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Goodmorning House..

So delighted I found this thread. I m planning to start processing my migration by middle of this year. Please like how much should I budget for the whole process?

Oga leave that lady alone, she just had a heart break and you are planning to add salt to her injury. U know what you want to do is wrong that's why you are seeking for advice.

And you met met her in church.. SMH..

Nawa for Nigerian christians... Why are some people reading deep meaning into what the cardinal said? The thread has now turned to war between Catholics and Pentecostals. We still have a loooong way to go in this country. God help us all..

Story story story... Story

Small minded people everywhere.. SMH. Single ladies have suffered in this con3..

So sorry man..
Keep your life out of social media, some will not hear. The world is a wicked place.

djon78:
For all those ladies saying lack of ambition, that is not true. Most of those ladies go on with their careers. My wife is doing Bsc Nursing, she still wanted to get married, was 25 when we married, I am late 30s. Still give birth to our babies, soon finish her studies, has a very loving caring, supporting and understanding husband, still is a home maker.

It is all those ambitions that has left the carnage we are seeing today. Women focus on career, by the time they feel they are ready, it may get harder. And the scary thing is that most guys now go for younger women because, of high fertility and submission, because majority of those career ones they can't even listen to you. Unlike my wife, she is very submissive, obedient and loyal, obeys every instruction she is given innocently not questioning you.

I am not coming here to mock anyone, in fact it pains my heart when I see what is going on. That's why I always advised my younger ones and relations. Once as a young woman, men are hovering around you, be wise, close your legs, prayerfully and watchingly chose among them and marry and go and use this your youth and born for your husband. Simple people should not pay attention to some vekry dangerous cultures allien to us that our people have copied. The two girls I senior, my mama no give them space at all, she made sure they married immediately after graduation. One a doctor the other works as a top manager in a leading Telecom company in V I Lagos and they are happy today with children, loving husbands, and still career women. So let's stop all these. Young women be wise. Martured ones I pray God see you through

Your wife's good character has nothing to do with the age at which you married her, its a personality thing. This life is sooo dynamic. Lets try and understand this mystery...

Fourwinds:
one thing I know is that 80%of ladies are never ready for marriage whether young or old but it is the nature(age) that compel them into it....if you know what you are doing you be consciously preparing for it....


image a lady dating a guy and after 8months and the guy proposes, the same lady getting confused.....my question is why the dating in the first place?...

when you are into something ,you should be ready for anything that comes with it


I can't imagine myself being in the army and not expect to die at any time...is that not a deceit on its own

Oga we re on the same page here. A good number of ladies pretend a lot, young, old, granny etc. My point is that it has more to do with personality rather than age.. Shey you get?

[quote author=ShyCypher post=64785477][/quote]Hahahhaha.. This guy is wicked..

Fourwinds:
I know what I'm saying...I live in a society ....ours


vany of you are not genuinely humble....


I have had irritating encounter with ladies

Now you made your point clearer. Pretence is not peculiar to any age bracket. Its a general thing for ladies with such character..

Xisnin:
Character changes with age, I know guys who were street trouble while young but are now
responsible and thoughtful parents, they are not hiding their "true" character, they have just outgrown it.
Any under 25 year old who found a gold boyfriend and really wants marriage can always act wifely.

A million likes for you bro..

Fourwinds:
nonsense...she has calm down because of her age...don't think she was naturally humble when she was younger....

they just misbehave when you tell them to do things at the right time

Lol.. See judgement..

LordBaelish:
You think marriage ain't a big deal in Tier 1 countries? guess again.

The idea that African values are backwards is just shameful. What made American values useful? Do Asians give a Fvck about those? SMH

Not what I mean. Over there, nobody mocks you because you are single. They are more liberal and embrace love whenever it comes..

Millz404:
Nah... Bt i like older women sha.... Not like old, just older than me.... There is one 35 yrs old i am always playing rough play with.... But e no go reach marriage sha in jesus name.... Lol

Hahahhaha. Ok just be careful.
@topic.. We have sick mentality in this part of the world. Its very unfortunate. Most people are single because they are yet to meet compatible patners. Jokes/mockeries like this are the reason why some ladies who are not confident enough are pressured into marriage with people they don't even love just to escape mockery from the society. The same reason some have died in abusive relationship...

Millz404:
Marrying a matured stable man that can handle a family comfortably

Lol.. I see. And you think its not the same for the ladies?

And marrying a guy above 30 is??

Tho I respect Ali Baba's view but this lady needs to be told the bitter truth, She seriously needs to do something about her weight ASAP...

Lol.. Na guilty concience dey worry you because you were not committed when you guys were together and your break up wasnt peaceful.

Go and make peace with her stylishly and do your job professionally. Good luck..

Why is wickedness increasing amongst people by the day yet we claim to be religious? Just because you wanted momentary sex you have to put a young orphan through this pain. There are so many ladies that could offer what you wanted but you chose to deceive this lil orphan. If you have decided to break up with her better find a way to appease her and make sure she forgives you. This is how so many have brought curses upon their lives and will start running helter skelter when Karma comes knocking. And I m sure so many reading this are currently in a deceptive relationship planning same as Op thinking they are smart.. Lord have mercy...

Op you want to be a teacher and be collecting 25 to 40k salary No say we no tell you, better use your head. With Computer Science Bsc you can even teach if you want to. You also stand a better chance in other industries as well. Being an educationist limits your Career. Above all Teaching Career is very frustrating in this country. Insults from your employer, students and their parents plus meager salary with no hope of Career advancement prospects. I m talking from experience. I don talk my own ooo.

Good luck.

Peter of Psquare comes to mind. Contracts should be honored or should be settled peacefully if one is not longer interested. Thats intergrity. Above all, don't outshine your master..

This one is strong oo. Obsession at its peak..

;DThis Cyriacus Izuekwe reporter guy and bad news are like 5&6

Phi001:
Upon all your literacy, you still can't spell...

Lol

This is very pathetic. I feel for Emeka, can't imagine the pain he and the children are going through.. Suzzane should have forgiven and stayed, if not for anything for her kids, for all the sacrifices... Training her in school, opening a school for her, building house for her family. At least he was humble enough to beg her publicly. These can not come from a man that doesn't love his woman.Now that she has walked out of the marriage, she would realise that no man is perfect. I wonder if she would leave her new marriage because of the man's imperfections. Emeka may God heal and restore you..

A very heartless mother.. Tufiakwa...

Arrant nonsense..

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Lol. This life ee! After 2 yrs, we now know the difference between an illiterate and a scholar...

I m interested.. ve been trying to reach you. Your number is not going through.

Hello Nairalanders. Please I need an information on any federal University in the South South or South East that accept PhD students with less than 60% unit.

Hello Nairalanders. Please I need an information on any federal University in the South South or South East that accept PhD students with less than 60% unit. Your contributions will be highly appreciated..