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So he isn't in support of mouthAction despite the class of his wife.

Well, pussay get levelz shaa, you can't compare a fresh red yummy looking pussay with these black rumpled folded pussay we are seeing here that looks like an expired liver.

Kai! This guy need to see the eye-sore looking pussay Nigerian men are seeing and the gravity of dirts and smells their said pussay oozes out daily.

*Spit*

I cannot come and kill myself by myself just because of myself.

MissJoy29:
Good you don't.

Oh! But you are sadly mistaken sir. Once you make up your mind to join our BANK, you will be left satisfied & you will be glad you BANKED with us..

Ronaldo's fan have your BANK in mind, but not yet ready to join due to some stressful reasons , why not give him the privilege to familiarize with the manager

goldcrossxx:
Yes i am the guy in question

Ok, i'm about to comment on your thread.

genitori:
You are wrong.
It ain't foolish men that marry a lady without a womb.
It depends on what the man wants to marry for. If it is for love, she is safe; but if it is for children, it's otherwise

Marry for which LOVE? Oga

goldcrossxx:
I already have done that. You can modify my post

Are you the BF of Amaraokafor?

It's nice you as the man in question created this thread to clarify and seek for proper advice without condemning her but giving a balance details of what transpired between you both.

According to your thread and her thread, all I see in the said lady is DESPERATION , and as a result of that comes her disrespectfullness and nagging.

And one of worst thing that can happen to any man is to mingle with a desperate lady who isn't reserved and principled in her life.

I keep on saying this ; Women should channel and prioritize other positive things in their life apart from marriage , their craves and marriage achieving goals is now getting disgusted and irritating.

This said lady is ungrateful and not thankful to meet a man who didn't care to take advantage of her due to her desperation for marriage, she's so so lucky.

She sounds like a cheat according to your story with her threats to leave for another man, she MIGHT possibly be seeing another man but looking for an opportunity to opt out from your relationship with her because you aren't yet financially ready for marriage.


But with all due respect sir!

I simply do not think she worth a patient man like you, don't ever bother yourself for a woman who started a relationship with you with desperation to marry you, don't do that. Relationship should be all about courting and getting to know each other well before getting down for marriage, not an avenue to threaten and pressurize a partner for marriage.

It's obvious you love the lady, but one thing you must learn from me now is that A MAN CANNOT LOVE AND BE WISE AT THE SAME TIME , it can't happen.

She loves you, that's why she apologized to you and you love her, that's why you are tolerating her.

But the relationship goals of you both are different, she's desperate for marriage and you are desperate to make money before opting in for marriage.

My advise is this; Live and let her live, whatever will be MUST be

Focus on making a better end, financially and allow her focus on marriage elsewhere since she can't wait.

goldcrossxx:
Thank you my brother.

I have been following this thread on proxy and never wanted to comment because, i don’t believe in seeking emotional advise from a Public forum due to the fact that many advisers may be underage, inexperienced and would advise you based on what they have read from one party.

The young lady in question comes from a family of 2 girls and 4 boys of which she’s the 1st daughter and the 2nd is as well single. The relationship is also not 3 yrs as she indicated but was suppose to be exactly 2 yrs on the 1st of May.

A new relationship is always very sweet but the challenges that will follow is what matters most because relationship itself is filled with uncertainties just the same way as life. The way a relationship is handled is what justifies what the outcome would be.

The lady in question is nice and as humans, we all have our flaws. Yes, i am a very quiet and reserved person that hardly go out so it’s safe to say that i am an introvert while she’s not that type. I won’t completely analyze everything and what caused it but i will try within my capacity to disclose some so that those that gave their one sided advise can rethink again.

I am not a married man, as a matter of principle and respect to whoever i am involved with, i don’t double date. My problem with the lady in question was bourne out of the fact that she was disrespectful to me several times, domineering, unstable in the relationship and sometimes blackmail me to achieve her desires and a lot more. Those were what caused our problems from the first few months of my involvement with her. Several reasons may have prompted her actions but i don’t see it as being enough for someone you genuinely love.

I told her from the 1st 3 months of knowing her that marriage is what i want and she agreed accordingly. She met with my family, i met with the parents and made my intentions known to them in less than a year of relationship commencement. In fact if not for the financial challenge due to wrong projection of business dealings, marriage would have happened 2 or 3 months after.

Before i met with her family, she ended the relationship twice and threatened that she will proceed with the next man available that love is not a criteria for her in marriage. After i met with her parents, she did same to the extent of giving me a deadline that if i don’t fulfill her rites, i should go my way which she executed her threats. I will be begging for her not to leave, the mother will beg, the father will also talk to calm her down, people from my side sef the same thing. I HAVE NEVER ENDED MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER even when i had reasons to have done so but she has done so numerous times.

I later spoke with the Dad and told him that immediately finances arrive, i will come in to do the needful. The man told me no problem that he understands the economic situation and once i am ready, i should come in. But my woman was still not stable as it was one issue after another. The same woman that told me when love they sweet that, she would stand by me through thick and thin but when water pass garri, she said NO that it’s only in marriage.

Already people close to me that knew me and her already were concerned about her actions, the way she talks to me, etc and majority told me outrightly to withdraw. I never did but believed she was going to change. As a concerned man, i do sometimes meditate because no responsible man wants to end up with a woman that doesn’t respect her man and can easily be unpredictable in her actions.

I commend her though for her sacrifices. She rejected a guy that had cash, built house and was relatively very comfortable because i knew him. In fact, at a point it was like a competition and my blood pressure was affected when the guy was policing her bumper to bumper since they lived in the same state.

