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Oche211:
really? Did she also get him to sign documented agreement with other proofs before spreading her legs for an unprotected sex?
Business deals are struck sitting across tables and not cuddling on a king size bed.
The lady is dumb.

You don't know the full story so don't be too quick to judge her. Ubi is a scammer..

Lovelyn451:
you're carrying his baby out of wedlock, he duped you of 20m...chai....did he use jazz on u?

Lol..no jazz was involved.
The guy is a professional love scammer. Sweet smooth talker with well garnished convincing lies which any innocent mind can believe.
Besides any good woman will want to support her guy..It's unfortunate

Oche211:
He got both the pvssy and the cash free. Infact, he got them Raw.
Raw Pvssy, Raw cash.
Too many dumb ladies everywhere.

What made you think she's dumb? That Lady is not dumb at all.She got him to sign a documented agreement with other proofs. She is just a victim of sweet talker scammer..

Seriously.Annie is really a strong woman. I don't envy her. She really tried ...

This is what I like whites for... They sacrifice a lot for comfort and happiness of others...

prettysassygirl:
op are u sure u are a graduate?? your use of words doesn't depict u as a graduate. its a pity the kind of Nigeria we are in,our educational standards are too poor, i can remember one graduate my mother employed in her school that doesn't even know how to recite multiplication table 2.

Shut up! Iti mpataka.. You are so incorrigible. OP's English is far better than yours..

naijaguy123456:
An Ibo tribalist is in charge of Nairaland today.

Any comments that is true and sounds anti Ibo get deleted. But the ones that are anti Yoruba posted by Ibo don't get touched.

I use to think Nairaland is just and upright but shame on whoever is in charge who choose to be bias.
I had 4 comments deleted today while the ones abusing Yoruba are not deleted.

Continue to do that stooopid fool.

Get a life guy. You re older than this bigotry nonsense on NL. It's childish and irritating...

Signs and wonders ....�

Hotfreezer:
When Ojukwu their lord and saviour was dying, it was Mike Adenuga who flew him out of Nigeria. No Igbo man did that.

When Ekwueme was dying, it was Osinbajo that mobilized movement out of Naija for him before he died.

Ask them who is sponsoring their ofala festival in Anambra. It's a Yoruba man. Mike Adenuga.

Oga you need serious help.. Ahhhh!

I will advise you use wisdom to handle this issue not emotions. Some things are better left unsaid, some secrets are meant to die with you. Your brothers and wife knowing about this will cause more harm than good. Your brother may not recover from the shock, he's already a shattered man.

I advise you seek alternative penance for your sin.Go and meet a mature Catholic Priest and confess for your peace of mind (even though you may not be a Catholic, my reason is that Catholic priests are more balanced in reasoning).Use WISDOM.
Shalom..

Nawaoo... He never marry you officially and you get mind to born three

IBERIBEISM!!

keepingmum:
Your chikd has been supported since birth by her grandparents.
They provide shelter, feeding, clothes and education for her yet you are on a sosha media doing instagram daddy, buying ribena, biscuit and indomie once in 2 years and you think that makes you a daddy??


Whether you are in good terms with the mothet or not, your child will eat everyday, her diapers will be changed everyday, the house will need electricity and she wikk use water to bath, drink , for her clothes to be washed.
She ll need vaccines, coughs and colds which children often contract need to be treated yet you are sitting on your high horse, as a proud anambra man: complaining that they didnt respect you.
Please does respect pay those bills above?

Why didnr you use your highly regarded state respect to pay her delivery bills in hospital? Or use it for her feeding?

Did you take over paying her tuition in the Sept following thr April she started sch since your gross is the timing?

Have you bern supporting financially with bank records to proove it monthly since she was born? Or because the mother didnt dance to your tune as the self crowned Anambra Prince that you are , a child you call your own should starve and be homeless cos daddy aint happy with mummy and her grandparents?

