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RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 9:04am On Apr 10, 2015
[quote author=TheSonOfMark post=32548906][/quote]Better
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:59am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Yea I know that.
My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally.

To me a bad guy is someone who doesn't come too soft when it comes to dealing with girls. He knows when to be nice and when to be stern with them.

That's what I know a bad guy is and girls get attracted to such guys. When they see you are the type that doesn't give all the attention they need,,their attraction for you will increase.

The guy you are talking about here is just totally different. I don't need to have dreads or drink alcohol to attract girls.

So in my point being too much of a good guy won't get you anywhere. Even the girl you'll get will not have respect for you.

[size=18pt]I'm guessing that your friend did same to you too cos you are too nice for her to date so she kept you in the FRIEND ZONE[/size]. cheesy[/color]
My reply to the bolded. We grew up together, we don't have a romantic/sexual urge any more.
"My view of a "bad guy" is not necessarily a guy who smokes,,parties and do all sorts of things. Those are bad vices normally."
If you dont do any of these, you are boring.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:45am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]When it's time for marriage i'm 100% sure a girl will not carry a bad boy to go see her Dad&Mum.

It's the same way we guys wouldn't take a bad girl to our family when marriage comes.

At the end of the day this same bad guys/girls will become good in someone's eyes.

Someone will definitely marry them.[/color]
No you are getting it wrong.

There is this popular notion . "I can change him". And the guy will play along.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:41am On Apr 10, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Dude, ever heard of cynism? Research about it.
Whatever point you are trying to prove. Gud luck with it.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:36am On Apr 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]All these Bad guy & Nice guy talks are just bullshit to me.

Let the Ladies get attracted to whoever they deem fit.

It's their heart and not yours.

They have their reasons for dating them.
Could be for the fun and thrill of it.

[size=18pt]The same way we guys like the "bad" girls when we want to have fun.[/size]

Besides,,when you are too nice and cool girls will definitely take you for granted.

Whether you are bad or good don't always forget that you are the man. That's all that matters.

undecided[/color]
If you go after bad people, then be ready to take what comes out of it.

Lets stop this notion of "All men are dogs".

There is line between dating for fun and marriage. Our ladies always want to marry them and it does nt end up well.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:33am On Apr 10, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

LAGOON naming ceremony loading, I guess.



TWINS? FFM? That's every young man's secret fantasy!
This is Romance thread. Or did I mistakenly posted this in politics section?
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:28am On Apr 10, 2015
YUNGLURD:
If I were in ur shoe, I wouldn't console her. My advice is: let her cry her a$s out. She definitely knws the kind of person he is.
She is like a blood sister to me. We have been friends since.."oh God, I cant remember". I hate to see her sad.
Funny enough, I can see signs that she still want him back. She calls him and denied calling him.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:25am On Apr 10, 2015
Maamin:
How much is your monthly subscription @Op, consider it on me grin
LOLZ. I use free internet man. Thanks anyway.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:24am On Apr 10, 2015
Blackett:
[color=#150000]In order for him to choose one "lady" he needs "ladies" to choose from, don't you think?

Or do you end up with the first lady you walk up to?
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There is sense in that. Noted.
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:20am On Apr 10, 2015
Blackett:
[color=#150000]God fearing guys don't need attention from ladies? [/color]
God fearing guy only need attention from his lady...not ladies
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:20am On Apr 10, 2015
Basildvalour:
They forget to note commonsensically that bad things will always remain bad no matter how they try to cover it up to enjoy it because one day, the dog will bite its owner.

I am Mr. Nice Guy and I know I get all the love I can by just being who I am.
Keep it up. I know many ladies out there still prefer nice guys.

Team Nice
RomanceRe: Ladies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:18am On Apr 10, 2015
Blackett:
[color=#150000]So, God fearing guys cannot have six packs? [/color]
Why does he need six packs? Is it not for attention from ladies?
RomanceLadies Before You Move On To The Next Bad Guy. Read This! by hotwax(op): 8:06am On Apr 10, 2015
My one and only close female friend was dumped by her Guy last week. A relationship of 2 years just vanished like it never happened.

The day she introduced that guy to me, I asked her, "Are u sure about this?". I saw the guy in dreadlocks, I could see he had six packs (He Gyms a lot). My lady is a Banker. Office girl. He sleeps and wake up at the club everyday. I didnt see any chemistry there.

But I had to respect her feelings. But I knew nothing good will come out.

My girl is one of those 90% of women who think bad guys rock.

They can never date nice guys.

Nice guys are boring e.t.c

before you date a bad guy, note the following:

1. It is true that bad guys are interesting, sexually explosive, lively e.t.c

2. They are fashionable (Most nice guys are). You see them with crazy hair styles, tatoos...I know some ladies who get turned on when they see a guy taking alcohol.

3. They approach issues physically and ladies tend to love their man being physical and can fight for and protect them.

4. Ladies feel secure when dating a bad guy. I remember some girls in my school days boasting about how their BF are cult members.
5.. Add yours to the list.

But there are side effect to these goodies (may be) attributes.

