See as wowolisis dey worry dis gal untop all the American burger, fyne she no fyne...you sure say na you abandon Naija men or na Naija men run for their life?

M4gunners:
Now i can see why his Father abandoned her.Is like he consulted Oracle to know what the Child future look like, and the answer he got maid him abandoned her.
Look at the words that is coming out of her mouth, it shows She hate Nigeria with passion.

LMAO!

B**CH!

Deceive or device?

CastedDude:
u are Biafran yet u use Naira.. who u dey decive?

M4gunners:
Now i can see why his Father abandoned her.Is like he consulted Oracle to know what the Child future look like, and the answer he got maid him abandoned her.
Look at the words that is coming out of her mouth, it shows She hate Nigeria with passion.

Smh..

Who cares how does dat make 1dollar =1naira, na she go b d first to hate her fada ni, Abi even d smelling white dad don't abandon dere own kids ni? Abeg make I hear word

Xposer:
A US freelance writer /journalist who is a half-Nigerian, Imade Nibokun went on a full online rant in talking about Nigerian men who blame her for not knowing her Nigerian father whom she said abandoned her...She also took a swipe at Nigerian fathers whom she called crappy. She took to her twitter handle to make her mind known. See below;

https://mobile.twitter.com/imadeintruth/status/701632623358164992

Via http://www.nationalhelm.com/2016/02/why-i-avoid-old-nigerian-men-like.html

You need to change your name so you can fully cut yourself from being a Nigerian.
I was born in London with a wonderful Nigerian father no issues. If your father bailed on you it doesn't mean that all Nigerian men are the same.
In America slot of black kids have no idea who their fathers are does that mean that all African American men are like that?
I think you should face the future and stop focusing on an event in the past that you have no power to change.
You are a Nigerian by blood so love us a little more.

I know it can be crasy, but you ain't the only person who has such a father, so you saying Nigerian Father's are crappy, Hmmmm well its capital lie, there are people who has actually been through worse, yet they made their way out without the Insult On Nigerian Fathers... Indeed , this shows you have been wrongly brainwashed, and one more thing You'll always remain Blackkkkkkkkkk... Face your life when he hears your success story he'll look for you, not calling him crappy, cos it clearly shows to me that you are crappy and negative... #Peace#

Who be this "manyan kwayan idanu"
Na only Nigeria man dey abandon pikin? So what do you have to say about others that do same.

You should find out what your mother did to deserve such treatment before ranting though abandoning a child is not the best
It may be very difficult for you to bear but you should live above your hate and do your best to reconcile with him

this world is bigger than how u see it sis, you are even lucky to have a good life, go see many abandoned kids in the slums

M4gunners:
Now i can see why his Father abandoned her.Is like he consulted Oracle to know what the Child future look like, and the answer he got maid him abandoned her.
Look at the words that is coming out of her mouth, it shows She hate Nigeria with passion.

I quite disagree wt u. do u know what it means to grow up without a fartherly love, care nd attentn? seeing yr mates nd friends' father dotting on them et al? do u know if d mother took it out on her? please, just leave her nd her outburst, du Allah

M4gunners:
Now i can see why his Father abandoned her.Is like he consulted Oracle to know what the Child future look like, and the answer he got maid him abandoned her.
Look at the words that is coming out of her mouth, it shows She hate Nigeria with passion.

Don't be stupid, Growing up without a father affects a child, especially girls. Don't blame the girl. blame the father that abandoned her.

She has every right to feel this way. Its better to be born an orphan than deal with the psychological baggage of abandonment by your own flesh and blood.

thecrush:
I Hate and I repeat I Hate looking at the face of this demented Black assed Oyibo....
Mtchewww.... When Trump enter i go know where u go run go

This Trump of a man is going to cause some wahala o, wia ppu go come run go nah?

This lady is heart broken however decided to speak in negativity. Ours is to encourage, console and counsel her to be positive in her perceptions about Nigerian fathers. Is painful to grow without the guidance of a father. Let us bear with her. Insults will only increase her sadness and grudges.

