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Health / Re: Kwara To Tackle Open Defecation With ₦‎200 Million by iammolise(m): 7:51am On Nov 27, 2023
Wow 200mill to provide toilet across only kwara State... Outrageous undecided
Family / Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by iammolise(m): 7:44am On Nov 27, 2023
Matinox:


Why are you guys quick to be at the edge of your seats each time women are being praised?
Because Men suffer more but society never talks about it.
Religion / Re: Using "I Love You" To Deceive Ladies For Sex by iammolise(m): 6:16pm On Nov 26, 2023
Anny69:
The next "I love you" that comes out of my mouth to any man just know I will suck you dry! You'll regret ever meeting me. So you should stay in your lane.
Boy! U must've seen enough gbolaz from men... I would love to read ur story wink
Religion / Re: Using "I Love You" To Deceive Ladies For Sex by iammolise(m): 6:13pm On Nov 26, 2023
Advancedman:


It's ladies that wants to hear 'i love you' simple
see me see trouble oh...
Women that did not complain to u... They don't even mind if they were decieved, they just want to hear u say that "I love u" everyday of their lives grin

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Religion / Re: Using "I Love You" To Deceive Ladies For Sex by iammolise(m): 6:10pm On Nov 26, 2023
immortalcrown:
You made a good attempt. Keep it up. I wish you more wisdom so you can improve in your knowledge and your teachings.

But your teaching here is biased. I mean, it is one-sided. Women use "I love you" to collect money from men. Some women use the sentence to collect transport fare and block the guy immediately. In the name of love, a boy will buy a girl an expensive model of iPhone on her birthday and she will buy him 3 boxers and 3 singlets on his own birthday. But you are here sounding as if women suffer it most.

Women equally use the term love to deceive men. Apart from prostitutes and victims of rape, every woman that gives a man her body willingly do it as her own demonstration of love, and every man that goes to a woman for sex do it as his own demonstration of love for the woman. So, it is equal here.

The perversion of love is not by men alone. As a matter of fact, women do it more than men. The only reason men foolishly train girls in universities or establish the girls in business and the girls later dump the men is because the women assured the men love. How many women have invested their resources in the men that claim to love those women and the men ended up dumping the women? Answer this question. All the women who commit paternity fraud use love as a tool for it. They give their husbands fake love and profess love the boyfriends or sugar daddies that impregnate them. And when you call for DNA tests, people silence you in the name of love. They will tell you to love you wife by trusting her. grin

So, if you want to talk about the perversion of love, do not focus only on men because the other gender is also guilty.
please help me tell "Daddy G.O" one more time.
Family / Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by iammolise(m): 5:57pm On Nov 26, 2023
Pathfinder2090:
And you think it’s easy to be a man?
Help me ask am again brother...
We tend not to see a man's struggle as a big deal because society expects a man to be a man and sulk it all in and not show any sign of weakness, while a woman goes through child labor the man goes through 'mental labor', after child delivery the man carries on the mental war even to his grave, but this is never appreciated enough because he had to "be a man".

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Crime / Re: Another Nigerian Shot Dead In South Africa by iammolise(m): 5:16pm On Nov 26, 2023
KingCold:
Trust me, they'll never suspect an honest accountant for drugs, they say it "could be" because there are already clues that suggest it could be so

And South Africans are also already saying it's drug related because that's the precedent Nigerians have set in SA, you can't blame us, we are tired of your people
You people are not coming out with what's really your problem, you've been filled will hate for so long but the mass xenophobic attack in 2019 x-rayed your minds and opinions of other Africans. You're all just scared lots afraid of your shadows, people are in your land progressing and you weakling lazy ass chimpopos are weak enough to hate and resort to killing.(spits) Tweh! lipsrsealed

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Crime / Re: Another Nigerian Shot Dead In South Africa by iammolise(m): 5:10pm On Nov 26, 2023
WannaHowzit:


Drug dealer sympathiser, sit down. Someone says drug dealers also need money to survive & you're supporting them. Next you wonder why South Africans hate you when you have such low levels of ethics & morals.
if this was a South African, will you be this insensitive. White will do crime cover their ass and cover their brother's, black will help white to kill his own and praise the white for a job well done... Tell me who is the Fool

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Car Talk / Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by iammolise(m): 5:00pm On Nov 26, 2023
SirMichael1:


Why are those trucks parked on the road like that? That's risky. I'll come down from my car, and look for the truck drivers and ask them to park properly.

