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heendrix:
If you come out you'll be very good at marketing jobs since it's expected you'd already be trained rigorously on socializing with people easily

hope this helps

Sure... thanks

Doradorwa:
Sociology is a nice course to study if you are in a country like India... Infact sociology is one of the most studied course at india because the are interested in solving their environmental caused issues by men through science but Nigeria.... Nah... Though you can teach social studies with it or even lecture in a university with it.... I hope I helped a bit.

Can I work in the government as a sociologist

ITbomb:
After graduation, you fit into the security sector very well

Worse worse, you teach

If you no know something you fit Waka pass

Nnaahh
Mehnn
IamBroke


Maybe he wasn't high when he wrote the song

Hello guys...I wanted to study political science but I've not been given admission so I was referred to study sociology but I don't know much about the course...
And where can I fit into in real life if I study sociology

Advise please

ClassicCaleb:
Those boys were arrested by Godswil Akpabio when he was the governor,they were in prison until Udom emmanuel, Prince Akpabio and PDP Chairman of Esienudim release them and use them as thugry during the election, after the election they refuse to settle them ,those boys later join Namdi kanus ESN and came back home to cause mayhem,I don't think Udom can stop them now because they've grown wings, Don't quotes me because am currently at welcome to esienudim in Esienudim and this is the first class information ,am just saying this because my identity is protected here

You no lie ..I'm from Essien udim

The media is so fu*ck up...why are they not reporting about the soldiers killed... Essien Udim is hot right now

post=100409054:
This is the funniest thing we have read all week.
Una no go killi person for dis Nairaland o

How do you manage to quote lots of comment

Role model

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright......
Congratulations ...

How her songs want take reach billion...
Who dey subscribe or play the Gospel songs ..

gospel abi na praise or worship songs way most Nigerian Christians nor dey even take serious or even play at all

the only time them dey take that thier song serious na when them dey inside motor dey travel long distance
Especially at the beginning of the journey
Once them don travel far small them go remove am put am for secular song.
the drivers of God is good motors sabi that thing well well

You're very stupid for posting this shit

BluntCrazeMan:
Which money again is “your money”?
You're supposed to be broke.
You're not supposed to have money.

I reject it IJN

Lalasticlala

Lalasticlala seun

Lovethaa:
Dated one babe like that very gentle in the physical realm but was a witch in the spiritual.. whenever I hurt her or cheat , she doesn't act weird or angry but if I sleep that night Ill dream of masquerade beating me and wake up with the pain .. na she go still buy the robb .. crazy babe thank God for deliverance

Guy you need to go for deliverance cos she fit don gv u witch

I came across a post on nairaland yesterday about a guy (asu ekiye) talking about the arrogance of most Nigerian gospel artistes.
All what he said were on point not until he said that

"Ninety nine percent of Gospel artistes in Nigeria are poor people. Quote me anywhere. Name one rich gospel artiste and I will tell you his/her level.

I was shocked.i don't know if he said this out of hatred or perhaps he's jealous because you can't be so sure to say that 99% of Nigerian gospel artistes are poor.

Because they few I know ain't poor.
I mean are the likes of sinach,Frank Edwards, Nathaniel bassey and mercy chinwo poor or what did he really meant by rich...in possession or what?

Gospel artistes don't need to display their wealth on social media as their secular counterpart do...and besides I am so sure that 99% of secular artistes are living a packaging lifestyle.

Lalasticlala

Rocktation farano

I myself I'm an introvert...and I have never been in a relationship since I was born though I've had a few crushers maybe due to ma looks and stuff like that..and besides IamBroke and not ready to take a boyfriend responsibilities...
So guys Have you ever dated an introvert?

Share your experience(s)


Lalasticlala

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
All these Christians and gospel artiste that are confused....who dey listen or play gospel songs self...

gospel abi na praise or worship songs way most Nigerian Christians nor dey even take serious or even play at all

the only time them dey take that thier song serious na when them dey inside motor dey travel long distance
Especially at the beginning of the journey
Once them don travel far small them go remove am put am for secular song.
the drivers of God is good motors sabi that thing well well

Mtcheeeew... you're a fu*king p*ssy a** niqqar...
If you ain't comfortable listening to gospel songs you shouldn't condemned it.Di*k

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

Oga abeg no do something were you go later regret unto sey you dey vex...abeg I take God beg you..no take actions while angry cos you fit cm regret am... that car were you buy gv am it was out of love I know it hurts but pls don't sell it..
I am not in support of what your wife did but forgiveness is love...
Abeg no sell the house too...

Women are so greedy... na why me dey always tell ma mama "I no wan marry woman were I go later regret cuz like to this like this na baby mama sure pass and if I should marry I go make sure sey the girl is from a rich family cuz IamBroke

slimjohn2k5:
You don't want to hurt her, continue stuff with her, avoid her. So which advise you want?

It wouldn't be nice if I avoid her...

doggedfighter:
You already know what to do.

You enjoy everything she's offering and it makes you happy.

Do what your heart tells you.

You only live once !

If I do I wouldn't ask

daddytime:
Just keep telling her you are broke

She's not after my money

Okay there's this lady I met at a friend's place. She's free spirited and kind of nasty.

She's married with 3 kids but she's not living with her husband, reasons I don't know.

I believe she'd be 5 years if not more older than me but yet she calls me like I'm with her kidney...
I can't even believe the kind of stuff we do though we've not had sex but she's pushing me that way but that's one thing I don't want to do cause she's married and I'm feeling guilty.

I don't want to hurt her and I don't want to continue this stuff with her and I don't want to avoid her either.

So what do I do now?

Advise me on what to do please

Seun

Lalasticlala

lalasticlala

StrongandMighty:
whenever you call your partner and he or she picked and promises to call back later with the excuse of being busy and never did. that's a huge sign

Very true

Michelle55:
I really don't know because I've never placed myself in a position where such thoughts bothers me.. I'm always neutral in relationships, it's either it works out or not, I don't fret over it. I simply move on like it never happened.

Perhaps the next person knows something about the signs.

You're breaking ma heart

Michelle55:
So you dey save data?

The guy is broke

SimplyFacts:
When she ignores you & keeps smiling to her phone while chatting with P.A or Bestie (a male friend) OR It takes her forever to reply your chats. You ask her why it's taking so long to reply your chats & she replied, "Don't be annoyed, I'm getting really cracked up with P.A chats".

My brother, you need no flesh & blood to reveal anything to you

This one choke ooooo

Lalasticlala