₦airaland Forum

firemelon:
Thank you all for your wondeful caveat.now i know some people think d way i do.am still having problems with what to tell my friends and family, she noticed i changed and called me on phone said she thought truths sets people free,i told her she is right because i just set her FREE.

Please don't forget to thank her for saving your life.  
You could advise her to seek help as well.  

LOL.

ROTFLMAO.

EFCC1:
why

u beta go do odechi or stay away from kitchen https://www.pic4ever.com/images/snoozer_08.gif https://www.clicksmilies.com/s1106/waffen/violent-smiley-010.gif

Child please.

Seriously keep Kokoye's advise in mind.

Wow!  Dude, you might have to sleep with one eye open for the rest of your relationship.    

That is some serious sh!@t.  Why did she think of stabbing you to death?  Did you have a fight?  That is crazy even if you had the worst fight imaginable.

Your situation is serious.  

Something might have happened to you in the past that makes you scared that when a guy falls in love with you, you become vulnerable and let your guards down; he then leaves you.  Am I wrong?  

Life is too short.  Don't be afraid of being hurt. Things that don't kill you will only make you stronger.  
Pray for God's guidance and love the guy that loves you.    
Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

I love the movie SALT.

deny:
Well few of the answers are correct, but i think the best time is well known to the nursing mother and my opinion for men is nine(9)month but u can continue in your usual way of romance to keep the room worm.

uum, uum, You think a guy can wait for 9 months?  I am not sure about that.  If the woman heels within 6 to 8 weeks, why not start getting it on gradually?    But the guy should help out with the baby and other chores otherwise the lady will be too tired to even think of HOT ACTIONS.

aminalib:
eheh now i see u are a two timer

No he is not a two timer.  He wants a Menajahtwa.  LOL.   That is one of his many fantasies.

LOL.

@ strangerf.
What is this high school? You should have told shy_one that you liked her from the get go.

Why don't you both get a room allready?

strangerf, There is no need to stay bitter in life because people hurt you. You hurt yourself more when you stay bitter. People will always hurt and dissapoint you. Shake it off, move on and you will have peace of mind.

Mrs, Eve:
I have been secretly dreaming about my brother Dsense,

LOL Mrs Eve. 
It is not an abomination in the Nairaland Tribe to Inbreed with Nairaland's virtual siblings.   

HTown Eve:
Sagamite and joepineapp, you guys are too much.  

A: I quote Socrates
B: Therefore I am Socrates.

Analyze that with your inductive and deductive reasoning.  LOL  

I think you two can agree to disagree.  
That is LOGIC.  

@ Ifyalways and Mutter.

Double Gbam Gbam.

Sagamite and joepineapp, you guys are too much. 

A: I quote Socrates
B: Therefore I am Socrates.

Analyze that with your inductive and deductive reasoning.  LOL 

Inked_Nerd:

Thanks. The funny thing though, is that I don't mind buying gifts for guys.

I feel you Ink_Nerd.
I don’t mind helping out. I can take care of myself and help a guy find his balance if he is diligent and has potentials. It’s the little things that trip me.
A guy can spend money on you but treat you like sh@t and act like he owns you. Nope I don’t want that. It is nice when both parties can take care of themselves.
It is not okay to be a dead bit and a good for nothing partner. (a liability) Be it a girl or a guy and not willing to work but munch off your partner is not fair and can only lead to disaster.

D-sense:
Op.
So they can adjust themselves towards you!

True. So they will know if to be patient with you due to past experiences. Some can easily lie though hence focusing on the past is not ideal.
An ohnest summary is okay. It is part of getting to know you better.

I'd ask for best and worst relationships. I don't need to know everything. I just want to have an idea of what you have been through.

Guys do ask about past relationships as well.

Watch where you send your kids. Protect them.

I have heard of some girls being violated by their uncles and cousins. and some boys being violated by their aunties.
I have also heard of some girls giving it up for their uncles for cash. How do you look your neice or uncle in the eyes and do that?
The worst of all is when some sick and twisted parents violet their daughters or sons. Mind-boggling

Aawwwww, it is sad that love now wears binoculars and stethoscopes.  Love dey shine eyes well well. LOL

It is not a good thing when love is based on cash; that is not love. 

It is usually of great pleasure to make your partner smile; that includes spoiling him or her with things you can afford. 

It does not have to be money.  You could do little things for him or her just to see that smile.  Little things like helping her clean, cook or washing her car.  Telling him to relax the whole day while you pamper him. 

Nobody knows tomorrow; hence you want someone that will be there for you at your lowest.

Both parties should be deligent and strive towards financial comfort though to avoid dwelling in poverty.

deny:
For couples only,how long can couples wait for each other after which the woman is put to bed.i mean b4 they can engage in sex again.

Please pardon be but your question is not clear. After which the woman is put to bed? Wait for each other?

eewwww. It is disgusting.

Why would you be suffering through Canadian immigration if you are a US citizen? Just wondering.

Second of all, you said he is a friend of a friend. hmmn

Pardon me Poster; it is not adding up.

You seem to be interested in the cash since he is a friend of a friend; hence you are not really doing him a favor but carrying out a business transaction. $10K is no joke.

If you feel something for him, then don't do it for money but do it out of love; that is if he loves you back.

If you don't have a thing for him but you have a thing for the money, then do it for the money. But be ready to be tied down with him (paper wise) for a couple of years or more. This also depends on how old you are and how soon you are ready to settle down for real.

Ileke-IdI:
02 I Am Glad by Lara George

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When the road that stands before you, _{[jagajaga roads]}
looks
like it never ends
When the fire would devour
you, or so it seems my friend,
Well the more you
sing, the more you, will make that trouble
bend
Sing and let it end _{[hopefully our politicians are singing with us}]

I am glad to walk the earth
I am glad that I was born in Nigeria
I am glad to be a part of destiny

In the absence of a visa, with
nowhere left to go
We must stay and build up this
our illustrious land of gold
Happily with hearts
of bliss as we work it yes we know
Oh we'll
ohh let it grow, yes.

Ruq:
this is nice

Very nice. 

Yes but with hopes that she will be more organized and with less suffering for the masses.

Nigeria rocks.
I really cannot imagine myself from somewhere else even though I reside outside Nigeria.

Sorry about that Kadman.

@Poster.

Nooooo. I do not agree with your review. I am guessing that you are used to seeing both Angelina and Johnny in action packed movies.

The movies is quite enjoyable. Especially if you like the silly/cocky side of Johnny Depp.

I enjoyed the movie.
I am a fan of Johnny Depp though.

Dizzy10. Not cool to think of your mum that way.