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She's got the guts, looks like they are running a family business.

MojAyo:
I'm telling u my dear,some people dnt just ve policy,I knw what I want and what I dnt want,no body can force me to do what inconvenient me,my frnd,u can see,I dnt wanna exchange words with dis lady,cos seriously,I think she got issues,she was too harsh on herself and vry mean,hello,aisha or whatever u re call,I'm nt frm a low life family,and my mum dnt struggle before she see her money,just becos of d husband matter she is harsh on me,and my mother never complain to u dat she is tired of me,do one thing for me,read dis and get d fvck out of dis thread

leave aisha alone. Most people think like the world revolves around being "little-missy-goody-two-shoes"

This is life, it will get you down, wherether your a billionaire or not. When you address others in situations like this, have this in mind; what if it was my sister? My daughter? My cousin? My friend's sister? Or anyone in particular. Real women stand up for each other, nomatter how we fu*ck up in life, they are always there to hold out a helping hand, NOT; I told you so, or your on your own.

Dear that's what your mother is doing, m proud of both of you.

Hold up, OP.....

Under no circumstance will you come back to South Africa for that guy......you left because it wasn't working out for you so please save yourself from an early grave, get your act together before coming back.

aisha2:
Am sorry but you are not serious
Oya go back to your love-vendor since you are too proud to go and work with your mother but not too proud yo collect her hard earned money

Is this constructive? Really?

Going back to the guy will not solve anything, we all know that. She is not being proud, ask anyone who has left her home and lived outside the country how it is like. To endure the stares of those who knew u were once living large aint easy.

@ Op, all I can say is, you can follow your mother wherever only if she wants you to.

I can't imagine following her even if she was my mother if she would be embarassing me in public making me the joke of the town.

thorpido:
It's so important to raise young girls right.Mothers,please spend quality time with your daughters and feed their minds. Some girls just grow up d**b.

Young lady,this abuse will continue cos you brought it upon yourself.What you have to do is get a job,no matter how little.That way,you will become less dependent on your mum and you will be able to save enough to get an accommodation someone f your own later.

Don't ever look down on someone unless your going to help them

brosss:
First off, welcome home to Naija.
Your mom is probably embittered cos she placed much hope and believe in you.
Its probably her own way of reacting to her disappointment.
She doesn't hate you, if she did , she'ld not accept you or provide some much needed assistance.
I don't know the circumstances surrounding ur move to SA but it seems she must have sat you down and given motherly advice. And she probably feel, u threw all that to the wind.
Now that that's explained.
1. Never accept that your little bundle of Joy was a mistake. No! Else you'll fall into the trap of despising or hating your baby. Give that baby all the love He/she needs, be very proud of your child.
2. Talk to your Mum. Apologize to her for not making her proud. Tell her you are sorry. She is pretty hurt cos she trusted u to deliver. Remember u are more hurt by those close to you. Ask her to give u another chance. Tell her u are her own baby and she's all u'v got.
3. Get busy in the house. Don't Just put on AM or MTV in the mornings, lazying about. Sweep, do the dishes, laundry. Make her Lazy. Let her know that u are back. Watch tv only when there's no chores to do.
4. Tell ur siblings how much u'v missed them. And no matter how they ridicule you. Stand up for them and take their sides against any outsider, soon, you'll win them to your camp.
5. Get a Job. However how menial, get something, a teacher at the daycare or something, cleaner, anything. Get outer the house and buy something while coming back.
6. Try and get intouch with ur dad. But on no account should u let them know u are searching for him.

Soon enough, they'll forgive you and integrate you again.


Pray.......it is well sis.

This is the best advice so far dear.

But what if her mother doesn't want to hear anything from her again?

pwettytemmy:
Good to know hes stabilized
unto campaign things.
The wole soyinkas on nairaland. pls come n shake body too n drop some words of prayers
kayemjay
glowingscenes
repogirl
tiffanyj
princesa
flakkydagirl
temitopedaniel
humbledbygrace
maziomenuko
oladele97

ok

MojAyo:
hmmm

harde hle girl. Been busy, will holla don't worry

Orikinla:
OP, see how a good movie trailer is done in the most viewed Nigerian movie trailer of the week on
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5dKOlf2wzU

you don't come here and gloat dear..........

cyberczar:
What exactly would happen if AfCon were suspended for one term? The most conscentious men are aware that every life is precious, unfortunately,here in Africa, human life means nothing,especially, whenever pecunix is involved.

Why would other races not look condescendingly on Africans, particularly,blacks,if we have no real values pointing to our self worth.

I would have been very very proud if Morocco were a black nation for their stance at shielding their people. That is how it should be. No amount of money, entertainment and pleasure is worth a single human life.CAF ought to get that message. Africa is at war,Ebola virus is war, but CAF is loving money. Even the world cup and Olympic Games were suspended during war years in Europe.

I would have thought that CAF should have shown solidarity to our afflicted African brethren by heeding the concerns of Morocco.

