₦airaland Forum

dyce101:
Have this issue been addressed by Wes

Yes..I reached them through Twitter and it was resolved quickly

Ziongirl:
Someone please help. Unilag sent my transcript since July 10th and my status still says "On hold, we are waiting for your documents". WES says they havent gotten the documents. I dont know what to do. People that experienced this, please what did you do to get your documents acknowledged by WES

Pls how did you resolve this? I'm having the same issues too..

Pls can somebody help

Brian47:
Most men don't care about a lady's finance or job. They just want to marry a yes woman. But thank God men are waking up now.
When a lady is working a lot and making money, men tends to see it as a masculine trait, because they believe that they supposed to be the one working and the provider.
So that's where the problem is.

Very true.. Most times, the yes is just for a start ooo..once she enters the marriage, she would change from docile to tiger..

Half truth..So the women that are not making money are the only well behaved and submissive ones? Lol.. You ain't seen anything yet..Read up people's stories on family section then you will understand..Bad character is about personality in both gender.. Being wealthy doesn't make people bad.
There are many disrespectful and proud poor ladies as well..

My point, being rich and financially independent should be encouraged amongst women to help eradicate poverty in the country, secondly it's never the reason why people are badly behaved..Get yourself a good hardworking rich lady and watch your life blossom..

SKhanmi:
We're not in a woke society. Like one poster said, In Nigeria/africa marriage is all about control. I fully agree except with the way she potrayed it. Few women can handle power/wealth without misbehaving, look around you or towards the western hemisphere.

A man has to have a modicum of control over his affairs, mind you I'm referring to control=firm hand & not the typical outright master/slave relationship. Everyone recognizes that subconsciously, even the so called women who are loudly against it. Listen to a woman's words at your own peril. Men lead, women follow. We're not equals, the Ukraine situation just exposed that woke ism shit! Hypocrites!

Most Nigerian men do not hate working class women, what they don't want is someone with a lot of ego which is quite common among these kind of ladies. When a typical woman makes more money she feels she doesn't need a man, women like this like to upset the cart with needless drama or power tussles.
Marriage is not a competition, women like that should grow balls & remain single, adopt children or look abroad for emasculated men that would allow such nonsense. It's not by force to get married. The nunnery is always open. Most men don't need their women's money either but there are certain conditions the man should be able to count on you to serve as a backup temporarily but we all know how 90% of such cases end. What's the use of marrying such a woman then if everything is one way? Getting a baby mama is better then.

So men go after the unemployed humble type but the only mistake they make is not setting up those women to work under them in their business/work remotely from home to improve her capability to support the home, a woman can't have two masters & still function effectively at home, yes you heard it right. Ever noticed why most women respect their pastors/bosses more than their husbands? There are natural reasons for all these.

Make sure the business is in your name/you own it to avoid the kind of tales we read of foolish ignorant men in the Romance section. If you're lucky to have one of the well brought up & evolved women who don't see men as competition or a tool to be used & discarded, she can have her own businesses & your full support.

One man I know sells gadgets, His wife works there with him, he can travel/look after his other businesses in peace, nor would she give him Yeye excuses when they get home.

So it's up to both genders to know what they want & follow it but unfortunately most folks live on auto mode, na anywhere belle face is their life rule, no definite plans, nothing.

If you want a traditional man, prepare to be a fully submissive traditional wife.

You want a partner? Make sure you're one also in all ramifications.

Want a man to lord it over, find a gigolo or something, many guys are up for that.

Most women prefer the first option but would typically try to have their cake & eat it at the same time. Want to be taken care of as queens without rendering any serious responsibilities/services like a Chihuahua.

lahizak:
We men prefer a working babe with stable income. Unfortunately job market hard and their are only a few of em. And among the few, many of em have this big ego (bad behaviour). As for me, I don't see myself ever marrying a lady without a stable income, no matter how long it will take me to find one. Amma wait for her. It's a complete turn off for me even when a girl visit me and start requesting money to buy ordinary things like salt, Maggi and eggs. Not to talk of wife, na frustration go kill me be dat

Oga there are many good hardworking ladies out there but stereotype/ generalization won't allow men approach them.. How people believe a financial stable woman must have bad character amaze me..

