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What they both felt is not love but insecurity; Love is slow and grows, love is far from what they talked about.

Of what use is Chinese language to our education system, is it to foster fluent communication with the Chinese as we're their major dumping ground....

So this is what tinubu gov't came to offer (SMH)

That's why they go about driving recklessly killing people on the road... Nonsense statement, how dare he compare them to graduate, the effrontery

After the show, oya Mr interviewer gives her her cut, people watch and views surplus... Content created👍

Don't trust everything u see on the internet these days

I've only learned that in this life there are no set rules or standards; you find and marry a Virgin, you'll still find the pros & cons in doing so, you marry a none virgin who's had 11 exes, you'll still find the pros & cons in doing so 🤷🏾‍♂️

Life didn't come with a manual

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

Who will now marry the none virgins... Angels

Can't say who's right or wrong in this matter as 1.its issues between siblings, 2. The genesis of the fight is unknown, 3. The statement from the older brother that "it's not even her money".

A 21yr old girl to be this made puts a question mark on the source of her money, however she shouldn't be taking such responsibility at her age, not even 1 but 4 "older" siblings , no it's wrong, watching the video though you can tell that they're all around the same age bracket, perhaps a year separating all of them, she appears braggadocios and egotic but of course one who's done what she's done for a long period would probably develop such traits, it'll only take a devine level of maturity to not, the older ones too failed to realize that they've become a liability and a burden overtime, this shows the Immature tension in the scenario.

I hope they resolve the matter well and come to an understanding but I'm against her throwing them out in the middle of the night, give them till day break to plan where to go and pack their belongings.

These are people's siblings, so sad

Probably cultist related, it's very rampant around that zone.

Guide777:
Nice development in Africa especially Nigeria in the world of Robotics.
First, it was Omeife, now it is Ara. Nigerians are doing well !

Why this robot dey like watin get accident

Thought i was going to hear the robot speak mtcheww

jesusjnr2020:
Ok.. how about church leaders threatening their members with death and hell fire because of tithes?

Are they much better?

Besides loan apps need timely repayment of loans they disburse to people to sustain their business otherwise they will all crash.

So I do not put the entire blame on loan apps for some of the extreme measures they have to take to retrieve the loans they give to people, because they actually need the repayment to survive, and humans can be very terrible when it comes to repayment of loans even when they have the means to.

Do you know how many people have gone mental, depressed or even lost their lives because they decided to assist an ingrate in their time of need when they begged for a loan with a promise to repay immediately they had the money, only to turn into monsters and mockers afterwards?

So please do not encourage people to keep owing loan apps because there are also humans behind them who rely on the repayment of loans for their survival and sustainance.

Moreover [b]they don't force anyone to collect loans [/b]from them so anyone who doesn't want to be harrassed by them for not paying back their loans, shouldn't patronise them otherwise repay in time to avoid harrassment.

Btw loan apps have saved many people's lives and businesses though I don't work for any loan app but God.

God bless.

Yes, but nowadays they deceive; i was deceived by one, they offered a 'spin n win' draw to me, that there are a lot of prices to be won that it's totally free, i followed and boom (na loan) it was all a trick to get me to collect a loan.

Lesson learnt: Be careful with them, they're not honest people.

In my most candid opinion, politics is a business to these politicians, wherever the the game flavours they go, rebrand or maintain the same signature, they're still business men.

wellmax:
Great father.

Wishing the couple a happy life together.

Or say she no wan take your surname because she no like am.

You can sense as it's glaring that Femi otedola is an entrepreneur with every blood in him and would want everyone in his circle in that line of work. Like minds roll together, imagine Mr easy is a factory boy, how dis marriage wan take happen, capital NO WAY!

The man face kuku look like nyash presser... These ones na dem go like fvck like say na food, i don't want to sound tribal but he really sound like a familiar region p that fits this stereotypical trait.

ask4bk:
Which one is potential lose of life? Every abortion involves a loss of life. The question is how many lives, one or two?

I meant the girl losing her life too

YeyeGbami:
Or go knack carry disease, soappy dey solve many problems. Aje!

You get my point 👍

Don't go cold turkey, it's what every serious business person would do, have a leverage, most customers like that would do worse if they were in your shoes.

Cum4me:
Everything you said here is pure truth. Most times it's better to masturbate as a man and face you life. A man without money or stable source of income has nothing to do with a woman that's the fact.

When i see people painting masturbating doom and gloom makes me ask which is better; As a man which is better (I) masturbate and maintain control or (ii) get a girl pregnant when you're not ready and put her at risk of abortion and potential lose of her life

South Americans and their stubborn lifestyle

I was once close to this experience; was with my girlfriend (ex) back then in a quiet lonely street (8-9pm) discussing and cuddling when 2 red lights beamed from a distance, i thought they were just smoking their own and will leave anyway, then the red lights approached, it revealed to young men, one first came asking friendly questions "u dey stay around here?, Where u from?, U know me?, Where u dey work" I thought oh probably a vigilante doing his patrol, didn't know he was sizing me to know who i am and wether i stayed around that area Incase i might recognize his face in day time, he left us for a while and went to the other one, they chatted for a while, at this time i caught on to the foul play before me and ask my babe let's leave there, as we stood up to leave the other one waylaid us and asked us to give our phones over, good thing i wasn't with mine, my girl brought out hers, i made a gesture to the guy to remove the Sim and take the phone, the guy probably thought i was going to do something funny and brought out a kitchen knife "if u try anything i go put this knife for ur neck", I told him i just wanted the sim that's all. That was how they left with the phone that night, my girl cried and cried, kept telling her was it not better it was the phone they took and not a life.