In any case, I'm not surprised, this is still Africa,we love money not men. For my black brothers in Equatorial Guinea,I pray it will be well...

They say life goes on.

GenBuhari:
But looking forward into the future we need to start striving for a world with out borders where anybody can freely live whereever they wish in the world with out Visa controls or restrictions

I don't see ^^^^that happening

M so proud of you guys....the sky is the limit.

Mr producer is this the first movie you've produced or? Coz I still remember our "small talk."

The music was too loud and couldn't hear most of what they were saying, apart from that, I liked it.

GenBuhari:
No. Blue African

All true Africans are black

that's not true

GenBuhari:
Yes Iam black.
have I given you any reason to think otherwise?

Black African?

@Rossike, why are you calling us "forest people?"

And you Genbuhari are you black

^ ^ ^ ^

Thanks

Op I think you need to read, do a lot of reading or atleast visit your villages Maybe you can find some information there?

And we still have history repeating itself! Are you a nigerian? How many people sell their children into slavery abroad for money Everyday

The rituals

Slavery didn't come with white men please.

Shakazulu often made slaves the hostage he seized from wars and most of them were his kinsmen unless I am wrong somewhere?

See black people are not stupid. I still repeat, we tell our own stories, white men came with an easy way of sharing it that's all.

ihedinobi2:
Ok. How do you make your choices and how do you learn?

will answer this when m sober

MojAyo:
I'm doing good and u

good too

Vivly has my vote

Goshen360:
No waste your vote o...vote my sister joor.

who's your sister?

Goshen360:
Na who u vote for?

I haven't but lemme just vote jare....

Goshen360:
What's going on here?

Big Boss don land.......

Seun

Have you casted your vote?

EzePromoe:
[color=#DC143C]Wow. The Finals.[/color] [color=#DC143C][b]Now my criticism;

1. JENNIMMA
Jenny, you are naturally beautiful to be sincere. You've got a charming smile and I've tipped you and 4 others (though I failed one) to get to this stage. But if anything would hinder you not finishing top, it will be your photo background. But if the voters will look over this, then you're my best bet. I feel also that the advantage of being first on the list is already there to your favour but don't be relaxed yet. This same thing worked for Thorerah in the last edition until someone pulled a Miracy. One thing I've noticed in Miss NL, the most beautiful don't always win. You just need something more than that. As for your Q&A, methinks you didn't give that your best shot. Not that it was bad, but it was just average, there's nothing inspiring there but you've given your best already. At least you are a good billboard of the contest, looking at you encouraged me to scroll down further. Goodluck to you!

ROZZAY
You're pretty and matured. You've got so many rooting for you but hey you may be SURPRISED. To be sincere, your Q&A orientation was too informal to have been used for contest. You know very well that this isn't the jokes section or maybe some post you quote but a contest for that matter. Assuming you were enrolling for MBGN pageant, would you use pidgin English? A capital NO NO. Please just take it as a lesson you should correct. I know you have a good sense of humour, but let your posts in other threads do the education on your personality.

VIVLY
You seem to appear one of the brainiest (no disrespect to other contestants). Your interview was superb, you killed it but why does it seem like you guys are being stingy with pics or could the fault be from the judges? I don't think so. In a grand finale like this, I expected to see new and breathtaking selfies, not something recycled. You're beautiful and coincidentally, you have almost the same smile with that of your role model, Chimamanda. Hope you rise higher to someone more renowned than her. Your input raises my hope of a brighter Africa under female leadership. Goodluck!

ROKIATU
Seriously, I was surprised you agreed to join this contest, something that is rare amongst the old female NLders. I hope someone like Idowuogbo takes this as a challenge just as you took yours.
I hope at this stage of the contest you've not gone to relax. The contest is still open to every contestants, so you have to be on the watch.
You're undisputably the sexiest on this list. You've not just got the charisma, you've also got the class. UKWU! Keep ROKIng!

TEMIGRACIE
You're a black beauty. I still believe you can pull a surprise, it's never too late. If your campaign manager is not doing enough work, you can come in and do it yourself. Lupey, out of oblivion, and came out the Miss Nairaland. She really did hardwork by campaigning for herself. You can still make it. I don't want to talk about your interview because you were taciturn there. All the same, I wish you goodluck!


You all are very beautiful but I'm not going to vote for anybody because I wish I could vote for all of you but it isn't possible. My allegiance to whomever would be the winner.[/b][/color]

you've just spoke my mind.

@ this stage HBG is going to vote.

Well, its coming....

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But then black people were always hating on each other.....they too still wanted to enslave each other. Slavery wasn't just a white man's thingy. If that was the case I don't think anybody would have left wherever she/he came from.

I grew up in my mother's land of birth, their history isn't told by white people, its been told from generation to generation by Basotho what White people came to do was to lend a helping hand so that we could share it with others by re-writing it.

ihedinobi2:
Are you different? How do you make your choices? How do you learn?

Very different.

MojAyo:
who taught u yoruba,my frnd,lol

Google @ times is the best tool, well and mixing with Nairalanders.

How are you today?