I believe the Most High is Female and Male, as one complements the other. According to the laws of the Universe everything has an opposite. Even within ourselves we have male and female elements.

Some egotistical men were determined to make the female a subhuman and not an equal so they banished any references of the female element and disposed of all her followers by trying them as witches, blasphemers etc

The Catholic Church recognises the Female element as Mary, Mother of Jesus but they would not admit she is the Female element of the Most High.

bari_kade:

There's no need for you to get acrid and call the Bible ambiguous or accuse anyone of double standards. It is true believers are as guilty as charged - we love the Bible, and if you don't, no qualms.

The bible is ambiguous, I'm not hating, it is a known fact especially after kings and Popes tampered with it. How else would you explain the images of Christ being described and potrayed as a Black man by early Christians then suddenly portrayed as a mid century European noble man. The only part that has not been adjusted is the revelations because that in itself is a mystery.

Also I didn't say you should or should not love it as it is up to the individual. However i am allowed to give my own opinion which i did.

Double Standards


Also along with Jesus who got taken up into the heavens on clouds, Elijah could have been said to have been carried away by a spaceship which was described as a chariot of fire.

Now tell me there were no extraterrestrial activities going on here

"The creator" is in fact a number of beings sent down to earth - Eloheem.

lol

Every man wants a woman who can 'work it' in the bedroom. Even you, so don't even go there with the stooshness. I won't front, I would like a man who can give me the 'wickedest slam' and entertain my mind. If your woman was crap in bed you would look elsewhere to get satisfied. Admit it.

You said you were too scared dating another and now you are suggesting you jump into the fire with me? lol

Actually men over here are scared of a woman who is 'up and doing' and tend to go for the less confident ones who will then think the sun shines out of their .

Men do not commit because they feel it will lead to marriage. Simple. I can be doing well financially, submissive as a housewife, prepare finger lick'n meals, be a slut in the bedroom along with a body that's slamming and the man will still have a reason not to commit.

Its not us women with the problem, its the men.

It's time i find me a real man!

@k9

Your yahoo id is not on display or do you use K9 ?

@ abakinola

Am i short tempered just because i replied to your insults or you have a way of knowing how people are? You seem to have a rather negative perception of women. You are yet to explain how a woman can be a liability, what financially? emotionally? You are speaking from a bachelor's point of view and it shows through your words.

I did not post the entire story just the areas i needed advice on so as i said before ask before you start the sarkiness. Also i am not paranoid. Women never are.

abakinola:

madam, don't u think u acting like someone desperate?one good thing wit we guys is independence, we don't always seem to accuse our babes of non-commitment but its ladies that push guys aroung to say things dey aren;t ready to involve in.
my candid advise is u allow things to happen d way it comes, like i normally say,,wats going to b will be, instead of u wasting your time wit marriage,,find how to develop yourself and he will sure come looking for you because no one wants a liability.tk kia.

For the upteenth time i didn't say i want marriage and no i am not desperate! I unlike 'we guys' believe in sticking to one person, helping them grow and investing training time. (Yes men have to be trained).

What the heck are you trying to say about me being a liability? Am i your woman? you may have the audacity to call her a liability but dint even go there with me. What on earth are you talking about independence? I guess you mean 'your space to sleep around' which in turn will turn out to be a liability to your women when your hood catches fire!

If you don't understand, ask! Don't go putting your 2 Kobo and then insult me while at it!

larger_20:

NO he is not. U cannot classify him for he is divine. Dont get too scientific here

A case of double standards i see.

As you love this beloved ambiguous bible of yours, i can see i have to use it as reference.

In John 8:23

"And he (Jesus) said unto them, Ye are from beneath; I am from above: ye are of this world; I am not of this world."

@ Larger_20

Note the words 'I am not of this world." To me that says extraterrestrial.

one of the definitions

A sentient soul based on a planet other than earth who is visiting earth either physically or astrally, usually in order to study it and/or to assist in the changes occurring here.

www.summerjoy.com/Glossary.html


An extraterrestrial can be in any form. Not just the bigheaded, dark eyed spindly being that is commonly used as respresentation of extraterrestrials.

jagunlabi:

Africa is spiritually curesed because africans have turned their backs on their own gods and worship foreign gods.Until they return back to their roots and start worshipping their own deities again,there will continue to be spiritual emptiness in the land.IMHO.

Hear! Hear!

larger_20:

Hmm this is kind of too much for me

You just don't get it do you?

@K9

Give me your yahoo id


@seeker

I really like the idea of the Power Generating System not only to invest in but also to go into distribution. When you say monopoly you mean main distributor right as there must be other distributors in Nigeria.


@ Afrobeat
Solar power will be something worth looking into. What company is involved in solar energy in Nigeria?
what are the costs involved?

