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Someone once said; sticks and stones won't break my body but words can wound my soul.

Words are powerful, they carry Spirits and life in them, use them well.

Imagine this lady had no ideal what was coming, she just made a rather reckless comment all in the name of having an opinion on social media... U see social media, it can influence u to say things u don't mean.

In the end karma and the universe takes record of all and responds accordingly.

Peace 🏳️

At this point I don't blame any politician who has had his game and got off Scott free with his spoils, I blame you, you and me, we the citizens, I blame the 'manage it like that mentality' we have as a collective, I blame the seperation, sentimentality and hate we have towards one another Which the same politicians imbibed in us and are still inciting among us. See politics can be likened to any business you can lay your finger on out there, the sole aim is to profit off the general lot only that business is even far honest as it's based on persuasion rather than manipulation. See brother sister politicians will continue to chop us mugu till will change our mentality and take control of our destines.

Super chickens 🐓
Mtcheww!

So is this rubbish supa🐓 will go and play in CAF nations cup, Egypt will take them and do rehearsal.

Blank shooters

A woman will never come straight if they like you, they use kind gestures but these gestures carry subtle messages and when they're certain you're very aware of these messages and keep playing the ostrich they'll know and anything that make another woman come into the picture, she'll turn that gesture into spite. If you like her just start the relationship, but if you don't, ask her why she keeps giving you food and what she wants, she should come out plain, but if she doesn't and says no intentions at all, dey chop dey go till she comes clean.

Super eagles no be team, na so dem go dey shot useless blank shots upandan. Mtcheww! ... Lesotho wey neva clean dia nyashtch finish na im dey draw super eagles... It is a shame tweehh!!

1pieces no even be 100naira

Still the best and badest "bad guy" actor, he doesn't play the role, he lives it, and still does, u can see that from his dress sense even till now, bring ur argument if u've seen any current actor that has out-done Hanks anuku in the "bad-guy" role.

That lady that mentioned Shan John has followed him well , that's literally his Nollywood wife, just like iniedo and emeka Ike, Ramsay Noah and jenevive, Jim yke and rita domnic

Use this meat cook blank ogbonor soup and thank me dearly

NLC has been watered down... They're not independent again like their brother INEC.

Driving experience in a less busy place to a very busy location are completely different experiences altogether, I learnt that after driving forklift in a company environment then went to learn Keke driving from my friend, mehn when I finish street level and he encouraged me to enter actual main road asphalt, bruh the first truck that passed my Keke on full speed, the breeze that blew me squeezed my balls (talkless of say u neva even drive actual car na YouTube car u drive ... nor try am oh), I had to go back to street level. But one thing I learned is, it's all mind and then again make sure your focus is on point, you don't want to be forgetful and always be well rounded with the main road rules, stay on your lane, no DO-OVERS, and lastly don't ever try to drag road with your senior boss dem(truck drivers, jeeps and generally any other road users) they are your oga, they've been in the system for a very long time, don't compete, especially with the baddoz "Dangote trucks"... But first and foremost Please go to a friend who has had actual road experience to take you there to acquaint yourself with real road life before going for the job.

My 2cents
Peace brother ✌️

Hmm... Where have I read this story before🤔.

We all have certain expectations and romanticized notions of what we think love is, thanks to the way love has been portrayed in society through the movies we watch, articles we read and social media posts were scrolling through almost every day. When we see jealousy playing out on screen, we believe it’s a sign of intense love because the two people in the movie are afraid of losing their loved one to another. The popular Twilight movies and literature leads us to believe that true love and relationships are about obsession. That love is an all-consuming feeling. That when two people are in love, nothing else matters and no boundaries exist. This romanticized notion blinds to the fact that this is not what reality is at all, and that kind of love only exists in movies and between the pages of books because they make for a good storyline. In real life, that kind of behavior are indicators of manipulation. Being controlling isn’t about love, it is manipulation.
Being obsessed isn’t being passionate, it’s manipulative.
On some level, we know we should be able to recognize the signs of an abusive partner in a relationship. We know that we should, but it’s easier said than done. When we love, we tend to blind ourselves to our partner’s fault. We make excuses for the behavior that should be setting off alarm bells in our head because we’re trying to avoid facing the truth. We don’t want to have our hearts broken that way and we try to convince ourselves that they’re not really like that at all.

