₦airaland Forum

Some say it's the Government, others say; no, its the Society, but Alas, did you ask your self where these body came to be? Where it originated from? It's the Family, because it takes a man to marry a woman and vice versa and the major point of that marriage is the children /child, without that the home might not be quite complete, then when the child/children comes it becomes a family and in each family comes a big responsibility, to the father, to the mother, and ofcourse to the kids too as time goes on, Let's think this next line critically, have you analysed and pondered on the way lots of our fathers and mothers have failed, yet they expect to see best children when they were never there for those kids or even showed serious affection, neither have they had time for these kids, I beg your pardon, you are so busy, you go out early and come home late, you don't have time for your kids, their education is it of utmost importance to you, if you are a parent, do you maltreat your wife and course your husband and expect that kid that keep seeing those actions you portrait wouldn't have effect on that child, all those times you live then alone it's like in the garden, if Eve fell, how do you think a child wouldn't? You only care about their schooling, yes but what of the time? See our kids closely, read in the news how children are being molested, girls being raped it's because we the Parents have failed in our duty, what do you teach them,is it in contrast with your actions? The world is being distracted by fancy things while the main thing that keeps it going is dying that is family, what do your children see you do, you lie before them, tomorrow they go to the society and lie? It's start from the family, the women what have you taught your children, to lie?, gossip cos they see you do it, when they lie you excuse them every time in the name of love, okay that's acceptable but do you even take time to sit with the child and feel this child with your time, those hours you spend with your friends with pep talks, those are the times the snak is in the garden, I see little ones realy little do some horrible things, and I'm like where ar the parents of this one, When you live this world you have a report card to present as a father and as a mother, Do you have ti for your family? Do you try to calm down and understand what everyone's problem is, that's your duty! You are an overseer! As a father, with each person's responsibility with as blessing, Do you have time to pray with your family and pray for wisdom to treat each fairly, or you overtaken by hatred and jealousy, or you know it, Do they knoe respect, do you protect them, or sell them for many in anyway including your time, Think think think hard all the societal problems started from the home and the pillars of the home is the father and mother,who happens to be us parents, All around the world let's pay a little more attention on our parenting and responsibilities towards the family and be less focus on the NEEDLESS! Parents watch and listen to your kids closely, be their friend, be their friend more, than a parents trust me you hardly will be disappointed! #Poorparenting#

