Hello Nairalanders,

I just read a thread where some guy on Facebook stated that; Proposing to Ladies above 30 years old is more of a rescue mission. This comment stinks of hypocrisy. Common!!

We've all made mistakes and we surely hope those mistakes can be rectified.
I once asked a guy that is known for cursing ladies what he would do if he was born a girl, he started talking about how he will make sure that he scores the rich men in town and use his(her) vagina for productive purposes. That's just too much hypocrisy from one person, he is known for blaming women and cursing them, calling them all sort of bad names because of their wayward lifestyles.

Some females, when in their teens and early twenties don't see life the way it is, they are blinded by socialism, vain glory, attention and fame, some pursue their career so much that they forget to engage in the pursuit of other important things in life (e.g Marriage and Procreation).
Men shouldn't call for their head because of these. I've been abused by the females I like many times because they saw me as someone unworthy, I didn't blame them much because, well, I knew somethings they said were true and I still showed love regardless. I'm that guy that won't blame you for having an opinion based on what you know, I just hope you see life the way I see it and if we can get to talk, I will show you.

We ought to correct and not condemn, that's a better way of going about it if we truly care.
I understand that some guys are just very angry because they are not having their way with the ladies and this has made them so fraustrated in which they will result to abuse and cursing a lady at the slightest chance.
It's simple, focus on what matters, I know it can be a bit difficult to start with if you're not used to it, but it's the only way to keep being sane and have a happy ending.

We've all made mistakes and when we condemn others for their own mistakes which we would have probably made if we were to be in their shoes, that only shows we are not being true to ouselves.

If all the wrong things you've done as a guy (or still doing) during your youthful age are to be counted against you the way you want the mistakes of a female to be used against her, I'm sure you won't want or pray for that.

Proposing to a lady in her 30's can be very sweet, although there are bad ones who are just looking for a prey to put their baggages on, but not all. Please don't ask me how you ought to know the good from the bad, if truly you are not blinded by lust and vanity, you should be able to see beneath the facade or pretence of a "bad girl".

I've made mistakes and I never wish for my past to haunt me.

Lets be objective enough and stick to what is right and what is true regardless of the forces we'll be against.

There is no need advocating for the old single ladies...
Women too condemn, shame and badmouth men in all age brackets, over sundry issues such as being broke, having a small dick, being a one minute man in bed, men being scum, etc...
Both genders have been bashing themselves since the days of Adam and Eve...
There is nothing you can do about it.

We are all sinners, we shouldn't judge anyone because we ain't perfect. But we should have a choice.

There's nothing as sweet and joyful as having a younger lady in her 20s as a wife.

>Fresh and good physically attractive body features.

>Biologically fertile to have kids as much as the partners want.

>Strength, fun-loving and energetic life.

>Perfect boost to sex life with less body counts and depreciated body.

>All aged single ladies are the same(Character wise)

>Someone that'll be ready to learn from you, not an aged lady who'll always feel she knows it all as a result of much relationship and breakup experience.

I can go on and on.

Let's be real and stop sugar-coating the truth. You can never compare a single lady with an aged lady, never. The young the better.

Mind you; Africans don't marry for love, but for personal gains.

A lady wishes to marry a man who'll be able to care financially for her and kids, a caring husband and a good father for the kids.

While a man will wish to marry a young lady who'll will respect him, help him build the family and give him peace.

Aha... And u were trying to say that u are planning to propose to a lady that is older than u abi?


Abegi, u no go lie ooo

no one gives a fùck or have the time to read this shît




oh except the single ladies above 30 and them feminists

izzou:
I still see no sense in all these proposing at 30 brouhaha

Unless, your sole aim of getting married is to have babies, then I see no reason why you should be worried

I'm gonna get married because I love my wife. The love is gonna drive us nuts that we'll actually forget how old we are and have spent together. Everyday will just seem like a new day

To each, his own anyway. There is no biggie in proposing to the love of your life, no matter her age

This guy said the right thing. There's no biggie when true love is involved

Our opinion, our choice as people will always differ.

Such is life.

QueenSuccubus:



Aha... And u were trying to say that u are planning to propose to a lady that is older than u abi?


Abegi, u no go lie ooo

no, she is a lady in her thirty .pretending to be a guy

To each his/her own....

whiteknight to the rescue

IamD18:
We are all sinners, we shouldn't judge anyone because we ain't perfect. But we should have a choice.