Oga go and see your lawyer ohh, cos you have a long way to go and proof before you ll be considered fit enough for joint physical custody

Best comment ever. Bitter truth. Oga OP your problem is ego. But you meet your match..

mozona:
this country is so greedy but we call it wise sometimes. i see no reason why our musicians are eager to ave their own record label.

why big musicians abroad are still sign to other people record label.

You nailed it. Even our pastors are not left out..
Everybody wants to be the superior..

Chai!!
Rivers state Government should do something about the security of the people. This is really getting out of hand..

Hotfreeze:
Life is not to be enjoyed in Igboland. By next week, those guys would be back in Lagos.

You make your money in Lagos, flex in Lagos, die in Lagos and get buried in the East.

You need to travel out of your region for once..

All I have to say is this.......... MONEY IS. REALLY. POWERFUL...

VictorRomanov:
Bro, she just want make you pet her make she no want the space again. To them the petting makes them feel wanted and loved.


But they dont know it can be frustrating to us sometimes.

Oga What's frustrating about petting your Woman?
Educate me pls because my man also has issues with petting and giving attention sometimes..

White Lie

All these disappointments listed are peculiar to failed states e.g Nigeria

The hustle is real!!

Odingo1:
Yea, 16 years PDP misrule but they are the same people in APC.

Amaechi is a govermor of River state for 8 years under PDP but follow form APC and start blaming PDP, so also Saraki, El Rufai, Atiku, Dogara, Okorocha, Ngige, Obasanjo,Kwankwaso, 90% of APC heavy weight members are the managers of this PDP 16 years misrule you are talking about.

Northern elite that form APC withTinubu are all PDP heavy weight that rule under PDP, they did so because they believe that power must return to the North by all means not that GEJ or PDP has misruled; PDP is not an object but humans ok.

Atiku is better option than Buhari.

We should stop deceiving ourselves in Nigeria.

Too much sense in a single post. A million likes for you. BTW I don't know what some people stand to gain by supporting failure..

UncleNnamdi:
Rejecting your daughter because of her refusal to sell her day-old baby she had out of wedlock.

This is indeed what poverty can do to a family. In Anambra state, there's no blood in the jungle of financial hustles.

They can do the undoable to you just for money regardless of the relationship they have with you.

May the founder of poverty never know peace.

Stop embarrassing yourself. Read carefully before you comment...

Kpac:
I am coming out of my comment retirement to honestly give you an advice you so much seek for.

Foremost on my advice is that you should kindly henceforth not seek a life-saving, destiny-shaping advice like the one above on a fast degrading forum like this which has also been occupied vigorously by an equally degrading different kinds of people, these days. Its like a deer going to the den of Lions to ask for advice on how to treat Mr Rabbit his neighbor. What kind of advice do you really think their brains can process?. Their minds are adequately corrupt, they have sawdust and carbide stuffed in the brains and the remaining part of the functional part has been eroded by codeine. Just so they don't win is why i am typing this, else you take a wrong advice that would affect your life, not theirs.

Lets move on from there, you have to realize that its getting more difficult for real guys to get ladies worthy of marriage these days, and its getting worse by the day. When a lady is on facebook, instagram, wechat, whatsapp, has a badoo profile, at the same time on twitter, active on nairaland, etc, it would take a real huge grace of God to have such lady not get Vulnerable and have date so many guys as you have pointed out about your fiancee. If this didn't happen now, it would have still happened after your wedding and could turn so ugly then. I am a realist and i strictly don't deceive myself. With what you have said about your fiancee, she did a terrible mistake (which she wouldn't have regretted if you have not caught her) but she quickly followed it with sincere steps of remorse, regret and remission. She deleted her facebook account and changed her number. Whew ! Thats a huge one. Most of the ladies on this forum giving you wrong advice would NEVER changed their phone number for any man. Your fiancee did this and that shows a lot of sacrifice for a lady in this generation.