Funny question.
bro u didn't get the context correctly, the trucks are in motion, this happens a lot in agbara- attan road... Maniacs repkete for the road.

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Car Talk / Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by iammolise(m): 4:58pm On Nov 26, 2023
Wait, does it really need saying?
Only a ghost or deluded will do anything else but go right off the road undecided
Crime / Re: How Police Slapped Me & Withdrew ₦390k From My Account In Lagos - Man by iammolise(m): 4:41pm On Nov 26, 2023
Hmm, this is badaly terrible... I've never had an encounter with police brutality or fraudulence before, perhaps it's because I seldom keep late nights. These people are scums in black, just like any good Individual that joins that force get corrupt, if u don't join them(ur colleagues) in their shenanigans just keep ur mouth shut and by so doing u are involved inadvertently, I was given the slot to join the NPF at a platter I turned it down hastily, I'd rather dey my dey than become a cursed walking corps. That's why a serious protest cannot succeed without ending in anarchy because people like this brother and many others that's been unjustly put behind bars by these hooligans in uniform will get out and all they're filled with is rage waiting for an opportunity to execute jungle justice on them, i.e the 2020 'end sars' protest.
Crime / Re: NDLEA Raids Osun Illicit Drug Party Tagged Unholy Alliance, Arrests Organisers by iammolise(m): 4:01pm On Nov 26, 2023
Boy! Those two guys with bags of weed grin
Plantation boys cheesy
Crime / Re: Benjamin Ezeukwe: Police Arrests Man Behind Dangote Cement Price Slash Scam by iammolise(m): 3:54pm On Nov 26, 2023
Mayeldah:
Cement is now N5,800. Dangote should be arrested too.

How can one man be ripping off everyone in Nigeria?

u have a good point there brother, but he is a business man, a capitalist, he has the liberty to reap off anyone as long as it's not a crime where he operates. People (govt) who should put regulations on these things co-own this company... Do u expect them to shoot themselves in the leg
Crime / Re: Benjamin Ezeukwe: Police Arrests Man Behind Dangote Cement Price Slash Scam by iammolise(m): 3:49pm On Nov 26, 2023
All of u are busy saying "hand don catch the thief"... I'm here seeing a potential intelligence agent, an intelligent instrument that could be reintegrated into our intelligence agencies. We don't see beyond what is in front of us, our own is to kill and destroy, chop and distroy "FFO" country... That's why we can't move forward as a collective.

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Food / Re: See The N200 Watermelon I Bought In Calabar This Afternoon by iammolise(m): 1:12am On Nov 25, 2023
Govt dey do dere own, but apart from that we Nigerians are wicked towards one another. Imagine they haven't closed a border yet, only govt announcement of a possible closure but u'll find out that people selling stuff around that terrain has doubled the prices of items. We need to love one another if we really want to grow as a people.
Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by iammolise(m): 12:57am On Nov 25, 2023
Blitzking:

Marriage is not for everyone but its good to get married to the right person the benefits outweighs the risk if u av the right person.marriage I not for your youth the benefit is during old age..so u can have someone to spend that critical phase with..just that u can't marry when u are frail.

