₦airaland Forum

[quote author= post=107152507]Slow and steady we will get to the country of our dreams[/quote]dey there

joshawesome:
Good morning happy people of nairaland.

I will try to be brief as possible. During the lock down my elder brother was seriously ill, we all thought it normal malaria and typhoid but getting to the hospital he was diagnosed of kidney diseases at it last stage (CKD). We all brace up and gave him all the support needed during the stage from one dialysis section to another something thrice a week.

It became worse and no improvement at sight, I literally do all thing for him, from bathing to feeding and carry him around the hospital but he faith he will come out of it. During the process he used all of his life saving to the extend of collecting and seeking financial assistance from people because the doctor advice to undergo kidney transplants.

On 2 April 2021 we went from dialysis, nurses were complaining that I allow him to drink a lot of water because at that stage he have a daily water intake and also needed blood. He did the blood transfusion and the dialysis but he had a breathing issue, the nurse place him on breathing machine the oxygen got exhausted and he was normal.

We went home by 12am, on getting home we ask for water, I told him to wait because I can even hear noise of water around his thoracic cavity. He was having difficult I had to call one of his friend so that we can take him back to the hospital but he gave up the ghost and we bury him that the same day because that was his wish. Due to his name, I was confused and angry at myself and everyone that we lost him due to 5 million needed for the transplant.

Months later I was able to get over his death a bit and went back to school, wrote the exam and graduated with first class even though the examination I didn't prepared much due to what happened. It was just God hand at work ( It only a fool that say there is no God).

Now the problem is that I can't sleep and remember my brother death that I should have done more. His death is like 5 months from now but it still fresh in my memory recently. My brother play a vital role in my education from paying my fee and monthly allowance and advice. I was thinking of using drugs so that I can sleep at time but talk me out of it. Pls how can I re again myself and also am an introvert I don't have people to talk to and I hardly go out.

u brother died, but u are quick to jump on insult because u pass ur exams by defending God shey.

defender

black man mentality is really caved

Flamemignon1:
Like I said... Goodnight

who hold u

Flamemignon1:
It's 2021, these arguments are lame. Good night

yh n in 2050 we can b fucking dogs n say love is love.keep deceiving ur self cause its 2021

bless

bless

lol

lifenija:
i no dey use glo i need eti drop dat one

lol Pele

Flamemignon1:
No one is born gay or straight, Please read on the "born this way" concept

still no one is born gay.

yet d right way is tot, i guess ur parent failed u there

maybe Nigeria govt get shares for the company

dawnomike:
Ooohlite... Since it's entry made no catastrophic effect, we move on!!!

abi

only 3 or 4 trolls n u call that trolling from a vomment of most 40

well let me pretend i understand.


omg really thats scary omg

Reflect7:
Na wa o. I don't even get the point of this thread.

59? He's still a small boy sef,

the only thing i see bad here is him doing pull up on a stair case which is dangerous but 59 n been called old, people never really leave their cave yet

Flamemignon1:
Well straight people are not the only ones who exists

are kids born gay?

59 is old now

DannyXpress:
Bless you bro
I'm officially following you

Smart people are very hard to see these days

wow so a select few is d reason cause dey ask for money, after dey get elected n make d money back, do they still do anything.

smart ko mart ni

the problem is also u who wont accept that political holders are d problem.

how much them pay u for this pr work

water beans n soup shey

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders

There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.

I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

shes a bad wife, simple n straight

both.

There's time to save there's time to invest

d others had pot belly n brown teeth dats why he cheated on them

we no go look for other party


no b only apc n pdp dey, dem tie una hands?

stop lying short man

Flamemignon1:
So, queer kids don't exist, only straight ones do?

watch all shows now its like if dey dont show up d movie / series no go make brain

like kim jun hun

he does not have a butt hole

gazza07:
No, your face me and slap you 1 room following join

yawn

why not vote kanu for gov

SouthMustBeFree:
Sometimes Nigerian news dey tire me. How is this lady an Orphan now? The only thing I see is that she lost her parents I will say at the same time nothing more.

From all indication she has people. All this God told her he will be with her is what i dont understand. Let this God also tell me same cos what am going through now is better imagined. Yet I have been praying.

Very misleading headline.

if we know her age wen it happen then yes she can b an ophan

pos stand or hair or make up artist next online.


thats what buhari as reduce 80% of legit Nigerians to if not dat 5am to 9pm on 20k salary

pocohantas:
By the way, what is your favourite bra colour?

There is a misconception that women hate white bras/panties because they can’t maintain them. I don’t think that is the case with most women. They are just boring and look like old mama something. Red, pink, blue, floral… anything but white please.

yellow, wear am come when u dey come my side