SmartPolician:
The way these guys openly sell weed on the streets of Lagos, you will think they are above the law because they belong to a strong cartel, with their ogas freeing them whenever the police arrests them. I guess these folks were prosecuted because the NDLEA officials were involved

See the way the suspect is smiling, tells you how unweighty our justice system has become.

Analog95:
Hello guys, I humbly need you all view on this. All my life I have always wanted to be a lecturer, so early this year (January, 2025), I finally got awarded PhD in Applied Mathematics. Though I had my first degree in Mechanical Engineering, masters in Applied Mathematics with specialization in fluid dynamics and PhD in Applied Mathematics with specialization in fluid dynamics as well. During my study, I run a tutorial centre and making cool money from teaching mechanical engineering and mathematics students. So after obtaining my PhD I started sending out my CV to people I know in institutions, though most are of the opinion that I shouldn't have switched from mechanical engineering to mathematics that it will give me problem.

Around January 2025, immediately after my PhD oral examination, my supervisor linked me up with the rector of a polytechnic to go submit my CV to him, which I did, and according to the rector, he told me that it is not matter of CV for now, because most people that he employed as assistant lecturers, they really don't have much to pay them and the governor of the state has promised that he will do recruitment for the polytechnic around March because of accreditation processes, so during that recruitment, I can be employed. Fast forward to March, the accreditation went on and I wasn't informed if the recruitment was later done (you know all this underground stuffs), so I later got my mind off the institution and look at for another university in other states which I was promised also that once there is directives to start recruitment, I will be employed.

On the 3rd of july, 2025, I got a call from someone from the polytechnic, telling me to come to the personnel department as soon as possible with my credentials, when I got there, he collected photocopies of my credentials and on sighting the mechanical engineering as first degree, he said which department do I want and I said mathematics and he said why not mechanical engineering where I had my foundation, so I said I preferred mathematics because since I switched to mathematics, I have published 11 academic journal with 7 of them Scopus rated in Q1, and I have also attended 7 seminars with certificate to back them up, and I have also been a member of the Nigerian mathematical society (NMS), so he said they will get back to me.

Since then I haven't heard anything. After a month, I made a call to the person that I submitted my credentials to at the personnel department, that I haven't heard from them and he said "sebi we are the one that called you ourself, the process is ongoing and once we are ready, we will definitely call you back". But I haven't heard from them still. It is almost two months now since I submitted the credentials and I am already losing faith.

I am just confused, could my changing from engineering to science be hindering me from getting a lecturing position? If it is, does it make sense to go back and obtain another master and PhD in mechanical engineering and just forget about the mathematics? Or just forget about lecturing and focus on my tutorials, meanwhile I make more than 500k monthly from the tutorial because it is in school area, but I don't want to be a tutor forever, not even with a PhD.

@the bolden; what else are you looking for in life, is the major essence of going to school not to make a living for ourselves?... Why need a job when you have an empire, you could build your own school from there.

For me:
-psychology ( what's the 'P' for 🤷🏽‍♂️)

-People (I feel the 'O' is absolutely not necessary 😒)

-Knife (c'mon what's the 'K' doing there? 🥱)

No matter what new thing you buy your neighbor knows

SeverusSnape:
So what brought "PRICK" matter here now?. We talking hanging out not bedroom matters.

Tells you the average mentality of Nigerian girls these days, they think hanging out means going out with a man and having sex at the end of the day, they've made that conclusion to all men and prepare themselves and their billings for any man that suggests a hangout.

JustcallmeFavou:
It is very very good, as a woman to keep yourself chaste, and not open your legs for every guy that says he likes you/wants you.

For the above points listed, inasmuch as marrying a virgin is great, it doesn't guarantee a peaceful home 100%. My uncle married his ex wife as a virgin, but as time went on she became so wild that my uncle asked that they got separated. In the process, he ran a DNA test for the 4kids, the 1st & 2nd child were his, the other 2 weren't his. This and a lot of other shitty things go on now in marriages!

In the process of marrying a Virgin or a non-virgin, let every man do what works for him. Anyone you eventually get married to, if it turns out good or bad, it's still you alone that, will wear the shoes.

To a great extent Life is all about what works for you and na u sabi.

flokii:
Whoever posted this is myopic, with very wrong orientation.

1. That you married a virgin doesn't mean she can't and won't get tempted to go taste other dlc.ks outside

2. That you married a virgin doesn't mean you both will have great sex life. What if she isn't the type that likes sex?. You as a man will now be forced to be having side chicks and deal with women drama.

3. That you married a virgin doesn't mean she'll give you rest of mind. Some have very bad characters and nag a lot. Marriage go quick tire you if you marry nagging woman.

That said, I'm not saying guys should be going after ex-ol0.shos for marriage.. No, but check to be sure you can put up with the character and personal traits of the one you desire to spend the rest of your life with. It's what matters the most.

@the bolden; she could have a very bad character the can separate a very good relationship between siblings, this should not be overlooked at all, that she's a virgin doesn't mean she's all correct, take time to know who you plan to marry. Some ladies might've had exes before but doesn't mean they lost their values.

There's a mass of water you can't test even if you're the best swimmer, if you work in a place like the image you used in this post, just pray nothing goes wrong or pray if anything happens help gets to you in an hour or less or you either die by cold, current drifts you beyond help and worse you turn to fish food.

Life is a risk in itself, in all you do just have death at the back of your mind.

You analyze too much, just pay the 1k fee and move on

IkePeters:
She was on loan at that time. She waited for Transfer Window to open and then moved on Permanent Transfer. 🤣🤣🤣

(In Fabrizio Romano's voice)😂