And Nairalanders showing us exactly way she means.

If discuss was a western forum, pple will come out with empathy, show her love, kindress. Tell her she done well even without a dad.

But my stonehearted pple are callin her ugly, dats why her dad abandoned her.

U can tell she is hurting but u have to go put the knife in.

So sad

emi14:
This lady is heart broken however decided to speak in negativity. Ours is to encourage, console and counsel her to be positive in her perceptions about Nigerian fathers. Is painful to grow without the guidance of a father. Let us bear with her. Insults will only increase her sadness and grudges.

God bless u, our pple mind dey fear me ooo,

Why are our hearts so hardened?

That's your culture there in the US. It doesn't have to be Nigerian dad before a kid is abandoned, good number of US dads at some point in their lives have participated in that line. So sweetheart, take heart make sure you marry a non US breed husband to avoid your kids being abandoned like you.

CastedDude:
I am telling u... she's already filled with so much hatred and pain...she needs CHANGE

not dis type of negative changee we are witnessing in dis country o

She is very ugly both in person and speech. Nigeria doesn't even need someone like you.

I pity the man that'll be in a relationship with this one.

She's sad on so many levels.

emi14:
This lady is heart broken however decided to speak in negativity. Ours is to encourage, console and counsel her to be positive in her perceptions about Nigerian fathers. Is painful to grow without the guidance of a father. Let us bear with her. Insults will only increase her sadness and grudges.

F that. She's s grown person.

sm galz hv been since 1904

Don't blame or generalise Nigerian men.
Simply put your father must have had his reasons for rejecting your sorry ass.
Secondly, may b ru mum was just a fling that sort of thing and u were the result.
So girl move on with ur life.

Does she actually think that only Nigerian men abandon their kids?
And why doesn't her mother know where her father is from?
It is easy to pass a judgement without seeing the full picture but it is impossible to find peace this way.

Xposer:
cc; seun, lalasticlala, mynd44

I love these names :-beautiful and godly names

kikilove:
well that's the type of father u got,most Nigerian men I know like and claim their kids even when some can't afford to take care of the kids. By the way am FTC, haven't been FTC for a long time.This is really nice

Thank God this is being said by a Lady..... Nice truth.....

She is confuse, she started her rant with 'Nigeria middle age men' and ended it with 'old Nigeria men'

She better go look for her dad, at least to hear his side of the story...it might be very different from the one-sided story, she have been told all these years.

So she indirectly labelled naij men cab drivers lol.

You can't blame her cos once you get to New York, you can't miss them. Naij cab drivers run NYC. Salute.

I don't blame her, some dads are useless like the dads of my two exes

shizzy7:
Who is this one again?
Ugly geh

mmtscheww

Don't blame her. A lot of naij men are deadbeat dads. I've got a lot of friends like that. One of my childhood who's half-Nigerian and half-Guinean still lament all the time cos it's like his dad just never wanted nothing to do with him and he has only seen his dad a few times in his life, despite the fact that the man is rich. The only folks he rates are his two late paternal grandparents who used to ring him all the time when they were alive and they'd visit him a couple of times from naij.

Even with my ex, her dad was never really in her life. Naij men just need be better dads, especially Yoruba men. You can't just make babies and abandon them regardless of how you feel about the mum. Ya seed is ya seed and ya responsibility - you can't run away from that.

You need to be in their shoes to understand how they feel.

From her name, it is possible and most likely her father is from Ijesha land and most probably Ibokun area or any other Ijesha area of the Yorubas.

having said that, she needs to go change her name ASAP if she's not proud of it as it gives her out as Nigerian already!.

It is also possible, her father is not to blame. we can not say for sure until we hear the other side of the story anyway!.

Well there is just one group of nigerian men who are champions at laying seeds everywhere and forget who or where their children are. And then she mention cab drivers. Well Nigerians in diaspora already have a clue who such men are.

I dont blame the girl I blame the old men who poke their nose in her life when chances are that they are themselves 70% guilty of what she is angry about