Clues That Indicate You Might Be Manipulated:

Have you ever had that feeling that something wasn’t quite right with one of the relationships you have? Even with a casual encounter with someone you just met. Something just didn’t quite feel right and you left feeling even more stressed, frustrated or confused than when you first started. That could be a sign you were in the presence of a manipulator. The reason why manipulators resort to the tactics that they do is that they’re often incapable of simply asking for what they need, or being able to express their needs in a healthy, direct manner. Since they lack these skills, the resort to this emotionally unhealthy strategy in an attempt to try and control the other people around them and force them to bend to their will.
Manipulation comes in several forms, and it can range anywhere from abusive to simply just being around a bossy personality. Some manipulative behaviors are much easier to spot than others, and if you suspect you could be a victim of a psychological bully, these are the tell-tale clues you want to keep an eye out for:
(1)You’re Always Forced to Oblige - If you don’t go along with what they want, they make you feel guilty about it. Even though you had every right to say no. If you constantly feel pressured or forced into doing something you don’t want to do, you’re being manipulated. If you’re afraid of saying no, you’re being manipulated. If you feel bullied into going along with someone else’s demands, you’re being manipulated. Manipulators are experts at playing the victim card, and they will play it for all its worth to make you feel as guilty as possible like you’re doing something wrong because you chose to say no to them.
(2) You ?uestion Your Own Judgement - Every time you’re around a certain someone, you always find yourself questioning your own judgment. Suddenly, something you were so sure of a minute ago fills you with doubt, making you second guess your own decisions after having a conversation with a manipulator.
Present an idea or opinion to them and they’ll somehow find a way to twist and turn it around, making you unsure and uncomfortable. Spend enough time with them and they’ll make you feel unworthy like you’re a complete failure and nothing you could do will ever be the right choice.
(3) No Favor Comes for Free - If they do you a favor, you can bet there will always be strings attached to that request. Nothing a manipulator does is ever a “genuine favor”, there will always be an ulterior motive for why they are helping you out. If accepting help or a favor from someone makes you feel uncomfortable because you know you’re going to owe them for it later, you’re dealing with a manipulator. When the manipulator does you a favor, there’s an expectation to be repaid. They’ll be the first ones to tell you that you owe me this, and you’ll feel obliged to go out of your way to help because you feel guilty about saying no. Say no to them and they’ll make you feel like the most ungrateful person in the world.
(4) You’re Always Getting Blamed - Even when you haven’t done anything wrong, you’re somehow the one to blame. That one manipulative friend who always has an excuse for their bad behavior or poor judgment, the one that always makes you the scapegoat, that’s not a friend. That’s a manipulator. It’s your fault, you made me think I should do it, I wouldn’t have done it if you agreed it was a bad idea. The hallmark of a manipulative “friend” is when somehow, you’re always in the mix and the one made to feel like you’re in the wrong.
(5) They’re Not Really Listening - Another sign you could be manipulated is when they don’t really listen when you’re speaking. They may look at you while you’re talking, but at the first chance they get, they twist the conversation back around unto something that involves them. Everything is always about them. In fact, the only time they seem to be engaged in when they’re gathering the information that they can later use against you when the time is right. Beware of what you say when you’re around them, and never trust them with confidential or important information.
(6) They Come to You When They Need Something - Do you have that one friend who only ever seems to get in touch with you when they conveniently need a favor? That friend could be manipulating you, especially if you’re the one who is constantly doing those favors but when you need help the most, they’re never around. Or they’ve always got some excuse up their sleeve as to why they can’t help you. When they need something from you however, they behave like you’re their best friend in the whole world.

'HOW TO ANALYZE PEOPLE' by Daniel Spade.

A must have in one shelf/book collection 👆

Watin concern 'FFO' Nigerians with Ethoxyquin Antioxidants and all that peroxidation bruh aha. Make we sha see things buy cheap chop belle full fess... All kpi na kpi wether na antioxidants kill u abi na ampiclous. Mtcheww!

Terrible, but to wonder why he had to be so brave as to take his own life in this country shouldn't be Far-fetched.

Phew!
It's good to be back on the comment section again.

Iamblessed85:
I have always thought about this. Someone can kill you and you will go to hell if you were a sinner at that point meanwhile same killer can repent later and even go to heaven.

I mean, does it make Sense

IamANigerianMan:
Useless governor, DSS has not resources(human) for kind of investigation, DSS cannot do homicide case, this person is going to be exhume and autopsy going to be done... SSS was never train for this kind of investigation.

it's all eye-service my broda, soon everything go kiss-good-bye.

Laanike50:
God don't allow me to be known after my death. Rip to the dead.

exactly my point