 20's so to speak do seem to shade less emphasis on what you have as a guy than those who or older. Tbh it's only an issue if u prefer older ladies I think. But here's my point it doesn't matter whether church, runs or even working class.. The only other thing any female wants other than money is attention; if you can balance one over the other then ur good2go

The lady is a hypocrite. She claims that she wishes to offer her services to the disgraced person. Can she really do that? For free at least and seflessly without any reason motivated by personal gain. I believe if so and with being able to convince your prospective client of such, then and only then shall you stand the possibilty of enabling her regain her self worth and thus improving your own. The truth is that this all boils down to ego really!