She has engaged her aunt and maybe others, and that requires taking in some great shame to have done that. If she never wanted you and loved you, she would have used that 3 Italian slaps you gave her and the German dragging her out of your house as her great Alibi to make it look like you also a devil yourself. But she did not. Despite your embarrassing shortcoming, which you need to work on yourself, she has not stopped at anything (so far) to do anything she thinks could help you decide to forgive her.

You are not a saint either, we have had many ladies too who asked for advice if they should go on to marry a guy who gave them 3 Japanese slaps and dragged them from his house Fashola-style. Though what you discovered of your beloved fiancee was heartbreaking but please, you also need to look inside the mirror and ask yourself if you really think you're matured enough to get married. You seem to have a long way to go with your temperament - which of course collapses a marriage even faster than adultery.

As for she dating many guys in the past, its unfortunate, but she actually trusted all those guys is why she dated them but they had nothing to offer her. The past is the past and should be left in the past. If you guys love each other so and very much and have decided to mutually live your lives with each other, then Behold, all things have become new. Dont get married to her and be taunting her with her past again. That singular act breaks a woman's heart harder than seeing their husband on their maid. A man has to have a big matured mind and a huge restraining mind to be a successful husband.

In a nut shell, its human to make mistakes and its human to forgive. Nigerians hate that word forgiveness and that's why our society has been rounding a no-progress circle for ages. You can even deduce that from our beloved Nigerian film, they would never forgive any evil doer in their films, If they cannot find any quicker and harsher death for that evil doer, who has even repented, the next scene you would see is that the person walks away after bitterly rolling on the floor and asking for forgiveness, then suddenly a car speed to him/her, hits him/her and the person dies instantly. That's when they can end that film. They cant even give the person a chance to get to the hospital before he / she dies. Never. So its in our culture to hate to forgive, but you have to forgive your fiancee because she has really done everything she could after that interesting discovery.

Finally, please ensure its not just Facebook she deletes. Try to call her your own self, in a calm voice (cos she would have probably gotten so afraid of you after those slaps and drags), ask her to come meet you, then do your manly talks to ask her to tell you everything she thinks you should know now before you find out at anytime in the future and it gets too late. I assure you that you would need to sincerely talk very well, long and convince her she can trust you whereas you should also be very very prepared to be matured enough to hear anything and immediately shove it to the past. When she has confessed everything, you guys should jointly make decisions that would not affect your marriage henceforth. So, if she has a secret badoo profile for example, or she even has a username on a nude website, you should both there and then delete them all and please take her back to start a new life.

I assure you, there are worse ones out there. The ones on this forum are even worse. If you were dating any of them, you would have been in jail now with that your temper cos you would have killed them and even hang their corpse.

Goodluck Bro.

A million likes for you sir. Never knew there are mature guys left on this forum.

@OP..... This is the best advice for you.

Political prostitutes everywhere!

Short of words!

[quote author=BeijinDossier post=67324749]See the fat ugly old woman with his short toy husband. Even if Okoroawusa handed me his state allocation I wouldn't still touch this fat disgusting dirty-looking old woman. [/quo

You are too rude. Learn some manners please..

I know Mr Lienus will not disappoint..

Learn to be independent

Be ready to take risks

Take decisions and stand your ground, don't let people push you around..

What's so special about Edet's resignation as a priest sef? So many priests who couldnt cope had quietly resigned and continued with their lives. I think he is the one that made his resignation seems a big deal by the way he went about it.

Priesthood is not a do or die Affair. The Catholic church relieves you once you insist you cannot cope any more. There is no big deal. Funny enough so many are 'dying' to become a priest. I wish you wisdom and grace in your new life ex priest.

Hahahhaha. Padre Please forgive him..

TRed:
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3, some state and regional nominations requires application fee
4, cost of visa application is subject to your family composition and who is migrating with you

Lastly, there hidden costs such as that for obtaining your transcripts, police clearance certificate and other documents

Thanks a bunch..