TOPCRUISE:
In Nigeria your husband is your source of income

Lol... And her family source of income oo.. Until they use burden and stress kill the man..Then you will see the madam that couldn't do any little job/business to support the husband hustle up and down, take care of herself and kids. Wickedness.. Men be wise

Most young people of this age want quick cash and are too proud to learn... They are driving keke, okada or conductor, or owoda on the express.. It's unfortunate

Probably, she's been hurt by men she trusted and invested in..She needs a strong conviction that you are different..

I feel so sorry for her daughter and her family..

Single Ladies pls don't let societal pressure push you into settling with a beast just to get "Mrs" tittle..
Rip Evelyn

So na dis one dey reign now.. married men forming single and shamelessly denying their families.. Wickedness

Sign that election is around the corner..Ndi nko

I don't really understand, do you get attracted to your relatives of opposite sex?

yemmit90:
Let me be honest with you as an adult, it is very wrong for you to stay in the same apartment with your cousin who have been rejected by your parent. It"s a total disrespect to your parent.

The best you could've done is to lend her money to complete the house rent for herself alone. Psychologically, you have little love/lust/soft spot for your cousin but you will never agree with yourself or anyone. My advise for you is to stay away from that girl and find your own apartment. The more you keep fighting for her, the more she keep loving you, and sooner or later, you will find yourself having sex with her and got her pregnant. This will happen except you act fast now.

LilMissFavvy:
You said you are 7boys in total, and when you were with your family, your female cousin came to stay there? That was totally wrong. No female cousin can be safe with 7 males in a home, it's only a matter of time, you people will sexually abuse her, that is the truth and that is what a sensible person would fear. Now you have taken her away to stay alone, it is wrong. Prevention is better than cure. If you were a girl it wouldn't matter, but you are a guy for God's sake. Try and get connected to an aunt who can accommodate your cousin. You should also return her rent money which her dad gave her.

I know you are trying to help her, but it's wrong to live together like that without some adults around.

Nawaoo.. What's the meaning of this your statement?

Sammy101111:
Bro this was how i thought about my ex till we started dating i found out more about her . bro any woman above 30s and is single no kids they have some dirty hiding shit just be watchful oh

And you don't have a past? And your slates are very clean? Umuaka everywhere

headSmasher:
The sin of David never lasted more than one week before God forgave him, have you heard of the SURE MERCY OF DAVID, David received unparalleled favor, grace and mercy from GOD that cannot be march by any human being, it also extended all his generations, he was a man after GOD'S heart, Solomon repented before he died, some theologians said his last days were spent in the temple.

Story

This is exactly what Nigeria has become, help people and they turn around and destroy you.. It's unfortunate

wordbank:
Please, nobody should attach buhari's rapid brain redundancy to dementia or ageing.

The mannequin business with governance should only be as a fortunate retired citizen whose breakthrough happened as a result of massive northern recruitment into early Nigeria military system which fangs are still on the skin of masses even unto the next day.

To tell you it's not just a matter of dementia, officiating FEC meetings is one of his greatest nightmares especially with stakeholders. Even in the most comfortable environment, he functions way below a sloth.

No impeachment move by the Senate is the latest wonder in a 4th world.

You are good writer...Well composed wordings..

tradepunter:
Well maybe the way I put it was out of context regarding her age.... Though it's a trend I have observed for some time.

Ok.

tradepunter:
Baba I sure say she make shakara when she was finer and Younger.

When lady starts aging, they throw caution to the wind because they focused on settling down.

And men like this guy will always be in the mix, we caught one that was going to marry a relative of ours. We investigated him up to his matrimonial home, he had a wife and 2 kids.

Na for him gate we block am and told him to quietly stay off... That shock alone reset him brain...

Chief Judge..See how you talk as if you know her personally..As for aging, does this lady look aged/old to you.. This can happen to anybody..
The poor girl is unfortunate to have met a terrible lair.. That's all

She wants to avoid being called evening newspaper by Nairaland guys..Lols

It's well Bro..Marry when you are ready.Dont let anyone pressure you into "doing pass yourself"..

If you know denomination is a big deal to you, avoid the conflict earlier.

Don't start what you can't finish. Don't even date that person at first..

Nigeria economy is bitting hard right now and it's difficult for one partner to bear the burden.

