uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Are you asking us for advice or warning us against Nigerian women?

Move on with your life and

Thank God she didn't get you with paternity fraud.

blackpanthar:


I can't argue with you,
when you make serious money like I have, YOU WILL SEE THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY and be qualified to reason this matter with me.



I am yet to see any POLITICIAN, WORLD LEADER, suffer heartbreak.

MONEY is next to GOD, even JESUS ADMITTED IT.

So its well

I'm not arguing. I may be wrong though, because I haven't made it yet. Still struggling. I think this will make an interesting debate. Only poor people actually suffer heartbreaks. It is well Sir.
If u don't mind, may I request that u help me with something to buy some food. There's intense hunger. I mean acute Hunger

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

WHO REJECT YOU SIR....WOTS HER NAME??(no oofencsece)

Gerrard59:


I envy your sons.

Me too

The guy owes you nothing you foolish simp.

AlphaHakimi:
Never upgrade any woman financially. A woman is with you because you have that financial advantage over her.

OP you gave your ex a seat at the big boys table and that's why she decided to go for someone above you. You see, if you are a bus conductor and you introduce your woman to the bus driver, automatically she will want to go for him. If you are the deputy governor and you introduce your woman to the governor, that's where her eyes will be.

Women always want to go for the biggest person in the room. Don't be surprised that if she gets the chance to meet your overall boss, she would dump this your senior colleague for him.

This is why you should never give a woman a seat at the table where you eat from. Just provide the barest minimum enough for her survival, no Luxury whatsoever. If she wants luxury, she should go and work.


Shalom

Monkey branching.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Deal with a guy that has literally saved you from making a big mistake?

Na wa oh.

AlphaHakimi:
Never upgrade any woman financially. A woman is with you because you have that financial advantage over her.

OP you gave your ex a seat at the big boys table and that's why she decided to go for someone above you. You see, if you are a bus conductor and you introduce your woman to the bus driver, automatically she will want to go for him. If you are the deputy governor and you introduce your woman to the governor, that's where her eyes will be.

Women always want to go for the biggest person in the room. Don't be surprised that if she gets the chance to meet your overall boss, she would dump this your senior colleague for him.

This is why you should never give a woman a seat at the table where you eat from. Just provide the barest minimum enough for her survival, no Luxury whatsoever. If she wants luxury, she should go and work.


Shalom

he triggered the hypergamy in her unknowingly

Why do u want to deal with the guy? I don't think he did anything wrong. You're not married to the lady yet, had it been he maded passes to your wife, I would have supported your wanting to deal with him. Your girl was not forced or coarsed, he made a pass and she accepted, no big deal . I think you should be more concerned about yourself.. if she'd respected you enough, she wouldn't have fall for the guy. May b there's something uour not doing right, who knows. In all, I like the fact that u didn't waste time in cutting her off. With time the one that'll respect u will locate u.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Just look at your life.

Your girlfriend betrayed you and you want to deal with the man she cheated on you with? You clearly don't understand the game. When she leaves the current guy and move on with another guy, you will also go and deal with the 3rd guy?

So you have never learned that smart guys do not fight over women? How can you fight your fellow man for sleeping with your girlfriend? She cheated and she lied about it. You find out and yet you want to fight another person.

The guy in your office didn't do anything wrong to you. He didn't rape the girl, you don't have any business with the guy. Your gf is the person you should be dealing with not the guy.

Bro move on and get sense. This is 2024, nobody is worth fighting over. Get another girl bro.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Bro. You should be thanking God for your life. As to what to do to the guy and ur lady. In my own opinion or what I will do if I was in it shoes.
Deal with the Man by telling his wife (if he is married) or his Girl friend (not married). And for the lady, I can choose to ignore her but if I have the power to remove her from the work I got for her I will cos' its gonna pain me more if she grows in that same work i got for her. Let her cheat boyfriend find her another job. Kalas

You did right by checking ur girlfriends phone.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Oga… get that man a bottle of Budweiser. I keep telling people, dem no dey put for woman matter. Where you stop another man will continue. Know this and know peace.

Back to my first line. Buy that man two bottles of Budweiser. Get it into your head that your colleague and your loose lady sorry fiancé was not raped. She was neither bullied into it.

If I was the one. I will just tell that I read ur chats o. Abeg be using condom when u knack that guy before u give me infection. She will be shocked and fear you.

See why you are a SIMP, you can take her out, but will let it slide, but you want to hurt the man that revealed her true nature.

Go lick your wound SIMP

uzomakanaki:
Thanks for this. I'm calm now. I can easily take her out from the job. But I'll let it slide. I'm counting my blessings

Good! Less idiots in the dating pool🥳

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uzomakanaki:
You know how many guys I don help?

Better...make we know how many of us go share the remaining.