1. Remember how you met your guy. E.g. He came with another woman to a party and snicked on her to get your phone number secretly and you think he will be loyal to you. You are just being unrealistic. You will meet the same fate sooner or later.

2. You are dating a guy and you saw him engaging another lady in a public fracas , or you saw him engaging another guy in a fight. You even saw him beating up a guy and you are proud of it. You went ahead and married him. You are a potential boxing punch bag. Don't come and claim you never knew your man could beat a woman. You knew, you were just taking a stewpid risk.

3. You are looking for guys with six pack, tall, handsome +(Gud fearing).Hahaha Six pack and God fearing...Ladies are just too fake. How on earth will you get that in a single package. Trust me, when you get that. It is too good to be true. And when you get bitten, you say "All men are dogs".
Not all men are dogs. You go after dogs. What are you thinking? Don't you know thousands of ladies out there want the same thing you want. There is pressure on guys too. Temptations here and there. So don't call them dog/evil. They are just being human.

Note the following about Nice guys:

1. 80% of them are loyal. Most of them can't stand seeing a woman get hurt. I am not a nice guy too, but I can't stand seeing a heartbroken woman.

2. Its true they are boring. At times, if you always want to do the right thing and be polite, ladies think you are boring. From personal experience.

3. Less Romantic (Not all sha)

4. Weak. Not all. Some are introvert. But don't take their politeness for weakness.

In conclusion, there are many good guys out there. Our ladies just have affinity for the bad/dirty ones. And they will claim, men are bad. No, you go after the bad ones.

Men are not dogs, stop going after dogs.

Kindly ignore my grammatical errors. I am a poor English user.
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 7:16am On Apr 10, 2015
[size=18pt]Hausas are more than Igbo in Lagos state. No cause for Alarm...It is AVC[/size]
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 7:14am On Apr 10, 2015
victors123:
Fredoom from slavery of Tiunbu all is families are in power he is controlling lagos as if is control his family!!!! Wakeup all lagosian !!! Who told u APC own lagos is alone God owns everytin I believe nothing God can't do VOTE JK!!! Lagos also need change like federal as change! let change continue to roll!!! 16 is enough give JK a chance!!! EKO O NI BA JE!!!!!
Igbo owns Lagos.
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 7:13am On Apr 10, 2015
oneeast:
Jimmy Agbaje will win because we are right now in Lagos feeling the pulse of the people.
Pulse of Igbos. Hausas tanda gidigba
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 7:10am On Apr 10, 2015
hotwax:
[size=28pt]Just the way IGBO PDP shouting GEJ till 2019. Even when Buhari was leading they are still shouting GEJ till 2019.

Yorubas dont make noise. Lets meet at the polling booth.

Noice makers. They always lose.[/size]
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 7:08am On Apr 10, 2015
MugabeRobert:
Don't waste your time bro. If Jonathan, with all the billions shared, OPC, TAN, divide and rule, Ibos, Edo/Delta, 50% of yorubas couldn't win here how can Jimi win? They all think Lagos starts and end In Alaba international market.

The most annoying thing is most of them here won't even cast their votes. They prefer trolling online than voting proper.
[size=28pt]Just the way IGBO PDP shouting GEJ till 2019. Even when Buhari was leading they are still shouting GEJ till 2019.

Yorubas dont make noise. Lets meet at the polling booth.

Noice makers. They always lose.[/size]
PoliticsRe: Push APC Into Atlantic Ocean, Agbaje Tells Igbo by hotwax: 6:59am On Apr 10, 2015
Igbos are always losers. Jonathan is a testimony of their failure. Now Agbaje.

Yorubas and Hausas..AMBODE ni jor
PoliticsRe: PDP Will Win Lagos Governorship Election – Mu’azu by hotwax: 5:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
Lagos is APC's.

Tinubu Jagaban...heavy weight...no shaking.
PoliticsRe: PDP Will Win Lagos Governorship Election – Mu’azu by hotwax: 5:41pm On Apr 09, 2015
APC dont need the vote of Igbos. They voted against buhari yet he won. Nothing has changed. They are irrelevant and will remain irrelevant. They voted massively for Jonathan in the East yet, he lost. No cause for alarm. The equation remains the same.
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari: A New Type Of First Lady In Nigeria?-AFP by hotwax: 4:39pm On Apr 09, 2015
LOL @ mama piss. Shame
PoliticsRe: I Want To Die In The Lagoon Shirts Now Trending In Lagos by hotwax: 1:54pm On Apr 09, 2015
CHESSBOARD:
The Oba should have tried that move with maybe the hausa community...na bad market to threaten an IBO man... I respect them for that
So what r u now doing? Painting shirts? Cowards. Try that with Hausas and get slaughtered ....

ELection is coming , u all ran away from the north. Cowards. Because Yorubas are accomodating, you are flexing skeletal muscle...yeye ise
Forum GamesRe: Is This Cat Going Up Or Down? by hotwax: 6:36am On Apr 09, 2015
I am 100% sure its coming down. Simple forensic.