@ Abeys1
I am looking at ways to increase my financial status to feed my people back home. I thought shares will be a good starting point until i generate enough income to start gambling. You seem confident that i can invest and make good money, got any ideas to share?


@seeker

If there are any property investments hook me up. I am generally interested in whatever generates money. Then i can hook up with the likes of Seun and Wiseguy to create a company that can rival the likes of NEPA.

I perceived Hell to be a place for learning for those that have passed on and are waiting to go onto the next level. I believe earth is hell because in order to move onto the spiritual realm, we have to purge ourselves of physical desires. We will keep on coming back to earth until we are ready to move on.

Thing is there are other beings on the earth that thrive on negative energy and will do everything in their utmost power to encourage more negative actions from us including angry thoughts and you will find there are certain people who help feed this frenzy and they in return are rewarded with material wealth tying them and their followers even more to this world ie certain pastors

The man 'they' called 'Jesus' came to show us how to get out of this rut and move on another level towards The Most High Spiritual Being in existence but we still suffer from the 7 deadly sins that hold us back all the time.

What's that saying again? It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a rich man to enter the kingdom of the Most High Spiritual Being.

kenshin:

Just make sure you are not around on this earth by the time they start sharing the marks.

We are too late! It is already here. All those who have credit cards are already on the chip and pin. They have also hyped up the public into believing fraud is on the same level as terrorism so that the microchips in the thumb would be readily accepted.

Look how they hyped up people about terrorism in order to accept ID cards which will also bear a microchip.

Parents have been given the option of inserting microchips in their children in the event of an abduction

And lets not forget about that good ol' Satellite spying on everyone's ass.

Even in Nigeria.

Well actually he supposedly said he was from (ANU) and not from this earth. Going by the definition of an extraterrestrial i guess he was an alien

Actually if you read carefully, you will find Ham wasn't the one that was cursed, it was Canaan and what he was cursed with was Leprosy which was passed onto his descendants. Therefore Africans cannot be the cursed ones because the curse involved the whitening of the skin.

I am having trouble downloading tomcat. can someone send me a zipped version of theirs. i visited the link but cant get to download.

seeker:

@ Timmy, your story is much more interesting than the original post. E be like soap opera.

Abeg keep me posted.

I posted it for advice not to see how many awards it will win

timmy:



i wasn't dating anyother person, maybe you should just do some new stuffs in the relationship.
Sometimes in a womans life, you need to reposition your self and make your man want you more.

1. change your looks, try some new hair styles, new cloths change your smell (perfume) and all that
2. act more sexy like. try being innovative during sex(thats if you guys do it)
3. make him no about a few of the guys that are wooin you, somtimes create imaginary one, but be careful when duin this, because it maight back fire
4. impress him (not like pushing yourself around him), with gists and calls at odd times
5. tell him, you have headache, belly upsets and all the sicky things, that would make him give you a little attenstionand care.
6. try to replace your self, make him want you more
7. Try to always believe in him, support him, when ever he looses his faith. make sure you help him find it

lol lol

I didn't say i don't get attention or care. I get enough attention from him. The advice you give is for ladies whose relationship needs spicing up. I just wanted commitment from him. It has been established i wont get it from him right now because he enjoys having his cake and eating it like most men will.



Seems like some guys don't understand the term commitment as they think it automatically means marriage.

@Timmy what does commitment mean to you?

@Seun

Have you invested in Electricity Generation?

@ Kajad

When you say housing, do you mean the property market buy to let etc or build to sell? or affordable housing.

I am interested in the digital age but i dont know if that is an area Nigeria is venturing into. Shall i just list the areas im interested in even though i don't know what Nigeria has to offer?


if i am to buy shares i don't know where to start. Over here the bank helps you invest in shares by setting up ISAS and TESSAS and other investments.

i will be glad of any help.

@ Kajad.

Thanks for responding. Out of that thousand and one can you name a few? Could you recommend any consultants that charge a reasonable percentage? is it better i come to Nigeria or can i arrange it from over here? have you invested in any of the companies?

I was wondering if there are any good investments i can invest in without any fear of 419. i know there must be a few but with all these rotten scammers, people outside Nigeria don't want to invest a penny in up and coming companies. Any input would be much appreciated.

@ Timmy

timmy:


her friends are like "waoo!! you mean you guys would get married, we so envy you couple, you ll make a perfect home" many of them even call me and send sms's,

What you mean by that? did they start txt-flirting with you? Did you allow that to carry on or did you put a stop to that?

timmy:


coco, that is life, the brother need to earn money, i know how it feels you don't, but just try to understand. its just a little more time left okay ?

I am not talking about marriage just a normal committed relationship. All this talk about finance gives guys, in my opinion, the excuse to escape commitment in the slightest form. Yet if you look at it, having more than one relationship at a time can be a drain on your pocket anyway.