Guys if you are not financially bouyant to bear the financial burden, PLEASE get a working wife or skilled ambitious hustling woman to start life with..YES such women are all over the place, you just need to search properly.

The easiest ticket to poverty and suffering is a lazy unambitious wife. Choose right to avoid story that touch.

Pele OP

marsup:
Allow her to put to bed first, when your baby clocks one year, it's either she gets a job, or you start a business for her, if you can afford it. If she refuses, you reduce the allowance you give to her.
I don't see any reason why any one should choose laziness over productivity.

Another pregnancy would come then..Una never unambitious women.. That's a direct ticket to poverty and suffering for any man that's not financially bouyant..I pity the young man

Bros are you sure you're telling us the whole story �. You sure say you never remove something from the full gist?

Sai Baba..

PMB Till 2040. Lol

sarrki:
The lekki massacre was a ruse!!! Let them provide us with a victim?

It’s one year now

Yet the gullible believes the lies

Let them go protest in the east where UGM is killing innocent people

I thought you confessed you ve repented??
May God have mercy on you..

Sai Baba..
Mr integrity one of the whole universe.. Lolz

Philipponzaghi:
Obi Pandora is a thief, just wait patiently for the EFCC invitation and you will explain yourself why you are operating a foreign account while being governor and why you fail to declare your assets.

By the way, I like how Ibos are defending their own criminal, at least it’s an example to the woke liberal Yorubas who derive strength in condemning their own.

The same failure to declare asset that Jonathan tried Tinubu with at the CCT is the same thing Ibo people are absolving Obi Pandora of.

The same Obi Pandora was governor when Awkusu SARS killed hundreds of Yeebos with real image of the dead but yet the same Ibo left Obi properties intact during EndSars crusade and praised the burning of Tinubu properties on the charges of a fake Lekki massacre where we haven’t seen the said 76 that died.

That’s exactly the same way how Ibo officers protected their own during the first coup and killed other tribesleader.

Bros these lines are stale..Look for more enticing tales.

I don't understand why some people don't know they're being used.. Seriously

Bros let me tell you now, you are being used. Which Polytechnic costs this much by the way.? Pls invest that money in your family..E.g brothers, sisters, good cousins,uncles and aunts,even your parents.. You won't regret it, but if you do invest in that girlfriend of yours, you will surely regret.. Thanks

babtoundey:
The Op got everything muddled up.
Being virtuous and and striving to be sexually pure is a virtue both genders should have. Virginity is an indication of moral uprightness particularly in this present time when sex is cheap and being sexually immodest is considered fashion and smartness.

The statement is however correct. Virginity is not enough guarantee for a successful and happy marriage. As much as I will love to have a woman who is sexually modest and decent, I wouldn't look forward to her coming with just her virginity. After the virginity what else? That a woman or man is a virgin doesn't mean she will be upright and adequate in other areas of human endeavors.

Nature has a way of doing its things. Those wayward things always have happy stories while the modest, unfortunately, go through undeserved hell. Being a good, brilliant and focused student sometimes does not guarantee success after graduation. The unserious ones and the ones labelled olodos always fly higher. It's a mystery.

The statement can be said to be stupid and useless if it is said with the intention of encouraging philandering in men or promiscuity in women folks.

It is good and fulfilling to be a virgin purposely to fulfil your own personal moral or Philosophical principles and not in expectation of special treatments from the society.

Ahh. So we still have balanced individuals on this platform..More wisdom to your brain.. Thanks bros

Give it time, you will be fine..

Stop calling, texting nor sending people to beg her.. She's fallen out of love already so don't waste your time pleading with her.

Time heals all wounds no matter how deep it is..Cheers

Happy birthday beautiful Linda..Keep living dear..


Why all these hate on Linda on this platform,Nairaland..I don't understand what's Linda's crime exactly..Why are some of you here so uncouth and hate-filled? Don't you have single mature ladies in your families? Don't you have female children in families or is it because Nairaland is a faceless forum? Nawaoo.

When did marriage become a yardstick to measure a good/bad woman?All these men crying foul in the Family section about the liabilities of their wives,is that any better?

You guys frown at single moms and hate abortion at the same time.. You don't want liabilities and also hate strong successful ladies like Linda..
What exactly do Nigerian men want
Odiegwu