There's nothing as sweet and joyful as having a younger lady in her 20s as a wife.

>Fresh and good physically attractive body features.

>Biologically fertile to have kids as much as the partners want.

>Strength, fun-loving and energetic life.

>Perfect boost to sex life with less body counts and depreciated body.

>All aged single ladies are the same(Character wise)

>Someone that'll be ready to learn from you, not an aged lady who'll always feel she knows it all as a result of much relationship and breakup experience.

I can go on and on.

Let's be real and stop sugar-coating the truth. You can never compare a single lady with an aged lady, never. The young the better.

Mind you; Africans don't marry for love, but for personal gains.

A lady wishes to marry a man who'll be able to care financially for her and kids, a caring husband and a good father for the kids.

While a man will wish to marry a young lady who'll will respect him, help him build the family and give him peace.

Young women sometimes give so much problem that if care is not taken it can destroy the marriage, after all she's still hot cake, some men are still chasing her.

Although your assertion came off as shallow and rude but you have some valid points, however, what could we possibly derive from "slut shaming", condemning, cursing or mocking these ladies? It wouldn't add sense to them and I'm sure as hell that it wouldn't briddle the younger ones against following such path.
I think all we see here is in a bid to frustrate these ladies and this won't solve any problem.
I think guys purposely do these things to vent their own frustration on these lads, prolly because they aren't having their ways with them or they've been outplayed in their own games or maybe they've been hurt.

There is nothing positive about these actions. Some men prefer older women and that's a fact, even some younger men prefer older women.

A 35 year old lady just got married in my church and the funnily thing is that, there hasn't been much attention about the whole thing.

Boland:
Young women sometimes give so much problem that if care is not taken it can destroy the marriage, after all she's still hot cake, some men are still chasing her.

Although your assertion came off as shallow and rude but you have some valid points, however, what could we possibly derive from "slut shaming", condemning, cursing or mocking these ladies? It wouldn't add sense to them and I'm sure as hell that it wouldn't briddle the younger ones against following such path.
I think all we see here is in a bid to frustrate these ladies and this won't solve any problem.
I think guys purposely do these things to vent their own frustration on these lads, prolly because they aren't having their ways with them or they've been outplayed in their own games or maybe they've been hurt.

There is nothing positive about these actions. Some men prefer older women and that's a fact, even some younger men prefer older women.

A 35 year old lady just got married in my church and the funnily thing is that, there hasn't been much attention about the whole thing.

We are not slut-shaming anyone. We are telling them what they are.

Are they not old?

IamD18:


We are not slut-shaming anyone. We are telling them what they are.

Are they not old?

They aren't old. They are not yet 50.
Well, it depends on your own definition of old.

Let me ask you these questions.

I believe there is always a reason for every action and there is always what we want to derive from our actions.

What's your motive for calling them old?

What do you seek to derive from such action?

Boland:
They aren't old. They are not yet 50.
Well, it depends on your own definition of old.

Let me ask you these questions.

I believe there is always a reason for every action and there is always what we want to derive from our actions.

What's your motive for calling them old?

What do you seek to derive from such action?

A single lady of 30s is young, right?

IamD18:


A single lady of 30s is young, right?

I just answered your question, bro.
Answer mine and we can talk about this.

eezeribe:
There is no need advocating for the old single ladies...
Women too condemn, shame and badmouth men in all age brackets, over sundry issues such as being broke, having a small dick, being a one minute man in bed, men being scum, etc...
Both genders have been bashing themselves since the days of Adam and Eve...
There is nothing you can do about it.

u da mind da op



put any bored-hole p.u.ssy in ur home at ur own peril.

Boland:
I just answered your question, bro. Answer mine and we can talk about this.

Have a nice day

Truth is some over 30yrs women would be a better lover and home maker than some under 20's. Some didn't get married early due to uncontrollable circumstances which was not their fault.

QueenSuccubus:



Aha... And u were trying to say that u are planning to propose to a lady that is older than u abi?


Abegi, u no go lie ooo

i always find your comments hilarious

ubunja:
i always find your comments hilarious

She's truthful and straightforward on issues, even when she's a victim or not.

Most matured guys I've seen want to marry a young girl, who will marry the older ones you spoil? you will see a 50 year old man getting married to a 21 year old girl.

Nonsense and ingredient.

ubunja:
i always find your comments hilarious

So where's the party? I heard u will shut down the CLUB QUILOX tonyt....