This has gone beyond Just Keeping Quiet and Letting sleeping Dog Lay... Just about some minutes past the hours of 4am this morning, the Nigeria Police Force with men of the A Division Asaba, Broke into the Silence and stillness of the Morning Sleep we all were enjoying, all of a sudden we heard some shouts of the Police Men, "Open The Door, I say open this door, they kept banging the flat gate were we were all sleeping peacefully, without the patience of waiting for a response, Myself, 3 of my brothers and My Mum, we're forced to wake up, my brother opened the gate, only for us to see a boy of around 16 or 17 at most in Handcuffs, Wetin happen, the Police said my younger brother and the Last born who is just about 16 years of age are under arrest for defending yo younger one? Is that not insane, and the Said Person was not injured whatsoever, meanwhile he was beaten by the Boys, meanwhile he my immediate younger brother went to see those who slapped our Last Born, getting there there was an argument and the boy who did that ran away, person wey the think no concern, go carry bottle, so my brother in the moment of the defensive followed up the boy and was slapped, and the case died there, just a day before yesterday this incident occured, all for the police to come and said they were under arrest, so I wore my cloth and my brother too, trying to follow them, on getting there, the Police before now has already been threatening in our flat which drew the attention of our neighbor who was fully aware and alerted about the Issue, on getting to their Vehicle the tension of the atmosphere was already tensed because of the way they came like they were coming to Hunt An Armed Robber, getting to their vehicle one of the police man blood just dey hot, he was shouting and telling my brothers to Lie down in their Hilux motor, with that I became so offended and I had to confront the Police and told my brother not to lie down as he was not a criminal, and the other police supported me immediately, as we were talking about that, the police man Slapped me, my neighbor became very angry and was shouting at the police man for harassing an hitting me. Meanwhile I had already called my Lawyer to File a case of assault by the Police, so after my younger ones sat Down they zoomed of, so I went straight to the A Division where they were taken to, before we know the Police said they were Cult boys, Ye Mogbe, ehnnnn, my eldest brother quickly drove down from warri in the midst of his busy schedule still came and on confrontin the Said boy who was with the Police, he said he only knows he had a problem with my brother who they had a misunderstanding after the carcase of defending him, from were did the Police get the written statement of the boy, the boy denied writing that statement where in the statement said, they were fighting over supremacy, who wrote that statement, the police has still not brought the person who wrote this state, remember this Is a case of 2 Fighting not relationship whatsoever with Cultism, and most funny part of it all is that the statement was so neat, matured and void of a single mistake, those boys couldn't have written that statement, it's suspicious, on getting to the police station the team leader walked me out of the police station, because I stood up for my right, now my question is where did they get that statement from? Because obviously it's not those who were involed in the misunderstanding , I am Using this medium to reach the IG, to look closely into this poilce issue of intimidation and beating of civilians before listening which is just the opposite, the last time I checked the police they say is your friend, the way the police came, they were more like armed robbers, especially the display of power they were so Drunken with, I never wanted to say this, but e don too much, the police enters your house in the name of whatever they start to beat you abd brutalise you, I In so many Cases I've withness, not with me though, and you dare not say nothing, if you talk they'll say you going against the Law Which I have never seen were a police man slaps you, uses his gun to hit you and threaten you in the name of arrest, let's make our voices known, so this injustice and brutality can stop, it's unfortunate because we Fear the Police even more than the Armed robbers, their operation is same, a thief comes to your house and threatens you, an armed man does same, but we go fear police, still see the uniform run? Mbaaaa it's not done. please to the IG Caution your men, because because we know our rights, and for the Police man that hit me, I'm coming for you, hope we see in Court, infact I take it personally to do that! All they want is for you to come bail, so they put anything on your head infact I took it upon myself to make sure I questioned my brother he said he hasn't even met the guy before which the guy ascertained, now where is the Cult Issue Connected with 2 fighting? It's messed up, the police bust into your house where you not an armed robber why? Why not allow the day break because it was obvious nobody was running as there was no fore knowledge of anything the Police are saying, Let the IG do something about it, the Police is so corrupt, they want you to pay for what they know you are innocent about just because they want to collect bail money which is supposedly Free. IG Arase I have been seeing how you've tried with the Police Force but please Work on Police Brutality and Harassment. They are supposed to be protecting us not the other way round... I had to leave them in the station as I already booked a flight to Abuja , couldn't cancel it as my eldest brother is around, I'm still waiting to get to the bottom of this as we were asked to come back by 1pm today. My Brothers and sisters let's voice our our opinion on the way the Police harass and put false allegations on the Innocent... What Nonsense, I hope to get a feed back before the end of the day as I get to Abj... I ready for that Police man wey hit me, even if it takes a year later I will come for you and make sure people like you are not given the opportunity to lay a finger on Innocent citizens...

Guess Africans are becoming Wiser to know What the People Want Except for Naija Which Is Just Opposite.

Hmmmmmmm so this Benue People up till now, are still thinking of retaliation, hmmmmm people mumu sha, I'm so sorry for them because if they do nothing about it, it can only get worse, they kept quiet for too long that's why it's continuing, this can not happen in The South, We Damn Sure to give them double... Stupid Apc Led Government Cant do anything bout it, yet they keep ranting of security progress, what's the difference In Genocide with what the Fulani Men are doing? Show them you can do evil all by yourself, Defend yourself and it's people before them finish Una, yet you'll be waiting for the FG to do something, They can't do anything bout it, only you can help yourselves, show this Fulani Men you can defend yourselves, I wonder the Kind of Youths they have there... They can't try this Over Here... they know they can't... Help Yourselves and stop depending on the Government that can't even help itself... it's a pity...