Just take clue at the stair case. The joint to the wall. If u r a techie person, u will know what I mean. Too simple
PoliticsRe: Eze Ndi Igbo In Lagos Reacts To Oba Of Lagos Anti-igbo Comment by hotwax: 6:19pm On Apr 08, 2015
jomoh:
Thank you.

No offence but I believe issues like this are reasons why the Igbos and hausas never get along.

Hausas don't take things like this lightly. But the magnanimity of the Yorubas is now being taken for granted.
Hausas mind their business. They dont claim to own Lagos.

They dont even have time for tribal slurs.

Yorubas are too accomodating.
PoliticsRe: Opc Warns Against Unbecoming Comments Directed At Oba Akiolu by hotwax: 5:38pm On Apr 08, 2015
knowledgeable:
Until the Yorubas will rise up after complaining about them being the best host of Igbos and other Nigerians and declare that they don't want to share the same space with Igbos in Lagos, Nigeria and etc,

Igbos should regard their rantings as either comic on one hand and genocidal intent on the other hand. Reality, is that the Yorubas will continue to make such sacrifices as good host to Igbos for as long as Nigeria political structure remain the way it is today. That warped structure benefits the Yorubas immensely with minimal sacrifice of problems of Igbos in their land. Looking at this picture, what would the yorubas do other than their usual rantings.
Lagoon is always full at this time of the year.
PoliticsRe: Opc Warns Against Unbecoming Comments Directed At Oba Akiolu by hotwax: 5:37pm On Apr 08, 2015
Keegan:
Ohun to ntan lodun eegun, omo alaagba a mo wo ra akara fi jeko. Yoruba please allow igbo to vote for Agbaje, at least his tenure will end in four years time if per adventure he won. Before then we will have to address who owns Lagos. Let's give peace a chance now, let them try their might, it is their right. Omo to ni iya oun koni su ni, sebi oun alara koni foju kan oorun. E je ka fi oro sikun bi agba. They are now fully exposed, they are open enemy to us. Allow them to do their worst abeg!
Thats not gonna happen. Although they can vote agbaje. Hausas are solidly behind ambode. It will neutralize
PoliticsRe: Oba Is Right, APC Can Make Life Unbearable For Igbos In Lagos - Okorocha by hotwax: 5:34pm On Apr 08, 2015
Dear Fellow yorubas (Jimi Agbaje followers),

Despite attacking and denouncing what Oba of EKO said, Igbo people are still attacking all yorubas. You should know that the hate they are damatrizing on public forums has nothing to do with Oba of EKO. It is as a result of bitterness again Yorubas for voting Buhari. No matter how you appease these animals, they will always hate you.

Hate is in their DNA. When I saw the Oba video, I was shocked. And I critisized the Oba on twitter, despite these. These Igbo animals still came for me and attacked me and my fore-father.

Enough of political correctness. Let support ambode. All these outburst is not about OBA of EKO, its about bigotry in the average mind of those animals.
PoliticsRe: Eze Ndi Igbo In Lagos Reacts To Oba Of Lagos Anti-igbo Comment by hotwax: 5:26pm On Apr 08, 2015
Dear Fellow yorubas (Jimi Agbaje followers),

Despite attacking and denouncing what Oba of EKO said, Igbo people are still attacking all yorubas. You should know that the hate they are damatrizing on public forums has nothing to do with Oba of EKO. It is as a result of bitterness again Yorubas for voting Buhari. No matter how you appease these animals, they will always hate you.

Hate is in their DNA. When I saw the Oba video, I was shocked. And I critisized the Oba on twitter, despite these. These Igbo animals still came for me and attacked me and my fore-father.

Enough of political correctness. Let support ambode. All these outburst is not about OBA of EKO, its about bigotry in the average mind of those animals.
PoliticsRe: Opc Warns Against Unbecoming Comments Directed At Oba Akiolu by hotwax: 5:18pm On Apr 08, 2015
Dear Fellow yorubas (Jimi Agbaje followers),

Despite attacking and denouncing what Oba of EKO said, Igbo people are still attacking all yorubas. You should know that the hate they are damatrizing on public forums has nothing to do with Oba of EKO. It is as a result of bitterness again Yorubas for voting Buhari. No matter how you appease these animals, they will always hate you.

Hate is in their DNA. When I saw the Oba video, I was shocked. And I critisized the Oba on twitter, despite these. These Igbo animals still came for me and attacked me and my fore-father.

Enough of political correctness. Let support ambode. All these outburst is not about OBA of EKO, its about bigotry in the average mind of those animals.
PoliticsRe: Opc Warns Against Unbecoming Comments Directed At Oba Akiolu by hotwax: 4:40pm On Apr 08, 2015
Eyepencil:
YOLOBARS ARE BASTARDS

OPC ARE FOOLS

OBA OF LAGOS IS AN EDIOT

OYA BITE ME grin grin
[size=18pt]Igbos ARE WEREY
IGWE IS NINCOMPOOP
REPUBLIC OF BIAFRA IN THE LAGOON[/size]
PoliticsRe: Opc Warns Against Unbecoming Comments Directed At Oba Akiolu by hotwax: 4:38pm On Apr 08, 2015
[size=28pt]Why is Nairaland not banning this tribal slurs?[/size]

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