Timmy what did you do in the meantime while you were waiting to get buffed up? where you still seeing her and dating other girls? Did you tell her that you were waiting to get your own things so you will be unable to have a serious relationship with her as having financial problems cannot make you committed to one girl?

My favourite is sensual kissing which should be soft. I personally start off with light pecks on the lips then slowly sucking the lips bottom and top gradually parting them open. when i use my tongue i dont stick it straight in, i use it to explore the lips then toy softly with my man's tongue brushing lightly against the tip.

Kissing is nothing! you should be asking if you would Shag on a first date.

To be honest i have not. The ones i know over here are plain looking and have morality issues as well.

You know what, i phoned him up today and asked him about our relationship and where i stand. He started to give me the same line of having to get his own place. I then asked him about his commitment to me and he said he cant until he gets his own place. Further down the conversation, he admitted to seeing other girls but he did the classical thing that most men do, he tried to accuse me of seeing other people. I asked him about one particular girl i found out about and he told me he still sees her and they still keep in contact.

So i guess a woman's intuition is very strong @my2cents. I guess it has been staring at me in the face all this time but i hadn't the nerve to take it head on. I told him if he was unable to commit to me right now then its best we don't see each other until he is ready. He chose the option of seeing other girls.

So i guess problem solved. Thanks for all of your input.

davidylan:


Secondly, it is unfair to assume that your guy is not commited enough simply because he is baulking on the issue of marriage. i can't think of any guy who won't especially if u are constantly pressing him for a marital commitment. it's hard for a guy to contemplate marriage when he is not "ready". i.e financially, emotionally or not yet ready to leave the boyzone!

Thing is i am not even talking about the marriage factor, i only asked about it once. It is about commitment, he told me he wants to be with me but at the same time he was still seeing other girls. He is telling me to wait for him until he gets himself together and i am wondering if you really want to be with someone, you would go steady with the person until you are ready for marriage. I think its a case of 'which apple is the sweetest' and up till now i am the sweetest so he is hanging onto me for now.

kajad:

i have one question. Is he a leach? Does he ask you for money or things?

no he doesn't take money off me. he gives me money and comes over to sort me out with DIY and other stuff round the place

LoverBwoy:

maybe he's not just ready to be honest some Guys don't really want to leave the bachelor lifestyle

u say finance is not important but hmm whos goin to be running to sainsburys n tesco for the pampers n baby oil? remember you are not goin to be working when your pregnant n immediately afterwards

I think you should just explain to him where you are or where u want to be at this stage in your life

remember most guys don't settle until someone's pregnant for them


Just do whats Right for You

Tru Dat! I have explained and that is where the problem lies. He just makes things harder for me by being extra nice when i want to stop seeing him. i am going to give it one last try and if he doesn't want to move forward, i will just cut him off besides which one of you guys will hang around if you are in the same position as me?

Thing is i don't think finance should be the basis of a relationship. I would like to get married and live comfortably but for a committed relationship all you need is honesty and love right? Its so hard to believe he cannot be serious with all the things he does for me. Do you reckon he gets a buzz from all this?

Been seeing this guy for about 4 years now on and off. At one point we even lived together but due to unforeseen circumstances we had to split. He has told me that he loves me very much and that we will be together properly when he gets his own place and he is financially stable, however i have a niggling feeling he is seeing other girls too. I have asked him about marriage and he has told me he does not know where we stand on that issue. Each time i tell him its over, he comes back sweeter than ever, talking about babies (im broody right now) and about our future,making me think that a proper relationship is now in place only to find out a few months later he is having second thoughts and never intended to have a proper relationship ie make it known to the world we are together.

My friends say that if he is seeing someone, it will be revealed in his mobile phone and that a good sign to tell if he is cheating is if he carries his phone with him at all times. I have noticed he keeps his phone out of sight whenever he comes to see me. He treats me very good almost like a wifey yet whenever i want to ensure he is committed to me, he suddenly comes out with excuses. Should i just forget him or am i being too picky?

If my husband cheats on me i wont get angry; i'll get even.

Men only do what they are allowed to do. Since Nigerian women are resigned to the fact 'men will be men', then hell yeah the men take advantage because they know their woman won't say or do a thing about it.

Apparently some women add their natural juices whilst preparing the food just to bind a man to her.

@ Welborn: There is speculation on the identity of John. That is why i asked the question who knew 'Jesus' firsthand.

I am uncomfortable with the fact that the bible was put together by a Roman leader who worshiped Mithra, a pagan deity from the old religion which existed before Christianity.

It is interesting how far Christianity has taken Africans. Note from the time Africans picked up the bible given to them by the Europeans who then turned round and enslaved them to now, African people have been in a state of suffering and still call out to a name that they don't even know the origin of. Yet the Europeans have deserted Christianity in droves and they are enjoying life more than us. Could it be that we have been conditioned to empower their deity, which has been created in their image, by doing the worshiping on their behalf.