"The right person"... I've heard people make this statement a lot, but really who's the 'right person', we are all floored humans, time and situation changes people, the person who seems like the 'right person' today might become a torn in ur flesh tomorrow, there are a million and one reason that can make ur 'right person' become wrong, poverty alone can unleash the black side of a partner making u feel played in the end, the man I talked about (my neighbor) must've seen his wife as the 'right person' before marrying her, it's a thin line between love and resentment. That statement "the right person" just doesn't sit right with me.
Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by iammolise(m): 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2023
Blitzking:
Ben wey dey go Canada...dey waste time
Is one not getting married early "wasting time", really
I know u'll come up with the "u'll be too old to train ur children when they grow" and all that bruh aha. I was passing by one off my neighbors house and he called and asked for my assistance to bring out their fridge from the house as it's a big fridge he can't carry all by himself, he brought it out to sun it so the battalion of cockroaches inside can come out of their hidden places inside the fridge and mehn! They were many shocked, he had brought out other properties that needed to be free of cockroaches before I got there. All he wailed about while I was helping him was "why did God give us this people, we (men) are better off without them (women) if not for the sake of God's commandment we don't need them", obviously by that statement he's a religious fanatic. Apparently there are so many other things that has brought the marriage to this point, not just because of the wife's negligence to home hygiene, the man himself must've been really sensitive to the lack of hygiene in the house but the wife is not on the same page, he must've nagged and nagged that it causes quarrels on daily basis that perhaps he must've just retreated a little for peace to reign.

Marriage is not a merry dance, so as a Man if u must get into marriage it has to be on ur own terms and at ur own time and not pressure from society or family, because it will all end in u being on control of the affairs of the commitment and as well in control of ur mental health.

The Laurel of a woman is to find a man who will love and protect her, the Laurel of a man is to be able to provide at every point of his existence in life, we are one in one world but we are worlds apart.

Be prepared before u enter.

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Politics / Re: Famous Buharist And Tinubu Supporter Posh Mama Is Dead. by iammolise(m): 1:17pm On Nov 21, 2023
Someone once said; sticks and stones won't break my body but words can wound my soul.

Words are powerful, they carry Spirits and life in them, use them well.

Imagine this lady had no ideal what was coming, she just made a rather reckless comment all in the name of having an opinion on social media... U see social media, it can influence u to say things u don't mean.

In the end karma and the universe takes record of all and responds accordingly.

Peace 🏳️

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Too Hard To Govern – Buhari by iammolise(m): 1:07pm On Nov 21, 2023
At this point I don't blame any politician who has had his game and got off Scott free with his spoils, I blame you, you and me, we the citizens, I blame the 'manage it like that mentality' we have as a collective, I blame the seperation, sentimentality and hate we have towards one another Which the same politicians imbibed in us and are still inciting among us. See politics can be likened to any business you can lay your finger on out there, the sole aim is to profit off the general lot only that business is even far honest as it's based on persuasion rather than manipulation. See brother sister politicians will continue to chop us mugu till will change our mentality and take control of our destines.
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Zimbabwe: 2026 World Cup Qualifier (1 - 1) On 19th November 2023. by iammolise(m): 4:53pm On Nov 19, 2023
Super chickens 🐓
Mtcheww! lipsrsealed

So is this rubbish supa🐓 will go and play in CAF nations cup, Egypt will take them and do rehearsal.

Blank shooters undecided

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Romance / Re: My Single Female Neighbor Has Been Giving Me Food. What Could Be Her Intentions? by iammolise(m): 5:21pm On Nov 17, 2023
A woman will never come straight if they like you, they use kind gestures but these gestures carry subtle messages and when they're certain you're very aware of these messages and keep playing the ostrich they'll know and anything that make another woman come into the picture, she'll turn that gesture into spite. If you like her just start the relationship, but if you don't, ask her why she keeps giving you food and what she wants, she should come out plain, but if she doesn't and says no intentions at all, dey chop dey go till she comes clean.

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Sports / Re: Nigeria. Vs. Lesotho: FIFA 2026 World Cup Qualifier (1 - 1) On 16th Nov 2023 by iammolise(m): 7:25pm On Nov 16, 2023
Super eagles no be team, na so dem go dey shot useless blank shots upandan. Mtcheww! lipsrsealed... Lesotho wey neva clean dia nyashtch finish na im dey draw super eagles... It is a shame tweehh!!