To cut the story short, after several happenings resulting to series of emotional injury, she apologized that she won’t disrespect me again and even knelt down when we finally met to beg and i accepted. Weeks later, she wanted us to meet but i wasn’t chanced to see her and told her i will let her know when i am free. During this time, i was observing her actions but she got upset and told me she doesn’t want the relationship.

I called to resolve the issue but she wasn’t forth coming. Relationship or marriage ooo she said she’s not doing again. I informed the parents and they said it’s not the first time that i should remain calm. I kept calling for resolution in the month of November, December(she only agreed to see me once and her actions weren’t the lady i used to know), January and February but still no show.

Note: Her words to me when she responded was that she can ONLY be my friend that if i don’t want friendship, i should go my way and if i continue to disturb, she will block me. Also note that my finances started picking up late last year and improved early this year to the glory of God.

I continued to beg through the mum till i stopped after realizing that it was stupid of me to have done so. Reason being that i won’t marry the mother and she as a matured lady has the final say to this. I am a principled man and she knows this because Rome wasn’t built in a day. But as a man, i cannot subject myself to all those shenanigans which has always being the problem from the onset. What you beg to enter, you beg to sustain.

So the relationship officially was 1 year and 6 months when she ended it. It was the aspect of reconciliation that kicked off just last month. So my people, even though me i dey sometimes hide inside my shell, i hardly go out at night and i also admit that i can stay for a while without seeing her, but the 4 months is not justified here. Is it not one that you have a relationship with that you can see?

My write up isn’t to castigate her person and it’s also never to praise myself. Seeking emotional advise on Nairaland isn’t my thing but i felt i should throw some light as this will also aid others that wishes to give advise before doing so.

Remain blessed all and excuse my typos.

Create a thread for this to enable you get more advice and response.

Thanks.

A woman with no womb is useless in a marriage.

And it'll take a foolish and stupid man to marry a woman without a womb.

So better be careful in trying to deceive any innocent man.

Most beautiful and classy women don't dress stupidly and foolishly in the name of fashion. They dress simple and clean.

In that dress, she looks like an ancient and ancestral shadow.

It's one thing to get your PVC, and it's another thing to vote for the right person.

Now, who's the right person?

The right person is anyone that is not a Cowharian Dullard named Bubu.

#BackToDaura

Nothing will happen to Governor Okorocha if you die because you'v got no concrete evidence.

Better get an evidence or you run for your life.

RIP in advance

Evablizin:
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I don't think, i wish you're alright.

Lol, i can want one thing and have a secret wish for its opposite


I just came back to my normal sense right now because of your meme


Do have a nice day, Evabliz

Give me your address, I need to send a female friend to visit you non-stop for 7 days, so that she will get her own phone.

SoapQueen:
My main? I'm not sure I understand that.

Your previous moniker?

Evablizin:
I don't know what Osibande is up to.

Whenever I see a thread with the word "Banana", something comes to my mind, especially when a lady comments.

Am I really alright?

SoapQueen:
Invoke Lalasticlala's spirit.

What's your main?

MissJoy29:
Yeah. Means you don't forget right? Good

The mail will definitely be received by the Manager & also honoured when the time for the account opening comes.

Yea, I don't forget easily

I'm vexed You are not treating your client well

That lady was raped when she was 11 years old, and she enjoyed it.

Safiaa:
not my bday. Need to change my settings.

Safiaa:
meaningless how? Smh pitiful.

Another year has passed, another year older and another year wiser As you celebrate your 60th birthday today, i'll want to wish you long live and prosperous days ahead.

Have a wonderful, healthy and happy birthday now and forever. Happy birthday.

60 years no be beans oo, take advantage of your old age and spread love to everybody.

crazysaint:


Bring any lady to me, let me suck off her pussy.. no matter how smelly it is, i don't give any flying Bleep.


itid anem!

RIP

We will not miss you.

DrinkLimca:
Lol boss funny meme..

My m'dafvqin Nigga ..... Flex your look bruv


It's important, but money if mostly important.

I just remembered Davido and Chioma

I hope it's not what I'm thinking.

DrinkLimca:
Op i can relate,,,
You are so on point...

I experience every point you made right now in my life, except that i don't get into trouble and the fact that i don't get into trouble or even quarrel with anybody is even an advantage to me..

My friends are like,, Drinklimca don't have time for trouble or fighting..

I remember in school two rival cults come to peace because i was friends with Guys from the both cults...

You are right

Look at how she was busy typing "Cum" "Cum" Upandan.
What do you expect when she sucks diiick for a living.

They aren't doing favors to men with sex, but their fish brain can't allow them know that.

A typical Nigerian girlfriend cannot offer you anything in this life. The only woman that can offer a man something tangible is his mother or sister Why? Because he's not sleeping with them. #Fact!

It takes two to have sex, but because men crave for it, gave women the impetus to think it's a favour.

-Remove sex from a relationship, you'll get to know how useless they are to you.

-Stop asking for sex from them and watch them flopp in a relationship.

Women are so scared to mingle or date a man who they can't manipulate with sex. Why? Because it makes them useless

-They mostly offer negatives things in a relationship, such as ; Liability, problems, smelling pussay, troubles and violence.

All they can offer a man in our society is to spread their yam legs and wide 6ft smelling pussay filled with cobwebs for you, remove that and watch how they'll be useless like a used tissue role

Bottom line is : Women think they are doing men favors with sex because men crave more for it and that's the only thing they can offer in the society, so they need to make it precious

Safiaa:
we don’t care about that, just have the mula.

Mula to pound you or Mula to spend