Plz KeepYA Challenges To Ya Self... if you really exist, Only The Lazy Get This Broke...#Reality#

You See why Hypocrisy Is Never Going to End quickly In Nigeria? Dem say tompolo chop money, Dem Use all the Military and Para Military and Force there is in Nigeria to search for Him, But See This Idiot Man Who Has Violated a Minor and Gone against all that is good towards that Child, what is the Government saying about it? Instead I can't even hear the man's name only for these people to start devising a means to get the girl back, what happened to the police, and others why have arrest not been made? Or is this guy above the law? Or are we now under Sharia Law? what then happens to the man, if he is let loosed from this? this people who do same and support this will want to do more... and don't see anything wrong with it... Nigerians, Let's open our eyes and say No to this Abuse... Nigerians Are Watching! #Givetheyouthsachance#

It's very unfortunate that we have to take this nonsense, Nigeria is not an Islamic Nation, I see no reason why a full grown man who maybe has grown up children would, No.1 take the child forcefully from the parents 2 Marry the Girl Child Forcefully, thereby Introducing The Girl to a whole new world of Rape and a Feeling Of Hatred For Men Maybe, Then To make matters worse, Change Her To Islam... What Nonsense! Must Everyone Be A Muslim? Or Is Freedom Of Religion now discarded? The Said Person Has Violated The Little Damsel and Should Face The Law, We are Governed by the rule of Law In Nigeria Not Sharia Law, That Man Should be brought to Justice... No One is above the Law... Human Right Activists and all the Law Makers and practitioners Should Know This is part of their Job, to fight for the rights of those whose freedom has been jeopardized. Nonsense Marra... #Givetheyouthsachance#

#Naija4life# Wetin be dis? Can't stop Laughing...

So PDP is corrupt and all that... yes let's agree that to be true, but does it mean No APC member is corrupt? All the files of APC members why have they not been opened or attended to? Or is the APC Government trying to tell Nigerians No APC Member is corrupt? This Is not War Against Corruption but, Sentimental filled Judgments, We dey #JAGABAN# #GivetheYouthsAChance#

It's quite unfortunate and Insane for someone to support this child Torture, In the name of what? (ANYTHING) I think the Government should take child torture cases in Nigeria very serious, and I think that woman should be given some jail term and then go through some psychological evaluation till she is balanced... (Don't think she is), i think the government should build institutions that controls these things... #Givetheyouthsachance#

I know it can be crasy, but you ain't the only person who has such a father, so you saying Nigerian Father's are crappy, Hmmmm well its capital lie, there are people who has actually been through worse, yet they made their way out without the Insult On Nigerian Fathers... Indeed , this shows you have been wrongly brainwashed, and one more thing You'll always remain Blackkkkkkkkkk... Face your life when he hears your success story he'll look for you, not calling him crappy, cos it clearly shows to me that you are crappy and negative... #Peace#

Hmmmmm APC, so someone else wins an election, a congratulatory message was sent (which was not a bad thing), just because he's not your party member, you had to take the time and stress just to say APC did not send the message.. bla bla bla... then where's the Unity we preach about? How can there be peace and stability when you fight and treat every opposition with so much disrespect and see them as an enemy of the state and corrupt, whereas those wailing and saying all these were once strong members of the so called corrupt party, (how can a bad tree yield good fruits?) Stop wasting time on unnecessary issues as this, and concentrate on reviving the economy instead of This stupid media Propaganda... Poor Nigerians, (which has the highest population) are crying and with fingers in their mouth, how the hell did we get here? Soon the Whole truth shall be out and APC will fall like a dry leave when everyone including the strong supporters blinded by sentiments, will now know APC Government has nothing, absolutely nothing to offer. Clueless Niggaz #Give the Youths A Chance# we deserve it....