Born2conquer:
I feel Investwith bamboo is robbing us blind
1)They collect commission whenever we fund account even when the dollar buying rate they use is 484
2)They still deduct 1% commission whenever you buy any stock
3)Still deduct another 1% whenever you sell any stock.

Ahhh! Is this how all other apps behaves? I am grossly becoming inconvenient by this regular deduction and it already rendered my initial capital useless.

No cap, if i calculate the total commission collected from me, we should be talking about something close to 200$ on stocks that i am yet to make profit on

Obaseki500:
I have never been this confused in my entire life...

I have a girlfriend that we have been dating for 6 years now... We are not married because I was not stable financially but now things seems to be much better and next year should be the year....I reside in Ibadan so she came in last year after her education to get a job, she's a nurse and we were staying together up till now.

Sex has never been an issue between us up until December last year. We sleep on the same bed and we live in the same house but we have not had sex since December 2020 till date. She's right beside me as I type this message. Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price. I just could not understand the sudden change in her attitude towards sex when wedding is next year.

She also locks her phone and even WhatsApp. Now, I am beginning to have doubt about marrying her.

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

lightblazingnow:
You better calm down and think this Through properly.

Truth be told, you have played selfish impatiently. Or it's due to the fact that you expected her to sponsor you through, why would you even contemplate keeping back your car, for plan B?

When you confessed openly how she spent lot's of cash and even has 99.9 stake in the apartment you two agreed to rent.

You have been very selfish, keep posing, you are thinking " better offer will come again". You are very wrong, very wrong.

Remember all she has done for you in the past and judge her for those, not what you are seeing right now, because you caused her to be frustrated. You are not contributing, you are too secretive, open up and wake up before you end up in the village for the evil you are paying back to your destiny helper.

Be wise and strong and act in love and appreciation, appreciate everything God Almighty has used her to do in your life. Such a good breed.

I need to call her and pray with her for strength, you really broken her down brother wake before you get judged please please please.

Thanks

yazga:

Airlines - Semiconductors - Minerals - Oil

Buying these heavy

Switchman:
Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out

Due to her age and desperation, it seems you are more desperate than she was. we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.

I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time you really do have issues. what chased you from your job? which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.

Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos[b] I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her[/b]. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home.

It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. [/b]No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, [b]I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry so after she paid for house, you want her to come back from work and cook, clean and wash your boxers, whilst you do what exactly?? though she pays for her own,

I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love.

I really need help now cos[b] I know my days are numbered [/b] very true and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed.

Thanks
Switchman

musajo1:
Igbos and fraud.Always spoiling the name of our dear country.

tsephanyah:
Obinwanne Okeke

Drenimarcus:
This thread is now a cringe to my eyes with these numerous copy and paste. Can we reduce this a bit please?

naijapage:


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LauraClasikVibe:
US Stock Market Pick Alert (USMPA) is on telegram

ultron12345:
Rubbish

When you went for the job interview, didn't you accept to work based on target. If the targets are too much, why not reject the job, or resign immediately. I know his type, lazy employees, they don't want targets so they can come and sit in the office all day, doing nothing but gossiping and gisting with other staff, and end up collecting full salary at the end of the month. The company won't get any income from them, but will be paying salaries it goes bankrupt and shuts down, and these lazy staff responsible will open their dirty, maggot infested mouths to say it's buhari's fault. If you don't meet target, how do you expect them to pay your salaries.

They think private firms are like government establishments that have money to waste around and useless, redundant staff like himself.

This is why most firms prefer to employ expartriates like the Indians. Unlike Nigerians that are lazy with the stupid mentality of "why should I kill myself here, it's not my father's business", foreigners have strong work ethic. A Nigerian will sit all day in the office doing nothing while the foreigner will prefer to be in the heat of the production area personally supervising. After Nigerians lazy around and do nothing, they'll now say "na where man dey work, na for their e dey chop, no e make them dey callam workshop" and start stealing the little money the company has. Chai.

If you don't understand yet, go and establish a marketing-intensive business. Hire Nigerians and put them on as big as a salary you want, without marketing targets tied to their salary. Watch and see how you'll go bankrupt. While you think their on the field marketing, they'll either be at home or using the time to run their own business.

I've seen firms go down because of this. They come back from Abroad, decide to start a business, after reading motivational books and seeing the style used for sensible staff abroad, they decide to use it for Nigerians and start pampering their staff. Before they know what hit them, they've closed down and their back to square one. The lucky ones will be able to get back on their feet after few decades. This time they've learnt their lesson, they'll treat Nigerians like they deserve to be treated, with an iron fist, and when they do this, business begins to boom.


He can insult the CEO all he likes, the fact is that he has achieved was him and his father couldn't dream of achieving, a media empire providing wonderful services for fans of the Nigerian movie industry, all over the world. Let him start his own business and employ staff and pay them as much as he wants without tieing their performance to salary and let's see if he'll last.

deltateam:
I thought they used to blur numbers and account details. Leaving it visible, should we also transfer to him?

ShinqRambq:
I admonish the parents of the couple to call-off the wedding and the groom's parents ensure that there is no contact between the two.If a woman is not ashamed of a man holding her bossom in public,it means she was a stripper or something close before.Such relationships fail,Juliet-Ibrahim-and-Iceberg-slim-esque.Bald men are supposed to be sensible due to the absence of any obstruction of God's wisdom to their head.Anyway,they were a nice pair,bald head and BBW.