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Food / Re: See The 5 Pieces Of Fresh Tomatoes I Bought #700 This Afternoon by iammolise(m): 11:31pm On Nov 15, 2023
1pieces no even be 100naira undecided

Celebrities / Re: Hanks Anuku Spotted On Asaba Street Again by iammolise(m): 11:07pm On Nov 15, 2023
Still the best and badest "bad guy" actor, he doesn't play the role, he lives it, and still does, u can see that from his dress sense even till now, bring ur argument if u've seen any current actor that has out-done Hanks anuku in the "bad-guy" role.

That lady that mentioned Shan John has followed him well grin, that's literally his Nollywood wife, just like iniedo and emeka Ike, Ramsay Noah and jenevive, Jim yke and rita domnic cheesy
Food / Re: Cane Rat Caught With Trap by iammolise(m): 10:45pm On Nov 15, 2023
Use this meat cook blank ogbonor soup and thank me dearly grin tongue
Politics / Re: NLC Gives Six Conditions To Call Off Strike by iammolise(m): 10:37pm On Nov 15, 2023
NLC has been watered down... They're not independent again like their brother INEC.

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Car Talk / Re: After Learning Driving On Youtube Channels, I'm About To Pick Up A Driving Job by iammolise(m): 5:07pm On Nov 07, 2023
Driving experience in a less busy place to a very busy location are completely different experiences altogether, I learnt that after driving forklift in a company environment then went to learn Keke driving from my friend, mehn when I finish street level and he encouraged me to enter actual main road asphalt, bruh the first truck that passed my Keke on full speed, the breeze that blew me squeezed my balls (talkless of say u neva even drive actual car na YouTube car u drive angry ... nor try am oh), I had to go back to street level. But one thing I learned is, it's all mind and then again make sure your focus is on point, you don't want to be forgetful and always be well rounded with the main road rules, stay on your lane, no DO-OVERS, and lastly don't ever try to drag road with your senior boss dem(truck drivers, jeeps and generally any other road users) they are your oga, they've been in the system for a very long time, don't compete, especially with the baddoz "Dangote trucks"... But first and foremost Please go to a friend who has had actual road experience to take you there to acquaint yourself with real road life before going for the job.

My 2cents
Peace brother ✌️
Crime / Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by iammolise(m): 4:45pm On Nov 07, 2023
Hmm... Where have I read this story before🤔.

We all have certain expectations and romanticized notions of what we think love is, thanks to the way love has been portrayed in society through the movies we watch, articles we read and social media posts were scrolling through almost every day. When we see jealousy playing out on screen, we believe it’s a sign of intense love because the two people in the movie are afraid of losing their loved one to another. The popular Twilight movies and literature leads us to believe that true love and relationships are about obsession. That love is an all-consuming feeling. That when two people are in love, nothing else matters and no boundaries exist. This romanticized notion blinds to the fact that this is not what reality is at all, and that kind of love only exists in movies and between the pages of books because they make for a good storyline. In real life, that kind of behavior are indicators of manipulation. Being controlling isn’t about love, it is manipulation.
Being obsessed isn’t being passionate, it’s manipulative.
On some level, we know we should be able to recognize the signs of an abusive partner in a relationship. We know that we should, but it’s easier said than done. When we love, we tend to blind ourselves to our partner’s fault. We make excuses for the behavior that should be setting off alarm bells in our head because we’re trying to avoid facing the truth. We don’t want to have our hearts broken that way and we try to convince ourselves that they’re not really like that at all.

