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This app seems too good to be true. OP talk true, before we all get carried away with this, what will you accept in return because I know that nothing is free; even in Freetown

I trust Nairaland ladies..... they will be on the "moya look away" mood now

What does this mean? Is this responsible for the delay in payment currently experienced

You experience all these and you still come here for advice? Is this border closure also affecting your thinking faculty too? Maybe you ain't even ripe enough for any relationship in the first place if clearly you can't take a decision on this issue. I'm sorry.

That your friend telling you to hit her is outta his mind. Bro, be careful how you seek advice from a third party concerning your home because people will tell you to do what they can't even try themselves. The key point you need is communication and patience

Prayers bro. Pray to God and please get to listen to gospel songs, it will help lift your spirit. Be hopeful.

@KennethFreeman, Some people will say "forgive and move on", some will also say "give her a dirty slap" to reset her brain ba? But you seem to forget they aint in Nigeria where you could do that and go scot free. If he tries that in Saudi, the tables could turn and he could find himself with the authorities where he could get deported or even jailed. For you to have this lengthy write-up shows your frustration and experience all through the one year this has been going on. I'll suggest you follow your instincts, pray to God for directions cuz if you send her to Nigeria for separation, when she eventually returns, please be prepared to move to Nigeria at anytime cuz she will definitely work that for you in retaliation and you could be on the losing end. Alternatively, maybe you both should relocate to Nigeria, at least she knows our laws here and there'll be a little difference unlike now that she trying everything to provoke you to getting jailed and lose all you've worked for!

This game of deceit has just entered another gear...... Ladies are y'all ready? Remember you started all of these

Me i be wan learn some programming tey tey b4 now o. Now na perfect time!!!

Pls @OP, if you find such a woman kindly lemme know, even though I no trust you.

Hmmmmm......nice and good for you. This got me thinking tho'

What is the cost implication of acquiring something similar and can u be specific on its requirements? Thanks.

It sure comes with a lot of adjustments. But in marriage I can tell you that what worked for "Mr. A" isn't necessarily going to work the same way for "Mr. B". When the rough patches come up, please persevere, be patient and 'wise-up'; things will surely fall into place. There's this saying that when an apprentice is still under his boss, he undergoes some many unpleasant and degrading situations but when he graduates and eventually becomes his own boss, na 'yanga' remain o.

This isn't the time to be sad or question God; He certainly wants to glorify Himself in you and He will. Your testimony is out on you now. Please share here when it does happen. Be strong brother.

Pls bro, avoid stories that touch the heart when you eventually get wedded to this terror of a girl. So many people pray to see such signs before marriage but you have seen the green light now and you choose to ignore. Wake up brother!

Oliseh clearly is yet to grow up; his attitude is still the same. But I feel the "Guardiola of Nigerian Football" should stick to his punditry where he says what the coach(es) could have done and yet he couldn't make it happen himself. Good riddance anyway.

You must be really troubled by this......maybe you should see a doctor ASAP.

Fredraf, mum said I'm too young to know this. I'm still a virgin tho'

Where are the curves? Or is it that my screen is hiding something here?

My mummy haff not told me this one o. Wait! Lemme go and ask her......

If you choose not to tell him, he may find out by chance or by accident and you would av no genuine excuse for keeping such from him. But if he truly loves you, he could forgive you but not forget easily. What makes you think you do not have same kinda skeleton in your cupboards?

Tell me what color or shade of shoe she doesn't have already......It means you are safe; wole kanle o jare

@OP, to you now, his response is EPIC ba? What if the friend never returns with your car? Do you av an idea of how long they both av been waiting for a vehicle to pass by? Don't be surprised if eventually another vehicle passes and your "dream girl" elopes with another man; leaving you all by yourself and then you lose on all fronts, afterall she's only your "dream girl" and you were never her "dream man"