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ALL YOU NEED IS ISLAM,and nothing more
Yeah right.

Besides terrorism. The secret that young men practice with pretty boys especially in the Middle East is out. This is due to the fact that they do not mix with girls at an early age. Hence they carry this practice into adulthood (homosexuality.)

Mcheeeww.

Be carefull not to throw the first stone. We all have sinned and fallen short of God's glory.

We do not necessarily have to agree with homosexuality. But for God's sake do not HATE anybody because they are gay.

But an open gay church in Naija, is this true? I ask because I know that Nigerians are not tolerant especially towards things like this that do not conform to our culture.

The Use of Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis (PGD) to Detect and Avoid Sickle Cell Anemia at the Fertility Institutes

The above also depends on how much money you have and are willing to spend.  You could also adopt. 

Most of all; communicate with each other.

Awwwww.
Do some research.  It seems like fertility centers are able to help with that these days.  
But talk about it and find out if you can make AA babies with the help of recent technologies before you proceed to marriage.

True talk. Especially if he is immature. You never know where those photos might land.

Maryando,

You live in the same city with a guy and he does not let you see his place for two months. Haba, haba the guy is married.

eobaro is trying to cash in on the poster as well. Chai.

@Poster: I know it is not easy since you might have fallen in love and thinking you are close to 30 and need to settle down (naija style) . Child please, it is not just about settling down o.
This man is irresponsible and looks like he will use you as long as you let him.
Have you tried talking to him? Let him know that you will leave him if he doesn't change his ways. Stop giving him money now that he has a job to see if he loves you for who you are and not because of the cash flow.
When he threatens to borrow money from his mom and sister, tell him to go ahead. After all that is his family. He really knows how to have his way with you.
You are a strong independent woman; you deserve someone that will work with you in a relationship and not one that will work against you.

@ Powerdcor,

Whether you are Esan or not does not matter to me.  I enjoyed the smoked fish from Illushi.
It seams like you don’t like this side of the river Niger or is it river Benue? too bad. 
Illushi is in Edo State and you are from Edo State.  Do you guys speak Igbira? 

When was the last time you were there?  I heard things are changing over there.

Ciao.

Wao, I just stumbled into this old post.

It is this kind of hypocrisy that is killing Nigeria.  A lot of so called Born Again Nigerians are having pre marital sex and aborting babies and pretending to be all holy. 
I have heard of some girls aborting their babies so that they don’t show on their wedding day.  Saaad.   

Mamaput[color=#990000][/color]: I understand where you are coming from.  You are doing a great job of raising your daughters.  Prevention is always better. 

The poster only asked about moving in with her partner and everyone is talking about premarital sex knowing that a lot of them are doing it o. 

Who knows if it is the female that might dump the male after cohabiting with him? 
It is different with everybody and Cohabitation does not mean sex in all cases; it is more difficult to avoid sex when living together though. 

If couples are mature enough to tolerate each other, then give it a shut.  But they should keep it at the back of their minds that it might or might not work out. 
Mind you, a lot of college students live together on Campus but pretend when they get home.

D Blank,
In general, the bad ones are usually the ones that get married first. They are usually the flashy ones and they know how to scam and play their ways into a guy’s heart and then wahala starts after marriage.

NubianQ you rock.

Mr Omolola and Ms 190, please discuss your exchange of password in private.
But Ms 190, beware of what you might find since 190 is asking for other people's passwords. Abi na open relationship? Just teasing.

ibhokhen esan bha bulu o.

great job Comfort.

I miss Illushi smoked fish.
My mom used to travel a couple of times a year to the Benue-Esan boundry called Illushi to buy smoked fish in bulk especially just before Christmas and New Year. Wow. Good Memories.

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Ujujoan na wao.       

@ Poster:  Not all ladies jare so you have to be carefull. 

The saying "when a woman goes bad" is true.  Some women have gone thru the hoops for their partners only for them to be tossed aside for the flashier ones when the man ARRIVES (get's stable). No appreciation.  So you don't blame some ladies for having the fear of the unknown (what if I suffer finish to be tossed aside later?)   

There is nothing like having someone there for you thru ups and downs.  It goes both ways.

This is the quote new generation preachers use in scamming/collecting money from their congregations while buying jets and expensive cars.