Clues That Indicate You Might Be Manipulated:

Have you ever had that feeling that something wasn’t quite right with one of the relationships you have? Even with a casual encounter with someone you just met. Something just didn’t quite feel right and you left feeling even more stressed, frustrated or confused than when you first started. That could be a sign you were in the presence of a manipulator. The reason why manipulators resort to the tactics that they do is that they’re often incapable of simply asking for what they need, or being able to express their needs in a healthy, direct manner. Since they lack these skills, the resort to this emotionally unhealthy strategy in an attempt to try and control the other people around them and force them to bend to their will.
Manipulation comes in several forms, and it can range anywhere from abusive to simply just being around a bossy personality. Some manipulative behaviors are much easier to spot than others, and if you suspect you could be a victim of a psychological bully, these are the tell-tale clues you want to keep an eye out for:
(1)You’re Always Forced to Oblige - If you don’t go along with what they want, they make you feel guilty about it. Even though you had every right to say no. If you constantly feel pressured or forced into doing something you don’t want to do, you’re being manipulated. If you’re afraid of saying no, you’re being manipulated. If you feel bullied into going along with someone else’s demands, you’re being manipulated. Manipulators are experts at playing the victim card, and they will play it for all its worth to make you feel as guilty as possible like you’re doing something wrong because you chose to say no to them.
(2) You ?uestion Your Own Judgement - Every time you’re around a certain someone, you always find yourself questioning your own judgment. Suddenly, something you were so sure of a minute ago fills you with doubt, making you second guess your own decisions after having a conversation with a manipulator.
Present an idea or opinion to them and they’ll somehow find a way to twist and turn it around, making you unsure and uncomfortable. Spend enough time with them and they’ll make you feel unworthy like you’re a complete failure and nothing you could do will ever be the right choice.
(3) No Favor Comes for Free - If they do you a favor, you can bet there will always be strings attached to that request. Nothing a manipulator does is ever a “genuine favor”, there will always be an ulterior motive for why they are helping you out. If accepting help or a favor from someone makes you feel uncomfortable because you know you’re going to owe them for it later, you’re dealing with a manipulator. When the manipulator does you a favor, there’s an expectation to be repaid. They’ll be the first ones to tell you that you owe me this, and you’ll feel obliged to go out of your way to help because you feel guilty about saying no. Say no to them and they’ll make you feel like the most ungrateful person in the world.
(4) You’re Always Getting Blamed - Even when you haven’t done anything wrong, you’re somehow the one to blame. That one manipulative friend who always has an excuse for their bad behavior or poor judgment, the one that always makes you the scapegoat, that’s not a friend. That’s a manipulator. It’s your fault, you made me think I should do it, I wouldn’t have done it if you agreed it was a bad idea. The hallmark of a manipulative “friend” is when somehow, you’re always in the mix and the one made to feel like you’re in the wrong.
(5) They’re Not Really Listening - Another sign you could be manipulated is when they don’t really listen when you’re speaking. They may look at you while you’re talking, but at the first chance they get, they twist the conversation back around unto something that involves them. Everything is always about them. In fact, the only time they seem to be engaged in when they’re gathering the information that they can later use against you when the time is right. Beware of what you say when you’re around them, and never trust them with confidential or important information.
(6) They Come to You When They Need Something - Do you have that one friend who only ever seems to get in touch with you when they conveniently need a favor? That friend could be manipulating you, especially if you’re the one who is constantly doing those favors but when you need help the most, they’re never around. Or they’ve always got some excuse up their sleeve as to why they can’t help you. When they need something from you however, they behave like you’re their best friend in the whole world.

'HOW TO ANALYZE PEOPLE' by Daniel Spade.

A must have in one shelf/book collection 👆

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Health / Re: NAFDAC Bans Use Of Ethoxyquin As Antioxidant In Feed Of Food-producing Animals by iammolise(m): 4:04pm On Nov 07, 2023
Watin concern 'FFO' Nigerians with Ethoxyquin Antioxidants and all that peroxidation bruh aha. Make we sha see things buy cheap chop belle full fess... All kpi na kpi wether na antioxidants kill u abi na ampiclous. Mtcheww! lipsrsealed
Crime / Re: School Watchman Commits Suicide In Gombe by iammolise(m): 3:51pm On Nov 07, 2023
Terrible, but to wonder why he had to be so brave as to take his own life in this country shouldn't be Far-fetched.

Phew! embarassed
It's good to be back on the comment section again.

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